[How to tell]

My diapers have been accepted by my whole family, I a was a ward of the state and used diapers as a security blanket of sorts.  Since the first time I told them i have had to start wearing diapers 24/7 due to medical reasons.  While my wife is willing to change me at times and give me a bottle at times, I have never pushed her too.  It is hard to spring it on a spouse after being together.  I was open with my wife before marriage, as I wore diapers on every date.  I agree with everyone's advice don't force their participation.  It may work that if it is like a fantasy that you would like to try may be better recieved 

[Xp 5000 beyond]

I have 3 sealed packs of size large Xp medical xp5000 briefs 

located in between cedar Rapids ia and Dubuque Ia 

asking 50.00 which is less than cost pick up only 

[XP5000]

I just received the case of larges i ordered they fit more like a medium.   I should be in a large according to the sizing of 44-58 inch

I tore the top tape off the left side of the first brief i tried to put on standing up, second one I put on laying down.

i will order xls next payday and see if they are better I will still use the larges with a cover instead

 

[XP5000]

I just ordered a case of large based of comparing sizes on the website verses the sites for brands i currently us

[XP5000]

I am really interested in the sizing as it seems its hard for me to find a comfortable fitting diaper. like the rise of the diaper.

[A leaking question]

I use a reusable Chux pad.   I have five or six of them as I travel for work and will put one on the hotel beds.  When i am switching locations and have a extended drive i put them on the car seat also

[Tired of starting over professionally.]

I have struggled with employment in the past, I cannot count all the jobs I have had.  I was on ssdi and used it as a crutch.  I had someone on tell me I wouldn't last at a job and so i had to prove them wrong and in proving them wrong I had to deal with my own demons.  I have had depression all my life and used it as a reason to allow myself to fail.  I have been with a company that I started as a driver and now am a Operations Manager working in transportation.  I still have days that i want to quit, but will not allow my self to

[XP5000]

While i spend a lot on my diapers per piece i will have to wait to try these as no reviews on them yet 

 

[Wipe thickness?]

i don't think the thickness of the wipe matters when changing as even a thick wipe has a surface limitation, i was using adult wipes all the time to change after a messy diapers, but have found baby wipes are just more economical even if i have to use one or two more and they have gentler chemicals in them so tend to burn lesson irritated skin

[Recomend a non ab onsie / romper / bodysuit]

I have a tykables onsie i love it is the plain white one, i wear it around everyone and noone knows it a onsie since i wear a belt it does not rise to where folks see the leg holes it was reasonably priced. i do get hot easy, but have been able to comfortably wear it under any of my summer shirts in the summer, i really like it when out in crowds so my diapers do not droop 

[Diaper bags for men]

I use a back pack, the biggest compartment is for my changing supplies (4 diapers, pack of wipes, rash cream, and i have a spot that my binki can fit and be hid) the next pocket is were my work related items are ipad and forms i need, next pocket is where the medicine i carry with me is located, then the last pocket is random stuff like my camera and i throw my wallet in there at times,there is a secret pocket on my bag that does hold my carry weapon,  may be young at heart but still like thinks that go bang

[Rearz baby bottles - teat too small for me]

I think they us a baby size nipple with just the x pattern in the top i think i will stick with my advent bottles 

[Rearz incontrol elite]

I am still wearing the one i put on last night before bed it handle my nighttime wetting with no leaks. It did bulk up a little still has most of the back of the diaper that is dry, 

[Rearz incontrol elite]

I wore the first rearz incontrol elite diaper for over 12 hours still had plenty of absorbancy left only reason I had to change was I had a messy accident.  Which was contained between the standing leak guards.  The wetness indicator only had changed color wet I could feel wetness in the diaper.  It took me a couple adjustments of the tabs. They grip the front panel and I took the diaper completely off and was able to put back on with no issues of the padding clumping. The in side of the diaper is super soft is not as bulky as I would have thought.

Tomorrow I will torture test them when I get plenty of fluid intake. Only drank about a gallon of lemonade today 

The picture or of the new diaper after I cleaned up and took my bath for bed.

 

[Walmartians visiting Fred Meyers?]

this wee i picked up 6 bags on fb market place for 45 bucks of prevail but a case of 4 fit right was 55

[Random Thread]

nascar need to hurry and have a race

[Type of diapers, and a change?]

On 1/11/2020 at 11:34 AM, AbabeBill said:

My mom was the same, she hurried me out of diapers I think. She wouldn’t stand having a kid in diapers, one second more then what she dreamed necessary. 

if you have followed the trends on potty training they started making larger baby diapers do to parents being to busy to focus on potty training, and now they are making a smaller pull up style diapers for babies and toddlers for what they call the early trainers.  my personal thoughts or know your youngster you will know if they are ready, just because you are they may not be.

with adult Diapers It has become more acceptable for folks to need them as the baby boomers have gotten up there in age.

[Diaper Punishment]

depends on your comfort level, bit punishments may include 

enema or suppository  

if diapered normally your diaper should stay on longer between change to cause discomfort, or diaper rash

self spanking can be effective  also

 

[Update- Does the shame go away?]

I was open with my wife while we were dating,  and we only cuddled and she fed me bottle i have taken care of changing my diapers except a few occasions when i need her help but that was after we were married.  the more you do little time with someone else the more relaxed you will become and won't feel shameful for being you

[Hard or soft mess]

i prefer a firm mess as usually i am real runny no matter what i eat 

[What Are Your Personal Favorite Colors and/or Patterns?]

my go to is the northshore mega max not bug on printed diapers

[Walmartians visiting Fred Meyers?]

the prevail line is mainly sold in home supply stores near me, not retail stores

[New to abdl - Paci tips?]

i use adult size paci and have no issues the issue is if the bulb is tight against the front teeth my paci sits farther back than a  baby paci would while it was costly for a proper paci definitely worth it

[Pull ups or Disposable?]

i prefer tab style as they are wider in the center and a lot of pull ups don't provide enough protection for me in coverage and absorbency 

[Bedwetting punishment]

i was spanked with a wooden spoon since my mom broke the blood vessels in her hand spanking me one day