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Rue Rue
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1 hour ago, Widdle Webslinger said:
Hi Ashy! Big hugs!
"Wittle web swibba wipwip, wip!" 🤭 Did I say that aloud? 😳
4 hours ago, Dubious said:Some say I do, but its clearly everyone else that speaks different.
Dat is what I try an tell dem! Wa fi mi try an tell dem next? 😛
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Ooooooooooh holy niiiiiight; the stars are brightly shiiiiiiiiiiiiining it is the night... 🌙 🙂✝️⚔🤞❌⛪🏥
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🙈🙉🙊 loooooooong lay the world in sin and error pining 'till He appeared and the soul felt its worth. A thrill of hope, the weary world rejoices for yonder breaks a new and glorious morning. 😃
O hear the Angel voices? Dang. What a question! 😄
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Anyone with an accent over here? Anyone say "dem", instead of "them"? "Aluminium" instead of "non-magnetic" (J/K) "aluminum"? 👋🖐😄🤘
I'll go first.
I say "dat's" all of the time, ahahah! EG.: Dats it!
I'm from Long Island N.Y., and first generation American, Jamaican.
I want this to be fun, XD. Tell me about the "saucers" that are "sorcerers" but sound similar.
Dat's = That's
Tree = Three 😆
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I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE (baby vocabulary because I can't pronounce "really") the crisp, cool climate; calming, crinkle leaves of deciduous trees, acorns and oak soaked earth smell before all hell freezes over and the song of bugs and bees sleep still a few weekends before Thanksgiving then Santa's sleigh slides south for a Season's greeting before spring. 🙂 No sweat on my cider as fall tames the final fierce fire in fall the last call for heat is what I admire. 🥵
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A guy walks into a bar none.
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On 8/5/2023 at 12:03 AM, Babygeebee said:
Hmm. He's already doing hard time.
You are so freaking funny! Crazygeebee! 😄 Smart-ass! 🤪
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4 hours ago, DailyDiapers said:
These are so soft! Got some of the black ones and it doesn't look like a diaper at all at my waistband. I like that it still has the tape landing zone and sticky tapes over velcro.
🤔 I am highly curious. Let me go to NS. All black does sound very discreet. I wore out the blue polkadot one but would have preferred it being a solid color. What I told a NS rep once is that plaid would be nice.
Edit: visited NS: I love that. I LOVE that! I love that! The idea is perfect! Plastic, rugged landing zone and breathable rest of the diaper. What is this; have it your way day? I have to buy a 12 pack nao!
NorthShore is la bomba! If they ever release plaid for winter and fall, I would buy again just to match with my Buffalo plaid tops. Hobody would even see my waistband if it matched my top! Black is good, though.
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I think I may have brought this off target. It started out asking about baby bunker.
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On 8/2/2023 at 8:44 AM, ~Brian~ said:
Internaught
That is a cool new word! Let us get it into the vernacular dictionary now that it is online.
On 8/2/2023 at 8:44 AM, ~Brian~ said:The best thing I can say about this is that you should always be vigilant and be careful who it is and what it is that you're doing online. About 25 to 35 years of being an Internaught, I can tell you that the best thing to do is just to be vigilant and be careful what's going on in all situations, because you never know when somebody will try to get the best of you, or try to mess up your head or try to mess with you and put you at ease when they try to pull a fast run on you. This is not to say that Everyone on the Internet is a bad person, you just have to use your head and be able to determine when something doesn't feel very comfortable to you. My experience comes from over 30 years of dealing with people on chat systems and in emails and other chat mediums, so there are things that you have to be careful of when you are online.
That being said, there are plenty of people whom you can interact with. Of those individuals, many of them have become my friends, ones that I trust, And some of these individuals I have high trust in, because I've dealt with these individuals since 2019 or 2020, and have personal relationship with these individuals. For this to occur you have to have some sort of trust and this is important, because if you have that level of trust with an individual that you trust in your highest caliber, then you would be able to talk to them and you know what they're telling you is legit, and you trust their counsel. There's a lot of people here on daily diapers, a lot of them have given me a lot of support over the years, but there are special people that I hold dear to my heart, and they will always be that way, because I have gained a sense of trust and I know that when they're telling me certain things that they don't Try to hurt me or whatever, this is because I've gained a high level of trust with them, so what I disclosed to them may be a little bit more personal than somebody else that I deal with, but the idea here is that you gain a sense of safety with certain people and you can tell when it is okay to release certain information that you would hold close to the vest. This does not mean that you should be afraid of everybody, but this means that you have to be careful.
As I've stated before, it's all in how things roll: when you gain a particular trust level, it makes sense, and you can trust the individuals that you're dealing with, when they tell you something depending on the individual and the way they respond, you can tell and you probably know in your heart that somebody would say or would not say certain words or certain phrases or whatever, so you know what somebody is telling you is legit. This is not to mean that somebody may not be who they say they are, but when you have experience and you know the people on your system, that makes a heck of a difference. You just have to be careful, but as I've always told my church members at work, being careful and being safe are 1 thing, being ridiculous and overreaching is a total different story. You don't want to end up being so naive that you would let anyone in the church, and let them do a whole bunch of other things, but you don't want to be so paranoid that you don't allow certain things to happen, when the people that are doing them are trustworthy people. The difference between being 2 lakhs and two paranoid, you have to be in the middle on this, otherwise it can drive people insane.
So as I've stated, you just have to be careful and know the people that you're talking to. When you end up talking to them for a long time and you forge your relationship with an individual you end up trusting their counsel or whatever they're telling you, and if that person's trust is something that you trust, that's cool, but there could be a situation where you may lose respect for an individual, but that is something that what happened in a severe case. Just be careful and don't let everything scare you, just be on your toes and that's about as much information as I can give you regarding this. Have fun be safe and use your head and be a more moderate, don't end up thinking that everything is gonna hurt you, but don't drop your shields and be too lax.
Good luck!
Brian
You explained a lot of things that were on my mind. I don't really know how to tell you besides saying thank you! There are some people who are really aggressive and only want what they desire and then they just disappear after you give them what they want. It could be a post you make, a photo, a video, then suddenly they ditch you as if you are not the same person. This is why I like being a pen pal. Do people even do that any more?
I have a pen pal, I have known them since I was in middle school and we have always talked. We share and even mail photos to each like once or twice a year when we go to interesting places and write to each other, too. We shared numbers, but we also know there is no like, real relationship. She is in Arizona, I am In Your Dreams! Know what I mean?
All we really share are like accomplishments and just kind of checking in and saying, can you believe this thing or moment? I hope you are doing well, too!
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On 7/31/2023 at 8:19 PM, DailyDiapers said:
Water bill is in, $708.97!
Oh, I thought you meant public water. You are using Canadian Spring bottled water, right?
Man! I am so freaking sorry! Uhg!
I mean, running water like that? You have a porcelain fire hydrant?
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In soviet Russia bite you!
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3 hours ago, Hannah YMS said:
The best way I know of is to not easily trust people on the internet. Everyone hides behind an avatar online, you can't really trust what their profiles say, etc. Also, interact with online sites a lot less -- you can only be bullied online if you put yourself in that situation (not that it's your fault--people should never bully others on- or offline), but there are risks you take when putting yourself online for others to interact with. It can be a lonely road by limiting your activity online, but can also be a safe one. YMMV.
Better have a good alias. 😉
Just now, Rue Rue said:Better have a good alias. 😉
I'm Rue Rue, who? And I bite too! 😜
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I punch boards, too. It does get rid of the stress and the soreness in my knuckles afterward reminds me of what I did and to control my anger. Definitely stay away from self harm. There are a lot of alternative ways to express yourself that don't cause permanent damage. Something that helps me is snapping myself with thick rubber bands.
Sometimes I go to my basement and punch a pillow into the floor on the unfinished concrete as hard as I can. Hard enough to feel the floor. That calms me down very quickly. Kicking the pillow too, just make sure you don't kick it into an heirloom vase or something. I hope this helps. 🙂
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21 hours ago, barnburner said:
My first time I was reluctant to put a finger up in there, but I found something I wouldnt mind tossing if I used it there, I went with a sharpie marker, maybe around half an inch in diameter, I wrapped it inside of a plastic grocery bag, slathered some lotion on it and went to town, I did enjoy it, I got spooked about the possibility of the sharpie exploding like pens do so I ordered my first plug of similar diameter. I then tried a vibrating half inch anal bead thingy that an amazon seller was selling for just under $10usd which may have been a price error as soon after it was up to nearly $50usd. I have worked up to 1 inch diameter plugs, I am now looking into training aids to try and get past an inch because I have a 1.25in vibrating plug that I cant get into me fully yet.
Along this time I have eventually used a finger in there every now and then and now have no issue covering up my toys that will get poo on them.
Sliding a finger or plug in and out repeatedly is also fun.
Oh my gosh! A sharpie was what I used my first time too! I was dared by one of my exes. 😆
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I finally tried fingering myself and it is so awesome! It just slips in now. Does anyone want to share their first time doing it? It is so easy now that I've done it a few times. And yes. I have short nails and wash my hands.
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Ah, I am on desktop now and I see the about me tab. My bad. Let me get back on mobile so I can see if I can find it.
Yeah, I definitely cannot find that tab on mobile. Forgive me.
Do you know where it is on mobile?
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Heck yes, Lego is how my friends and I meet and do something constructive together when when the weather sucks or we want to party and can't drive! It makes spending the night over as adults so exciting! We all build different sections and then put them together! 🥰🥰🥰 Then the next time when our parents come over for an occasion we are all like, hey check out what my friends and I built last weekend.
That never gets old! Never grow up, plus every age can enjoy them, even the duplo babies!
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On 7/21/2023 at 7:32 AM, rusty pins said:
True, but he also lists himself as incontinent and his profile "ABOUT ME" says, "DEAL WITH URINARY INCONTINENCE WITH OUT SENSORY AWARENESS. DEAL WITH NIGHTLY BED WETTING SO HAVE TO WEAR DIAPERS 24/7. I HAVE BECOME A DIAPER LOVER DUE TO DIAPERS ALLOWING ME TO LIVE LIFE AS AN ADULT WITH URINARY INCONTINENCE BOTH DURING THE DAY AND NIGHT." That leads me to believe, by his own words, that it's not just as simple as slipping into the hotel room's bathroom to slip on a diaper and sneak into bed while the coworker is otherwise occupied or running to the ice machine to fill the bucket. It would mean changing diapers in the room, changing pants or getting dressed while wearing diapers and probably more when needing to wear 24/7 and having to share a room with a coworker.
Oh, I see. I am new here and should have looked at their profile before commenting. Sorry! 😔
On 7/21/2023 at 7:32 AM, rusty pins said:True, but he also lists himself as incontinent and his profile "ABOUT ME" says, "DEAL WITH URINARY INCONTINENCE WITH OUT SENSORY AWARENESS. DEAL WITH NIGHTLY BED WETTING SO HAVE TO WEAR DIAPERS 24/7. I HAVE BECOME A DIAPER LOVER DUE TO DIAPERS ALLOWING ME TO LIVE LIFE AS AN ADULT WITH URINARY INCONTINENCE BOTH DURING THE DAY AND NIGHT." That leads me to believe, by his own words, that it's not just as simple as slipping into the hotel room's bathroom to slip on a diaper and sneak into bed while the coworker is otherwise occupied or running to the ice machine to fill the bucket. It would mean changing diapers in the room, changing pants or getting dressed while wearing diapers and probably more when needing to wear 24/7 and having to share a room with a coworker.
Oh, I see. I am new here and should have looked at their profile before commenting. Sorry! 😔 Please don't YELL AT ME! How do I see the about me section of another member?
I'm looking but can't find anything that says about me on his profile.
I'm looking but can't find anything that says about me on his profile. For reference I am on mobile.
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On 7/21/2023 at 7:23 AM, mick_dl said:
Hi Rue Rue,
So I would really take this seriously if I were you. I had an accident many years ago in which several intervertebral discs were compressed. I had a lot of pain and no feeling in some of my fingers and parts of my legs. The whole thing improved after a few months of physiotherapy and sports. And then it disappeared completely.
I didn't follow it up until my inco (which also had other reasons) got worse some time ago.
I searched a lot until someone came up with the idea to do another MRI of the spine because I also got strange calf cramps and the feeling in one leg was gone again... Five intervertebral discs are now pressing the spinal cord together in different places of the spine and are the cause of the problems.
If I had had the operation right away, I would probably have a good chance of getting it under control again.
Unfortunately, I didn't - and now I have to live with the crap... It can still be operated - but no longer minimally inversively and the chance that they do more damage is present. The already damaged nerves can no longer be repaired - in this case it would only be a matter of preventing me from ending up in a wheelchair...I am very sorry to hear that this happened to you. I am going to take this more seriously. I recently had an MRI which exposed the damaged disks. It is so crazy. Just one wrong move can cause the injury to flare up again. I'll stay on top of this. My doctor wants to see me in about one month for a follow up, or earlier if the pain and my range of motion do not improve.
The next step he mentioned is physical therapy. I have had physical therapy before, and surprisingly did help me! I am thinking I need to keep a record of how often I experience pain and what activities I was performing when the pain reappeared.
When it is not debilitating I used to brush it off and "say this is just the way it is going to be now, and the MRIs confirmed it." Its time to act, I really don't want this to get worse.
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16 hours ago, technomonkey said:
I did not have bladder or bowel issues until i had back problems. It started with L5-S1 fusion then then L4-5 fusion L3-L4 siscectomy that will turn into a fusion some time soon. I have nerve damage and now scar tissue. i have seen and had lots of spine doctors and no luck. All my DR's know i wear diapers. Diapers use to be fun to wear when ever. Now its been years 24/7 it gets old.
Scar tissue is exactly what is trying to be prevented with the medications I am prescribed. It really is crazy how things can change from a back injury. Diapers do get old... after wearing them to bed every night for years the idea of wearing them wherever I go was unappealing.
@technomonkey, you mentioned fusion of disks. Is that a surgery or something that happened over time from your damaged disc's?
You are dang right they lose the fun part when you need them, and I truly needed the for a few days. This is the second time in recent months where I needed to wear them just to take care of tasks.
You all are so supportive in sharing your experiences and knowledge. Thank you! 😃
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On 7/21/2023 at 8:43 AM, rusty pins said:
A year and a half I slipped on the ice and fell hard in front of the grocery store entrance and even hit my head on the metal handrail by the door. I was on the ground for about 5 minutes before someone rushed over to help me and get the store manager. I had ex rays that really aggravated my leg and especially my sciatic nerves. I was in the emergency room twice, the urgent care clinic once and my own doctor all within 5 days and getting heavy pain meds and morphine. EACH AND EVERY ONE OF THEM ASKED ME IF I WAS WETTING OR POOPING MYSELF! I wasn't, but that tells me these kind of injuries can cause it to happen, hence every doctor asking me. With your situation they wouldn't bat an eye if you wore diapers to your appointment and would understand if you said you were wetting yourself and having some bowel accidents.
This is a confidence booster. I guess what made me nervous is that I generally do not expose my underwear and I knew I was going to get a steroid shot, which means "pull down the back of your pants". This last visit was a first and I am going to swallow my pride in my next consecutive visits and do what is necessary.
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5 hours ago, mick_dl said:
Hmm - sorry but this is a strange question for me. Ether your incontinent or your not. If you are incontinent you have to wear and better discuss this with your doc. I have all my appointments in diapers because I don‘t want to stay there in soaked trouser. Docs see this every day so I’m honestly more scared to go to a gym as to a doc… But anyway - if your wetting starts with the flare up of your back injury this might be critical and you better check this as fast as you can with a neurosurgeon because this is a emergency situation. If the spine is really the reason and you wait to long your this may cause irreparable damage to the compressed nerves.
I have incontinence associated with my back injury when it flares up. I decided to wear protection and it was not a bad experience. The nurse who gave me my steroid shot told me that it is no big deal. But boy oh boy, did that shot burn! Its been a year since I had one and the burn brought back all of the memories.
Furthermore, everyone: thank you for your replies. I am going to take this more seriously. Everyone, I mean everyone, keeps telling me not to shrug this off like it is not a big deal. It is. I know it is but I just can't believe it is really happening to me. I am in disbelief. I never imagined that I'd have this type of issue. I never thought I would have these symptoms so frequently.
I got pain medication, a steroid shot, muscle relaxers and my doctor told me that if this continues I will see a physical therapist. Something about that does not seem all kosher to me. I was told once by a family friend, and again here by @mick_dl that a neurosurgeon is who I need to see, not my GP. I am going to look into that. I've been told too many times to see one. Thank you all.
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22 hours ago, rusty pins said:
It's been a few weeks since you posted. Did you have your trip yet and if so, how did it go? Did you end up sharing a room with anyone and did they find out?
I think he is more worried about being incontinent and having to wear 24/7. I believe his worry is, with being 24/7 in a hotel room with a coworker it will be nearly impossible to hide that he wears diapers. If he takes a diaper into the bathroom, the coworker may see him doing so. If he always takes a backpack into the bathroom a coworker might ask why. Same as with getting into bed at night whether he wears just a diaper or pajamas over it. There is the crinkle as well. Kicking off the covers and having the coworker wake up first. Having the coworker say, "You can use the shower first" and having to get out of bed in front of the coworker in just a diaper or diapers under pajamas that could be bulky or crinkle. Too many chances for discovery and too many unknown situations that can crop up when sharing a hotel room with someone who you don't want to know you wear diapers.
OP posted in the bedwetters thread, so you'd assume that is what they are asking for help with right?
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Hey, everyone. I am having a back injury flare up and I am really uncomfortable. I have one in S5 I believe. I had an MRI and S1 through 5 have inflimation or are out of alignment. I am wetting myself and having bowel issues. My gut feeling is to not wear protection, but I cannot walk more than. 8 inches at a time. I am worried that I might have an accident in public since I am already having trouble. What would you do if you were in my shoes? I've never worn protection to my doctor before since an adult. Is is okay?
I forgot to say, I am having mostly wetting accidents right now. I have to stay hydrated with all the heat, but I keep just letting out small dribbles, almost constantly. (Thus may sound gross) I took off my underwear and saw I was dribbling pee and couldn't stop it. My butt clenched a bit but my urethra was still not closing. Sorry. I am having a rough time. This is the first time I have had this bad of a flare up.
I am stopping drinking water now.
Just went to my first ever concert today!
in The Rest of your Life!
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I wish I was there! This seems super cool, like HVAC supercool!
Hey, I am sorry but I am very sleepy. I am falling asleep. Yawning.
Sorry.