BigBoy

Frank, I just stumbled across this. I had some really bad things happen in my life (lost family members to murder) and I quit caring. I found myself over 500 when I went to the doctor in September of last year. I had got really consistent about hitting the gym and I was doing a lot of cardio. A friend gave me an article about big weights. So I changed my workout. I went from high reps and medium weights for me. 3 x 15 to doing 3 sets of 8 with as much weight as I could do. Everytime weight got easy, I added more. Now I've maxed out every machine at the gym I work out at, so I upped my reps. I am doing 2 sets of 20 or 25 with the machines maxed out. I do this 4 times a week. Get as close to the line of overdoing as you can, and occasionally you will over do it. Don't focus on the work of the workout, focus on how good you feel afterward. Challenge yourself. Do what you think you couldn't. I am doing things now that the totally ripped guys I work out with occasionally can't do weight wise. When I leave the gym, I feel like I'm 2 inches taller and my cock is an inch longer.

http://gawker.com/police-called-to-free-grown-ass-man-stuck-in-high-chair-507608103

This is photoshopped. This pops up every now and then. I've seen the original photo. http://jezebel.com/5309980/sorry-charlie-al-franken-in-a-diaper-cannot-alter-the-fabric-of-reality

It's been 2 1/2 years for me.

I've been having very vivid dreams lately. Recently I had a dream where my best friend was changing my wet diaper. The dream was so real, i wasn't sure if I was waking up from one dream or entering a new dream.

just watched it on youtube. here's the channel that has all four parts. it may not be up long. prolly one of the most positive pieces of exposure i've seen.

I don't know if you are anything like me but this is the counterbalance to my big personality. I am extremely alpha, so the counterbalance is being extremely beta.

Miss the days when an "underwear bomb" was a potty training mishap.

I think a lot of it comes from how you present it. If you tell your significant other like you are confessing something bad, I think the person will react in the way you are more or less setting them up to react (unintentionally). I told my exwife before we were married, a few months into our courtship. They way I did it was a little probing pillow talk. I asked her what is that kinky stuff you go to in your head when you are close to orgasm. What is dirtiest, unspeakable thing that turns you on? My wife told me she wanted a threesome or foursome. Not my thing, but I was willing to participate. I'm like, let's do it. We talked about how and such. There is a lot more to that part of the story, but you get the idea. Main point, be willing to make her deepest darkest kink become reality. The same inquiry was turned to me. I told her. The next day we went to the store together to get diapers. I was content to just wear them. She insisted I wet the diaper. A week or so later, she wanted me to mess my diaper. We explored, there were somethings that were really fun, somethings weren't working as much as i liked. I think the whole thing made us even more intimate. I dont mean in just the sexual side. I think it made us closer. She got to see the counterbalance to my Type A personality. My big is BIG. My little is lil'.

Diapers are my counterbalance. I am a huge personality guy. People notice when I walk into a room. My big side is really BIG. I'm sorry if that sounds like ego, but it is not. Diapers get me into a really small frame of mind. Diapers are about letting go for me (pardon the pun).

I can't really put my face out there to do a video, but I do think it would be hilarious. If there was a video, what would you include?

Kind of funny how the Dr Phil episode and the Chelsea episode was on the same day. Guess we are getting closer to mainstream, well mainstream in the way like people know of BDSM and such. I thought the Chelsea show was one of the more positive ABDL things I've seen. She was digging the dude and was trying to make him happy (even though he wasn't an AB like she had been told). I laughed when she grabbed the diaper bag on her way out the door.

Chachi from Happy Days and Joanie Loves Chachi.

http://gawker.com/5868180/how-a-twitter-cabal-of-diaper+obsessed-madmen-killed-scott-baio

It would be difficult to hazard a guess on numbers but I think you can tell most of the time which one who are abdl's and who's not. Yes, I know they are 'acting', but I've never seen that many great acting performance by people in porn. I think you can tell by the look in their eyes. I think setting is telling also.

My Dog Skip.

Thank you for the concern. When I went to the doc, he checked for diabetes and I wasn't even close to it. I've been lucky that way. Its been awhil but it was an infection. Cleared up with in a week. It was no fun when I was dealing with it. As an AB I thought this would be great but, um not so much.

I think the way I told my ex-wife was good. Before I told her, I planted a seed. I asked her to tell me her wildest fantasy, that deep dark place you go in you mind when you wanna cum, but tell me tomorrow night. She wanted a three or foursome. We plotted how to make that happen. Then she turned the question on me. I told her. She told me we would buy diapers the next day. I think it is a good way to do it. Ask her what is the absolute freakiest thing she's into and make her fantasy become a reality. I think the favor will be returned. That is the way it worked for me. Notice I said ex wife. I think the diaper/AB stuff was a good thing but eventually turned into something that kept me from seeing things were deteriating in our marriage. I was diapered and happy. Something she had fun earlier was now something she made deals with, diaper instead of sex. How about a handy during a diaper change.

I think the way I told my ex-wife was good. Before I told her, I planted a seed. I asked her to tell me her wildest fantasy, that deep dark place you go in you mind when you wanna cum, but tell me tomorrow night. She wanted a three or foursome. We plotted how to make that happen. Then she turned the question on me. I told her. She told me we would buy diapers the next day. I think it is a good way to do it. Ask her what is the absolute freakiest thing she's into and make her fantasy become a reality. I think the favor will be returned. That is the way it worked for me. Notice I said ex wife. I think the diaper/AB stuff was a good thing but eventually turned into something that kept me from seeing things were deteriating in our marriage. I was diapered and happy. Something she had fun earlier was now something she made deals with, diaper instead of sex. How about a handy during a diaper change.

Don't hate, it's just baby fat.

I haven't seen anything posted. I'd like to come out to one. I have never met another ABDL in person.

I forgot about this thread after everything cleared up. Early last month I did go to the doctor due to flu. I did bring up my problem. He did check my blood and I am not diabetic. It was an infection. It cleared up with the antibiotics. It is nice that my bladder can hold on a lot longer again. As an AB I've thought about what it would be like to have less or no control. Not nearly as good as expected. Much respect to those who have to deal with incontinence daily. It was driving me crazy and it was a few weeks or so. Once again, thank you again for you concern and suggestions.

At least one unintended pun.

I like the two tier safe word. "Yellow" for when it is getting a little too much. Red means stop just like a stop light.