Jilly Poo

You stated that your partner is a DL so doing baby like things wouldn't be in order although He might have only told you that he is a DL and not an AB because he is afraid you can't handle the WHOLE truth.

But Wait!

Here's another website selling the very same crib but actually list the price.

How about one of these?

Forced, I feel your pain too.

I have a suggestion.

I was about 6 or 7 myself when my parents put me in diapers for a bedwetting problem.

A missed opportunity for sure.

For me it would be a big thick diaper, so thick that it forces me to waddle when I walk. Inside the diaper I would have a catheter installed making sure my ability to stay dry was removed and an anal plug to insure I was unable to relieve myself by other means. Over my diaper I would wear a short baby dress that does nothing to disguise the fact that I am diapered. A pair of baby shoes on my feet, finger-less mittens strapped to my hands at the wrist rendering my hands useless and an over-sized pacifier in my mouth held in place with a strap around my head so I couldn't take it out of my mouth on my own. For the evening, I would only be allowed to drink from a bottle or fed baby food provided to me by a caretaker. For further humiliation, a baby harness over the dress with a strap or leash that would be firmly held by my caretaker. Of course it would be ideal if when we arrived at the party, there was an over-sized playpen for me to be put into so that my caretaker could enjoy themselves as well.

A few years ago, as I prepared to go trick or treating with my kids in a friend's neighborhood (I live on a private road with only 3 houses on it) I realized that was without a costume. I had already dressed as a clown one year, a hospital patient another and red riding hood too many times to count, so I needed something different and original since the other parents there would also be dressed in costumes. I didn't have a lot of time or options so I opened my secret stash of baby items and pulled out my little baby dress with matching bloomers, a pair of tights, a pair of Mary Jane shoes and a nice thick diaper. I pulled my hair up into pigtails and set off for the party & trick or treating. People were shocked by my awesome "Costume" and I was asked where I found it because it was so original. I confessed only that I found it on ebay. I was tempted to wet the diaper in front of the other guests but since I didn't have a spare with me, I figured I would only do so if someone dared me to do it. Unfortunately no one dared me I've not worn the "costume" for Halloween again because I figured it was best not to repeat it too often lest someone figure out my little secret. I've since also purchased a pair of footed PJ's and have been tempted to wear those as an alternate baby costume but again, trying not to reveal too much plus walking around in footed PJ's could ruin the slippers so I have chosen not to.

As a DL/Ab and mother of 4 myself, I don't have much of a problem keeping my diaper wearing from my children who span in age from 4 yrs old up to 18 yrs old. I have been wearing diapers off and on for fun for most of my life, especially as an adult. I have worn in front of my husband and my kids without them even knowing. Truth is, that unless people know to look, they don't, even your kids. I would treat your BF's DL desires much the same way you would treat your intimate time with him. What happens in your bedroom is between the two of you and is no one else's business and same goes for what undergarments you or he choose to wear. If you liked wearing thongs, would you parade around the house in those in front of your children (especially after the age 2), Probably not. If his desire is to wear 24/7 and be changed by you, then I am sure special circumstances would have to be put in place, like you can only change him when the children are otherwise occupied (watching tv, sleeping, etc.) And if you made it a routine event that Mommy has to change Daddy from early on, your kids wouldn't think anything different of it when they do get old enough to talk about it. If you are open with them about it, much like eventually having to have the "Sex" talk with them, you may have to have the "Diaper" talk as well. In my case, I have kept it a secret from my kids but have talked about different things that people find interesting. It helps when they watch shows like "Taboo" to start a dialogue about these things but don't share my own personal stories unless asked directly about it. I hope this helps.

I've been using catheters for a few years myself and HATED having a long tube hanging out of my private Girl parts. First off it felt more like being a boy because the catheter would not leak into the diaper the same way I do naturally or it would kink shut. My solution was to shorten the Foley catheter but how to do it and still be able to inflate the balloon to keep it in place? I had tried just cutting it and inflating the balloon with a syringe full of water then using a piece of rice or pasta to block the tubing but this was too hard to predict when the rice/pasta would come out. A few times I had the shortened catheter ride up inside of me and it remained LOST for several days until I was able to pee it out again. SCARY. Ultimately I found that if I cut out the Middle of the catheter and reconnect to the working ends, I could get the best of both worlds. A Shortened catheter that still had the balloon intact so that I could inflate/deflate when I wanted to. The only problem was how to keep the flow through both tubes. I removed the ink cartridge for a ball point pen (Bic) and the Wire insulation from some copper wire. These were the right sizes to fit in the holes of the cut catheter ends. I cut a small piece off of the ink cartridge and inserted it into the larger of the two holes of the catheter then did the same with the wire insulation and the smaller hole. Now all I had to do was marry the two cut ends together using the plastic tube and insulation to bridge the gap. I squeezed the ends together and VIOLA! I had a working shortened catheter. I can insert it, inflate it and start dripping away and if feels so natural. I can feel it leaking past my girl parts yet I am helpless to being able to make it stop without a trip to the bathroom to remove it. I must say, it is an awesome feeling! Here is a picture of my work in progress. .

I have told 2 people. The first was a boyfriend. At first I asked him to shave my private parts and he did, then I asked him to diaper me using his daughter's diapers (she was visiting her Mom for the weekend) He thought it was odd but he did it anyway. I spent the better part of the day in a diaper that day but he couldn't handle this side of me so he broke up with me shortly afterwards. I kept my secret for many more years and after being married for 8 yrs, I finally confided in my husband. He said he was ok with it but eventually, he grew to dislike it too. Instead of risking our relationship, I resorted to just wearing while he was out of the house. may not be perfect but at least I get to wear when I need to. As far as other people knowing about my diapers, I never told anyone else but I think my parents knew because my dad confided in me that my mother had been reading my diary which I kept in the same place as my diapers so you do the math. Mom never confronted me about it but I am sure she knows or knew when I still lived at home and since my Mom is a huge gossip, I am sure she told other people including my grandmother.

I found this really cool product a few years back. It applies like a cream but dries and acts like a powder so no fine dust in the air and it goes where you want it to. The product was made by Huggies and as much as I have tried, I can't seem to find it again. I think it was discontinued They marketed it for babies but I think it had more practical uses for adults who like the feel of powder but not the mess it can cause in the bathroom.

I sleep a lot worse when diapered because I usually only get to do so when my husband is out of town so it could be the diapers fault or the whole "sleeping alone" problem. I do know that when I do get the rare chance, I am thinking about the diaper the whole time and can't sleep. I am also in fear that one of my kids will come in and find me in a diaper while I am sleeping. Not easy being a diapered Mom some days. As it is, I get up several times a night to use the bathroom and wonder if I could go to sleep diapered more frequently, would I actually wake up wet or would I wake up TO wet? Perhaps time will tell. Maybe some day I will get to wear to bed more frequently.

If you go to Home Depot, they have GIANT zip ties that are long enough to fit around your waist. Using one of these, you can feed it through the waistband of a pair of sweat pants or shorts with drawstring. (shouldn't even have to remove the string from them.) Diaper up, put on sweat pants/shorts and close the zip tie. You're locked in. You can wear it out in public if you need to since the zip tie will be hidden in the drawstring channel. You'll need strong scissors or wire cutters to cut the zip tie, You can try freezing them like you would the key for a lock. If you have kids, you'll never find the scissors when you need them any way (LOL) I also like the safety pin idea but make sure you use them on close that you can't easily get out of even if they are locking in place. I suggest a sleeper or even a onsie.

First off, I don't know what I could do to screw up so badly that not only would my hubby accept my diapers but would also be willing to force me to wear 24/7. I love my husband so much and trust him completely so if this were to become a reality and he wanted to punish me, I would accept it (again I would have to know what I did to deserve it.) Being married and having kids together, I don't think that throwing away the relationship and the family is ever the right thing and that you should do all you can to preserve it, even if it causes you some embarrassment or humiliation. I would imagine however that "outing" you as a DL/AB could be just as humiliating for your spouse as it is for you in the situation that He/She is forcing you to wear. Having to proclaim myself as an adult diaper wearer or adult baby to my friends would likely cause both of us to either lose them or a lot of embarrassment not to mention the gossip that follows. I can't imagine that my husband would do that to himself or me no matter what.

Busch Gardens Europe (Williamsburg, VA) has just recently opened Mach Tower. It is a drop ride to the left of where the old Big Bad Wolf once operated. Last time I was there (about 3 weeks ago) There was some definate construction to the hill that Big Bad Wolf was on including the removal of the old waterfall that ran down towards the Rhine River but not sure if its a new coaster they are working on. Can't wait until they open another new coaster there but I wonder why they never replaced "Draken Fyre" (aka Dragon Fire)

Welcome Sazzer. Nice to have another join our group. You said you have only been wearing for a little while and I saw by another post you made that you are already wetting and messing them. Were you a panty wetter before? and congrats on making the leap from panties to diapers.

Haven't seen them for sale but remember being in one as a kid. I was in the hospital after yet another bladder infection. They eventually decided to do surgery or something on me ( I was about 8 yrs old) and I remember waking up from anesthia in one of those big metal cribs and wearing a diaper and hospital gown. I know I wasn't wearing a diaper when they put me out so it was a real shock to be in one and a crib when I woke up. Happy Hunting for you crib.

I use a pair of shorts or sweat pants with a drawstring waistband and use a 45"long Zip Tie fed through the drawstring channel. I put on my diaper with a pair of underwear over them (helps hold the tapes in place and keeps diaper from sagging) then slip a pair of plastic pants over the top of that then slide on my Zip Tie pants. Pull the zip tie just until it is snug enough not to be able to be pulled off over my hips. Can't take the diaper off without the use of something to cut the zip tie. If you are trying to do this without running to the hardware store, try tying a loop into each end of the drawstring of your pants and attach the lock you have to the drawstring. Just make sure you make the drawstring short enough to keep the pants from being able to be pulled down. Then if you want, you can freeze the key in ice and have to wait for the ice to melt to get the key back. If you are trying to force yourself to wear longer and have really planned this out. Try mailing yourself the key from your own post office. You might want to make sure that there will be mail delivery that day and get an idea of how long it takes it to get back to you. Try mailing yourself a couple of similar sized envelopes prior to doing this and Pray the PO doesn't lose your mail.