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My wife is the only person I'd change, and it just so happens that she's the diaper wearer in our relationship (I'm a DL but I prefer her in a diaper versus wearing myself). However, at this point she only ever wets. She is wearing more often lately though so it may only be a matter of time and of course I'd change her and make it gentle, caring, and a special experience for her. That said, my kink is pee/wet diapers so if she never messes I don't think I'm missing out. I just assume that as she's wearing more often lately and for longer periods of time it's probably inevitable!

The Internet had no impact on me becoming a DL. That ship had long sailed before there was such a thing as the Internet. The Internet probably was instrumental in refining some likes and dislikes related to being a DL, however.

I can usually tell by just a quick feel of the front of her diaper (checking for any squish), but if she's only a little wet I have to feel inside the leg openings.

My rules: Diapers are meant to be used. No holding trying to save pee for the potty hours later. If you have to go, then you go when you have to. Unless wearing a pull-up and it might be too much for the pull-up; then ask first and might get to go to the potty but have to pull the pull-up back up, not take it off, when done. Only I will do changes; she does not change herself. Must lie still and not be squirmy during a change. Her rules: No one we know, no family members, not even our kids are to know about this. It's OK to brag anonymously on the Internet but with all potentially revealing info removed. All photos must remain private and cannot be shared, even online/anonymously, in any way. And please offer a change if there is any feeling of a rash starting to form.

My wife briefly tried this because she was having trouble sleeping and part of the issue was needing to get up a lot, but sadly it didn't work out for her. Too bad because I'd have liked it a lot if she did. Even after that experiment failed, though, she's been willing to wear/wet for me every few days or at least a few times a month.