JasonWrench

Just popped on to give an update. We’ve had an interesting time with the butt plug so far.. after a few days wear she had seemed to stretch a little as it wasn’t hurting her as much so we have gone up to the next size in the set. We kept removing it at night and I inserted a suppository each time. She woke up the next morning with cramping and by the time I got to her had managed to completely Fill her diaper. The spasms woke her up which doesn’t really count as voiding in her sleep unfortunately. It’s happened a couple more times since then but she’s started to wake up earlier and I won’t change her before 9 am as she’s got to learn to wait in case we are somewhere I can’t change her straight away. I then change her diaper, clean her, and she turns on all fours so I can clean her anus and insert the plug for the day. I made the decision to go to the next size up in the plug set I bought. It’s about 5mm thicker and again my wife says she feels stretched, uncomfortable and “filled.’ As this forum is so quiet I’ve been on a couple of others where users suggested we have regular anal sex instead of Vaginal sex to assist with the stretching. I admit a few nights ago I was changing her plug, I looked down, saw her asshole gaping wide and just pushed myself into her .i pumped her as hard as I could and pulled her back into it - she was thrashing and bucking - she’s never been into anal sex per say. I talked to her afterwards and she agreed with my idea to try to have nightly anal Sex as part of her changing routine. It’s going well so far she seems to be able to take more, harder And for longer. But no further progress with the involuntary night voiding yet. Since we have been working on the anal stretching she appears a lot more settled and content: I would love to baby her further but one of her rules is no baby clothes bottles etc. she just loves to be taken care of, I guess I’m lucky. No further thoughts on the chastity bra yet. Not many people seem to use them - I shall have to do some further research in that area Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

What happens if you Don’t finish the bottle in time ? Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

Can a woman lactate If she hasn’t had children yet ? Interesting Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

I was just lying here waiting for my wife to tell me she’s ready to be changed and it got me thinking. In r/l d/“ relationships, does anyone else have rules between them? We do, it’s for boundary setting and obviously sexual purposes. Ours are: 4 changes a day at set times, extra at my discretion Changes must be taken when she is completely naked with hands straight by her sides throughout the process. It’s less fuss and it does turn me on to see her looking so helpless. She loves feeling helpless. We often have sex before I change her at this point. “Assume the position” means when she is on her back and naked she should pull her legs towards her chest and let them flop apart so I can have unrestricted access to the diaper and for better cleaning. Random diaper checks- face the wall with both hands on it, legs spread apart for a finger check. No touching private parts at all not even for washing or scratching. No removing diaper for any reason. No self changes or changing by anyone but me. Her rules: Not to tell anyone about her wearing diapers period. No baby clothes, bottles or age play - she feels it’s too humiliating No withholding diaper changes for more than 3 hours for a punishment. Does anyone have any rules that they use ? Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

Yes, she’s got fairly large breasts. I haven’t heard of these before. I am looking for new ways to enhance our relationship now that my wife is fully incontinent and we have achieved that goal. My wife is very submissive but she has taken well to diapers - I was the diaper lover in our relationship initially but in a caretaker role. I have no interest in wearing myself and never have. I want to push the envelope with perhaps this type of restriction next but can’t seem to find anyone who has used these bras before. So, if anyone has any thoughts and/or alternative ideas I’d really welcome them Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

She is fecally incontinent in the day as far as we can take it. She explains it as an involuntary urge that suddenly comes and after several months of full time wear she tends to then somehow forget about it until she has completely expelled. A far cry from the start when she would struggle for hours to expel for a variety of reasons. We haven’t dabbled that much with Remedies or special diets apart from the obvious stuff that everyone knows when they want to avoid constipation - the guide we followed indicated that nature would take its course at this stage - but it didn’t. That being said, I have just diapered her for the night and I removed the butt plug and inserted a suppository in its place. She was quite relieved to have the butt plug out as it’s been hurting her. She knows we may reinsert it tomorrow morning, dependent on what happens tonight. If you have any other tips, please let me know, I will definitely look into your tips Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

Thanks for the replies all. These are great ideas. We tried the butt plug for a couple of hours last night. She said it hurt and and was keeping her ass cheeks wider apart which makes her waddle more. She also says she’s very conscious of feeling “stuffed” which I admit, strangely turned me on. I didn’t really want to go down the laxative route but tonight we are trying a suppository that I will insert when I am doing her final diaper change before bed. I guess we will carry on with the butt plug tomorrow I don’t think we should give up on it because it’s a little uncomfortable to begin with. I’ve read that with regular use the anal passage stretches - hopefully we will see some results in the morning, I will keep you all updated Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

Has anyone got any experience of using chastity bras? Or anything about them? I am getting the vibe that my d/l wife will be wanting a new challenge soon, as she is now nearly completely incontinent and am wondering if these have any advantages?

After over 14 months my wife is nearly incontinent both ways. We continue to have some difficulty with her voiding in her sleep. Every morning change she is producing lots of wet diapers but voiding takes longer and is usually triggered by me changing her. We have tried changing her food stuffs and making her drink more water but she continues to struggle. After doing some research I have decided to veer away from the incontinence plan we are following as it has stopped working. I ordered some a set of butt plugs in increasingly big sizes to begin to attempt to stretch her anus - let’s see if this will push things along a little. She is a little nervous about wearing a butt plug for the first time but understands this could be the thing that takes us to our first goal (we are both full time d/ls). During her final diaper change of the evening tonight we are going to insert the plug for the first time. I have some lube to make insertion a little easier for her and I don’t intend on keeping it in overnight as I won’t be able to see if it is working. is there anything we can do to finally get her voiding in her sleep? Any other tips etc much appreciated

Hi D/S DL couple here,. I have been looking like a site like this to get advice and make friends with other caring husbands/daddies. Here is a quick overview of my life situation . Myself and my wife have been married nearly two years. I have been a diaper lover for as long as I can remember, but as a carer. Don’t really know where this has come from, but it’s a very strong fetish with me – one that I never thought id fulfill. I didn’t tell my then girlfriend straight away, but did slowly introduce it as a kink in the bedroom. She was shocked at first but agreed to try. The first time was magical, way better than I expected. We made love for an hour after we had tried a diaper out on her. Eventually she then began wearing at weekends purely for my sexual stimulation. We had a lot of sex then, I couldn’t believe my luck. After some months we got engaged and I asked her how she felt about wearing fulltime for me. Initially, she wasn’t keen. She was worried about wearing at work and with her friends. It is our major kink but she was adamant she didn’t want anyone else to know – ever. We started to extend her weekend wearing times until she felt ready to wear to work. That day I diapered her tightly, and she wore pantyhose over the top to hide the bulk in her long skirt. She came home soaking wet but happy, no one had noticed and she felt comfortable. I was so pleased. She just sort of slid into wearing fulltime, we got into a routine of 3/4 changes a day – one after breakfast, one when she gets home and one before bed. Our sex life increased, and we both realized we had entered into a sub/dom relationship centered around our love of diapers. Shortly after she had accepted my marriage proposal, I sat her down and asked her what she wanted to do, as my wife in respect of being diapered fulltime. Suprisingly she was fine with this, saying that having someone intimately care for her and take charge of her, turned her on and made her feel safe. From my point of view, her wearing diapers is my dream. Yeah, I got lucky. I asked her to throw all her underwear away If she was serious, and that we would have to make some rules for our new relationship going into marriage. We agreed upon fulltime diaper wear, no exceptions, she was not allowed to change herself, let anyone else change her apart from me, or touch her own private parts for any reason. She reacted strongly to this and became sexually excited. We screwed for over 2 hours and then I diapered her after giving her a body massage. When browsing diaper forums I then came across a year long program to reverse continence. This turned me on and I suggested it to her. This took more persuading. She was reluctant about actively working towards true incontinence even though she had wore fulltime for several months and enjoyed it. Eventually she said she would, as a wedding gift. Well we are nearly through the program now and are both happy with her progress to a large extent. She is completely urinary incontinent and hasn’t flooded her diaper in several months. She doesn’t realize she is wet until I check her most of the time and gets anxious if we run low on supplies. She Is almost doubly incontinent but not quite. Its frustrating us both as we are so close. She finds that she still cannot poop in her sleep. We have tried changing her diet, giving her several enemas, and stomach massage before bed but no luck. Until she does that she is not truly incontinent and we are running out of ideas. So this is why I have written our experience: ive realized that im hopelessly isolated as a daddy dom. We seem to be a rare breed on the internet, lots of adult babies or switches but no one truly like me. Im still new to all this and want to connect with other daddy/mommy doms where we can talk about our partners and discuss tips and ways to make them feel safe and secure. I don’t know where to find these people? Also, I am getting the impression that my wife wants me to push the envelope sexually again. I don’t want her to get bored of her lifestyle; she enjoys me giving her rules that are designed to keep her safe and diapered. She doesn’t want to dress as a baby – shes clear on that and I respect it if she says no. Does any care taker out there have any ideas on how I can place some more caring restrictions on her that make her feel safe and secure? I was looking at chastity bras, to restrict her from touching her own breasts unless having sex, but is that too far? I just don’t know. Please feel free to message me if you are a dom and/or if this is the right forum to link to and make connections Thanks J