TBlazer

In the publics eye we are one in the same. There was a documentary on a school teacher whos husband was dl and turned her into an ab. She was fired for it-cant seem to remember the doc though. Ive posted this thought before, but the distinction between dl and ab seems to be for the benefit of so called dls who dont want to associate with the world of adults actin like babies. I find it odd-everyone here wears diapers for pleasure and yet theres this need to distinguish one group as being more "adult" like. Frankly I think DLs are just ABs who are too afraid to come fully out of the closet. And that wouldnt make for a very interesting documentary, would it?

Not to discredit the women here, but you met your SOs on a website dominated by men. If there is a website full of horny single women into this fetish and they outnumber the men ten to one then please, point us that way. Just be yourself and push through the frustrations. A positive and cool attitude will get you a lot further then just trying to kiss every girl your penis points at. From the sounds of it your a nice guy that just has trouble being a dick, which is generally how you pick up someone at the bar. Im the same way but I attribute it to the fact that I was raised by parents who taught me to treat others the way I want to be treated. Women love a man who cuddles and spoons, and will love you for who you are, as long as you do the same for them. I get around the bar hook up by getting phone numbers from girls I meet everywhere so I can set up a date later, which allows me to find out more about them and allow more of me to show. It also gives you private time and space to not feel like your competing against other men, which will increase your confidence and allow you to make that first move. Asking for a phone number is an easy way around trying to take a girl home and lets her know youre not just about sex. Doesnt always work out, but thats fine, Im not just after sex. Its how I met my current girlfriend and she has no problem with my AB side, in fact it allowed her to be comfortable enough to confide in me her own deep desires. I read this somewhere years ago but not until recently did I really understand it-men attract who they are, not who they want to be. If youre not an asshole, youll have trouble attracting bitches. Dont sweat it.

I remember reading sometime ago in an old DPF posting that vaseline was good for baby girls, as it creates a moisture barrier to prevent itchiness from dampness and the off Ph of body fluids. And for me, thich cloth diapers and oversized plastic pants are the only way I feel confident about wetting in bed. Theyre also very babyish

Geez guys, is it really that hard to figure out? Buy the next size up in disposables. For example, medium fits my waist perfect, but only a large will fit everything comfortably and not leak out the top. I am in no way a size 45 waist but they still fit. Step 2 is to buy plastic pants!

I sometimes have the same problem-sleeping on my belly feels great, but man what a pain in the neck and jaw. It stays sore for hours-I cant imagine doing it every night. You must be hurtin! Id say try sleeping in a hammock. The mayan kind, which is a tightly woven net that conforms to your body, is the bet for sleeping. A lot of caribbeans sleep this way. Its hard to sleep at first, but youll get used to it, and theres no way youll subconsciously roll over onto your belly. Hope it helps, get better! And theres no shame in wearing diapers for fun.

Its probably both-kids are fatter (we all are) and pg wants to expand their market. Capitalism has a long documented history of convincing people they need to buy something, even if they dont. The best ones just stretch our desires for an easier lifestyle-disposable diapers as a more convenient product than cloth. 5 hour energy is more convenient than coffee. Wearing disposable underwear (its not marketed as diapers) is more convenient then cleaning yourself up every hour if you have incontinence. It reminds me of all the drug commercials that are selling prozac and other goodies-convincing you theres a medical need for a product your doctors never mentioned, because really, you just realized you were depressed. Perhaps there are people out there who are just learning that little squirt at the end of a good laugh is really incontinence, and really, you should buy one more piece of plastic crap for the landfill. Movies like wall-e and idiocracy are frighteningly on point.

Yes, overwhelming narcissism is what it would take to run for office, and is a big reason our presidents suck donkey balls.

At one point in our history it was worse, I believe in the early 1900s when Teddie Roosevelt was passing anti-monopoly laws. There are many similarities today, in that corporate power has largely usurped the power of people. Hence our problems with health care, low wages, jobs going overseas, etc. Along with that comes mudslinging-I think its just a distraction to keep us from uniting and focusing on real issues that would force both parties to disobey their lobbyists. I was hoping (go figure) that Obama would act as a trojan horse and change things for the better, but that hasnt happened. It will probably take a new party to swing the pendulum back to a sane government. Or a depression.

Ever try cloth diapers? Totally different experience in regards to skin.

Some people are so far removed from reality in their fantasies they cant grasp the concept of blending the two. Haters gonna hate!

Dont worry, youll get past the self acceptance part. Learning to love yourself for who you are is a great challenge that many seem to never overcome, judging by the actions of some "adults". Have to agree though with horndog, self restraint is a good thing, especially if you live under someone elses roof. Get a full time job and get your own place, itll help with everything!

To answer the OPs question, I feel that no, its not a bad thing to hide this from friends, even the close ones. Im sure they have their own personal quirks they choose to keep private. Id be willing to bet that some us have friends who do know about this side of is and respectfully let us keep the illusion of privacy.

You most definitely should-regardless the outcome, you wont regret it. The real questions are when are you going to tell her, and how?

I think the fear is that people who watch this will judge others based on what Stanley does. As an adult, I dont care about others opinions of me that much, however parents who discover their kids are AB may shape their opinions based on watching this. That rubs me the wrong way, and I think Stanley does more harm then good here. That photo of him is down right creepy. I take pity on no one who asks for it. There are plenty of people with worse injuries who find a way to make a living. Being poor is easy, learning to overcome lifes challenges and live healthy is not. Glad to know my quarterly payments to social security are going to pay for his unhealthy lifestyle to make a public mockery of what I keep to the bedroom. What an asshole.

Rushs words were not minor. Also, Maher is a comedian on premium cable, while Rush is beemed across the country through FM and AM radio that anyone can listen to. That is a big difference-one is associated with after hours adult entertainment while the other is mixed into mews and weather. All one has todo is look at the ansolutely moronic comments on news blogs by right wingers, who now believe the more sex you have the more birth control you take. Nor do they understand this isnt even about sex-Sandra Fluke was talking about the non sexual uses for hormone therapy. This a result of their ignorance, and for them Rushs words only validate them. The only times Rush is satirical is when its criticising republicans-his attacks on democrats are emotional and sincere, meant to destroy any critic of the right. Frankly someone should put thos sweaty, closeted gay pig out to pasture, preferably along with the entire fox, cnn, and msnbc casts as well. They are all spineless jellyfish who seek to make money at the expense of our country's well being.

I still have trouble understanding how people can be open to the idea of wearing diapers for fun but cant handle this concept. An open mind foe a different view, right?

I feel the same way-as a kid I would fantasize about being a baby again, but over the years its turned into purely a fetish thing. I still enjoy the paraphinalia, like my pacifier amd footed pjs, but the adult side has taken over. Cooking, growing food and being a self employed artist is something I take pride in and the thought of needing someone to take care of me is repulsive. However I do still consoder myself an AB because, well, that box in my closet contains baby items made to fit an adult! I take the definition in its literal sense. Maybe someday Ill find someone who wants to indulge me with a baby bottle, but I think most women find my independence attractive, not the lack of it.

What sort of competition? Thems fancy prizes

Id say choosing to wear a diaper and pee in it is disgusting. Youve already crossed that line-why not go further and try it? Personally, after reading a DPF novelette with this, its been on my bucket list. If peeing on someone is Water Sports, then maybe we can call this act the Sham Wow. You know, as in "we were getting used to water sports, so then I gave her the ol' sham wow, and now things are really interesting!"

Ahhh bronies.... makes sense. Thanks for the info, after John Stewart got me to google Santorum Im afraid of typing in phrases that might be sexual.

haha nearly pooped myself after reading that, fucking hilarious

Bronies?

I agree with you on most points except about religion being for the closed minded. I used to feel the same way until i took a trip to India. Meeting people with multiple degrees and PhDs choosing to live a life of religious devotion in the middle of no where next to a glacier in the himilayas changed my opinion. They were not closed minded in the least bit-they talked openly about other religions, atheism included, with great respect and humility. Ya, ive experienced some negative things from the religious types, but ive experienced just as many negative things from the atheists, friends included. We all suffer from the human condition. Sadly I dont believe we as a species will ever evolve beyond a need for religion-it will always be there. And as long as there are negative sides to humanity such as greed and lack of respect for eachother, then religion will be used to justify such actions. It would be cool though if the world was more like star trek and less like 15th century europe.

I drive an 06 Corolla 5 speed. 45 MPG through the mountains and handles snow better then most trucks and suvs. I can fit more than enough for a craft show in it, including two 6 foot tables with folding chairs and display boards/plinths, in addition to my work. I have repeatedly silenced suv and van drivers who chuckle and say "youll never fit all of that in there." Ya, thats what she said. Ive driven across country, through woods, snow, ice, anything. And theres no power locks, windows, seats, anything. Yep, im a minimalist.

Id say try cooking ALL of your own food. This is what all my veggie friends do. Its what most of the world does, hence most of the world eats little or no meat. Its incredibly cheap and tasty. Personally, in the future id like to ony eat what i hunt or raise myself.