wetabenas

good for you two. i know how he feels. i love being diapered. my gf has helped me to go 24/7. its something i need emotionally more than anything. ive spent too long hiding away and now im 24/7 i have no choice but to be out in public diapered and if im honest, i love it. my gf is ace. she will often give my bum a pat and ask if im wet. im so glad youve found each other. its a wonderfull thing to be able to share with somebody special.

molicare super plus with an attends booster, white plastic pants and my onsie. just got out of a euron with at attends booster. next change will probs be abena m3 with an abena soaker as ive gotta go out for a while to a friends house and need to know im not going to leak. will probs wear my plastics and onsie under my clothes as it helps keep smells in and nappies where they should be when im wet.

i have felt like i need to be in nappies 24/7 since i was young. im now 33 and ive finally taken the step to being nappied for ever.... my gf has inserted a cath and now i actually need nappies... i couldnt be happier... i feel complete for the first time in my life.....this is my calling.... i was born to be nappied and wet.....

ok so ive worn on and off for a while and now ive taken to the 24/7 approach, so heres my question.... what drinks should i avoid so i dont get a smelly nappy?... ive realised coffee is not good for my odour, what else should i be avoiding?

ok so,me and my gf are abdl with a dom/sub bondage/ watersport fetish.... we have had some tough times lately with lots of arguing and such like.... so in a nut shell, i mentioned a catheter for some fun nappy wetting times, and now ive been told im going 24/7.... ive had a mass of nappies, catheters, soaker pads, creams, plastic pants, powders and everthing im gonna need to keep me 24/7 in nappies for a long time bought for me...ive been told that im not to change till im wet enough to warrant changing, regardless of weather i smell or not. she has stated that she is watching the amount of nappies im going through and if i cant do it sparingly ill be issued with my changes in the morning. ive been bought a new changing bag and now i have to go and physically check my nappy to see if it needs changing... im never dry anymore and i often feel the warm wetness spreading around my bum and there is nothing i can do about it......... i actually need my nappies.......... it feels so embaressing when i feel my bum get wet and then i start to smell..... its so embarressing knowing im always thickly nappied now.... im under her total control and I LOVE IT BIG TIME..... im trully incontinent... i am so happy i feel like my life is complete now........ is anybody else out there giong through the same?

im a mutha trucker...

i like onsies for work too... they help keep a soggy bum from sagging... i find if i roll mine up like a huge sleeve aroung my mid section it keeps everything out the way while i change...

I met my partner on diaper mates 3 years ago..... We hit it off on the email and chat strait away..... after some time chatting we exchanged numbers... then we met.... now we live together.... she is a dl with a dominant side and im a ab/dl with a submissive side.. we do reverse rolls from time to time.... she keeps me either in nappies or in a chastity cage and pull ups pretty much most of the time... i love her and she loves me... the fetish is a big part of us but its alot deeper than that.... we get on so well... even when im nappied and we go out we are still just us..... we often forget im wearing ( till she smells my wet/messy nappy or grabs my thickly clad bum )... its importiant to remember that if you are gonna meet somebody through said sites, you need to take it slow and get to know each other... its a real turn off being desperate.... slowly, slowly is the order of the day..... ive been with vanilla women and and told them about my ab/dl side and it worked for a while and they participated but, its always ended as unless you are into the fetish its hard to live with ( in my oppinion anyway ) most women want a man, not a 14 stone baby..... however, with that said, its not uncommon for vannila women to change and embrace it.. ( according to some of the stories you read on the internet ).... you will meet somebody if you just take it easy and chill... you have to kiss a few frogs before you find the princess though....

I thought I was alone too.... then 1 day when I was in the army( always lots of porn floating aroun the billet blocks) I found a magazine called forum.... I flicked through and found a story about a adult baby/ diaper lover...... I couldnt belive it..... I snook it off and read it quite a few times.. I was gob smacked..... then in time after various coppies of said magazine and a split from my x I got myself a computer and started surfing.... I loved it and still do.... done the dpf thing, then did the diapermates thing and I now live with the fantasic woman I met on said dating site..... Im now happily nappied most of the time......

oh and not too forget the price............. the price is superb for the quality of the product.........................

the abena plastic backing is better for a number of reasons..... the crinkle factor, the babyish look and feel, the odour suppression, the better fixation of tabs, pretty much abena is probably the best nappy/diaper on the market in europe...................... cloth like backing sucks.....................................................

i have tried too contact abena through their web site but i dont think it delivered...... i really hope they re-consider what they are doing..............

i spoke to a nice person at abena uk today and they said that they are phazing out the plastic backing..... they still have lots of boxes of the original plastic style but once they have gone its cloth covers from then on.... needless to say i have bulk ordered......

in a relationship with a wonderfull woman i met on diapermates.... spend alot of my time in a thick nappy.... my partner has no problems changing a messy nappy.... she has brought me a chastity cage for xmas that i wear 24/7 ... she says that little boys that wear nappies arent alowed to have big boy willies... i am totally into her big time... ( even if i cant get to my willy like a big boy)...

i do it quite often... nothing wrong with it..... if ya gotta go, ya gotta go.....

its official..... abenas are going cloth... i cant belive it, it feels like ive lost a loved 1... ive been wearing abenas for years, i love the feel and the crinkle... ive got some air plus coming to try out but im not a lover of the cloth backing...... is there anybody in the uk that can point me in the direction of a similar product that is still plastic backed?.............

i always wear pp's over my disposables.... they work wonders for keeping smells in....... as i wear for prolonged periods with few chances to change, sometimes i smell like a wet nappy and thats where pp's come in....

polyutherane pants, or euro briefs....... propper noisy........

i sleep much better when im diapered.......

happyness is a warm wet diaper..........

im not fussed about leaks.. i do wear very thirsty abenas and large soaker pads so its good for a hell of a good wetting.... at work i wear black combats and its almost impossibe to tell if i have sprung 1....

abena M4with a abri let booster in, then holes and a abena L4 on top...... very wet and messy... waiting for permision to change.......

im intrested to know how everbody goes about wearing nappies. I am forced to wear nappies for extended periods by my girlfriend. I am not alowed to be without a nappy on except when i shower or change myself. Sometimes she will change me but almost everytime i change she will watch to make sure i dont play with my winkie.(except when im at work). during the day, when im at work i wear an abena M3 with a abri let large pad as a soaker with a onsie to hold up my wet nappy and save my blushes at work. im only given 1 change to take to work so if i poo or i leak ive got 1 chance to get clean and dry then if i leak or poo my second nappy its tough.... ive got to stay like it till i get home. i work as a trucker so im on my own most of the time, unless im at my delivery point or at the warehouse. i work for a 12 hour shift so its a regular thing to be soaked by the time i get home. i have leaked on a couple of occasions but i wear black combat trousers so its hard to tell. i often smell of wet nappies too. (you all know the fimiliar wet smell) i try not to poo at work but sometimes my bowels get the better me. just the other day i had to pull over and do a clean up, i was only 4 hours into my shift so i was in my second nappy for 8 hrs.... needless to say my legs were wet by the time i got home. when im not working i wear an abena m4 with a large soaker pad and polyutherane plastic pants. im not alowed onsies when im not working. im only alowed to wear trousers over my nappy( no boxers or other concealing items) so i crinkle like crazy and im always obvious with the bulk and the fact that my plastics and nappy are always poking out the top. if ive been bad i am not alowed long t shirts, only short 1s so i show. i am taken out shopping and stuff dressed like this..... (its really embaressing) .. if we are out and i need too poo i will ask if i can use the toilet but im told that i am not alowed and just to do it my nappy and then she will take me to the disabled toilet and change me. ( she has asked for the key in a few places and quite openly said that i need to change my incontinence nappy).. In the evenings im put into a abena M4 with a large pad and then a L4 over the top. my bum is huge and i cant close my legs.... (i have been sent out for take away and round the shop with this combination on too) im kept like this till the morning. i still havent managed to wet through this combo yet... in the mornings (depending on what shift im on and if im working).... generally start with me filling my nappy in bed... (she will often tell me im a big baby who stinks, and im to lay there messy and smelly till im told to get up) i always try to poo my nappy in the morning so i dont get caught out in the day... if im not working and she is in a good mood she will clean me up and watch me shower and get clean then take me into the bedroom and lay me down on the bed, she will then clamp my wrists into the restraints and then place a nappy under my willy then proceed to milk my prostate into my nappy... im then turned over and put into the very same nappy.. (it cold and sticky and yucky) .... she has on occasions emptied her bladder into my nappy and put it on me... she says i dont deserve to be clean and dry... i have to earn gold stars by pleasing her and keeping her content and happy, when i have enough, she will let me climax, but again its usually into my nappy then put on me to wear.... its been several weeks since ive climaxed.... so thats my what, when and how, it would be great to hear yours... ... ...

Hi there...... im from good old blighty too........ I would like to say, first off, your not crazy and im sure you look great, however not eating corectly is not going to help you lose anymore weight than you already have.If you wish too continue loosing weight then excersize is the only way to kick start your motabalisim. with excersize you will need to take on a few more of the right foods and eat healthy and regular to keep your body fed and nourished. Im no expert but after having served in her majestys armed forces I know that food and a well ballanced excersize routine is the key to living healthly and keeping your figure. Its not how much you eat, its what you eat and how many calories you burn when excersizing. If you feel like your eating habits are spiraling out of your control, you need to seek help from your g.p. I have a friend and his partner is anerexic and she is in a bad way in hospitial at the moment, my advise to you would be get it nipped in the bud before it nips you in the bud. Recently there has been a big awarness campaign in this country on eating disorders and it is becoming a large problem in society and therefore there is alot of help and support out there for people who wish it. I wish you all the best for the future and pls do go and get help if you think you need it...... people will not think you are silly or wrong for doing so.....

i spent years off and on going through the binge and purge phase, trying to give up wearing diapers. I sought counseling several times and never got the help I thought I needed, One day I quit looking for answers and accepted the fact that diapers are a major part of me. They chose me as much as I chose them and are forever entangled in my life. I cannot give up wearing diapers anymore then any of you with medical incontinence. I am dependent on diapers as much as you are. A previous poster stated that some people have contemplated suicide because they lost bladder / bowel control, well this has crossed many of our minds as well. In my opinion, the medically incontinent are much better off than your fellow ab/dl's. At least you know why you wear diapers. For people in our community, we have struggled for years wondering why we are attracted to diapers. It's certainly is easier these days to find sites such as these for support and understanding. For me and the over forty crowd, our attraction began way before computers and websites and we for the most part were or felt all alone. So to those of you who feel we are all off of our gourdes, please give us some of the same understanding that you are seeking. I would like to second this..... I have had a long up hill strugle over the years to come to terms with who I am.... I have also considered suicide.......... I have lost two women because of who I am and the fact I have been unable to switch my fetish off..... I was also bowel incontinent when I was young so I know what it feels like on both sides of the fence and if im honest, having a medical need was easier to accept and it was accepted alot better by society too.... I too have had counciling for this fetish. I have been told on 2 different occations,dont fight it..... easier said than done to begin with, but after many years of torment, anger, frustration,and upset ive finally found piece with myself and come to terms with who I am........ I will be taking the leap into 24/7 in the not too distant future.... my girlfriend and me are moving in together and we both feel that we want me to be eventually dependant on nappies..... this is my choice and for the first time in a long long time I feel totally at one with myself and my emotions....... pls do not put us all in a bracket or label us....... its been tough for us all, just in different ways....