Dill_Pickle

In many bars and restaurants I have been in, there's only the two-seater....and no handicapped. Others, however, are small enough to have only one-seaters with a door that locks... Dill Pickle

Guys: I was thinking about the PREVENTION department...how to keep the hairs from getting trapped in the first place, BEFORE it all got infected and turned into a cyst or abscess....and needs to be cut...

Listen, your sexuality is what it is....Don't worry about the precise labeling...it's a known fact that it's wired into you very early, and there is little you can do to change it.

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Umm, but he *HASN'T* met your mum....and certainly not in person...and I'll re-iterate...it's not too hard to copy someone's myspace site....just find someone vain... Also, while I realize you two want to get together for some AB play, I would still want a friend along...and keep it clean the first time...

I don't think our sex is quite that public...but we do have a local park known as a "gay" hangout, at least until the cops decided to arrest everybody...I think they got charged with things like disorderly conduct, lewdness, and indecent exposure... What I mean is that I don't think the americans include the voyeuristic part of it...the guys would go off and hide in the woods and "have sex"...

Time for a Dr consult...I would think a bi-weekly foley catheter might be lots better for the infections...Supra-pubic catheters have the worst infection rates...or maybe even a urostomy, as that gets you out of having a foreign body inside of you.

Does scrubbing with a buf-puf (rough fiber pad, made for acne) help the situation any? Does scrubbing with a buf-puf (rough fiber pad, made for acne) help the situation any?

Wearing diapers at college? Keep in mind that your education is *very* expensive and that not getting that sheepskin will hurt your chances for a *long* time. So make sure you can pay attention in class... As for wearing to class? Just practice first, so you'll forget about them, and if they are too distracting, then don't wear them...

Umm, asparagus...and tuna fish...give really strong smells in the pee...

I'll add: "Protective Underwear" (or almost any diaper with a paper-like outside) is so quiet as not to need muffling. A Ladies' pee pad in the front (but not Poise Brand, I like Tena/Serenity at close to ultimate absorbency) gives me a diaper that won't leak on the first peeing. Test your solution in a protected chair in private, first. And think about the story you will tell if you are found out...you want to be very matter-of-fact about that "car accident" you had not too long ago. Dill Pickle

Sunshine: I share your mother's concerns about your meeting this person. The problem is, all of the evidence you have about who he is comes through the internet, which is an excellent medium for concealing someone's true nature. For a particularly egregious example of this, think of the guy who said he killed JonBenet Ramsey. Not that he isn't some kind of monster, but he managed to inflate his monstrosity considerably until he was physically in the cops hands...then they proved he was a wannabe.... Similarly, this person seems very nice...might even BE very nice...in which case good for you.... but take some measures so if the alternative turns out to be the case, you have some protection. Take a friend along....meet in a very public place that you know...make sure someone knows exactly where you are going....and a camera phone, so you can send a true picture to your mom or someone as soon as you get together. These form powerful disincentives for the sort of hanky-panky you want to avoid....and shouldn't bother a nice person at all.... I get some negative signals from the unwillingness to meet your mom...because that is how an ill-intentioned person would act... Dill Pickle

Not really so.... There's a little of what's called "accidental complexity" in setting up a website....but thousands of "generally idiot" AOL members have set up web pages on AOL...and if you look under "Free Hosting" on the dailyD homepage, you will discover that several people (especially "Mark's Blog") have used fairly straightforward construction tools to get what they want. In fact, when you post on DailyDiapers, you are using one such construction tool....and you had absolutely no idea, did you....

At a guess: 2, Forced Maturity (as a gifted kid), and 3) Less Attention, as in had younger siblings. I am a D/L only. Having had an ex GF from hell leave me with a bit of post-traumatic stress syndrome, where certain experiences, like the GF walking in the room and waking me up, trigger emotional responses with everything to do with events past and nothing to do with events present, such as being extremely upset when I should have been pleased, I theorize that, once we get past the shame and guilt, diaper or baby experiences trigger similar emotional memories except in the positive direction. My GF, who doesn't like this aspect of my sexuality, can point to more recent, negative experiences on her part about the same subject areas, such as getting no support from her bedwetting, alchoholic ex with changing her then-young daughters diapers. Dill Pickle

At this point, I think you should try to hold your discipline. If this is the first time you are alone, kind of expect to be checked on. And if the fascination gets you, do some research...the facts should give you some interesting food for thought.. For example, the American Psychological Association in it's famous DSM IV (or whatever it is up to these days) says that all kinds of odd behavior are not a problem to be treated unless the behavior is interfering with your regular life. (Translation: if you can function normally, and keep it a secret, it's nobody's business). I've encountered this attitude personally, as I have been treated by four or five shrinks over the years for some depression/anxiety problems. Also, I have heard that gay monkeys can be reliably produced by injecting the right hormones in the mother at the right point in the pregnancy...which means that much of sexual orientation is determined by the time of birth. (Some species of fish, if the sexes are too unbalanced in a school, switch sexes to balance things out). So being "gay" is a natural phenomenon...beyond the control of the individual involved. Similarly, we are pretty sure that liking diapers is a similar natural phenomenon. The sex scandal where nominally celibate catholic priests were doing it with children instead indicates that suppressing sexuality completely can have some rather dangerous side effects. Good luck with the discipline... Dill Pickle

Not quite so in VA...you need to be threatened by the person...though I bet an angry ex breaking in would probably imply a sufficient threat of harm... You can't simply shoot the burglar in the back when he breaks into your house, not without getting into *LOTS* of trouble...

The used disposables go in ziplocs, under the bathroom sink until garbage day, when they go out under the kitchen trash....sometimes I add peroxide to prevent any smell...

That secure feeling, that somebody loves you and is touching you, that even if you pee a little it won't be a problem.... And that naughty feeling, like you are doing something secret....that nobody else knows about...

Dill Pickle the armchair Dr says: Something has been going wrong, and you are not feeling good...yeah, you might have trouble getting it up... If you have appendicitis-like symptoms, it sounds like you might have irritable bowel or a colonic blockage. If your gut hurts, you won't want to eat; I experienced this this week myself... But I've been losing weight, and you have been gaining...which doesn't make any sense...unless you've got a huge pile of poop sitting on your prostate.... have they looked inside your gut yet? I've been told, and have personally experienced, that loading up on fluids in these situations is dead critical...without it, I have myself and seen another person end up in the ER getting IV fluids instead...

umm, icefisherman, many of us DO read...you do understand thet there are two threads mixed here, and half the advice given applies to the other person who wants to become incontinent, no? Anyway, for icefisherman, I suggest that you talk to your Dr about this rather painful urination you've been having.....it sounds like no fun at all.... An option you should ask him about is catheterization...whether a foley or a clean intermittent one...in your case, a catheter makes a lot of sense, PROVIDED it is sterile...there are a number of places to get one on the internet, and your Dr should be able to instruct you...as well as provide drugs, such as belladonna(brand name Levsin), which help with the situation. If your doctor won't have that conversation, you need a new doctor... I DO NOT support making your own catheter...even if you have an autoclave and know how to use it... You might also want to consider a botox injection into the sphincter, which would leave you dripping, but hopefully not having bladder spasms...again, talk to you Dr about your options first...as if you can use a drug to relax the bladder and retain some control, that is probably better.

Umm, all kinds of bad things happen to your insides in serious car accidents. Get medical help. Can depression cause incontinence? I think so...you just don't have the energy to wake up, go use the toilet...or are too upset by other things to care that you are getting wet.... However, not only is depression a serious medical issue, you should also get that incontinence checked out, since there's a good chance you may need internal repairs...for example, strained bladder muscles and the like...and these won't happen without some help.

Not dribbling as you change? Look up a "Cunningham Clamp", which will set you back about $40. You put that on your willie, and it's the same as holding it closed with your hand. Change diapers, point willie into a toilet, let go of the clamp, then tuck him inside the diaper. Much less mess....

I'll ditto that I was pushed a bit much kind of early...and that diapers are both sexual and a matter of feeling a little bit more secure that I won't screw something up....

If you do diuretics, eat a bannana....and help replace the minerals...beer is a fun diuretic for most of us -- for diaper use, dilute it with one glass of water per glass of beer, you don't want to bet hung over..and keep drinking afterwards, too... And as for magnesium, there DO exist magnesium supplements. From my natural foods store, I have Calcium/Magnesium supplements, and magnesium stearate is often used as a pill binder. Also, Epsom salts are Magnesium, and these will produce an extremely strong laxative effect. If you want something less strong, try magnesium citrate--it's the laxative stuff in the glass bottles that they give you when want your bowels empty before the doctor looks inside for trouble.