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  1. On 6/22/2025 at 9:15 AM, soggster said:

    Are there methods or visualisations people use to presumably lower the pelvic floor and pee at will rather than based on pressure? I'm suspecting that potty training led to my muscles not being able to relax without pressure which is most frustrating.

    I think this is one aspect that the 12 month guide got really wrong or over simplified. They mentioned a reverse kegal but that not a normal movement for an adult. What I have done is physically imaging that I am peeing which for me automatically relaxes the kegal and does that primed/push movement you are talking about. Mentally I tell myself that I am currently peeing and that is a good thing/OK. This helps break the potty training block that there is a single place to pee/poop.

  2. On 6/22/2025 at 7:33 PM, BBoy said:

     Most nerve blocks last between 4 and 48 hours. Because its a nerve blocker and a common procedure the risks are considered low. Nerve blocks are generally considered safe, but potential risks include infection, bleeding, or nerve damage, though these are rare. 

    48 hours seems like a ridiculously short amount of time to go through all of that. If it was that short I would much rather try and find a Psychiatrist/Therapist that would sign off on something like that and then find a local Urologist who is willing to use the sign off as permission. That would lead to a pathway to getting something like Botox that could last several months and/or that urologist eventually being convinced of more permanent solutions.

  3. On 6/1/2025 at 4:46 AM, Bedwetterintraining2024 said:

    @DAQ I definitely will, I'm excited! I've heard they are more like therapy sessions than your traditional hypno files in the community. 

     

    I'm glad to hear your experience has been a positive one! What I would ask are a few different questions? 

    1. What kind of goals were you working on? 

     

    2. How long have you been seeing them? 

     

    3. What have the results of your progress been if any just yet? 

     

    Anything else I'd love to hear!

    Sorry I didn't get back to you sooner. I had some thoughts of what to say but couldn't really put them into words. I'm assuming that you have had your appointment. What did you think. Can also discuss in PMs if you would prefer. 

  4. 10 minutes ago, D503 said:

    Many authors are busy or don't find their "flow state" for months at a time. DAQ's post above is a better and funnier way to say that, while we're all very keen for an update, we totally understand that life gets in the way of erotic fiction. 

    Honestly, I used my post to bump it because it was so far back that I wasn't sure if it was deleted or still awaiting update. 

    But I agree. How dare authors make us wait for totally free content that they write in their free time as a hobby! It is an outrage!!! DAQ needs his fix! Going through withdrawals!/s

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  5. I have been working with A Little Hypnosis for awhile now. What I will say is go into it with an open mind, no pun intended. It is truly hypnotherapy vs just hypnosis. I have had sessions with Jason and Kenneth at separate times where we never actually did any  trance but their experience within the community and their therapeutic background helped me greatly identifying blocks and general mental health surrounding ABDL and my incontinence desires.

     

    Trance like anything is a skill. If you want my advice, to get the most out of hypnotic sessions, find an induction or file that you like or find useful and practice entering trance. It will make your sessions much more effective because you will spend your time in the therapeutic phase of trance vs induction/deepener.

     

    Other than that. Best of luck, working with them and other active steps at the beginning of your journey is an excellent choice in my opinion. Anything you can do to make the choice real and active will dramatically speed up results and prevent you from building stagnating habits. If you have any other questions, feel free to post them here, or if they are more private, send me a PM. I'm an open book when it comes to my journey.

     

     

     

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  6. I don't know how you do it. I have a number of recently (ish) discontinued diapers in my stash that I cannot bring myself to use. I cannot imagine using or wanting to use something that has been out of manufacture for a decade or two, or more.

  7. I sometimes get ideas that pop into my head about story ideas. Some times these are just a "huh, that could be an interesting story", many make past idea to synopsis or at least some general idea of what the story would be about, some make it to outlining and actually starting to plan some basic plot points, and a couple have even made it to writing a chapter or two.

    The only story that I have ever posted was actually an end to act 1 but I posted it because 1. I love stories that start at crescendos and 2. I thought it made a nice one shot so that if I never finished it, it wasn't a frustrating unfinished story. I actually went back and started writing the beginning but decided to not move forward for several reasons.

    So I guess my question I guess is. What is your process? How do you move from concept to written word?

     

    Thanks

  8. I recently started making AI images and posting to Deviantart. I find that I either get a blurb of a story that inspires me to create the image or the image ends up inspiring me to write a short blub of a story. Recently I ended up making 3 or 4 all in a row re: the characters from Scooby Doo. I was curious if and how I could post those. Obviously I don't I want to spam 20-50 images. Would something like the top one + a link be OK? Ialso have idea on a much longer story/anthology that I would like to post soonish.

     

    I want to reiterate. AI images, human written content.

     

    Thanks

     

    DAQ

  9. 10 hours ago, uncreativename said:

    This may just be a personal issue, but I have an absolute hatred against some “age regression” people on TikTok Live. 

     

    For one, a few of them who claim to just be age regressers are actually just ABDLs. 

     

    I saw a live yesterday that went in depth on how they unpottytrained themselves. If you want to do that? Sure go for it, don’t share it to a live that could have kids in it. Don’t give details on how you did it or tell the live when you “went” or need a change. They apparently will also dress in public in onesies, baby dresses (you all probably know what I mean), and bring their pacifier. IMO, it’s disgusting. It’s uncalled for, and it single handily makes people hate this community get the stereotype of being creeps. Because guess what, that person is a creep for doing it in public and on tiktok live where there are children?! 

    Obviously I’m on this site. I am a DL, but I also believe that we have to be considerate to minors  

    Anyways, if you are the person I’m referring to, I hope you know that your behavior is repulsing. 

     

    I'm going to assume that your profile is correct and that you are 18. I am twice your age. And I can tell you the world was a lonely place before the internet. I didn't know that anyone else in the whole wide world liked to wear diapers until I was 17 or 18, it lead to a lot of shame and self hatred. Please take this piece of advice from an old guy. Life is too short to care what other people think about you, and even shorter if to spend it judging others for the way they live their lives, and it is a losing battle. I'm not saying I hope that children stumble on porn, but I do hope that gay kids find out and understand that other gay people exist, and trans kids, and anyone else who isn't hetero-normative and/or neurodivergent learn that their struggles are not isolated. Like I said, I was 18 before I even knew that what I was feeling wasn't isolated, and people sharing their stories, mentally and physically is so important for awareness. I was just diagnosed with ADHD 2 years ago because no one talked about it when I was a kid. It wasn't until I was surfing reddit and too many ADHD memes hit WAY too close to home before I finally went and got help. My point is, sharing stories is part of the human experience. It is not society's job to censor itself. And I would hope that having just turned 18 recently that this idea that teenagers are children until they are 18 but then adults all of the sudden is hilariously naive.

     

    Please don't use use pearl clutching to push your own morals or sensibilities on others.. Frankly, I hope that children see weird things in public, but I the parents would have the temerity to use it as a teaching moment that people come in all kinds and it is not our place to judge. That same logic that people should be only normal in public and not be themselves is the same logic that forced gay people to be closeted for decades of puritanical sensibilities. And frankly I don't think it is hyperbolic to say that line of thinking isn't straight up a thought crime, it is not far off. It is OK to be different inside your own head, inside your own home, and inside your own skin when out in public. For you this might be a kink, and you assume that you shouldn't be exposing your kink to the world. There are plenty of people that this is so much more.

     

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    6 hours ago, rusty pins said:

    I don't understand why people even go to Tik Tok.  Yeah, lets all support and look at sites that encourage people to lay down on the center strip of a busy highway where they can get run over and killed, just to mention one of their stupid things!  Lets see.  Tik Tok.  Chinese company, a country we don't have the best relations with right now.  Hmmmm.  Could they be posting such things with the intent to harm and undermine American people, especially the foolish kids?  Why do people even waste time by going to such a stupid site?

    I appreciate your sentiment but I think you could say that about all social media. It is owned by people and those people use it to buy your eyes. You're kidding yourself if you think that Facebook or Twitter (FU X), or Youtube are any different.

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  10. 1 hour ago, ValentinesStuff said:

    @rusty pins Coffee grows in Hawaii and Puerto Rico.

    How much? Is the varieties that soccer moms in LA and NYC or rural Alabama want and drink? Is it enough to be self sufficient? Free global trade is the backbone of the US economy. Even our "energy" comes from overseas. We are energy independent in that we produce more KJ or watts or what ever unit of energy you want to use but we export coal, we export oil, BUT we also import oil. Sound counter productive? Not necessarily. All of the US oil refineries were built when middle eastern oil was the only thing widely available. We still refine their oil and export our own because that is what our refineries are setup to use.

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  11. On 4/9/2025 at 5:07 PM, CodHero24 said:

    Tranquility ATN Diapers are Plastic Backed, super smooth plastic, and decent absorbancy, especially with boosters added.

    Super affordable, and MADE IN USA, so (Tariff proof diapers) for USA peeps.

    I'll be buying those if the trade wars continue into the long game, but after I burn through my massive stockpile of diapers I'm sitting on.

    Nothing is Tarriff proof. And if you want to look at what a "self sufficient" country looks like, look no further than North Korea. 

     

    And since you seem to think where someone is from makes their opinion matter, I'm from America,  and I am worried for America and Americans. But that's besides the point, because foreigners in many cases know about and care about American politics often more than uneducated Americans because of the financial and political juggernaut that the US is. Norway could dissappear tomorrow and many of us wouldn't even know about save the news reports of a gaping hole where Norway used to be (sorry Norwegians, nothing personal). But minor radical changes in US policy ripple accross the globe.

     

    On 4/9/2025 at 5:52 PM, BabySofia said:

    This might be the understatement of all time... Right now diapers are costing about $3-4 per diaper for most of the ABDL diapers. That's going to be hitting $6.75-$9 per diaper with those tariffs... 

    I don't know if Rearz going through Canada may be immune in the short term...? I feel terrible for ABU and all of the businesses that have been importing from China. I don't know that they have any easy recourse. 

    It's not about where they ship from. It's about country of manufacturing. As far as I know all of Rearz diapers are made in CHYNA

     

    Pretend Again has a Trump Tariff surcharge on their products now. $120 for a case of 80 diapers, $1.50 PER DIAPER in taxes. They were already among the most expensive @3.25, but with the taxes it is now $4.75. I personally love this idea, I hope all companies do it. Place the blame squarely where it belongs, make clear the price hike isn't just profit taking, and it can raised and lowered as the tarrifs ebb and flow.

    15 hours ago, foreverdl said:

    Maybe the government should give us all a tax break for any of the increased prices caused by tariffs ?? so we can show china we mean business , and at the same time we are not gonna get screwed with stuff like diapers etc that we have no way of getting made in the US...?? 

    The thing is, higher taxes is the point of Trump's tarriffs. He wants to raise taxes on the poors so there is more money for tax breaks for people who don'tneed it. Well a Tarriff is essentially a flat tax. and flat taxes disproportionately harm poor people (and temporarily embarrassed billionaires). But by wrapping it all up in a tax that 1. people are too dumb to realize that it was a tax and 2. wrap it up in this nationalistic horse poop, he has poor people CHEERING for higher taxes on themselves!

    13 hours ago, Dubious said:

    Diapers are being made in America, but the tariff is on everything, including materials needed to make diapers. 

    Shouldn't be tariffs on materials from any country as long as they use those materials to make products in America.

    No ABDL diapers are being made in America, so there shouldn't be tariff on them.

    Congratulations, you are now officially smarter than POTUS. Tarrifs can never a great tool to protect vital or strategic industries. Taxing cheap steel to make sure American steel foundress can stay in business. Taxing manufactured goods but not raw materials to incentivize investment in local manufacturing. 

    On 4/11/2025 at 7:24 AM, Dubious said:

    They will go up in price too since they most likely import the materials needed to make the diapers.

    Northshore just made an announcement that their American made diapers will also go up in price. 

    It's not just about raw materials costs. It is about supply and demand. Diapers for medical use have a pretty inelastic demand curve. So as other diapers imported from China increase in price so too will American made diapers, either through profit taking or just because of shortages elsewhere. Tariffs are never good for the consumer

  12. On 3/31/2025 at 1:28 PM, cathdiap said:

    It is true that the most common activities can also be done while wearing diapers. But simple things like showering at the gym, swimming with friends, going to the sauna, taking long walks in busy open areas, running etc. are almost impossible to do if you are incontinent and wearing a diaper. Getting hired for a job that requires a physical test becomes impossible.

    I am trying to figure why wearing diapers would preclude someone from many of the activities you list. Showering at the gym, going to suana, long walks and running. Long runs might be a lot more difficult but I think one could manage. But the others you list just take A some prep and B just accepting that this is who you are. If you are incontinent, you need diapers. People walk around in the locker room in just their underwear all the time. Go into the sauna w/ a diaper on, problem solved. Even swimming is possible but takes more prep. That has always been my take on needing diapers 24/7. It just takes more prep work, I would say if anything it severely limits spontaneity. If that is important to you, then that is a problem

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  13. 22 hours ago, pizer said:

    There are a number of both ongoing and completed stories that are heavily AI-written and not labelled so. It's quite clear if you've ever played around with an LLM.

    Personally, I feel like these should be in their own subsection and labelled.

    What do you all think?

    (Posting this here since I think it counts as discussion - hope it's the right place.)

    My vote would be subsection: No. Labeled: Yes - Either by title and/or tag

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  14. Mental health had a stigma until people started talking about it and sharing their stories. If you are willing to be a face, I say go for it. I think Freta is right, Don't ask for forgiveness or permission. Only you can decide what and who you are. Regardless of what you choose. Good luck!

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  15. 4 minutes ago, LexiinDiapers said:

    No actually, this is the first creative writing project I've done in the last decade. I only started writing this because the idea for it was bouncing around in my head for ages so I tried my hand at it. I'm truly blown away by the reception it's gotten over the last year. I keep wanting to write and make more, but life is hard. I'm going to be getting caught up here soon, in the meantime I'll try to write more so I can drop another good juicy chapter soon

    Best of luck. I know how hard it is! I have had ideas bouncing around in my head for awhile and can even write them out in my head, but as soon as it comes time to putting pen to paper, or fingers to keys more in these days I just get blocked up! So annoying, so many stories never get off the story board =/.

    Anyway, looking forward to more!

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