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Strange person on internet forum say what? How did you ever get to that conclusion? Power exchange means that one person gives up his|her autonomy, and gives power over [him|her]self to his|her Master, or in the case of an ABDL relationship to his|her Mommy|Daddy. I don't know how your childhood went, but for one, my mother never really controlled me, and secondly, I wasn't often disciplined either. But yes, in essence, a parent/child relationship is very much like a BDSM relationship. That is one of the reasons why so many people are into BDSM, and the reason why so many people are into ABDL as well, because they miss the situation of being a child. A time in which you did not have any worries, all you had to do was trust your parents. When you did something wrong, you got punished for it and then it was forgotten, it didn't have any dangerous consequences. It IS all very similar to one another, as most things are in this Universe. The only really difference is in the power exchange definition. An adult gives up his or her autonomy in a BDSM relationship, while this is not possible in a child/parent relationship this is not possible, afterall, the child does not have an autonomy yet. The purpose of that last relationship is exactly to give the child an autonomy so it can live on its own. Another thing, just because the two defining elements of a BDSM relationship are Discipline and Submission, it doesn't mean that there aren't any other required aspects to the relationship. One being that such a relationship is formed between consenting adults, in order to differentiate from true slavery and other forms of abuse. But in any case, further discussion of this should be taken to message or its own thread. Because Zorro daddy was right in his ‘The one thing that you love’-thread, we do shift the topic far too often here on DailyDiapers. Sorry, DailyDi So, back to the topic at hand: Awesome. I'm going to start doing that then. Is that link anywhere obvious? So that I don't have to find this thread again when I next want to order something from Amazon?

Ok. I currently haven't the slightest clue what you are talking about, a submissive becoming dominant? Where in Holy Nature does it say that? Actually, a [mommy|daddy]/baby relationship is very much a BDSM relationship, afterall, it has to do with both control and discipline, two of the defining aspects of a BDSM relationship. We know not all aspects are needed to consider a relationship to be BDSM, since Sadism and Masochism can be left out at will, as can Bondage. Actually, the only thing that is common to all BDSM relationships, as far as I know, is that one person is in control and the other has to listen to the other or undergo his or her whims. Sound familiar? Of course it does. Power exchange is not only at the basis of BDSM fantasies, it also lies at the basis of many AB fantasies. The relationship you share most definitely is a BDSM relationship.

Heh, notes. That's a good one. We don't need to take notes for the simple reason that all course material is either in a book or text and usually the slides are also available. In such a case, it's a much better idea to simply pay attention. Actually, for me that is always the better idea, if I have to write down, I miss most of what the professor is saying. A study group? There aren't any, for one. And secondly, I pretty much know everyone in my year, there's like thirty of us, at maximum, so it's pretty much impossible to do it with people I wouldn't talk with. A studying group would also not be the best choice for me, while it may get me to work, I'll constantly be distracted by whatever they are doing, especially strangers, and on top of that, I might not be able to put on relaxing music. I only have one alarm clock and that is usually not within visual range. I mostly use my cellphone and computer, which is also used for studying. So it is kind of hard to hide my clock. Actually, no, it's quite easy, but then it'd be harder to keep an eye on the performance of the computer. And yes, I am a diaper lover, but the idea was that it was a reminder for me that I have to study. Like I said, I normally don't wear 24/7, heck, I don't even wear more than a few per week. Maybe only just a handful or two handfuls a month. So yeah, I don't think it's going to be too enjoyable for me. I think it's actually going to be quite a chore making myself putting on a new diaper each time. Which is why I decided on this method (next to the fact that I'm always very aware of wearing a diaper). Sure, wearing a diaper can be very enjoyable, but there are far greater distractions, afterall, I'm only wearing the diaper, just like I'm wearing clothes. Of course, it will be used what it is intended for, which might be slightly bigger distraction. On the other hand, I've sat in a messy nappy for several hours once because I was busy with something. So if I can really get into my studying, it probably won't be a distraction at all, and if I can't, I'll just have to suck it up and wait until I'm done to change it. I'm not particularly fond of messy nappies, by the way, but I will have to use the diaper for that as well, so best to consider the implications beforehand. I think having a reward ready for when you're done is too distracting, at least it is for me, I'd constantly be thinking about it. I get distracted quite easily. Anyway, those are my thought about it, let me know what you think in return.

Belgium. And just in case my country falls apart between me posting it and any random person reading it: I live in Flanders.

Oh. Wouldn't that be “creative writing

Psychology sounds very interesting, I would have studied that, were it not that I don't want a job in that field. I'm quite a case on my own, I don't need to deal with others with problems too much. I don't mind helping others though, but if you do it day in, day out, it'll get to you in a different way. Teaching is also very interesting, maybe I'm going to do that too, but I can choose it as part of my Master's Degree, as far as I understand it. Literature would be disaster for me though, I never was good at memorising, so I'd definitely have trouble there. Also, thanks for wanting to check in on me. My diapered studying should begin the eleventh, though don't shoot me if it ends up being the twelfth. Might need the eleventh to fix computer problems after moving back to my room at uni.

Well, I'll just call you that from now on then :-) Although I think everyone likes to be called something loving or nice. Ok, maybe not everyone, but a lot of people do, and not just adult babies. Such things always make you feel special, and feeling special is always nice. Thank you, sweetie Well, since you are a precious little girl and you're going to that school, it has to be little girl school, doesn't it? That was my initial thought about it, actually :-). You should do what makes you happy. Society puts too much pressure on us already anyway. As for studying, I don't know, it's a different country afterall, it's hard to say how difficult your curriculum might be. Of course, it also depends a lot on what you want to study. But see to getting through your senior year first and I'm sure your mommy will help you with making further choices :-)

Yes. But you only go to little girl's school, sweetie. At least I think you do. It's quite a lot different when you're at uni. We don't have that many classes and we need to do most things by ourselves. Eight hours a day is like a working day for any normal person. Also, when I say eight hours a day, that does include going to lectures and the like during semesters. Anyway, I don't actually study eight hours, that is just the target amount of time to spend on my education. Forty hours a week actually, perhaps a bit more, like 45 or 50. Anyway, I have four thousand or so pages of text to go through while studying, so I definitely need that time. Hmm, maybe I'll be checking in with Daily Diapers a lot during that period so you people can keep an eye on me. Well, figuratively speaking of course.

Oh ok. It's just because you said a diaper change for every half an hour of studying. That would give me (for a standard 8 hour working day) 16 diaper changes. So yeah, that was quite a lot. Yeah, three or four a day gives a lot a month. So it's going to be an expensive month, but if it works, it's more than worth it. How many do you normally wear a day? Also, feel free to keep the ideas coming. Any idea might be or lead to something useful.

I have no idea how to do that, sorry -.-' But what I did want to say was: Congratulations on the three month anniversary ! *kisses and hugs*

Not a bad idea, Baby Sophie, were it not for the fact that I rarely, if ever, go out. Needless to say that if I never go out, I won't be going when I need to study either. I just need to make myself study, something that reminds me of having to study should work well enough. I also don't plan on going through a massive amount of diapers, three or four a day should be more than sufficient, depending on how much I drink, and possibly what the weather is like. But not being able to change if I didn't study enough might not be a bad idea. Although it could be distracting though, and that's not a good idea. I'll have to test it out. Being punished would be good, but doing it myself might be a problem. It's unfortunate I don't have someone to do it for me.

Well, I don't post too many things around here, but I had an idea, and I know how some of you like reading this kind of stuff, so I'm putting it up. Anyway, I'll sketch the situation first. I'm in my second year at university. Actually, it's my third year there, I just didn't pass the first year, the curriculum I had chosen was too hard, so I switched to something similar, but easier. Anyway, barely passed my first year, and now in my second, I failed a bunch of subject in my first round. I'm not a very good student, in high school I always got by on pure brain power, I could reason myself through almost any exam with whatever I remember from class. It wasn't particularly hard, especially not in my science classes, since that's where reasoning is at its strongest. So, I never received a challenge in high school, never needed to study properly, and now I cannot, resulting in having to do over six subjects during the summer. We're very lucky to be getting the chance to do over the exams we failed. I know I can do those exams: I am smart enough, they're not very hard. But I need to study for them ! Let's shift topics here for a moment. I'm a diaper lover, not an adult baby, though I do have my infantilistic sides (I like childish movies, sleep with my Eeyore plushie, ...). Now I'm not the most insane diaper lover out there either, I normally don't wear very often and when I do, I usually don't put on a new nappy when the other goes off. Let alone that I would wear twentyfour seven. So, here comes the point of the post, I had the idea that, during my third exam period (there's one per semester, and a third, for retries, during the summer) I would have to wear diapers, regardless of wants and needs, all the time. In other words: toilets would be off limits. It would be a sort of reminder or punishment, because I need to study. What do you think of the idea? Or perhaps you have a better one?

So, this is more of a general wondering than a topic of debate. For most of us, wetting our diapers the first time was not easy. We had to get used to the idea because we have always been trained to go in the bathroom. Well, we overcame that, and learned to wet our diapers. But, can you pee anywhere, anytime, at your command? Have you really overcome your shy bladder, or have you just learned that a diaper is a bathroom? I personally can't. Wetting my pants or peeing with others in the room is still very difficult for me, although I'm really trying to overcome that problem.

I have to disagree. At least in part. Being a Diaper Lover or an Adult Baby is not just a kink for everyone, for some it's a lifestyle choice. Having to hide part of your life, of who you are for your parents can breed guilt and shame. And that is not something you may want to deal with. Furthermore, it is better telling them straightforward than them finding out sometime, at least in some cases. A lot really depends on what kind of parents you have. While I do not recommend running off to your parents and telling them -- I haven't told them either, but then again, it is nor a kink, nor a lifestyle for me --, it is ridiculous to dismiss this for any and all people who come in here. Not everyone is the same and many of these cases should be seen in their own daylight, even if the advice is ‘don't do it’ ninety-five percent of the time.

That actually won't happen with me. No-one has access to my computer and even if they do manage to get access because my computer is always on, they can do nothing unless they can work AND xmonad AND a bash-terminal. And even if my browser is up, they can't check anything on that either unless they know how to use vimperator. They can look at my open tabs obviously, but I never leave DailyDiapers or other nappy-related sites open. Those that I know that do know how to work those things are generally respectful enough not to nose around on another person's computer. As it should be ! I've never been caught, although at one time someone looked up my old nickname on google and dailydiapers was on the first page. She asked what the site was, but I told her not to ask and she dropped it. I don't think she ever clicked on the link so, yeah, that's all good.

Rickrolling is just a lame rip-off of the Goatse pic. I'd prefer the view of someone's distended anus above Rick Astley anytime though. I did fall for it. So congratulations on your success.

Now that I know just how expensive your medical care is, I can see why people replied so fiercely. My apoligies to everyone.

Wow, that IS a lot of money... For just health insurance. I never had any idea that it's that insanely high in the US. As for insurance companies trying not to pay you, that's the major ailment of our time, everyone just wants profits and more profits. Oh, and btw, I already said twice it was wrong for me to think about fraud, you can't change my mind if I already changed my mind about it. You should listen to your own advice from time to time and pay attention. Many thanks for the info though.

Dear jenniebear... I never litterally said I deserve it... I said all honest people deserve it, and I assume it is you. Also, it is not because they deserve it, that they will get it, I just wish they did once in a while. As for the selfishness, one could've just said it would increase (everyone's) medical insurance again, but no, they make it about 'their' medical insurance, which makes it selfish in my opinion (which isn't necessarily bad, mind you). But while they want good things for themselves, they are outraged when someone is trying to have it better for himself too. While it was the wrong way, it's only natural that you try to improve your situation for yourself. And if the system is screwing people over, they should rise up, but they have all become too afraid and too pampered (pardon the pun) to do anything like this anymore. A country can never sustain its government when its people do not follow. Also, I didn't know health-insurance was THAT high in the US... How much do you pay for that, if I may ask?

Wow, people are really friendly here. I never said it was the right thing to do... it was purely something that came forth out of frustration. There's so many things wrong that one can hardly blame another for trying to screw the system, to be honest, all honest people deserve something back once in a while, instead we only get screwed over by other, and our governments often enough too. I already wanted to say it was stupid of me to suggest such a thing the first time I replied... but I wanted to see some more people's responses first. A few really could've replied nicer than they did, a pity really. Making a person see the light doesn't require anger, in fact, that could well result in the opposite. Also, me not having to do it because it would negatively affect you, comes over as selfish, there are better reasons for me not doing it, and there are better ways for you to even word what you said. There, that's my two cents... think about it, or ignore it, as you wish. Lastly, thanks to those few who replied in a more soothing fashion.

I don't like fraud either, but like I said before, I pay much much more for nappies than you Americans do, and people in the UK pay even more. I don't even think you people realise how much we pay around here. Two times as much is simply insane. Also, those in the US cannot claim their taxes will go up because of me. I don't even live over there, there are other countries in the world you know. And well, we have one of the best social care systems in the world, and many people abuse it. Our tax rate is even higher than yours, but the things that are possible in this country are sometimes simply insane. Heck, we didn't even have a government for the last half year, until a week or so ago, and you know how much those guys got payed while there was no government? Do you still think it's weird my morality is waning? I know it's not right, but seeing what people get away makes it even more frustrating.

I'm at Uni so I can have a well paying job when I complete my studies. While that is true. Buying diapers in the US is 3 times cheaper than over here, but if I want to transport them, I get to the same price or more. That's what really bothers me. I don't see why our diapers have to be three times as expensive, especially for the ones produced in Europe. I'd still like to wet the bed once, always curious for new experiences.

Tea... I've been drinking tea since I can remember. I need tea every morning like others need coffee.

↑ Yes once, for a speaking exercise in school. We had to talk about our favorite music, and I walked in completely black and with spikes and all that. It was a lot of fun ^^. ↓ Have you ever accidentally revealed your dirty diapers to someone ? ( always make sure you're able to remove the bag from the trashcan without it spewing out nappies :-P )

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