thatonegirlwiththeface

Thanks for all the advice, I swear I'm not a troll. I don't know anyone who would make up a story that detailed. I'm just very private about this as he doesn't want anyone IRL to know.

So my boyfriend, after a full year of dating, finally told me he's a diaper lover. Well, I suppose it's a little further than that because he likes passifiers/bottles/baby powder and such. At first it was VERY surprising. I mean, you date someone for a year, talk about getting married/having kids/whatnot you think you know almost everything about them, right? Well, regardless, he said my initial reaction was the best he never hoped for: I didn't freak out, I didn't even laugh, which was his "best case scenario". I just calmly said "okay" and, after a little bit of talking to wrap my head around it ((I'd never, EVER heard of AB/DL before)) I helped him into a diaper. The night progressed and I could tell he was ashamed, but I didn't quite know why, so I tried to do and say things that would let him know that it wasn't a problem and I wasn't weirded out by it. We made love while he wore it, I tried one on for him, and when we were getting in bed he slipped one on and I told him ((truthfully)) that I liked the feel/texture. Tonight, we went shopping together. He really liked that, I think because he's been having to deal with it on his own for the past seven or eight years it's nice to share and be supported by someone. He asked if it would be too weird if he wore one, I said absolutely not and encouraged it. When we got home, he asked me to put one on while we had sex, so I did. Then a little after that, he asked me to try putting the baby powder he'd just bought on him. Now I found this sexy. I don't know why, because it didn't really do it the first time, but I loved "caring for him", I guess you could call it. Making him happy, putting the things on for him, handing him his bottle... I loved it. So two questions. 1) Does that mean I'm a "Mommy"? and 2) Is there anything I can do to make him feel more supported? He's sometimes bad at telling me what he likes, so I thought some outside input would be helpful. He absolutely does not want anyone he knows IRL to know, so this was my only option hahah Thanks, and sorry for the long story!!