datsun240z

praise god.. i will never understand what compels someone to fabricate a story

as stated, i don't think the forum is a bad thing on the whole. there are allot of people who are a little over the top, and need to tone it down, on the things they do. and that has kept me from posting, because i don't want to be lumped in with some of that stuff. it's just me, good job on explaining it to her. but jeez. you are just forcing it on her now. if she does not want to be around it, or see it, i think it's perfectly reasonable

witch, i did not say any thing about you.. personally i don't care if someone is transgendered. it's their lifestyle choice.. i'm not going to judge.. where it get's annoying, is going through the female section of pics, and finding a steaming pile of cock staring you in the face.. it's off putting to say the least. if you view your self as a girl, there is nothing wrong with that at all. but if you have male genitalia, don't post your pics in the female section, because the rest of the world may not see it the way you do.. freta, close.. well not really. i don't live with my parents, and i have not been a virgin for a long time now.. i don't think the ab/dl community is perverted as a whole, but there are several on this forum, that are not who we want representing us. by the way, that whole "if you dislike someone or their lifestyle, it must be because you see your self in them" rational is pretty dumb. it's right up there with assuming when someone does not like something, they are jealous none of the things i listed should offend any one. unless you think it's perfectly ok, for people to want to bring unwitting strangers, or family members into their fetish, or people posing as girls, on dating sites, or old men going after young girls.. do you think that's ok? if so, that does not exactly speak volumes about your charicter. if not, than you should not be offended by my post i don't think ab or dlism in and of it self is a bad thing. but you can't deny that some of the post on here, are a little over the top perverted, and some disturbing oh, and as your little stab about me being a member of this forum, notice my joindate and post count. i'm a dl. personally i'm not into the ab side, and i think it's a little strange to me.. BUT, i'm not going to bash, because it's not my place to judge, and i'm sure there are plenty who think that liking diapers is equally weird.. the difference is: i leave it at just that.. a fetish, and i don't bring others into it, i don't go out showing diapers in public, or doing all the other things that bring negative attention.. so the question is: are you going to say that the things i mentioned are not true?

i'm sorry, but given the attitudes, i can't help but conclude that most of the people on this forum are introverted basment-dwellers, and have the "nice guy" mentality, and are either virgins, or have never slept with a woman under 200lbs. first off, no. DON'T be "open" and tell your girlfriend at the beginning of a relationship that you have a kink that involves putting on a diaper, shitting yourself, sucking your thumb, and pretending your a baby. that's horrid advice, that's a good way to scare off any one. when she caught you, you should have let her calm down, and explained it to her, and let her know that it's just a kink, and it does not involve children.. also that there are 3 kinds of people in this world 1: those who have kinks 2: people who lie about it 3: people who have not discovered it. also, when she came in with a trash bag, and said to throw it away, i would have called bullshit. NOT because you had to choose between her and the diapers, but because she had the audacity to order you around, and hold the relationship over your head. if she loves you, she won't leave you over it, and is just bluffing. but by you trying to sneak around like a f**king coward, you made matters worse. people please grow a spine. especially when dealing with women. if you lose a girlfriend, there are plenty more out there. no girl should ever be able to say "do_______ or i'm leaving" but i'm sure you have already set a precedent early on in the relationship, of being dependent on her, and she probably uses that to control you any one that is terrified of a girl leaving them, deserves to be alone. have enough self respect to not be a fucking door mat, and realize that if she won't give you what you want, than there are plenty of other girls that will (i.e. her sister, her friends yadda yadda, etc)

just curious, i ordered some abenas from drug store.com, are they going to come in a plain box?

guess not?

hi, im a 21 year old dl. looking make some local friends with girls who are into the scene... any way, i live in central ms, pm me, and i will be alot more detailed