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The way diapers make me feel, I could easily see this being a concern for any partner of a diaper lover. And trying to squelch your desire for them is similar to ignore or change ones sexuality, in a way. It's a tough situation.

I was 5 when I first tried them after being potty trained. I didn't know how to put it on exactly but my mom giggled and helped me with the tapes. I was addicted. When I was 7 I used to pull plastic bags up between my legs to feel the snugness & crinkles. My mom caught me once and told me to NEVER do that again. Of course, I still did. Occasional diaper finds in the apartment building's community basement were like discovering gold! Few & far between... Any time I saw diapers in a kids closet or nursery, I was envious and excited. I pooped outside on a dare when I was 7. I guess I didn't do a good job cleaning because my dad was saying to my mom they might have to put me back in diapers. The shame & excitement at those words were so strong. Shame won & I never pooped outside again. My friend was about 8 and used a wheelchair for a disability. I used to peek up her shots and stare at her diaper with envy. At around 12 I started wearing my mom's maxi-pads. Masturbation in pads was mind blowing. At 16 I got the courage to buy Pampers, but was discouraged at how they wouldn't fit. I knew nothing of adult diapers. I am so happy for younger people today that can get on the internet & get support from others. I wish I had this back then!

The arousal I get in them never gets old!

I'm definitely a DL first & foremost, so I'm posting this in here where I relate the best. I do like to dress as a sissy at times, but not much into the AB world. I do however love being changed by someone else, as I'm sure most here would like that too! For me, I have strong fantasies of being cared for in several settings. I like the idea of my girlfriend changing me in the morning, after work, and before bed. Of course I'd repay her by satisfying her needs as well I also have a fantasy of being in a nursing environment where I would be lovingly cared for several times a day. All of these fantasies are of me as more of an adult rather than a child. I know in real life a nursing home staff wouldn't be so "loving" as I fantasize, gently powdering my most sensitive areas and rubbing the front of my diapers covering my arousal, but the idea of me being in a nursing home is some weird kink in me! Whenever I drive by an assisted living or nursing facility I think of this. I guess whether we are DLs, ABs, or whatever in between, most of us just like to be cared for, no?

I love gettin off in my diaper. Oh ya, I'm incontinent too.

Oh that's a good idea!

Thanks Belinda Sue, but I was hoping to find a sissy clothing line that caters specifically to sissy wearers!

Hi Everyone I did a search on the term "sissy dress" and several options came up. Does anyone have an idea of who makes good clothes? Thanks!

When I look down between my legs and see the bulk of my diaper under my shorts, I feel VERY sexy! I'm sure others looking may not think so as much lol!

Hi everyone, It's been a while since I've been on, this can also serve as a reintroduction I guess. I just got home from a trip to PA with a good buddy. I am incontinent due to a spinal cord injury I had back when I turned 19, and need a wheelchair. Oddly, I've been a DL since I was 5. I pretty much wear 24/7 now, except when I travel for a couple days. I used to be ashamed of wearing diapers after my injury even though no one knew I actually desired to be in them. But then I realized that the one positive benefit of being disabled in a wheelchair is that it makes wearing diapers socially acceptable, if not expected. On weekend trips I usually use condom catheters and drainage bags, which I hate! I decided to wear diapers this time, and planned to bring the other supplies in case I changed my mind once there. Well, as I was zipping up my carry bag, I decided to leave the backup supplies behind and commit myself to diapers all weekend! I'm sooo glad I did!! My friend is really understanding and didn't look at me funny, so that was cool. It was an awesome few days. One thing I noticed is how much space diapers take when packing for a trip! I planned for 3 nights, so I took 12 diapers and 12 Tranquility booster contour pads. I also brought 8 chux in case I leaked I didn't want to wet their bed. But regarding suitcase space? Wow, I can't imagine going for a week!

AWESOME, hope it goes well! Just be sure to give her regular sex too so she doesn't get all freaked out.

I LOVE maxi-pads This is how I set mine up!

You shouldn't get flamed talking about poop in the poop forum, and no one should get flamed talking about masturbation in the diaper lovers forum. One thing that makes this fetish so complex is that there are soooo many variations within it. And in the diaper lovers forum, you're bound to have a higher percentage of those, like myself, who like to use diapers for masturbation. Some like them wet, others prefer them messy or both before they have an orgasm, and I feel like I'm unusual in that I get most aroused when it is fluffy and dry rubbing up against me. Talking about masturbatory experiences in diapers is great cause when others share it eases the guilt for many, and it's also exciting to hear others experiences! Yes, people look at this fetish in a harsh way, but the perception that "Masterbating in a baby diaper is so close to being called a sexual predator, you might as well become one..." is just that, a perception. Thankfully it is an incorrect perception!

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I have an idea! Take a giant trash bag with the draw string built in and cut two holes on the bottom. Try to find those clear see through bags. STick your legs through the holes and pull it up half way. Fill the bag 3/4 way up with cotton balls, and pull the bag up past your nipples. Hell, why not just pull it all the way past your freakin head! TIE THE BAG SHUT!!! Now, start chowing on laxatives and drinking mass quantities of water - let loose!!!!!!!! RECORD the whole thing on video as you walk around the neighborhood everyday for a WEEK, and then post the mess online! ok, maybe you shouldn't do that...

I like the idea of counseling. But to throw out a thought in the meantime, women that I've dated seem understanding about diapers incontinence . The fact that they deal with a form of incontinence once a month might make them more inclined towards empathy here. It sucks how the method of potty training we experience as children instills such shame in those of us who become incontinent later on in life.

A lot of diapers are stiff and compressed out of the packaging. A good way to make any diaper more fluffy is to roll it up into a ball a few times. This gets air in the padding, makes it more bulky!

Ozzy, how big is that change table?

There's something about stacked diapers that remind me of the excitement of being a kid and seeing a nursery, if that makes sense?

I know this was a topic over a year ago in another forum, but why not have one here? Pictured in mine: Upper left - old Attends Upper middle - First Quality, but not really Upper right - maxi-pads Left - Secure X-Plus Middle - a nursing home diaper that a buddy hooks me up with. Surprisingly they are great! Will post a review on those soon. Right - leg bags for when diapers aren't convenient. Hope others share!

I second the Secure X, softer than their X-Plus.

I thought I was the only one who enjoyed maxi-pads Like a lot of people, I stumbled across some in the closet when I was 5. From that point onward, I was trying to use makeshift diapers over the years. Then I used mom's pads when I was around 11 or 12, and discovered orgasms too A few years later I ended up in a wheelchair from an accident in my late teens, and for a while I thought I'd never had another orgasm. At first my doctors managed my incontinence with catheters. "Luckily", I had a bad irritation from them, so the intention was to use diapers until it healed. When I was put in my wheelchair after getting dressed, I realized from the way the diaper felt while pushing myself that I would still be able to have orgasms. That's one advantage as a disabled diaper lover, if my diaper is showing while I'm in shorts, it is "socially acceptable".

Next time you're spooning her from behind, fake a peaceful snore, then piss all over her back! After she calms down after the 5th time, tell her you need diapers. No NO NO, abort this idea! BAD IDEA! OK sorry, I'm just being goofey. But it sounds like you have some good advice from the other posts above. Good luck!

Imagine driving by and seeing a guy trying to walk a straight line in nothing but a diaper! lol... Anyway, sounds like you and your wife had a great time