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I still hope my "princess" will help me one day! [Pays gold coins to the "Princess Help Coin Deposit Box".] With such royalty behind her, nothing's impossible!!! Well, I also found out something about Sarah people may have missed. Mix the letters and you get "a rash". Hum... has somebody been getting changed in time? Hehehe! Sincerely, Palm Tropyx!

Welcome to the site. Sincerely, Palm Tropyx!

First off, congratulations. Finding a special someone is a wonder thing. Still looking am I. Secondly, if you need any help, I am sure many of us will help. I, personally, would be able to correspond with him if you need support. Thirdly, either way, focus on your relationship. In time you will find this to be the most important factor for both of your happinesses. Sincerely, Palm Tropyx!

So Sarah knows some Hebrew. Very neat! "Princess" yes. Smiles, Palm Tropyx!

I agree fully with SarahAB and would add any assistance I would provide would be that of a supportive role in the respectful and socially responsible methods of supporting our community. Smiles, Palm Tropyx!

In understanding acceptance we must first acknowledge two true facts of its pursuit. Fact one: while the outward intentions are examples of tolerance and compassion, the inward motivation is selfishness. Fact two: If not exercised with a certain level of social finess / diplomacy, the motivation can supercede the message and its methods of achievement. Distrust can spawn from many events. As most people fear what they do not understand, too heavily a yearning and vieing for acceptance will only cast shadows blinding people from the intent exposing doubts and critisism of the unknown motivations and values. Perception is reality to most people. It takes a special someone to see past the layers of shallow understandings misunderstood by sustained social comforts. Most cannot penetrate these layers and accept what appears real. Can you see beyond the norm and be your own person, or are your comfort zones and preconceptions holding you to your happy place? This is the question often answered to a position not in favour with drastic approaches, and, truthfully, I can appreciate this social tendancy. I know if an obnoxious, overly decorated clown jumped out unexpectantly in front of me, I would need a change, and I would probably hit him. (Scary...) I am all for helping you in your plight to help bring a more favourable light of acceptance upon our community but will not be tearing down the doors of the homes of those I wish to positively influence. You can put me on your list. Sincerely, Palm Tropyx!

Welcome to the site, Susan! May you find what you seek wherever you seek it. Smiles, Palm Tropyx!

Yes, as previously stated, welcome to both of you! Smiles, Palm Tropyx!

Such anger begets an insumountable level of suffering. I wonder the motivations and intentions driving RockRat and his bombardment of destructive suppositions to Adrian. Rockrat, are you hurt about the money? Do you want to be "right"? (Do you not realize there are other factors you may not be grasping here?) Do you have a fascination over Adrian, and your assertions are a way to enforce some sort of control over her? Are you frustrated you can't have her? (A feeling of loss from the lack of new stimulous on the website about her?) If it is $30 bucks you want for past expectations unfulfilled, I am sure we can all come up with enough to pay you back. If you are genuine about principle, then you must also be equally as diligent on understanding the whole situation without putting up walls or letting your ego get in the way. Put away the daggers, and let the facts (evidence) be the guide. Do not approach any situation questioning motives. Hold back the urge to be a prosecuting lawyer. Rather work towards discovering the truth. Once the scenario is painted as fully as possible with all that is discovered, you can go forward with a "let's fix this" to remedy a situation without excessive malice or irrationality. Everyone, this way, will understand and progress in a more positive way with far less drama and resistance. Truth will out! Smiles, Palm Tropyx!

The illusion of control, so best demonstrated in a dom/sub role play, has been understood for a very long time. It kind of reminds me of social politics. The relationship between the governing and the governed. France seems to get it right, and even England's relationship holds up under scrutany. Canada is confused but going about things ok. Australia's climate is about mutual understanding. Smiles, Palm Tropyx!

Well, Wendy, as it turns out, has led such a tradgic life. Up here a few years ago, amongst the igloos in Canada, Wendy got swept off here feet by Tim Horton, donut baker, who then after years of giving her the shaft, ditched her next to the trash bins of big box stores like Wal-Mart, or gas stations with terribly high prices. She did toughen up but not before having to borrow from Daddy Dave's estate in the US to pay off her debts. Now, she is reduced to making ends-meet selling value burgers for $1.49/$.99, and convincing the world the only marks on her face are just freckles. Smiles, Palm Tropyx!

Burger King cannot be sued. You see, in the hiarchy of fast food joints around the world, you must always start from the bottom up. The King is king, and Dairy Queen is his wife. Clearly the Jack, who vacates a box, is is third in line, but the jester, Ronald McDonald, is always first in line at the judicial hearings. Oh course, we must always watch out for the militia of Coronel Sanders! He always mobilizes when the great Taco Bell sounds off! Smiles, Palm Tropyx!

Wow, duckie! Nice to hear from you so quickly. DS, you say? This abbreviation escapes me. Where have I been. Well, since last time, I still have my house, but now lack a partner. 7 years have gone by and a lifetime of dreams and goals now put on hold or destroyed. Sadly, what we had was magical but unfortunately, through no fault of anyone, seems to have lost its value to my partner. Not wanting kids, and wanting to live the rest of my life taking trips abroad (annually, right now), and sharing wonderful experiences with someone to whatever end may come. But hey, enough about me. Seems everyone else is doing well! Good to hear it! Smiles, Palm Tropyx!

Jenny Bear (JennyKuma as I would call her) was one of the more pleasant people to deal with. She was an active member on DPF prior to its dismantlement. Every conversation is without petty issue, and her lifestyle seems free and ready to enjoy life as it can be rather than dwelling on who thinks who is doing what with whom and and how it may affect the guy next door or his brother's best friend... (ugh!) Yup, one of many happy people! There are so many though... Where, oh where? Smiles, Palm Tropyx!

Somehow, I wonder what truly makes you tick, Adrianne? Strong and determined do you appear but Burger King is not the happy-go-lucky burger guru either. He is a puppet of his own doing, ever a slave of his desire to poison everyone with nasty colesterol-laced food. Where is his wife? Died of a heart attack at the ripe old age of 42! And what is with the somewhat creepy disposition on his emotionless character face. "Eat my burger... be my subject... Have another......" On a serious note, do I detect a sense of sorrow or sadness in you? You know when winter is coming when a fall breeze stings the tips of your ears. Are my ears a bit cold? Well, anyhow, it is not realy my place to pry. I hope you are doing well, and that your burdens are not too much to bear. I know dispair. Sincerely, PalmTropyx!

In the manual of life, there should be a small disclaimer that reads, "This book applies best to people who can see beyond the social norm. Those who wish not to struggle may find the contents to hard too understand or bear. Prescribed reading for all; truly understood by the very few. Life goes beyond the covers of this novella." Life is not black and white. In most situations, the course to any outcome usually has no one "right" or "wrong" answer. To be more relative, there is more than one way to eat a mango. Unpeeled, the mango can be bitter. Peeled, and you may find your hands drenched in sticky sweet juices. Too big a bite, and you could chip a tooth on the pit embedded inside. Cutting the pit out can be a challenge, and you could potentially cut yourself. Cooked or uncooked; salted or blended in a tangy margarita -- the choices are a varied as they come. And all choices come with varied degrees of difficulty, pleasure, inconvenience, cost of time, nutrition, happiness, and, yes, sweet sticky juice! I could burden you with the possibility of related distant memories extracted from smells, colour, taste, and the overall activity of preparing and consuming a mango but I believe you all to understand the power of recollection. The point is, however you chose to deal with the mango, there is no real wrong way to consume it. Life is about variation, and no one has the right to enforce a "right way only" singular method of handling a mango. If life was all about single processes in constantly repeated, we would all die of boredom and gloom. God did not put thousands of varieties of Orchids on this planet if the intent was not to show "We should all love wonderous variety. It is what allows all things to adapt, and work in ever changing times." Those who live in a black and white world fail to give themselves the opportunities to learn new things, develop a more worldly sense of culture and methodology, and nurture their spirits/souls from such varied abundance and experience. It is those whom I truly feel empathy. What good is a mind if so closed are the doors of tolerance and understanding. Different does not equal evil/bad. Honesty is a very good trait to possess. But like all traits, can be to a fault. Try being overly honest at a border crossing, and you may be perceived as someone trying to hide something. Isn't it funny how something so good can also be deciphered as something bad or suspicious? Life is truly not black and white as various perceptions collide and are not always in colour. Being honest with your wife was your decision to do a "right thing". For the most part, it shows courage and respect for your love one. Hiding such a secret would eventually eat away at your sanity, and betray your credibility. Lesson in life #503 (or was it 504?): The very people who would demand a strong standard of trust and honesty in those around them are sometimes the very people who cannot handle the results. I am sure we have all been there. Once in my life, someone, being honest to my expectations, told me about his use of drugs. Instead of absorbing the information, sorting it out, and responding understandingly, I reacted and snapped. I was quite young then, and failed to realize at that moment the negative, alienating impact I had on my friend. It is up to her to see the good in your actions, and find reason to work it out or put an end to her involvement. While it would be nice, and somewhat expected, you provide support and comfort in overcoming her issues, ultimately she must come to her own conclusions. Pirates of old used to decree: "What a person can do; what a person can't do." Although very basic, the overture is quite accurate. Can she find a way to accept a unique perspective in life, or can she not? Would she rather you smoke dope every day or do crack on the streets to cope with your stresses? Why are you stressed? (Remember, she is confused of your "why's" of your diaper wearing.) Is your love sincere with her, and is she to bear this "difference" on her own? Are you willing to compromise in this situation, or help in other ways? You may be different, but no less the man than you have already been for her. Unique but not evil. Simply, a good man with a "device" of no harm or malice to anyone. God loves wondrous variety. Frogs will change sex in environments which lack the numbers of the opposite sex. Thousands of species of insects are constantly evolving. Hundreds of unique cultures co-habitate to which there are not enough sheets of paper to write a complete anthropology. From rainbows to tornados, all things have a purpose. How we perceive them are varied and unique. It is this which brings rise to a phenomenon discovered long ago. Although we are all of many minds and infinite thoughts, if left to find a definitive answer to a problem, we will eventually come to the singular correct resolve. Step back a bit and realize also as a whole are we not able to stray too far from singular methods in life. Unfortunately as society meanders its way along, the social norm is generally imposed but not subject to the same "good" or "bad" as it implies. Society used to view scantly clad folk as "evil". Now, it is sold on every street corner. Smoking was "good" and now is "bad". Supporting a government was "good" and now seen as "cautiously and questionable". Today, some still believe in having a plethora of children to validate their existence. Others see it as one of the cornerstones of an overgrown and ever progressing level of poverty around the world. There is no real "wrong or right" answer -- tons of variety however, and this is what allows change and adaptability going forward. Your life is one variety I truly hope your wife will be able to one day accept (and maybe even appreciate). For some of us, we simply move on, and keep going. Never abandon the concept, you can overcome. We were not given the minds to be mindless. Smiles, Palm Tropyx!

As it appears to have been missed in the collision of posts here, I present a querry: What grade of polythene (or polyethylene/polypropylene) film are you using for your product at the moment? If using polyethylenes, is it low or high-density? Has it changed in the last few weeks? What is the film's converting method (extrusion, etc...)? Is the current material's shelf life reaching the upper envelop at the time of production causing a degredation of quality discovered upon consumption? How is the film stored? Were any fragrances or fragrancing masking compounds incorporated into the original pellets used to make the film? These may reduce shelf life or increase/decrease film rigidity. Is polyolefin, corn, or hydrogen compounds being used for biodegradability? Is proper thickness being maintained? (Consistancy measuring tools such as a Model CH-2 Infracal Filtometer come in good use here.) Also, could you increase the thickness/bulkiness by say 15% to 20% - well worth paying for... (Perhaps as an Signature/Thick Series option.) Smiles, Palm Tropyx!

Hi and welcome! As ordinary as you want to be, I am sure you are special in your own little way. And this concludes the debunking of "ordinary". Hehe! Welcome! Palm Tropyx!

Sarah, Would be glad to jump in on this one. Yet, somehow, late be my support on this idea. I propose and early list sign up (say July) where good folks like you can post your name and e-mail (here on this wesite as an example) and then by a cut-off date, have everyone on this list sent the particulars and confirmation pre-requisits. I'll be on that list. Smiles, Palm Tropyx!

Yes, Happy Holidays to all! For those whom have the graces of a charished companion, loving family, good friends, delicious food, and, of course, uphoric spirits, may you find the true values of your lives and hold dear to your soul all that you have. For those whom feel alone, or have had (or are experiencing) loss, may you find some comfort in knowing you have not been denied your future, and that your will overcome. To you, our blessings and warm thoughts. May you find a warm lit candle in the dark room you sit. For those whom feel cold, a hug. And for those who feel too hot, a tip: step away from the fireplace... For those whom need this winter, may the meager donations we've made trickle to you in some way. Together we can all help eachother. For those whom have lots, give a few cookies to random people on the street -- and one to your next door neighbour. For those whom have snow, make a snowman. For those whom don't, make a sandman. And for those whom are everyone, we love you all, and wish you the best of the season and years to come. Love you all, Palm Tropyx!

This may be a bit taken with a bit of cheek but I think you know the best diaper is the one you feel comfortable in. Honestly, wear what you want to wear if your peers know of your diaper wearing. If not, then consider the cloth backed diapers (yuck) as the optimal alternative. Also, take a step back on the absorbancy line (ie: 4 instead of 5, or ultra instead of super, etc) as the padding will be a bit less noticable. Smiles, Palm Tropyx!

A few wonderful thoughts on this subject! Nice to read but I do have one question for the "baby's/diaper wearers" out there (including myself who finds myself on both sides baby and parent): How often do you wear? One hour a day? 24/7 or as much as you can? And based on the time, who changes you? Yourself, or your "parent"/friend? The underlying basis to this question comes down to an implication being baby is a sexual exercise. In that, does this mean any form of wearing a diaper is classed the same or different? Being the same could indicate, for those who wear more time (yeah) than not, or for long time periods, his/her need to edulge in the "sexual" aspect for lengthy durations would seem to be a sign of a sex-mania type personality...(?) Being different would mean the diapered is "taking" from the diaperer in the form of effort where no "sexual" intentions are evident, no? Is there a less sexual side to wanting to be in diapers or diaper someone (excluding incontinence), or do we bottle all diaper related lifestyles into one jar of "sexuality"? Are there different degrees to the sexuality relationship with diapering? (Again, I am just asking questions to find out where we all see the diapered/diaperer lifestyle.) Being on both sides of the change table myself, I have found enjoyment and some fulfillment from both "roles". I also find diapering and being diapered not so much "sexual" as it is "pleasurable" and comforting / nurturing. Maybe to some degree they are interconnected? Hum.... I think I will leave that up to Frued. But I can say I appear to give more as the diaperer than the diapered (which is fine to me) but do get to the option of being diapered, diapering, or both! A nice, happy comprimise! Love you all, Palm Tropyx!

Before I stir the pot a bit, I must ask... DiaperwearingTigger, your profile shows girl but you point out you are a very good boyfriend. Just confused, and a little clarity would help me. Nothing personal -- just trying to put a person to the name. Now, the pot. As I stir the soup of thoughts with my spoon of debate, I would like to toss in a spicy question of give and take, and the value of effort. Being honest, and I hope you will all be, I must admit taking requires much less effort than giving -- both emotionally and energetically. Giving, therefore, would require more energy and effort. Being a "parent" appears to be more about giving, right? Taking care of the baby, changing the diapers, etc... Sure, gratifaction and and admiration of your "baby" in diapers under your care will provide inpsiration and help feed any "devices" you may have, however it does require more effort on your part to maintain this "bliss". Being the "baby", having fun, messing/wetting diapers, being cuddled, getting baths, being loved is much less draining and provides an income of pleasant emotions from the "parent". I would like to use the analogy of the restaurant. Who here would honestly rather be the waiter/waitress over the hungry patron sitting down for a meal? I, for one, would rather be served than serving in this hypothetical scenario. For those of you keen to the occupation of a waiter/waitress, you would like serving but would you not be asking for money in return? Sure you would -- millions around the world do. This give and take relationship has a cost. For those of us "babies", what "costs" are we prepared to pay? Return the favour and "parent" in return, or? Who knows, maybe the give take relationships have no costs? I don't know enough about all the relationships to consider a more conclusive summation, if there is even one to be understood at all. And so, my question: If "parenting" requires more energy and effort than "being baby", would it be wrong to say the "parent" is more the giver, and the "baby" is more the taker? If so, then is equality merely a false phasad in an effort to justify and maintain a give/take relationship, or is there more to this querry? Love you all! Smiles, Palm Tropyx.

The best diaper in the whole wide world is the one not yet made. The second best is one of Duckie's fine suggestions. The third is the one you are wearing because some big babys do go without . Smiles, Palm Tropyx!

There are many ways to cope with a situation, and you certainly have chosen a very positive approach! Keep up the good karma and self-motivation! Smiles, Palm Tropyx!