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Welcoome to the community StrayDl .... we hope you stay around and don't stray too far!

Hi Jennifer! If Jeff's father has always been like that, then you'll probably just have to write him off. Obviously he's narrow minded and doesn't take the time to understand incontinence. In the grand scheme of things, it's not a big deal for others to deal with. It really doesn't affet him personally and he should be proud of a son who cares for you no bmatter what. That is true love. The fact that you're a wonderful person who loves his son, should be important to him. People like frequently don't change their mind. It would be interesting to see what his attitude would be if he had any surgery on his prostrate and had to wear them himself. Hopewfully he doesn't, but it would be the best lesson. Maybe giving him some literature on incontinence will convince him. At least it will show him that you are trying to establish a relationship. Be prepared to be met with more narrowmindedness though. It will probably take a lot of time for him to change his mind if he is able to do that. He probalby isn't much on humor, but what I'd be tempted to say, if I was in the situation, would be "When my diaper is full of s**t I change it ... you should consider doing the same with your attitiudes because they're about to overflow!" As far as his Mom goes, it sounds like she wants to accommodate you but just is not sure what to do or say. I find humor is a great tool for loosening people up. If she mentions wetting her pants again, just lean over to her and tell her that she's welcome to dip into your supply if she needs to. You could probably tell her to not be uptight about it. It's a fact for you and you are willing to talk to her about it anytime, other than in an open public place perhaps. Let her know it doesn't bother you, and that you appreciate the fact that she cares for you. Once again, congratulations to you both and I hope you have taken time to celebrate your decision. Take care!

Hi Jennifer! First of all, Congratulations!!!!!!! From what I read of your posts, you have found a wonderful guy, and I know you will have many yuears of happiness. I'm so sorry to hear about the situation Jeff's dad put you in. I can't believe anyone could be that insensitive and cruel toward his son and the one he loves. Obviously Jeff's dad has some anger issues or some head problems, or both. I don't condone violence, but I'm glad Jeff stuck up for you. The dad had no right to verbally or physically abuse you. From what you describe of the mom, she sounds like she likes you and accepts you. One thing to present to Jeff: Has his dad changed his personality drastically over the last couple of years? If so it is possible he may have had some mini strokes or may be affected by some substance that is getting into his system. I don't want to defend his behaviour, but sometimes a change in behaviour is a sign that their brain has suffered some damage. If not then he just qualified for the "Idiot of the Year" award. Jeff will obviously shed some light on how his dad is typically. Don't let someone else's problems interfere with your joy. If the dad apologizes and has a change of heart, then all will be well. If he continues to be an idiot, then he doesn't deserve to attend your wedding. You should decide what you are comfortable with, and who gets to come. Celebrate with Jeff's Mom and the rest of his family. We're celebrating with you here as well. Congratulations and all the best to you both!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hey Pipsqueek! Here's another good supplier: http://www.acmedi.com/acms/catalog.htm I have ordered from them and have been pleased. I also highly recommend Babykins. Other people I have talked to also speak highly of B4NS. I haven't tried them yet, but will be doing so based on other people's experiences and recommendations. BTW ... I'm in Ontario ... what part of this great country do others hail from?

Hi Baby Princess! Welcme to the community! You should have no problem finding a Daddy. It may be helpful if you give a general location as to where you are (central U.S. , eastern Canada etc). That way people in the same general area can reply. Good luck in yuor quest ... you deserve the best! In the mean time, enjy meeting the rest of us.

HI Konner! Welcome to the community! You've picked a grea place to shout out "I love diapers!" Come on in and enjoy!

Hello Longing2bediapered! Welcome to our community. This is a pretty safe place, but ask questions and tell us what you want when you feel comfortable. I am also from Ontario, probably not too far from you. Feel free to contact me if ou want to ask anything in private. Cozy up in a thick diaper and enjoy the community! Take care!

Hi GreenDPR! Yes! Not only am I a hockey fan, I'm a goalie too and obviously I enjoy diapers! The Leafs are my team, dispite the fact we have quite the losing streak. There's lots of great goalies out there, I guess we're just a bit more padded than the rest eh! Keep your stick on the ice!

Hi and welcome to the community! I know what it's like to have a significant other who isn't interested. You're with like-minded people here!

Hi! I like your story! Sounds like you've had some interesting experiences. Thanks for being a part of the community!

HI! Welcome to the community! I hope you enjoy your time here.

Hi Dollydiaper! I enjoy Gordon Lightfoot too! I've seen him a few times in concert. The last one was this fall. He has written some wonderful songs. His lst album "Harmony" has some neat songs on it. Hi Baby D! I'm a banjo picker too! It's a great instrument and I often fingerpick in the background to some of our slower / "pretty" songs. We get lots of comliments because people don't expect a banjo to sound like that and are pleasantly surprised. I put a walnut bridge on mine to get a more mellow, more full sound out of it and it works great! Other instruments I play: Taylor acoustic, several bass's including a Hofner, electric and acoustic fiddle/violin, 12 string, various electric 6-strings & banjo.

Congratulation Jennifer!!!!! Now you have to change the title of this thread to "My wonderful fiance"! All the best to you both!

Welcome to you both! You are one of the fortunate ones to have a little girl!

Welcome to the community! Diaper up and join in the fun!

Yes, I wear them every night. Cloth diapers and plastic pants make the night more cozy.

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We're just waiting patiently for the next installment. No rush, take your time ... I think I'll change my wet diapers in the mean time.

I know you're busy, but if you have a couple of minutes to add some to it, we'd be grateful! Thanks!

Welcome to the community from a fellow Canadian! Enjoy the friendship and feel free to join in, or start a discussion.

Never been asked to leave somewhere .... What is the thickest you have been diapered ( double, tripple, fourple ... couldn't get legs together etc.)?

Hi! Welcome to the community! I hope you find friendship and sharing of information useful. Enjoy!

Hi Sweet Little Kelly! Welcome to the community! I hope you did well on your history test! It sounds like you have a great set-up with all your baby stuff. Feel free to ask questions and continue to tell us of your adventures.

Hi! Welcome to the community! Your story sounds like a lot of ours. Feel free to ask questions and tell us about yourself. It's always great to see our community grow!

Hi! Welcome to the community! I hope you feel at home here. Don't be afraid to ask questions and tell us what you want us to know about you. Diaper thickly!