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I have started wearing the mega max… and have found the same issue as @rusty pins I use lotion to prevent rashes and have found after a few hours the diaper is not holding up. I guess if I just didn’t move it would be fine. I have tried just powder and have had rashes. While I like the sizing of this diaper I wish it had the tapes like a confidry, where it’s like 2 tapes in one. I’m not sure how these companies expect people to use their products for the time frame that is advertised when the diapers falls apart. If I don’t use lotion the diaper seems to stay together longer and I get rashes, or use lotion and roll the dice… it’s BS. I haven’t seen baby’s diapers do this… this issue needs to be sorted! This diaper fits so well on me.

So strange, I was talking to an friend and she told me about this. Then said “I guess if you had an accident you could just way its the wet jeans look.” FASHION IS WEIRD

I’d like to start off by thanking everyone who has shared in the past and is sharing about their journey with incontinence or wearing 24/7. It has really helped me over the last few weeks. A bit of back story, I’m 41, very active, into a mountain lifestyle, and have always had minor bowel issues all my life. So minor that underwear has sufficed to deal with anything that may have happened, later in life I found out I have IBS. That is not the reason I wear diapers, its mostly always been for fun, although, after the last few years it certainly has been more comfortable. After all it is a diaper, its designed for contain waste. However, as my need for protection is changing for various reasons, I’m realizing that as much as I use to be recreational and wear when I wanted, I need to wear to protect various things, wetting pants, pooping, fill in some embarrassing story that is resolved with wearing diapers. ... I was smoking the other day, had to poop, was holding, started coughing... lets say with each cough my diapers was a tiny less clean than before. I didn’t have a full on accident, but I was not trying to go and my body was like “oh yeah, Hey remember that one time you had to poop and you thought you could hold it and you pooped your pants on the way to the bathroom, do you think this is that time again?” Now while to some this probably sounds like a thrill, but as I’m writing this and thinking about that moment at different times in my life, while only a few, its not fun running off from everyone cause you’re no better than a 3 year old. While the need is increasing to cover my butt, I’ve recently have been made aware by a lifelong friend that knows that I wear mostly for fun, now she says I need them more than I admit (which is part of the reason for this post). I’m struggling to accept my condition, on one hand I’ve had a desire to wear since I can recall, maybe 3 or4, on the other I’ve had poopy underwear more times than I can recall (not full explosions, but more then skid marks), so logically... I should wear my diaper -sighs- I have mixed thoughts about this as I’ve notice over the past 4 years my urge to pee sky rocket. Up until this year I would usually try to hold it, as I live in a small town and bathrooms are with in 20 minutes, with COVID... that has changed, I haven’t used a public bathroom in a while, since I’m diapered usually, I just go, or try to hold it on the walk home, granted, I’ve pee’d in an alley during the day on a 20 minute walk more then I want to admit. Lately I’m seeing my continence becoming more more difficult to control and the need for diapers increasing. I have yet to see a doctor over my weeing problem, but I have realized over the last couple of days I need to go. Currently I’m aware of the signal to pee, I can hold through the first urge to go, the second time it is like someone is trying to squeeze it out of me and -sighs- I’m dribbling beyond my control and will soon stop it, the amount seems to be relegated by urge to pee. After about 5-10 minutes the 3rd urge is making me pee around a 1/4 cup (if I really need to go) or I’m certainly creating a wet spot. I never noticed this until I started practicing over the last couple of days at home. Every time I’ve experienced the same thing, the longer I hold, the more the urge increases until the damn is over ran and the flood happens. Regardless of reasons, which I’ll be having checked out, I still do not trust my body to be in all adult clothing with out any protection and part of me wants to stomp my feet and cry, I want to wear big boy pants... but I knew one day this might happen. So now I have to accept my current situation and wear all the time or run the risk of soiled clothing, which EVERYONE!!! Pointed out is far worse then a dirty diaper. However, I’m truly struggling with need of protection AND WANTING diapers too. Like part of my brain is saying, “wait no, no, no, before it was all fun and games, you’re a big boy, you got this.” My body is like “sorry what? I was releasing some urine that I have to get rid off.” My spirit is like “hey, why do you think you were a diaper lover, wouldn’t it make all this easier? Don’t you have prior knowledge of brands of diapers? Do you really want to poo-poo in you pants getting groceries?” It’s like my brain is not accepting the current situation of my issue, even though, part of it is like, YES YES YES YES YES! I’m still struggling to accept this all, to look in the mirror and be like “you’re captain awesome! So what if you have a diaper on, thats part of you’re captain outfit!” Currently its a mix bag, but the internal narrative is a lot more negative when I’m standing there in a smelly dirty diaper looking in the mirror trying to be like “better in there than in your pants”. I just keep reminding myself incontinence is the inability to hold and diapers have the ability to hold.... like... some how this is suppose to make me feel better. I have to face facts regardless of my AB/DL mixture with all this, if I don’t do something, something far more embarrassing will happen. I read somewhere else on these forums, something like, I didn’t choose this, it choose me. I did not choose to have poopy underwear at any point in my life. I did not actively choose to be wired to think diapers should be normal life... However... here I am... On a website for people who need / like to wear diapers. I’m writing about my own incontinence issues and wearing diapers to solve the problem. Everyone says acceptance makes it so much easier, I agree, I understand this concept, but the stages to get there are a struggle, specially when you need to pull over every so often to change your diaper. Which is why I’m writing this, to help accept my need for diapers. Thanks for letting me express this, thanks for reading, have a great day.

The lid is regular size mason jar lid have fun

Hey all I’m super excited to show this! Disclaimer: I would like to point out I got this idea from the internet and have analyzed it to produce this DIY guide for makings your own baby bottle. I’ve added some finished photos of my basic bottle. There are 3 things you need and one step. 1 mason jar Regular mouth 2 lid Regular mouth 3 Comotomo 6+ months variable flow nipple. This is the Y shape nipple for flow. It’s a 2 pack! Comotomo website one step: assemble, you’re done, enjoy! The nipples set me back 21.26, for 2 making each bottle 10.73, Canadian. i got mine from Bed Bath & Beyond Canada Amazon CDN Now, that you have a bottle there are choices. You can apply whatever you want to you bottle. However I recommend getting a big to assist with Glass Etching. How to Glass Etch The other option is waterproof stickers. I recommend ordering direct from China from a site like AliExpress this link will search “water proof cartoon stickers”, you’ll get 50-100 decent size stickers for 2-5 dollars. So, each bottle could be less than 14.00 CDN Apple juice has never tasted so sweet!

Poops I did it again, was hoping to make it to the toilet and nope... time to go now.

I’m in Nelson, would be down to chat

right now, can never trust a fart with ibs hehehe oh well, good thing for diapers ?

Just found this site: https://www.lilkink.com/

Found something fun... https://www.halloweencostumes.ca/care-bear-costumes.html?a=17784 hehehehe

I’ve been looking for a pair of shortalls with little luck. Most stuff is marketed to a more feminine design. Suggestions?

Still in my cute Tykables unicorn ;D

I have a size 5 & 6, I find the 6 to big, but my nuk 5 is perfect fit. I have some baby paci’s but they feel too small now.

Yeah, its fun for sure. I like to rubbing my diaper on my blanket rolled up between my legs.

Welcome back to the party

Top Shelf!

Having IBS, it keeps me from having some bad accidents in the morning

WIth BetterDry vs Comficare its about the cuts in the middle, I think its comficare that are narrower. I have the same issue, I’m a 34 waist and it feels like diapers are too short. I’ve tried sizing up and then its like its super big, the struggle is real hehehehe

No, I haven’t I’m not much of a gardener. However, BC doesn’t have a problem

Not so much a problem here, the problem is the gov’t has regulations on THC content also there are still only 2 stores in BC almost a year later. Now the medical stuff... thats another story

I too wear the onesie, its dealt with the saggy diaper issue and I noticed it helps keep my diaper closer to me which prevents leaks

I’m in BC Canada, yeah... its given. This recreational thing that is happening up here is joke, total gov’t money grab, still edibles go legal as October and I’ve heard companies have been testing products already. It will be an interesting fall.

I got mine last night, am still wearing the same one. I can say this is now my favourite diaper of all time

Buy an external DVD drive

When ya gotta go, ya gotta go I find it easier to poop in my diapers than a toilet hehehe