SoggyFroggy

I think some of the people here are being rather snide here. As much as I understand where they're coming from, it seems to be some kind of boomer humor, I guess. I'll try to be a bit kinder. As much as insurance people are greedy as fuck (hence your hashtag), this is, as the others said here, a form of insurance fraud. You'll probably wind up in prison, and I don't think diapers are usually provided to you in prison, or if they are, they probably suck. If they happen to have any in commissary, those will probably also suck. We're pretty close in age, I'm 20, so I understand where you're coming from. The economy sucks, we're just young adults trying to get started with life, and trying to get freebies from insurance can sound like a tempting option, but it's not worth it.

Just saw this, infuriates me to my core. Enrages me in a deep, visceral, primal way. She's 17. 17. She should've been allowed to be a teenage girl. Her parents robbed her of that once-in-a-lifetime experience. Rather than having crushes, making friends, writing diaries, going through the typical angst, eye-rolling, and rebellion that we all get to look back on and laugh about once we're grown, she instead got sat in front of the fucking WIGGLES. She didn't get to make fun memories with friends during some of the most turbulent years of most peoples' lives. She instead spent it being starved and treated like a two-year-old by her parents. She spent it being actively watched while she brushed her teeth and used the bathroom, even though she most likely was able to manage these things on her own. She didn't get to be a teen girl. Her parents didn't let her.

Look, your wife is gonna find out your lie eventually. It's better you be honest. If she divorces over this, that's her problem. You might even find out who your real friends are if she tries to "expose" you. Healthy relationships are built on a foundation of honesty. Building anything on a foundation of lies WILL come back to bite you.

So, I've been lurking and reading threads here about some people getting surgery to become urinary incontinent. But I haven't seen anyone with AFAB [Assigned Female At Birth]/Female anatomy posting about this. It's basically always people with penises from what I've seen. While I don't plan on pursuing any surgery soon, because it's expensive as hell, the threads made me start wondering, as a person with traditionally female anatomy, would a sphincterotomy even really be doable on the female urethra? Like, I know UTI risk would be much higher due to having a short, straight urethra. But I just mean would it even be practical aside from that risk? More or less just asking out of curiosity more than anything. Please be nice and don't start angry-posting or leaving snarky comments here.

awesome!! i remember when my bro started testosterone, he was insanely happy when his voice started dropping!! Wishing you the best in your transition ❤️ Side tangent: I've thought about... like... taking lower doses of testosterone, but not as a guy, but as an enby, to make myself more androgynous in appearance... but I'm also really unsure about it and don't want to do anything permanent until I'm fully sure it's what I want. Although one thing I do know for sure that I want to eventually get is top surgery.

ngl im still laughing at the ai-generated diaper guy in the background, like, omfg that pose tho and the diaper is like... so painfully obviously ai-generated... just makes the whole thing funnier

eh, i don't really like the peanut butter in reeses' cups... it's like peanut-flavoured sand, so gritty. can't even have reeses' anymore tho due to severe lactose intolerance lol

Been trying to stay hydrated, mainly to cut down on the odor of wetting, but I admit it's also quite nice how much soggier I've gotten because of it. While water, of course, definitely makes me pee more, Gatorade, as well as some juices, such as pineapple juice, really do it for me in terms of *feeling* the need to pee.

This. Some of the comments here disgust me. As an openly autistic person, people need to quit acting like autism is a means of being able to discredit someone. Of course all the angry old men here had to come out full force and be assholes about a young woman with a passion for the environment. Really shows the sheer misogyny of some people here.

Wondering what happened to the AB/DL who once had that locker tbh Hopefully they're okay, but I have a bad feeling that something went very wrong. I fear that they may have died or something. Especially with how any AB/DL with good sense would make damn sure that all their locker fees got payed if they had that many diapers in their storage locker.

To be honest, as long as you're not obvious, like, as long as you're not obviously grunting/pushing/etc. when pooping, you should be fine to just go ahead and mess. Especially since you said you'd clean up right after. As much as I wouldn't want *complete* bowel incontinence, I still say you should do what makes you happy. And yes, while I'm not a mental health professional, I do believe you have some from of Body Integrity Dysphoria (BID). I'm in communities for people with BID, and there are a lot of people there who do talk about wanting to be perceived as disabled, particularly in accordance to their specific desire, which varies based on the individual. For example, a person with BID who desires to be mute would want to be perceived as disabled in the sense of being disabled by an inability to speak. You seem to have BID and want to be perceived as disabled from being completely dual incontinent.

Yeah, it's rare you'd see a person simulating a disability just for a "fetish." It's usually to alleviate severe, underlying dysphoria with their body and how it's configured. Sorry to harp on it a lot here btw, it's just something that I know not many people understand or know about. Same here! It's quite surprising how many people really feel like incontinence is something they can't live with. Especially as someone who has given so much thought (along with hours and hours of actual research involved to really understand it) about life with certain specific disabilities. Also yeah, imagine raising such a conversation over a lunch of ribs, just... all the side-eyes I'd get lmao I'm already awkward enough at social gatherings as-is, given my autism 😅

Chronically online people like to gatekeep things. I'm on Tumblr and see all kinds of ridiculous bullshit gatekeeping, same for TikTok. Yeah that's part of it as well, to be fair. However, I do want to correct you a little bit on one point: as a person who struggles with Body Integrity Dysphoria (BID), simulating a disability does not always mean the person has a fetish for being disabled or for being seen as such. Some people with BID simulate the disability or disabilities that they need. For example, a person with a BID-based need/feeling of needing to be paraplegic may use a wheelchair; another person with it may feel a need to be mute, and may chose not to speak, and instead use sign language or a communication device (such as using a tablet to talk.) I don't wish to start any arguments here, it's just a small little thing that bothered me enough to address it.