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Have a bad habit of kicking my socks off in bed and loosing one from time to time to the cavern beneath the boxspring.

Hmm. Well first and foremost: BIG FAT GIANT KUDOS TO YOU for caring enough about him to research and find this site and post about it.

At a meeting to influence the British position of Cuba, President Kennedy rather tactlessly drew attention to the British Foreign Secretary's different colored socks.

I do that too the extra padding feels better when you are walking around, and they keep your feets warmer when it's {{{{{{cold}}}}

I've seen a few forms with no gender choices required and one that had "M","F", and "NA" (not applicable). It may not seem like a big thing to the Cisgendered majority but to a TG it can pose a problem. Many TG's simply leave it blank then whoever reviews it glances up and puts in whatever they think. And many times they check the wrong box Only in matters of health and intimacy does a person's sex or gender matter and as the world begins to see the truth in this the limited choices and discrimination are going away

No idea about the large, but for the mediums I've had the little in three variants of the iD Expert Slip range:

Long time no update. As I said before in May, I am just enjoying my OAB, which has fully developed so that I have symptoms even without pushing fluids. I am comfortable in my identity as OAB wet and wear comfidry as my standard diaper (3-4) per day. At the behest of my PC physician I was referred to a urologist, who after the initial exam states I have over active bladder and wants to start drug therapy after some invasive tests to see "why" I have oab. I am curious what the results will show because even though I have been working on the journey for YEARS I have never been able to get to the dribble phase. I am curious if there is a stricture or something I the urethra. On my wife news, her oab has gotten worse and now has to wear pads. I told her to tell her PC physician and they nicely labeled it on her medical record as detrussor muscle hypertonia. I say nicely because on mine it is labeled in all caps overactive bladder. They also prescribed mybertiq which she doesn't want due to potential side affects and I don't want because it has no generic and would be over $100 a month. She, like me, absolutely doesn't want surgery and she has tried all the behavior tactics except kegels, though her pcp said that is more for stress incontinence. Now, I am constantly assuring her the pad does not show. She is using the night time absorbency tena pad and it is every bit as thick as a diaper, but it is invisible. My hope is that she will get used to it over time and either accept that as her protective level, or realize diapers are not going to destroy her fashion. She's afraid of that eventuality and having to complete rethink/change her wardrobe. She said to me, "guys have it easier! They can wear loose pants, but girls wear tight clothes." I always thought I girls had an easier time but oh well. Needless to say, my use of diapers is completely accepted and understood as the best solution for my "problem" so now we have two married people using protection for over active bladder, one by design and one by nature.

I'm researching the same thing! Caution! Read no further if you are grossed out easily....... K? I had heard of using a nasopharyngeal airway on bedridden fecally incontinent patients that have "Profuse watery diarrhea" (They call it a "Butt trumpet"), So, I got my hands on one and tried it when I did a "Celtic sea salt" water flush, (That's like giving yourself an enema form the other end,,, lol) And the results were amazing! What you do is, insert the large end in first, and give it a slight tug until it stops. That means it is seated just above the anal sphincters. The smaller end is then connected to a drainage bag. (In my case, I just let it hang loose in the double layer flannel diaper cover I was wearing under my plastic bloomers. It was very comfortable, and I didn't even know anything was happening until I felt a rush of warm water filling my pants every few minutes. When I was sure I was empty, I ran to the shower to clean up and removed the appliance. I'm so impressed with how well it worked, I'm going to make a larger version, that can be worn for extended periods with no danger of getting lost inside! Just waiting for some stuff I ordered to begin construction. If anyone's interested when my further research gets underway, Speak up! I'll post results here..... WhooHoo! my 100th post!