Dill_Pickle

I don't thnk most of us passionate types ever made a conscious decision that we liked diapers. My best theory is that when we were weaned from diapers, we also missed the physical attention that we had before being weaned. This would explain the often-observed tendency of some people to want to be diapered exactly the way they were as a child, with either cloth or disposables, and that some of us need more than just the diapers, and adopt the label Adult Baby. Liking diapers is also becoming rampant among Japanese youth....who face an unhealthy amount of adult pressure to perform well on critical exams that control future opportunities at early ages...they remember the time before the pressure, and the diapers remind them of it. Belle, you, however, don't seem to have those early imprinted associations....so if you want to learn to like diapers, find ways to form positive associations with the diapers...that is learn to like them....for example when you are wearing, have your guy pay special attention to you....or see if wearing diapers makes your monthly feminine needs any easier to deal with....or pay special attention to yourself and pleasure yourself frequently while wearing diapers. It also helps to INTEND to enjoy the diapers... I'd also say don't wear diapers too often...because wearing diapers will become automatic and normal, kind of like putting on your walking shoes before going to work in the morning. Finally, it is perfectly fine with us if you are wearing your diapers for your guy, and reading about it and trying to understand about it and asking questions here on DailyDiapers...there's even a support forum for precisely that topic, though it's not much used. And most of us thought we were freaks before we found out about the on-line communities and how many DL's and ABs there are in the world. Good luck... Dill Pickle

nullo is chlorophyll and iron... What is devron?

I've had good experience with: XP medical ABAIP diapersuperstore and with a private mailbox ($10 per month) in what is now a "UPS Store"... but these are all US distributors sending to my US address..

Checked Prostate? Umm, if your Dr didn't check it, it's time for a new Dr.....you can't afford that level of ignorance...on either end of the Dr-Patient relationship....

Umm...poise is the cheap, cruddy brand....doesn't hold much, not well....The Tena/Serenity is significantly superior. Want complete protection for a whole pee? I use a tena ultimate pad and a Depends protective underwear, maximum absorbency.... others may tell you it's not the greatest, but it can't be beat for availability and should be sufficient for her purposes. If she's willing, have her test her protection at home, where it's safe to have leakage problems, and find out you don't have one. As for the increased stress, well, I'd argue that wearing a diaper and so not being quite as wound up is worth wearing a diaper if she wants to. But I'd also argue that if this much stress continues indefinitely, it will probably hurt her sooner or later, so that part needs to be dealt with...hopefully by graduating, but possibly also in little ways like the occasional weekend vacation with lots of attention for her...maybe a "day spa" experience....if you are in my neck of the woods, go to "Warm Springs VA" and give her a soak in the "Jefferson pools" for an hour....it's on "The Homestead" website, as they run it now. Some nice Bed & Breakfast type material almost across the street, too... My Dr sent me off to a "mindfulness-based stress reduction" course...itself fairly stressful, as it requires a 3 hour class weekly for 8 weeks, a one-day retreat, and 45 minutes of daily homework practicing meditation. Good luck, sounds like you are trying to take good care of her. Dill Pickle

One night I'm in the ER for something else, probably asthma...and there's this woman beside me who has had a stroke. It becomes clear from the discussion that she has to pee....and the attending nurse gets a pad under her and tell her to go ahead and relax and let it go.... This gal was in dire straights, couldn't move much due to the stroke, and is holding her pee! You betcha the inhibition is strong in the AVERAGE American... And the woman's complaint is really about loss of control, not being asked, important stuff like the call button not working saying they really didn't care if this woman died....same kinds of problems I have with my boss.

Bumper Sticker: Don't Take Your Organs with you to Heaven....God Knows we need them here! Happens with eyes, hearts all the time....guess the wife must have felt like it was a third person in bed, or maybe the nerves didn't connect properly so it didn't work for that purpose.....

Me, I vote for WTJU 91.9, Charlottesville VA, (see WTJU.NET if you like this) Their claim to fame is a new type of music every hour or two, and (almost) never twice the same music. I tell you what, you'll never be bored.... Dill Pickle

Well, there needs to be more than just sex to hold a relationship together.... But as for myspace: Shall I copy your page so you think I look like you to make my point? If I do, don't report me for plagiarism....

In many bars and restaurants I have been in, there's only the two-seater....and no handicapped. Others, however, are small enough to have only one-seaters with a door that locks... Dill Pickle

Guys: I was thinking about the PREVENTION department...how to keep the hairs from getting trapped in the first place, BEFORE it all got infected and turned into a cyst or abscess....and needs to be cut...

Listen, your sexuality is what it is....Don't worry about the precise labeling...it's a known fact that it's wired into you very early, and there is little you can do to change it.

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Umm, but he *HASN'T* met your mum....and certainly not in person...and I'll re-iterate...it's not too hard to copy someone's myspace site....just find someone vain... Also, while I realize you two want to get together for some AB play, I would still want a friend along...and keep it clean the first time...

I don't think our sex is quite that public...but we do have a local park known as a "gay" hangout, at least until the cops decided to arrest everybody...I think they got charged with things like disorderly conduct, lewdness, and indecent exposure... What I mean is that I don't think the americans include the voyeuristic part of it...the guys would go off and hide in the woods and "have sex"...

Time for a Dr consult...I would think a bi-weekly foley catheter might be lots better for the infections...Supra-pubic catheters have the worst infection rates...or maybe even a urostomy, as that gets you out of having a foreign body inside of you.

Does scrubbing with a buf-puf (rough fiber pad, made for acne) help the situation any? Does scrubbing with a buf-puf (rough fiber pad, made for acne) help the situation any?

Wearing diapers at college? Keep in mind that your education is *very* expensive and that not getting that sheepskin will hurt your chances for a *long* time. So make sure you can pay attention in class... As for wearing to class? Just practice first, so you'll forget about them, and if they are too distracting, then don't wear them...

Umm, asparagus...and tuna fish...give really strong smells in the pee...

I'll add: "Protective Underwear" (or almost any diaper with a paper-like outside) is so quiet as not to need muffling. A Ladies' pee pad in the front (but not Poise Brand, I like Tena/Serenity at close to ultimate absorbency) gives me a diaper that won't leak on the first peeing. Test your solution in a protected chair in private, first. And think about the story you will tell if you are found out...you want to be very matter-of-fact about that "car accident" you had not too long ago. Dill Pickle

Sunshine: I share your mother's concerns about your meeting this person. The problem is, all of the evidence you have about who he is comes through the internet, which is an excellent medium for concealing someone's true nature. For a particularly egregious example of this, think of the guy who said he killed JonBenet Ramsey. Not that he isn't some kind of monster, but he managed to inflate his monstrosity considerably until he was physically in the cops hands...then they proved he was a wannabe.... Similarly, this person seems very nice...might even BE very nice...in which case good for you.... but take some measures so if the alternative turns out to be the case, you have some protection. Take a friend along....meet in a very public place that you know...make sure someone knows exactly where you are going....and a camera phone, so you can send a true picture to your mom or someone as soon as you get together. These form powerful disincentives for the sort of hanky-panky you want to avoid....and shouldn't bother a nice person at all.... I get some negative signals from the unwillingness to meet your mom...because that is how an ill-intentioned person would act... Dill Pickle

Not really so.... There's a little of what's called "accidental complexity" in setting up a website....but thousands of "generally idiot" AOL members have set up web pages on AOL...and if you look under "Free Hosting" on the dailyD homepage, you will discover that several people (especially "Mark's Blog") have used fairly straightforward construction tools to get what they want. In fact, when you post on DailyDiapers, you are using one such construction tool....and you had absolutely no idea, did you....

At a guess: 2, Forced Maturity (as a gifted kid), and 3) Less Attention, as in had younger siblings. I am a D/L only. Having had an ex GF from hell leave me with a bit of post-traumatic stress syndrome, where certain experiences, like the GF walking in the room and waking me up, trigger emotional responses with everything to do with events past and nothing to do with events present, such as being extremely upset when I should have been pleased, I theorize that, once we get past the shame and guilt, diaper or baby experiences trigger similar emotional memories except in the positive direction. My GF, who doesn't like this aspect of my sexuality, can point to more recent, negative experiences on her part about the same subject areas, such as getting no support from her bedwetting, alchoholic ex with changing her then-young daughters diapers. Dill Pickle

At this point, I think you should try to hold your discipline. If this is the first time you are alone, kind of expect to be checked on. And if the fascination gets you, do some research...the facts should give you some interesting food for thought.. For example, the American Psychological Association in it's famous DSM IV (or whatever it is up to these days) says that all kinds of odd behavior are not a problem to be treated unless the behavior is interfering with your regular life. (Translation: if you can function normally, and keep it a secret, it's nobody's business). I've encountered this attitude personally, as I have been treated by four or five shrinks over the years for some depression/anxiety problems. Also, I have heard that gay monkeys can be reliably produced by injecting the right hormones in the mother at the right point in the pregnancy...which means that much of sexual orientation is determined by the time of birth. (Some species of fish, if the sexes are too unbalanced in a school, switch sexes to balance things out). So being "gay" is a natural phenomenon...beyond the control of the individual involved. Similarly, we are pretty sure that liking diapers is a similar natural phenomenon. The sex scandal where nominally celibate catholic priests were doing it with children instead indicates that suppressing sexuality completely can have some rather dangerous side effects. Good luck with the discipline... Dill Pickle