[Does your wife complain?]

I haven’t been on hear lately but I’ll tell my little story. My wife and I have been married for almost 5 years. When we met I was right up front about wearing diapers and how I used them. She was fine with my diapers. She just asked that I didn’t go around her while messy. Her view of my lifestyle slowly diminished to where it is now. About 1 year into our marriage she freaked out and said I had to quit wearing diapers. I was devastated. I still had to wear to bed but change into underwear in the morning.  I had several embarrassing pee accidents while out of diapers. I started seeing a therapist and she explained to my wife that this was the way I was. I slowly went back to diapers full time. I still have to poop on the toilet and she won’t let me use cloth diapers because of all the work involved. I have been pooping myself while she isn’t around but that just don’t feel right. So to sum it all up. She hates my diapers. I’m beginning to hate my life. Sorry about the long post

[A Truck Driver In Diapers]

36 minutes ago, rusty pins said:

I think that's a good idea to change in the bunk.  If you did it in front of the pumps everyone would see and you might get arrested for indecent exposure!  

There is usually a line at the pumps and some people spend their 30 min break at the pumps when people are waiting for fuel

[A Truck Driver In Diapers]

Diapered always.  I usually change in the bunk during fuel stops (not at the pumps) 👍

[Barker, new york]

Ransomville

[Most Absorbent?]

I have tried High absorbency diapers like Dry 24/7 and ABU Simple ultra and I can't get them to come even close to stated capacity.  I love Northshore Supreme They get used all the way from the front to the back before they leak.  

[Diapers at the doctors part 2]

I have been 24/7 for 5 years now (except a couple dr's appointments and work physicals)  My last Dr's appointment was last month and I went undiapered.  I wet my pants on the way home.  I might start wearing to the doctor's from now on.  

[Tena Slip]

I think that fit is more important than absorbency.  The best fitting diaper for me Northshore Supreme.  I can't really get a good fit with Tena, dry 24/7 and some other popular brands.  So if you can't seem to get the Tena Slips to fit right maybe they're not for you.

[Non-DL girlfriend]

Thank you @rusty pins and @MarkSmith.  I just need to realize that I need to sacrifice a little too.  I think I can handle going into another room or something to poop.  We talked and she would be ok with that as long as I clean up right away and she don't smell it.

[Non-DL girlfriend]

 

What do you mean by boundaries? I mean, the answer should be obvious, but if you are struggling to identify them, then drawing a line is impossible.

The boundaries are that she doesn't want to be around me when I poop.  I don't know what to do.  Go to another room or something?

[Non-DL girlfriend]

I'm a 37 YO male that's lived alone for a very long time.  I got together with my girlfriend about 6 months ago and told her all about my DL side right from the beginning.  She has a lot of questions but she accepts me for who I am and loves me deeply.  I love her a lot.  I had a relationship with her ten years ago but I broke it off because I was afraid to tell her about the diapers.

She isn't into diapers at all but is supportive of me.  Her boundaries are simple, she doesn't mind me wetting around her but she doesn't want to be around me if I poop.  I change my wet diaper in front of her and wear to bed.  I wear 24/7 and have for about 5 years.  

The hope is, in the somewhat near future, she and her young son will move in with me.  How do I live under the same roof and maintain boundaries and be happy at the same time?

[Ccw while diapered]

2 hours ago, Glennie said:

i have had a ccw for about 10 years . I carry to work almost everyday and I wear diapers to work everyday. Most of the time my gun is in my work van. I am a contractor.  I wear a plain white onesie and a shoulder holster in the colder months. the summer months I usually leave my gun in my work van. At night if I have to go out I always wear something that will alone me to carry it on my person, concealed. after all the first word in ccw is concealed. I have a neighbor that has his ccw and he doesn't seem to understand that fact.. He runs around the neighborhood looking like wild erp..

 

In NYS if you possess a handgun you must have a permit.  If you carry it your permit must say "full carry"  and it must be concealed.  Your neighbor would be in big trouble here.  Some states have open carry that allow you to carry like wild Erp.  I don't know how the laws work in Ohio.

[Ccw while diapered]

I just got my CC permit and splurged at the gun auction the next day.  I ended up getting a Ruger LC9S and a Ruger SP101 357 mag.  I just got a chance to go out back and shoot them today.  They both shoot really nice.  I'm more accurate with the LC9s but want to carry the SP101 just due to the fact revolvers are alot simpler and if I ever really need to defend my self with lethal force the wheel gun will fire.  I also wear diapers 24/7  so I don't know how I'm going to get everything in my pants.  I ordered a IWB holster from cross breed holsters.  I can't wait for it to get here.

[Are you progressing as a DL?]

I have come a long way.  I'm now 24/7 for about the last 4 years and I have little control left.  I still go without a diaper to the doctors but I put a pad down on the seat of my car.  Last week I went for my annual checkup and I made it to the doctors office, through the exam and almost home before my bladder let loose and I wet my pants.  The pad did its job but I had to put on clean pants and diaper up before going to work.  I hope I can still make it to the doctors undiapered in the future.  I don't want to have to explain to the doctor my DL lifesyle.  If I lie and say I can't help it he'll order tests that will waste my time and money.

[Diaper Pins]

14 minutes ago, DL4LIFE said:

I got the large duck diaper pins too. I also bought the contour diaper but I have a hell of time getting the pins through the cloth. I even sharpened the points and still can't get them through without a struggle, and I mean a struggle to the point where my thumb cramps up. I washed and dried the diaper several times too. 

Is there something I'm doing wrong?

I use the plain blue ones with a baby-pants prefold and they work fine.  It does take some pushing to get them through the diaper though.  Try rubbing the point on a bar of soap for lubrication.  Be very careful sharpening them with a stone because it wont leave as smooth of a point than the original point.

[Post when messy.]

I had the runs in a northshore supreme.  Must of been all the spicy food I ate last night.

[When Was The Last Time You Pooped Your Diaper]

     I'm feeling a bit full and I'm about to do something a hardly ever do and that is drop a load in a cloth diaper.  I'm prepared for it though.  I use prefolds for instead of using my normal "airplane" fold, I rolled the edges inward.  I also placed a birdseye flat baby diaper in the adult prefold in hopes that that is all that gets messy. 

     I usually only poop in disposables due to the ease of cleanup but I'm trying to save some money.

[Diaper Pins]

Same here but I get them right from baby-pants.com

[Who woke up wet this morning?]

I had one prefold with one booster and wake up soaked and peeing.  I leaked a little on the bed but I have a waterproof cover and the matress.  

[Getting started with cloth]

I have 2 of the babykins SDK velcro diapers.  The velcro failed pretty quickly.  I ordered a  roll of heavy duty velcro brand velcro and replaced all the velcro on both diapers.  They are still going strong.  another option is to remove bad velcro and use pins.

[Super Diaper Fill Up Question]

8 hours ago, adam4landry said:

Well i am using rearz diapers a for the plastic pant well maybe i should put that on my wish list i no that rearz sell some is there any that you would recommend ???? 

I use babykins vinyl pants with encased elastic.  Just make sure you order one size bigger than you think you might need.

[Super Diaper Fill Up Question]

I have done that many times.  You have to be sure that what ever happens you contain the mess.  I usually but on a premium disposable (tall leak guards are a must).  and then at least real tall plastic pants.  I wear old jeans and a shirt I don't care about.  Wherever I'll be sitting I put down a towel or protective pad.  Then I just keep everything on till the pooping is done.  If I get poop on my pants or shirt, so what.  Also knowing that the furniture is protected helps.   

 

After it's all done and I'm ready to clean up I have a trash bag ready outside the shower so I can just wad up the diaper and put it right in the bag after taking it off.  Plastic pants and clothes can be rinsed off in the shower too if they get too messy. 

[Overpriced ABDL diapers]

I just notice a few weeks ago the ABU Peek a boo that is coming out.  I have never bought an AB diaper before but their claims of "The world's most adsorbent diaper"  got me really curious.  Last week I tried two ABU simple samples to get sizing right.  They were pretty awesome.  I am going to order a case of peek a boos when they become available.  I hope I can get past the ridiculous prints on the front.  

[Another Diaper Fold Discovered]

I wear prefolds so that wouldn't work for me.

[Getting Rid of Your Undies]

I keep a couple pair of boxer briefs to wear to the doctor's.  They usually end up wet by the time I get home.  I'll also wear a pair of boxer briefs over a pullup if I'm going to my GF's or somthing.  I have not bought any new undies in about 5 years.  I still have a few pairs of briefs to wear if I want to be real naughty and have an unprotected accident.

[What diapers do you wear]

I wear Northshore Supremes regularly with terry lined plastic pants over them.  I also have an abundant selection of cloth diapers.  I have some dry 24/7,  some wellness briefs, some sample packs that Northshore sent me.  I have unopened bags of Abena M3 and M4, both plastic backed.  Sometimes its nice to change it up a bit.