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Throughout some of the topics on here I've seen many people claim that no one can ever give up diapers but that is not true. That is like saying that a drug addict could never quit their drugs or a smoker could never stop. It is all about how much control a person has, if one cannot quit something that they truly desire then it is that they do not possess enough strength to do so. An Alcholic could say the EXACT same thing yet there are people that learn how to control it. For example, Alcohol isn't a bad thing but it is something that needs to be controlled. Just like a fetish, a diaper fetish is not a bad thing but it NEEDS to be controlled otherwise it becomes a BAD THING. A diaper fetish is no different than someone having a foot fetish but if a diaper fetish becomes an obsession and takes over a person's life, that is when they need to seek psychological help for it. It is INDEED POSSIBLE to quit anything in life, most members on here would be amazed at how much a person can do and control & limit. I have enough control to the point where love comes first before diapers in a relationship. If I can have that and live without diapers if I'm in love, then others can too. When diaper fetishes control people's relationships and lives it becomes an obsession; that is where it crosses the line. I love LOVE diapers but diapers for me is fun and a kink that makes things so much more fun; but diapers do not run my life or my relationships.

Happy birthday Spokanegirl! I hope you have a wonderful day filled with diapers, pacifiers, bottle, and anything you desire!

happy happy birthday xxx

You intermixed 2 points into this discussion, one being that people claim no-one can quit diapers and the other that people with diaper obsessions need to and can control their obsessions. There is a huge variety of people involved in this community, from people that wear a diaper once every few months to people that wear everyday, some for medical reasons, others for sexual pleasure and others just for comfort. Someone that doesn't wear for medical reasons and only wears occasionally will probably have a better chance giving up diapers if they so choose, but really, why should they? Such an occasional indulgence in something that makes them feel good and doesn't harm anyone, isn't bad for anyone. If someone wants to give up diapers for whatever reason, all the power to them, but I'm of the belief that there is something very deep and ingrained into us that drives us to this desire or why would we keep coming back to it? There are many people on these boards that wear diapers day in day out for non-medical reasons, they hold full time jobs, pay the bills and have a social life. Some of them are even very open with their friends and family that they wear diapers for comfort/pleasure, for them it's choice of the more comfortable underwear (and not having to use public washrooms... ick). An it harm none do what ye will If you aren't harming anyone, and that includes yourself, enjoy and diaper wearing is not harmful compared to other things people could be doing (alcohol, drugs, crime, self-harm...) As other have said, over and over and over all over these boards if your love of diapers is controlling your life and you're not socializing with others, not going to work or have lost your job because of it then you need to work on controlling it, maybe with the help of a medical professional. But that really goes for anything that you take overboard that affects your life you could say the exact same thing for World of Warcraft players that play all day and night and ignore their friends, family, never leave the house, don't go out and find a job or lost an existing one. *huggles* Michelle

Like others have said, I just loosen the top tapes and pull it out. She rides me or I do her doggy style, wet or messy either way it's fantastic.

as stated, i don't think the forum is a bad thing on the whole. there are allot of people who are a little over the top, and need to tone it down, on the things they do. and that has kept me from posting, because i don't want to be lumped in with some of that stuff. it's just me, good job on explaining it to her. but jeez. you are just forcing it on her now. if she does not want to be around it, or see it, i think it's perfectly reasonable

world population : 6,705,479,000 population of asia : 4,052,332,000 population of africa : 967,049,000 and yes not EVERYONE in asia or africa is non-white, however it is safe to assume that more as these two continents alone make up 5/6 of the world population, caucasions are not the majority. also while there may be a large majority of caucasions in power, that does not mean there are a large majority of caucasion people.. the anual birthrate for north america is 13-22 births for every 1000 people per year, for africa it is 30-50 births per every 1000 people per year... power does not necessarily equal majority.

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That sucks, but you brought it upon yourself. I'm guessing next time you'll be up-front about it, and not have to come out the hard way. Do yourself a favor and just move out. You don't deserve to be treated like a baby, even if you want to be. Both of you are going to need some space.

What a bitch.

What a c*** (Censored by Repaid). I'll be damned if a girl would ever give me an ultimatum. (unless it was "her or (something destructive)) IMO, Ultimatums are for weak negotiators and people who don't value their chips very highly. In other words, she was willing to lose the relationship based on the flip of the coin basically. You could have chosen to go either direction. You need to diaper up, and tell that bitch "listen, I think I reconsidered my decision, upon further review of your selfish closed minded ultimatum, I'd like to take the opportunity to be rid of you and your "perfect" self." Have a few drinks before you do it, it'll help build up your courage, sounds like you'll need it to stand up to that bitch. Seriously.. She caught you with your pants down (and diaper up) [pun]. She knew this, and she still presented you with an ultimate, sounds like she was capitalizing on your obvious precarious position in order to get what she wanted. Worse part is, she had time to THINK about it before she presented you with a garbage bag? JESUS. I'd pulled the bag over her head and said "humm... finally look good enough to fuck" and I would have tossed the key on the dresser and gave her the peace sign on my way out. Damn this get's me all fired up. Dumb bitch prob conspired this plan with one of her dumb girlfriends, girls aren't smart enough to come up with a plan like that on their own. Damn dude, think of breaking up with her.. like shaking the clap.

ItsJustMe:Congratulations-you just handed your balls and your manhood to someone who obviously doesn't deserve them.

wow way to be a dick about it.. honestly all this time i thought she was being unreasonable.. but here sorta sounds like you two deserve each other... wearing shorts over a diaper is not hiding it.. my lord... if this is how the two of you treat each other, then i understand why she exploded at you.... honestly... the first night you throw it in her face about you wearing diapers then tell her you will not wear shorts over them? yes way to 'ease her into it gently'.... sounds like you both feel you need to be 'in control' and get your own way... thats not what a relationship is about... but good luck to both of you...

Sometimes when I get really bored I call an escort agency and ask the girl who answers how much she charges and if she would wear adult diapers. I don't think I could ever get the courage to actually meet up or go beyond the phone with this.. but I get some satisfaction just talking to them over the phone, hearing her voice and me sharing this interest of mine with her. (sounds pathetic, i know, lol). anyways i'm kinda worried about just asking these questions over the phone is legal or not. I have no interest in having sex with her, no bj/hj, etc. just diapers. But I don't want to do it anymore, especially if it isn't legal. Im starting to get paranoid about it. I've called less than 10... i'd say i got about 4 Y's . What do you think about this? What surprises me is that some of these women are willing to do dirty things with complete strangers, but don't want to put on a diaper?