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Well true boy ricky, but maybe I should have said a forum should be created for all diaper lovers who do NOT participate in any of the other categories. I don't know what would be in that forum discussion wise or if it would be very active, but as topguy and I observered, it is only fair that every classification has their own forum and not just a single thread. Thanks

I am going to agree with topguy on this one. Not that I care at all, but he has a valid point. Every other class of diaper user(Newbie,AB,incontinent,gay,roleplay,sissy) has their own forum except for diaper lovers. I don't know what you would title it, so I say to topguy, name the forum and if we ask nicely, maybe DailyDi will create it. Now, I do agree with everyone else that this is really a minute point and ridiculous at best, but in a society of acceptance and pc, every class should have their own forum. Fair is fair. Thanks to everyone for contributing to any thread as it really shows people care about the community. Including threads like this one!

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Like boy ricky, I wear 24/7 and the only problem I ever have on a plane is the darn seat. I have a skinny ass and so the edges of my diaper (Tena Supers - not too thick, but just thick enough) because of the thickness dig in to the outside of my butt cheeks and it starts to hurt. The only other thing is that I suffer from PFD (Pelvic Floor Disorder) and sometimes if I sit in the right position, it puts pressure on the urethra where urine can't pass and all this pressure gets built up and starts to hurt like hell too. So, I have to try to lay back or stand up or change positions where it will flow. I have never had a leak, but have been at capacity at times and really worried. As far as changing in the plane bathroom, whoever said there was enough room is correct if your short. I am over 6' and I have to bend over so its hard to get in a position to change.

I agree with the others. I wouldn't go ask him if he saw a diaper, in fact I wouldn't say anything. Worst case, he saw you in a diaper. If he asks, use the bet thing or even better say that a chick told you about it and wanted you to try it for sex stuff. Maybe he becomes a DL too. Best case, he thinks you were punching your clown. Big woop. Every guy does it and if you meet one who says he doesn't, he is a liar or in a really good relationship. If I were you, I would just go on as if nothing ever happened and hide those diapers!

I am incontinent so I wear 24/7 since the diaper is near your body, the body heat keeps it warm almost all the time. Like rusty pins said, I too have had it cool down when out in the cold, but it warms right back up. Its super warm right when you pee, but that cools down to your outside body temp within seconds. As far as being on college, when I was in the doorms, I still had diapers and my room mate never KNEW!! I was so scared because I thought that if he found out, I would be thought of as a freak. Later on in life, I have learned that no one really cares about me and my diapers. Most people don't even give it a second thought. So, I think you can get diapers and get away with it, you just got to be a bit sneaky!

Thanks for the link....I have one funny thing to say. This was on the site: If that is the case, I want to see that nipple on a woman. That would be huge! he he he....still...I want one.

Although I don't have kids, I do have this to say. I am incontinent and for years ws soo worried that people would know. Afraid of the ribbing or jokes that would be made on my behalf. Well, now many people have found out. Now I tell people if I think they are suspecting something. Never once have I ever had someone say something negative. Most people could care less and I would say the same probably for the kids. I am sure they might say something, but as many of you know since you have kids, and correct me where I am wrong, most kids have a very short attention span and if you tell them in an attitude where it is no big deal, typically they just accept it and move on. My nephew did just that at the age of 10. We told him and he was like, oh, are you ok (wondering about the accident) and I was like yeah. Totally cool just wear diapers and he was like, oh, ok. Can we play playstation now? So it didn't even matter and he has never said a thing since. The only person who has ever said something negative to me were women that I was about to go to bed with (in a relationship capacity.) Two women have been absolutely mean, but they were superficial anyway. So, after my incoherent rant, basically, I am saying that I wouldn't sweat the small stuff because it probably won't even make them think twice about it. Remember, your their father and they have known you their whole life so it is normal to see that. Ok, so flame away at my post since I have no kids and really know nothing of children, somday maybe...he he...fingers crossed...so if any of you know any single women in the Arizona area or SoCal area that want a snowboarding/surfer ic guy....he he he...jk ;o) Have a great weekend all!

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Has anyone tried the new air style diapers? I mean, I know they are just cloth backed and probably thin on the sides, but are they actually cooler temp wise?

Tena's are by far the best diaper out there comparing cost, absorbancy, containement, etc. I pretty much only wear the Supers now because when they changed to the hook and loop tab, I think they made them thinner. Either way, they are still real good. However, I just found out about First Quality Products and they have some good ones. Additionally, I am really super interested in the new molicare active air, the abena air plus, and one other manufacturers "air" diaper. I am always looking for a cool (temp) diaper and the cloth backed ones seem to be that. Oh, I am incontinent, so my opinions are based on that. Has anyone tried these new "air" diapers from either brand?

I concur. I never take anytime to hide my diapers. I put my jeans on and slap a shirt on. I don't tuck the top of my diaper down because I don't care. Secondly, most ic people that I know and myself, Rozi throw in your two cents here, wear cloth backed diapers. They are way cooler than plastic. Third, I do not know of any ic person who would ever buy from a store for two reasons: A. the diapers are crap B. we buy by the case. Its cheaper and easier. I know that I need diapers tomorrow and the next day and so on so a bag is pointless. Additionally, I buy online because that is the only place that I can get Tena Ultra's and Super's. Lastly, for everyone who says that diapers are noticeable under clothes, not really. Many of my friends have never known for years until I told them. I have never had a flat butt from being wet and sitting. I have never had diaper lines. I have never had anything that to someone who didn't know about diapers would scream diaper. I myself at times get self conscious about them and worry that I have those things, but no one has ever told me. Having said all of that, if you see someone wearing a diaper, don't go talk to them. If they want to talk to you about your diapers, they will.

The one thing I want to say, is leave incontinent people out of this conversation. We are not "wierd" or "eccentric". I am a normal person just like the founder of these boards. Do I like to wear diapers, YES. Did I get use to wearing them after my accident, YES. Are they my new underwear after the accident, YES. This is not wierd at all. This is my life. You can not comprehend, the pain and anguish posts like this cause. The same goes for when you meet someone amazing and are finally going to take that person to bed and when you tell them about your diapers, they call you a freak and leave. That is a pain and hurt beyond what all of you will understand. I can not change who I am nor can I just go back. I have come to embrace this state of my body because, either I can be depressed or I can find enjoyment about it. I do not need people creating posts and saying that anyone who uses diapers and finds enjoyment in them is wierd or eccentric or freaky. This is a stigma that we all need to overcome. Just accept people for who they are and not worry about it because, how does it hurt you?

My opinion, and it is just that - an opinion, is you should say what you are from the start. I have no problem if you are tg or whatever your mind says you are, but the whole issue is about respect. Everybody should respect everybody on the boards. So, if you want to be a girl but have male parts, just say it. I am working on another site and we have those options, desired gender and anatomical gender. The reason is, many people look through the boards in hope of finding a soul mate or a partner or whatever. So these people are cruising the boards or the profiles and fall in love with someone only to find out this person has lied to them the whole time and is really the opposite sex. Why can't we all be honest with ourselves and everyone else? Finally, if you want to pretend to be something your not, you have that right, but to intentionally deceive somebody, is just plain wrong. I agree with the other posters who said that their friends just tell people up front, because that is the right thing to do. There are a lot of people that want to date or seek out tg's, so there is nothing wrong with saying that is what you are. So, I say we all just be honest with each other. Ok, I am off my soap box and I hope I didn't offend anyone with my words as that was not my intention.

So finally they are sold! Who knew it would be so hard to give away diapers in an AB/DL community!

I have had several pm's and again I will say, I need your state code or zip code or postal code or whatever so I can get a quote on shipping. If you want to do it yourself, I live in Arizona in the USA at 85364. Thanks

RC, give me an area in the UK where I can do some shipping quotes too. I know of some cheap ones here in the US.

I agree, but I like to webcam pretty early on, like when I meet you, just cuz I can actually see if its who you say you are...I hate the sex part and have told almost everyone that I start chatting with that I will not do those acts. I am tire of guys and girls saying: change for me on cam or make a messy diaper and show me. I am incontinent. I wear diapers. I am not here for your sexual pleasure. I love to chat with like minded people and this community is small but growing. I just hope that the few pervs that ruin it for the rest of us, will learn someday.

I have a case of Tena Ultra's in size large that were shipped to me by my supplier by accident. I will give them to anybody who wants them as long as you pay shipping. I will drop it off and package them up but you need to take care of the details. They would be coming from 85364. Thanks

Again after speaking with the CEO this is what he told me. The cost to make just one "line" of diaper is almost $750,000 USD. So as a start up company you can't expect them to just start cranking out like 5 different models. I do agree that I would prefer just a plain white diaper but with a printed tape zone. This company really is reasonable and will talk to you. It seems to me that they are at least listening and trying to help us all out. So I will stick to them from here on out.

The price including shipping is actually very good for what they are offering. If you were willing to pay $20 for three simulated sticker adult baby diapers from EBAY then $96 for 48 is a deal. Compare the prices and you will see this is a superior product for not that much!

First off, these are printed on the diaper like baby diapers you will not find stickers on these diapers. Additionally, there is padding in the wings, you can see them at their site listed above. The fit is good for some depending upon your waist size like all diapers. Mediums fit me well and these fit identically to molicare or abenas. Plus they are thick too. Good diaper overall.

Yeah, from what I can tell, they just see a market. I agree that it is better this way. Therefore they are making a product for us designed by us vs. for us by him. I can't say enough about how great this company is. I can only hope that we will all support them the best we can. Thanks.

I spoke with the CEO of HCMJ, Inc., the makers of the classy comfort line of printed adult diapers, and he stated that in August or October of this year they would be releaseing a new pattern of the famous printed diaper that we ALL LOVE WITHOUT COMPLAINT Anyway, he stated that they incorporated many of the requests that people asked for and were trying to get their diaper comparable to Abena or Molicare. He stated that a big request was the tape zone and that I think they were fixing that. Also, he stated that the cost would be lower. BUT I have one thing to say: HCMJ had to purchase a special diaper machine in order to make these diapers for the community. It cost ALOT of money according to them - almost $2 M. They have been working on this product line for over two years and now it is out! They may not be perfect, YET, but they are listening to our demands. This is AWESOME! I hope more people will buy these diapers so maybe they can expand their line and give all something we want. Anyway, jmtc. Classy Comfort Diapers for the AB/DL Stay wet!