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There's some new information that shows masturbation caused climax is bad for overall productivity and drive. I'm not sure if it's both males and females. But definitely for at least males. So your body can tell tell the difference between having sex and doing it yourself. There was a campaign call "NOBNOM" which stood for no booze, no masturbation. It was a 30 day challenge to go with out either and see for yourself if it made a productivity and drive difference in your life. I think the theory was that about once every 30 days is the frequency in which will give you great performance but not cause lingering side affects. Please consider reading : Staying Focused In A Hyper World, by John Gray. And watching this interview of that author. http://youtu.be/lTiXK2yJ6eQ?list=PLSGkNZ3lZbGvOE35BXc0hBUfhHuRhP51y

I've sent out a casual message to a couple of people now. I pushed myself out of my comfort zone to meet someone and didn't get a response.

I just sent Little Caroline and "Diaper Lover NH" a PM about possibly meeting up. I've never met anybody that's a AB or DL in person and I'm thinking about trying it for the first time.

I actually have an idea that I think a lot of people might like. I'm going to guess that most AB/DLs prefer disposables yet cloth is cheaper. So take a cloth diaper, and for the plastic pants, make the plastic pants look like disposable plastic diaper. You can even get that huge bulk. It would be a huge cost saver but still lets you have that disposable feel.

hey blues clues, id consider meeting up sometime

I just noticed that I've been a dailydiapers member for a long time. I idled for awhile even before joining. I didn't notice it was half a year after you even startedwith the forums at least . Strange how I think I've posted more on these boards over the last few months than I ever have.

Hi again, Jay! As for the DD thing. DD is the best site I've found on the net for community. I haven't checked my email but you say he "asked for money" I don't see the harm in asking. I haven't gotten any emails about it, but I don't see that DailyDi is trying to make a business here. (Doesn't he run another photo site anyways??) Asking for money to be verified doesn't come across to me as a pay service for the site. You could simply choose not to. Basically all I'm saying is that it sucks you were offended. I don't think that was ever an intention from DailyDi. Anyways. How is it possible that a Boston ABDL community has so strongly developed and I never knew about it? I've done my share of searching over the years. Every once and awhile I would see if anybody was around the area. I actually felt like nobody was around here. I feel so left out. Hopefully we can hang out sometime. :-) cya later.

Lets say I was wasn't working and just happened to see her while I was shopping. I would have politely told her "Mam, your garmet is showing" and based on her reaction would decide how I continue. If she acted very embarassed and not happy about it I would have followed with "It's alright I don't think any one would notice who wasn't familiar with them already." I could see her response being one of these though shrugging it off going "oh I don't care! Its just a peice of clothing I have to wear and so what to anybody who is offended by seeing it" (lol... fantasy come true response:) she laughs and remarks about how she knows about it and doesn't care. But the key here would be that she would use the term diaper and or other hints. In theory she could even say about the woman with her "She's going to change me when we get home" or anything. If I got those kind of comments I would probably bring up "Did you know that there are a community of people who choose to enjoy their diapered life instead of treating it like a hassel?" then based on her reaction to this, hopefully I could continue to say something like "Oh I post on this website, dailydiapers.com! You should join! It would be nice to have someone local to chat with!" I really think that if I wasn't working and I could have approached her (like not with my family or something) I could have both recruited another AB, DL, or incontinent person with an open mind as well as made a friend. Sadly I was in no position to confront her and probably would have either lost my job or become known as the "weirdo" at work. :-\ I think the most important thing here is to not be too blunt. Slowly earn your way into the topic. If you were just say "Hey are you into the diaper fetish scene?" would not only remove any chance of connecting, but probably get you kicked out of a store or worse.

Today I saw a woman who was maybe in her 30s today. She was not only wearing a pullup but she wore her "exercise pants" (dont know what else to call them) low. Her entire diaper top was exposed and it looked very intentional. It looked like she was intentionally "low riding" because she just felt like it. You could also make out her front and back area had padding. She was actually very sexy. I mean people pay for pictures of this sort of thing. It really was quite beautiful because she pulled it off to the point that any normal people wouldn't even notice the diaper. It was just her "look" and thats "how she rolls" if you will. If you noticed so what? Now the saddest part. I was working and for 3/4ths of the time she was around I couldn't see her. I couldn't approach her to strike up a conversation (politely) because I can't really leave my area and I was with another co worker who also wouldn't leave. If I had the chance though I'm not even sure if I would have taken it. The reason is its kinda a perv thing to strike up a conversation with someone (all though it looked like she just didn't care) and also the shock of it. I mean I never expected to see someone so casual like that. I guess I just the thought of what could have been. But the realist in me says that while this person was really slack in how she shows it off, she probably isn't even aware of the DL/AB scene. Oh well... But it was really cool to see someone who just didn't let it stop her from wearing what she wanted, either to be sexy or to just be comfortable. That takes courage.

What are your rights when you see a therapist? If you bring up suicide, how do your rights change? What are they required to do?

southern new hampshire. not sure how I feel about meeting up with people. feel free to PM me if you want.

It dawned on me a few weeks ago that I really hate my "close" friends. I hang out with them because it's almost expected of me. I'm not treated well or with respect. The sad part is that I can't get away from them. If I try to severe the tie, things just will get dramatic and I will be the one at fault because of how stubborn they are. I can't be honest with them. I certianly don't share this "DL" thing with them, but I don't even share normal things with them. I REALLY want to move away and just wipe the slate clean but that's impossible for reasons I won't get into. Sorry, I needed to vent. I've never told this to anyone, ever.

I think that this is larger than just a fetish. For some people it is, but for others the word fetish doesn't apply. My main argument is that for many people, the AB/DL lifestyle does not involve sex. While you could interview people who consider it to be their fetish, I think that only viewing them would miss the bigger picture of the ABDL world.

I agree that he should not have asked that but I think it was a good move to not be angry with him. After all he has been (I assume so anyways) professional for all of this time. You shouldn't be to upset because having a constant postman is a good thing. You can trust that this anonymous person will know what to do with your delivered goods. I'm not really trying to make a point here, just noting that your response was good. You haven't made it akward either way by dismissing him or letting him know too much.

The Walgreens band was actually pretty good when I tried them recently. Cheap too.