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How do people go about getting their mess to the front of their diaper? I know it’s easier for women than it is for men, as we have testicles creating a barrier. Anyone have any methods or advice?

I see. This person is very willing to work with me which I’m thankful for I just need to know the right way to go about it. I think i should focus more of my time to making her happy and satisfied with me as a bf and just ensuring her needs are fulfilled. I’m not perfect so there’s always room to do better.

There’s nothing she is into that I am not. I don’t think she has anything for her like I have diapers for myself.

Just need some advice on being able to make diapers a more normal thing between me and my gf. It doesn’t make her uncomfortable but we are certainly not at a “comfortable” point regarding diapers. We don’t talk about them often but I want to be able to wear more often and have my gf be comfortable with that. We’ve established that we need to talk more but I have failed to do so as I don’t really know where to start. Open to all advice. Thanks.

Only my gf knows and we only discuss it when need be. Don’t see much reason to attempt incorporating it into the daily small talk, unless you’re trying to build a level of comfort and or familiarity with diapers.

Well I wouldn’t expect it to be sexual for everyone. It’s prolly just doesn’t fit your sexual interests...nothing wrong with that.

I agree but I think it’ll take awhile to kill the shame completely. Thanks for the advice we had a nice long talk and I’m not sure if we made any progress or not but I think we both feel better. I know I’m not hurting anybody but I worry that I’m hurting my gf. I don’t want to make her feel like I’m just gonna do what I want all the time, but on another hand do I just deny my interests and forget them??

I just find the aesthetic so pleasing…

So as of late I’ve tried my first diaper and it was amazing, but I’ve been looking around online and I’m finding myself to be more and more attracted to frilly, pink, cute and soft things. Now by no means am I a sissy(I’m a diaper lover), but when it comes to my diaper play I feel like I want everything to be cute and pink. I’ve looked at diapers, diaper covers, cloth diapers, dresses and everything (not that I would go as far as to wear a dress) and anytime I see it… I want it badly!! Now as you can imagine this hasn’t been entirely easy for my gf but we haven’t really talked about it. I just don’t know what to tell her to help her understand why I’m feeling the way I do. I’m not gay nor do I want to feel like or be a female or even a sissy for that matter, but pink, girly, cute things… yes please!! But how do I explain it to a gf that’s afraid to see me without my masculinity…please help. PS: I don’t mean to shame sissies or gays in any way, power to you all!! Thanks

I’ve been with my gf for almost 3 and a half years and we just diapered up with each other for the first time about two days ago. I think it being my first time I was nervous, but no part of my nervousness comes from the fact that she is there. She partakes in my wetting activities (not messing) which I understand so we can at least find common ground as far as willingly wearing diapers, although she isn’t a “diaper lover” like me. All in all I think having somebody there that you love and loves you can make the experience a lot more fun!!

I look forward to it ?

Thanks!! That’s good to hear, especially considering that I plan on buying abdl diapers to use at some point but I’m currently prioritizing other things. It seems like most things to do with diapers are subjective to the situation in which they’re being used. So many variables constantly changing… ?‍?

We’ll I guess I don’t know for sure yet but I’d always assumed it’d be.

Okay man I appreciate the info, thanks!!

Thanks a bunch!! Do all diapers require you to wet in small intervals to avoid it flooding or leaking out? Or do diapers with more absorbency wick away the urine fast enough for you to go as you would standing at a toilet?

After being an inexperienced DL for over a year I’ve finally ordered my first ever pack of diapers!! Some Abena Abri-forms and I’m more than excited to actually try them. If anybody has any advice or tips(or really anything)for a noob feel free to let me know. ??

Couldn’t agree more. Nothing beats the sight of a diaper used past it’s capacity.

Me and my gf have the same problem. I’m not sure if we’re simply not hearing the alarms or not but this usually doesn’t happen to us until recently. We have had alarms set to go off in the morning for our regular time to work but slept right past them after over a year now of waking up at the same time 5 mornings a week. Sometimes when this happens the alarms are still set as if the time for the alarm hasn’t passed yet.

It’s the player not the game ?

A blades worth isn’t determined by how sharp the blade, but how skilled the swordsman. Diapers are good, some people make it bad for themselves. Can be perceived as either bad or good depending on the person “wielding” them.

Huge missed opportunity for you to say “Bums”

I’d assume most people here are both, but I feel the sexual gratification you get is just a package deal with the comfort. More-so a comfort than a sexual thing for me personally.

Me personally I’m not an AB or little in any way (no shame to anyone) but I’ve always thought that it was simply easier to be in a diaper. You don’t have to get up and walk to the bathroom and you can simply go about your day. And also who doesn’t love the feeling of a diaper ?

Yeah that makes sense id think it’d be pretty hard for your mess to slither past your nuts. Everyone seems to agree that having your mess up front is worth the risk. I’ve always wanted to try it. I don’t think I’d be doing it all the time but I definitely want to experience it. Also a huge fan of messing (more than wetting) so I want to figure out the most effective way to enjoy everything.

Well that sounds scary so I think I’d stick to just keeping the junk in the trunk.