trancefreek99

I'd totally hit it.

Yeah, um, seriously wetnmessy247, you are the one that sounds like they have issues. Jesus Christ man, lay off the guy. I understand he is probably taking the wrong approach to letting his wife know about his ABDL side, but who are you to say there is NEVER a good time to tell someone about your fetish? Yeah, that is a great idea, live the rest of your life hiding a secret, NEVER say ANYTHING to the one person you should trust and love forever. Dude, you have a lot of learning to do about yourself. You seem to have some anger issues when it comes to this. Bad experience in the past by any chance? People are a lot more open minded and accepting then you might think. Maybe she won't up and start diapering him and being a mommy or whatever, but at least she will be aware of his fetish regardless if she participates or not. Better you are honest instead of her finding your stash of diapers and whatnot and learning about it on her own. But that is just a terrible idea according to wetnmessy247. NEVER tell her ANYTHING, because he has so much experience with the issue. /rant

LMAO. I would almost call this guy a troll because of how crazy and creepy he sounds. But sadly, I'm sure he's not.

Honestly, as bad as the community is genderwise (aka Way more males than females) from the past munches or gatherings I had been to, the actual ratio was fairly even. And honestly, I have not yet met someone at a munch that has come off as creepy or horny/weird. Maybe I'm just lucky. I know when Annie and I have munches at our place, it will also be pretty much even. But not just that, it won't have any creepers at all. Promise that. We have a nose for those types of people, and believe me, they won't be at our munch/party/gathering/fun time.

I'm going to have to second what Annie said. For a large majority of us, this IS sexual. Ok, with that being said, another LARGE, HUGE majority of the community are horny, perverted, old men. I know if I was single, I would like knowing if there were members of the opposite gender, because, hey, it's a way to meet other people and possibly start relationships too. I honestly wouldn't feel comfortable being a straight male hanging out with 11 other men wearing soggy diapers and acting like babies (god that vision is horrifying and funny at the same time). I just don't think it is fair to label someone a perv because they want to know if there are girls there. Now I have been to a few munches, probably more house parties to be exact, and every time the ratio was pretty much even for girls and guys. I don't know if that was a fluke or whatever, but that was my experience. But you really never know. I know we will be having some gatherings and such once Annie and I (finally) move down to Panama City Beach in May. But for me, I wouldn't just post an invitation and say come one, come all. WAY too many creeps out there. It'd be invite only. So I guess I would know if there were girls there :/ I'm rambling...

It's a photoshop. No, Alyssa Milano does not wear diapers, nor has she ever worn diapers. Stop dreaming.

LOL, you desperate guys make me laugh. I am not looking down on you in any way. I was in the same position as most of you a year ago. But there is something you guys need to know and understand. Here comes my rant... Yes, you can go on alt lifestyle sites and try to meet a girl that "accepts" your ABDL interest. Some have had great results! I met my little girl on myspace. The amazing thing is, we chatted for about a week before the word "diaper" was even mentioned. Seriously, stop acting like a horny old man, and start treating the girls you talk to with respect. Take a damn interest into their interests, don't friggin ask them what diapers they like after talking to them for five minutes. Women want respect. They want to know that you care about their lives, not their fetish. My girl accepted me because I became a friend to her before I became her Daddy. Seriously though, if you wear diapers and want a girl to be a mommy/little girl switch, good luck. There is not a lot of girls out there that want a Daddy that wears diapers and wants to act like a baby. I'm not saying there arent girls out there that want that, but the majority of girls want a Daddy, a Daddy that will take care of her and not act like a baby himself. It really isnt that hard to find a girl, it's just way too many guys are way too up front on their fetish. Talk to her like you met her in a local coffee shop, not like you met her online. I said it on ABDLfourms, and I will say it again, If you treat a girl as a women should be treated, you will be treated well in return. Stop focusing on the damn fetish, there is more to life than diapers, and a girl will notice that. It's not hard, try it, and you will be successful on finding your "elusive" diaper girl.

Well, I'm not trying to be a jerk, it's just that I have emailed them numorous times about this problem for the past five months and have not recieved anything back from them. I just think that's kinda lame, and it becomes rather frustrating.

Seriously, I think 5 months and four emails is enough, i have given them their chance, they need to fix it. Also, I don't want to see any more pics of my wife in your photo gallery if i cant even use your board or chat. You guys need to fix this problem,

Same thing has happend to me, and I dont know why. One day I tried to log in, and suddenly my IP address was apparently banned. So I have to use Utunnel.net to be able to post here. I emailed DD, but of course I recieved no response, even after four emails to them concerning my problem. And whats even worse, is they post MY pictures on their site of my wife, but apparantly feel im not important enough to be able to log in, go figure. So i cant use chat cuz u cant chat through an anonymizer. Meh, whatever, but yeah, I have been having the same problem for like 5 months now. Welcome to the club.

Hi, we are a 23 yo DL (slight AB) couple, just looking to chat. If anyone wants to, just pm me. We are usually on at night. cya

Female Feet...i dont know why, i think feet are cute....thats all i got to say....

i signed up a bit ago, not much really there...the sight looks promising, until u run into all the dead links. It's not too bad for just 4 bucks, there are some amatuer pics ive never seen on the sight. But nothing worth going out of the way for. I guess instead of renting a movie, i bought a membership to the site. I mean, its only 4 bucks. and its a lifetime membership. As for the spamming though, that dude running the site needs to get a clue.

Ok. Paul, I have your answer.....first off, stop lookin for girls that are already ABDL's cuz most likely you will be one of 100 guys responding to their message. Your best bet is to find a girl who is NOT and ABDL, and get her to try the lifestyle. My wife, whom I met in Italy, had no idea what an ABDL was. I told her after 7 months (she was my girlfriend at the time) about my interests. Lo and behold, she now wears all the time, and enjoys it....what I am trying to say is, stop looking for self proclaimed ABDL girls, and find a normal girl who may seem open minded. That is your best bet. All of us guys would love to have an actual ABDL girl, but the fact is, your chances are very slim on meeting one in person. Find a mate that is willing to try new things, and you WILL succeed. I did, and I now have imo, a beautiful DL wife! Good luck man.

Well, my story with my wife, is before we were engaged, I told her. She being European, was very open minded, and didnt care. She wore them whenever I asked, it was great. Fast forward to a couple months later, she began feeling it was "Weird" and not normal, so she became apprehensive about it. Then at the low point, I went through a "Purge" phase and got rid of all my diapers, and went as far as seeing a phsycologist. This made my wife not want to wear them. Well, during the Pshyc visits, it actually helped, the phsycologist ( who was a very attractive italian woman, god that was hard to talk to her) actually said that it is not harmful and it is a normal "fetish" behavior. Well, lo and behold, my wife has "re-accepted" diapers into our marriage, and now she wears them all the time, just like before. Just remember this, my fault was i "purged" and that got her (my wife) freaked out, and that harmed the whole fetish thing. I dont know why i purged, i just got that whole "its not normal" feeling, and BAHM my wife hated diapers. But now that she enjoys them again, im glad its all over. My morale is.....um.....i dont know........dont give your wife any reason to hate diapers, or it will haunt you in the future. ciao i miei raggazi. Trance

Trance--freek......i guess it explains my name. I like techno and trance, to the point where i am a freak about it. the 99 is just some stupid number i put on the end. dont know exactly why