pantyman

I currently have a urinary structure. It causes my pee stream to spray everywhere and really makes it messy when I use a toilet. Next week I have an appointment with my urologist to see what treatment is. From my research online, it shows that it could be anything from surgery to just a dilating of my restriction. My goal and in fact I'm going to ask if he will put in a catheter so that it will stretch out my stricture and then leave it in until things heal in the hopes that it doesn't return, which I read is very possible. Has anybody else dealt with a urinary structure and how did your urologist handle it?

Definitely.

If your sleeping how would you know? Sometimes I barely wake while I'm going and than I go back to sleep. That happens once or twice a night. But some nights I don't wake at all and get up soaked.

So what are you asking. If you share a room? Just worried about the bed? I bring a protective pad for the bed always. I stayed at a air BNB with my adult son and I just don't say anything. I figure it they don't ask, don't tell. As for the diaper I put on under my pajamas when I'm headed to bed and again don't advertise. If someone would ask I would say little as possible.

I have played with catheters on my own before. Several months ago I had a cystoscope done because of recent bedwetting. But its due to a medicine change from my neurologist. He has done ultra sounds and medicine changes because of it but My urologist hates that I'm okay with wearing protection at night . At this point I'm just going to ask him straight up to recommend a catheter . I have an enlarged prostrate. Currently have urination issues and am a bed wetter. I think a catheter works for all. The only thing is instead of a leg bag I will wear a diaper. Problem solved.

So recently I have had a problem that when I pee my stream splits several ways and sprays in multiple directions. Also when I am done it seems like my penis is still holding pee and then drains into my pad I am wearing. Also when peeing if I push to hard it stings in my meatus. The research I have done said it's likely a urethra stricture . There are several ways to treat it and one is stretching the urethra as an out patient followed by a catheter as it heals. I'm going to ask my urologist if that's a option.

In the past I have done that. But I can only wear a catheter for short periods while not around my wife. If my urologist said I needed one I could wear all the time and not be questioned.

I want my urologist to give me a catheter. What can I tell him that would help a decision to be made to give me a catheter. I know if I just tell him I want to simulate and continents he won't give it to me. What if I tell him some symptoms that I may have in which I truly may have? Maybe he will prescribe one. I already have an enlarged prostrate and at times my stream is just a dribble. I have already told him about it but he is in the let's try a medicine phase. Should I just tell him I want a catheter? I would rather be his ideal. My wife would accept it far easier if he said I should have one.

Well I have started my 10-day goal of wearing a catheter continuously and letting it drain into a diaper. Currently I am at 3 hours of wearing a 24 FR. My goal is to not remove the catheter except for changing it and hopefully upgrading the size in a few days. I guess it will give me a crash course of how it feels to be incontinent and dealing with a constantly dribbling penis.

So I am going to start experimenting with wearing a foley catheter long term. Most of my current experience with catheters have been short term , one hour to several hours to a rare full day. Usually I use a latex catheter with hydrophilic coating . I know there are allot of choices out there. My question is what's the most comfortable. Next month I will have 10 days I can wear a catheter. I also know that after several hours hey catheter can become uncomfortable. So in your experience what is the material of choice or catheter. They have Teflon coated, silicone coated, solid silicone, and that's just a state a few. Also, I am trying to increase in size so that means where I usually wear a 20 or a 22. I will be pushing it up to a 24 or a 26 and maybe by the end of that week a 28th. So I know with it being tighter in my urethra it can create more discomfort. So again, what is the catheter material of choice? Cost is no object! I figure if I'm going to be wearing it for multiple days. If not a solid week you basically get what you pay for.

I have used oral gel with good success but my worry was if it would hurt my bladder. Also I have used tattoo numbing cream . It said topical and again I'm worried about it going up my my urethra. I know when I had a cystoscope the numbing cream they used was awesome. It's kind of funny I can buy catheters online without a prescription but I can't buy numbing cream.

I can put a 20 in with little effort. I have had a 26 in but it was uncomfortable. So I would use numbing to get that in with no discomfort.

So I'm looking for something to numb my urethra so I can go up a couple catheter sizes with little to no pain. Everything I see requires a prescription. Any recommendations?

Number two would be my preferred choice, but instead of a homemade stent I would rather have a commercially made and professionally installed stent. And depending upon the length of being in I could reverse if absolutely needing or wanting. I would also be very willing to try long-term catheter use. As my urethra stretches, I could keep increasing the diameter of the catheter to the point that I would permanently be incontinent and always dripping.

Check on purple again. I had to go to my inner baby to buy mine

I would love to try a stent but it scares me to make one and to lose it inside. Wish siliconenozzle made one

So I enjoy catheter play. Several months ago I was intoxicated and played kinda rough. At that time the largest I could take was a 18fr but always have larger on hand. While playing I basically forced a 22fr in and filled the Foley ballon . It was definitely a stretch and was kinda painful but I left it in and passed out. The next morning when I woke the catheter was still in and I was laying in a pinkish puddle of urine. Definitely I tore something but after 12hrs my urine was just yellow. When I removed the catheter for the next few days it hurt pretty good to pee. Also urine would drip from my penis. It took a week for the dripping to stop. I figured my urethral sphincter was damaged causing incontinence. In a couple months I will have about ten days I could wear a catheter. My thoughts are to start with a 22fr and each day try to force the next size in. My goal is to get to a 30fr as quick as possible hoping I will tear the fibers of my sphincter than leave it in and hope it heals in a dilated state causing incontinence. What is your opinion?

So is there a drug out there that will make you incontinent? I know of several that have side effects of bedwetting. I am currently on one now. And while you don't automatically wet the bed the chances that you will are greatly increased. But is there a drug or prescription you can get that will make you be incontinent?

I read that article and it made a lot of sense. My self I can wear an 18fr for an extended period. A 22fr will fit but I can only wear a few hours and can not move about freely without a little discomfort. My goal is to get to a 30fr or 10 mm for an extended period. From my understanding I will lose continence for a period of time afterwards but it is only temporary. My goal is to get a week of lost control with nothing in. Is that wrong to want that?

So I have finally done it and put a catheter in this morning and wore it to work. As usual I stay very hydrated. It is kind of an odd feeling to reach down and feel my diaper getting more swollen and never feeling myself pee. Frankly I do miss the feeling of peeing so I need to get one of those modified catheters. I will say that I can feel the catheter in you. When I move around sometimes it stings a little bit but it's not unbearable. This is definitely something I could get used to.

I've sold other things on eBay , craigslist and marketplace. If you want to sell quickly price low. If you have time you can start high and test the waters. Give it sometime and see what happens.

When I was younger I would have to be falling down drunk for me to wet the bed when I slept. As time went on and the years have gone past it slowly progressed to more often wetting the bed than not when drunk. Now at my mature age if I even drink a small amount , enough to feel it but not falling down drunk I will wet the bed. Now I do drink more than I should! Usually five out of 7 days in a week I will consume alcohol. And so five out of seven days I wet the bed. Currently I have a urinary tract infection that means that I have to go to the bathroom an awful lot. Being i wear a diaper to bed I have been relieving myself while lying down. But this past weekend both days that I didn't drink I woke up in the morning with a swollen diaper. I think I have finally crossed the line into being a full time bedwetter. I am actually okay with that. So I am going to continue the way I've been doing things for the next month. And then maybe I will take a break and see if it continues.

A stent looks very appealing to me but I am just afraid of fabricating one and using it for fear of failure and a trip to the emergency room. If there was one that was commercially or medically available then I may give it a try because it would probably be more proven.

Yes. When my diaper is really wet it is really swollen. I get really self-conscious about the bulging crotch area. Luckily I generally work alone but there are times when I have to be around others.

So last night I covered my recliner with protection sat down nude and had my intermittent catheter and lube. I made sure I was very well hydrated and actually felt like I needed to pee and then started to insert my catheter. So as I watch the catheter sink into my penis inch by inch when I got down to the last 4 inches the sensations were quite unique. I felt a little resistant took a couple deep breaths and tried to relax and tried to go pee and it slipped in. The catheter went all the way in to its end. Being the catheter was unplugged it just started to stream and I laid there and watched the pee run over my tummy. And after the initial wave of urine came out I continued to watch drip by drip continue and never stop. That was so erotic. After about an hour I got up and walked around my apartment holding a cloth under my dripping catheter and penis and then slowly removed it. There was only a very minor discomfort my first pee after removal. I can see I'm going to be a big fan of this.