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  1. You know, there is a seperate thread for the Teddy diaper, and I think it would be more productive for the developer to keep all discussions regarding that product in the same thread, as opposed to here in the manufacturer thread, where the discussions get lost. I'm not saying this to blow my own horn (since I created the thread) but in order to help Bambino in their work and doing the testing or research they need for making changes or improvements. They proved this product to us and we in turn should be as helpful with our input as possible to aid in the development of both this and any future products that they may have in the pipeline. http://www.dailydiapers.com/board/index.php?showtopic=23622&pid=332894&st=20&#entry332894 I still think the teddy is a wonderful item, but yeah, I believe the tape system as it is is flawed and needs to either use a different 'elastic' material or just be scrapped and return to the tape system used on both the Classico or the blanco...sorry AWESOME diaper though, even though I'm a D/L..if the tape thing gets resolved I'll be wearing more of these as they look, feel and work GREAT! qwack
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  2. Who is really medically incontinent? Yes I realize many are born this way or were in car accidents or had spinal cord injuries that caused them to lose their bladder or bowel function. However the vast majority of ab's and Dl's are also in the same boat. I began wearing diapers when I was eleven years old and went full time once I left home. I am fifty-five today and I have been wearing diapers all of my adult life. Someone posted here that we are all of our gourds because we like to wear diapers, not quite true, most of us have just accepted that diapers are a way of life for us. Ask any long time adult baby or diaper lover how many times they have given up wearing diapers, tried to quit and have thrown out or given away all of their baby / diaper stuff. Now out of those ask how many of them have really been able to quit them for good. I know the odds of this are slim to none. i spent years off and on going through the binge and purge phase, trying to give up wearing diapers. I sought counseling several times and never got the help I thought I needed, One day I quit looking for answers and accepted the fact that diapers are a major part of me. They chose me as much as I chose them and are forever entangled in my life. I cannot give up wearing diapers anymore then any of you with medical incontinence. I am dependent on diapers as much as you are. A previous poster stated that some people have contemplated suicide because they lost bladder / bowel control, well this has crossed many of our minds as well. In my opinion, the medically incontinent are much better off than your fellow ab/dl's. At least you know why you wear diapers. For people in our community, we have struggled for years wondering why we are attracted to diapers. It's certainly is easier these days to find sites such as these for support and understanding. For me and the over forty crowd, our attraction began way before computers and websites and we for the most part were or felt all alone. So to those of you who feel we are all off of our gourdes, please give us some of the same understanding that you are seeking.
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  3. If you see it that way then you're going to find yourself misunderstanding and misunderstood The word "incontinence" doesn't indicate both urinary and fecal Many people have only bladder leakage and they are still incontinent- if it meant both they wouldn't be incontinent In general usage here and in RL, the word "incontinence" is taken to mean urinary only, unless modified with the adjective "fecal". Words mean specific things and one person does not a lexicon make Of course you can do as you please but language isn't going to change for you so you can expect continuing problems until you change your concept of the definition of "incontinence" to fit what the rest of the world defines it as Not flaming, just saying! Bettypooh
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  4. Had to read this for my into course for my graduate school... thought it was appropriate anywhere.... i would post it in every forum here.... but i think DD might spank me and put me in time out if i did that!!! The Core Rules of Netiquette — Summary Rule 1. Remember the human. Never forget that the person reading your mail or posting is, indeed, a person, with feelings that can be hurt. Corollary 1 to Rule #1: It's not nice to hurt other people's feelings. Corollary 2: Never mail or post anything you wouldn't say to your reader's face. Corollary 3: Notify your readers when flaming. Rule 2. Adhere to the same standards of behavior online that you follow in real life. Corollary 1: Be ethical. Corollary 2: Breaking the law is bad Netiquette. Rule 3. Know where you are in cyberspace. Corollary 1: Netiquette varies from domain to domain. Corollary 2: Lurk before you leap. Rule 4. Respect other people's time and bandwidth. Corollary 1: It's OK to think that what you're doing at the moment is the most important thing in the universe, but don't expect anyone else to agree with you. Corollary 2: Post messages to the appropriate discussion group. Corollary 3: Try not to ask stupid questions on discussion groups. Corollary 4: Read the FAQ (Frequently Asked Questions) document. Corollary 5: When appropriate, use private email instead of posting to the group. Corollary 6: Don't post subscribe, unsubscribe, or FAQ requests. Corollary 7: Don't waste expert readers' time by posting basic information. Corollary 8: If you disagree with the premise of a particular discussion group, don't waste the time and bandwidth of the members by telling them how stupid they are. Just stay away. Corollary 9: Conserve bandwidth when you retrieve information from a host or server. Rule 5. Make yourself look good online. Corollary 1: Check grammar and spelling before you post. Corollary 2: Know what you're talking about and make sense. Corollary 3: Don't post flame-bait. Rule 6. Share expert knowledge. Corollary 1: Offer answers and help to people who ask questions on discussion groups. Corollary 2: If you've received email answers to a posted question, summarize them and post the summary to the discussion group. Rule 7. Help keep flame wars under control. Corollary 1: Don't respond to flame-bait. Corollary 2: Don't post spelling or grammar flames. Corollary 3: If you've posted flame-bait or perpetuated a flame war, apologize. Rule 8. Respect other people's privacy. Don't read other people's private email. Rule 9. Don't abuse your power. The more power you have, the more important it is that you use it well. Rule 10. Be forgiving of other people's mistakes. You were a network newbie once too!
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  5. The defendant might not have done anything obviously suspicious. Regulations, laws and signs on both the USA and Canadian side of the border make it clear the act of crossing is a consent to search. Appellate Courts of both countries have affirmed this principle. Perhaps the ICE agent had a hunch. Possibly that gate has a system, such as every 50th car, gets searched. Or, considering the amount of undeclared cash, odds are a tipster alerted ICE. Why hide the cash in packs of diapers? A problem with transportation of disposables across borders is that the various odors of compressed new disposables often mask characteristic odors of currency, illegal drugs and explosives. Knowing this cargo containers of diapers are carefully tracked, if not physically searched. It stands to reason ICE agents pay close attention when more than a single bag of adult diapers is spotted.
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  7. At least I actually read your responses instead of saying the same thing again and again. Again with the fecal incontinence. You seem to be fixated on it. Not everyone here is asking for fecal incontinence. And even if they were, life is what you make of it. Fecal incontinence isn't that big of a deal. And good lord, are you honestly telling me to think long and hard about what being incontinent would be like? Seriously? After wearing 24/7 for six years, you think the problem is I just haven't thought about it enough? Again, you are projecting. Stop assuming you have thought more about this than everyone else, and that you know what is best for everyone. I give up. Thank you Darkfinn, totally agree. Unfortunately she probably won't read your post either. It is fascinating to me the way transgenderism (a form of BIID) is so widely accepted and supported, yet we can't even get a modicum of respect on an AB/DL support forum. It may very well be a mental disorder (just like you could call being AB/DL, or anything out of the ordinary that you don't like), but at least for TGs, psychologists understand that it is not curable with simple "you should think about it more" statements; and that the overall mental harm is far greater than the physical harm of what people are asking for with BIID. Maybe some day people desiring incontinence will be treated with a bit more respect.
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  8. Honestly Wiki is more accurate than a lot of people think. As long as you aren't searching politics or pop culture their articles are generally factual and accurate.
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  9. Heres the best way to know, talk to people are you school in the department you want to work in... and say "if i came to you with a degree from this school would you consider me hirable?" its a great way to find out. Also, look at some other schools that offer the same program, and compare what they offer, what their accredidations are, etc....etc....etc... good the name of the school followed by the word "review"... you'll get lots of websites with different reviews... oh yeah and NEVER TRUST A WIKI ENTRY!!!!!!!
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  10. People who condemn 24/7 wearers and tell them "wanting to be IC is wrong" really drive me up the wall. What about transgender people or folks into body modification? Do you think they are fucked up too? Heaven forbid, some of them want their natural sex organs removed! They want to do something far more permanent than lose bladder or bowel control... yet, for the most part, they are accepted and supported. Reversion to incontinence is not a sudden "Oops, it's gone." The loss of control is progressive, slow, and reversible. It can be stopped at any point should the person decide that they've had enough. So get off your damn high horse and quit judging people for doing what their body feels is right. It isn't hurting you or anyone else in the public.
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  11. Anyone that has ever changed a diaper on a male will tell you... point it down. It will be a little sore when you get a stiffy at first, but eventually your body will adjust to being pointed in that direction and everything will be just fine. It is a matter of your body getting used to being diapered.
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  12. Depression is a bitch. I know. What you need to do first and foremost is don't get rid of the things that make you happy. If smoking and wearing diapers help with that, then what's wrong with it? I would usually not encourage anyone to smoke (I quit 12 years ago, and I don't miss it), but it's hardly the worst thing you can do. For me, I had to embrace the diaper side of me. About 7 years ago, I just decided that wanting diapers was part of who I am. Granted, it's not the best part or a part that I want to show everybody, but it is part of me. Not acknowledging it was like denying part of me, and that does not help with depression. Forget what everybody else thinks. Only you can decide what is part of you and what isn't. But don't go denying yourself.
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  13. Stacy is bi-polar and depressed stupid doctor make me feel like in crazy cuz I get sad and cry lots. They make me take pills sad me hate them
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  14. I thought that the whole point of this sub-forum was to avoid the incessant nagging of the "you don't really want to be incontinent" crowd, geez. People, it's a big world. You aren't the center of it. You may not want to be incontinent, you may have wanted to be at some point too, you may have had an amazing epiphany about it. It doesn't matter, because other people are different than you. You have no idea why other people want to be incontinent. It could be a form of body integrity identity disorder. That can be very serious. Take transgenderism, people wanting to remove their male anatomy. And guess what? With enough counseling, doctors will actually do it. That is because for some, BIID is so intense that overall it really is better to just do it than to not. And yes, just like the TG crowd, some going incontinent rushed in and end up regretting it. But that's not everyone. Try not to project so much. Like this: I've worn almost six years at 24/7, even tried the hypnosis, and lost no control at all. I don't even remember, but I probably go a bit more often, nothing more. What does this tell me? That I personally can't become incontinent voluntarily, not that it's impossible for anyone to become voluntarily incontinent. So like Darkfinn, I just wear 24/7, and that's that. There hasn't been a day I haven't wanted to be incontinent, even the two times I've leaked at work. But there's nothing I can do about it, because this isn't mainstream enough for any doctor to care.
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  15. Why are some ppl so mean? Do ppl like to make me cry? I'm just a cuddley and lovey person who wants lots some daddy to talk me. But then he is so mean when he sees me alil chubby but me cute. I'm never gonna b appected. Hope u all don't hate me I just wanteds some friends who wood play with me. I'm just loneys and loser bye ppl. If anyone feels like me plzzz message me we b friends and text.
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  16. Well, there have been a lot of opinions expressed - and many are conflicting - so in some sense, a lot of what has been said can not be true. On the other hand, I have enjoyed being able to read the thread and not feel attacked by one opinion or another. It has actually been a very civil discussion of various beliefs. Bettypooh, I do think a lot of religions and denominations require some indoctrination and lock-step thinking, but that isn't necessarily true of all. Many at least act like they have a corner on 'TRUTH' and Christians often point to the Bible as the inerrant word of God. Those same people then tell you how you should live based on that inerrant writing. Of course, they won't talk about the contradictory passages. They'll quote passages of Leviticus, but won't mention about stoning unruly children or women needing to go out of town for their periods, etc. Many of these people have come to believe that somehow they (as fallible humans) - or others (just as fallible) in their church - are able to tell you just which passages are to be taking as fact, where other passages (the ones they don't want to deal with) are not to be taken literally, and still other passages are just superceded in some way. Even from the New Testament, shouldn't people who have divorced be stoned to death? On a less violent note, shouldn't all women have to cover their heads - let alone be 'obedient' to their husbands? And, oh yes, slaves, be obedient to your masters. If the Bible is truly inerrant word of God, which humans get to tell you which passages to interpret how? This is why I DON'T feel I have a corner on the TRUTH. It's why I read and re-read the Bible, continue to preach about it (expressing frequently and firmly that I'm preaching my thoughts) and invite other opinions. I feel the purpose of religion is to keep our faith growing. If you've got a lock on the TRUTH, why bother trying to grow your faith? Again, for those who do not believe, sorry for a rather long response - and a second one. I do feel a continuing need to point out to people that not ALL Christians are locked-step, rigid believers...I believe there is a TRUTH, but it's our goal to have a good relationship with God and with others around us. If what I believe comes to pass, we may get to know the TRUTH in the next life. If what I believe doesn't come to pass, I still think I'll have lived a better, more meaningful life...whether I become a sack of embalming fluid or a bunch of ashes. And finally, I continue to be impressed by our ability to make our own statements - and to an extent respond to others in a civil fashion!
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  17. I just wish they'd focused on adding thickness rather than absorbency. It seems like there's a magical threshold that manufacturers are unwilling or unable to surpass, which is a shame. If Bambino, Abena, Attends, or any other company came out with an indisputably thicker diaper, I'd be *all over it*. Granted Tena did, but it's impossible to find stateside. Edit: To whoever was classy enough to downvote this comment...why?
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  18. A squalling, possibly poopy baby in a baby buggy was very effective in Holland in WW2. The kids were trained to really cry at the sight of a uniformed soldier - probably poop too. In any event the last thing a red blooded German soldier in his late teens or early twenties wanted around was a squalling kid, possibly stinky too. Mother and child were quickly passed through the inspection lines and heaven only knew what was under the mattress. I suspect this would have worked with American soldiers as well.
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  19. Well, I love bambino and I know everyone's very excited for this new product release as I am too. However, I'm starting to get mixed feelings. For me anyway, I don't care much for the print, bears just aren't my thing and would rather have no print than bears. The tapes seem okay at best and although a unique design, it's not necessary and is easily a problem if you don't use them correctly and even if you do, don't seem hold up over time. It also doesn't sound from what people are saying that they're that advantagous so what's the point? If it ain't broke, don't fix it. What's wrong with the previous taping system. Works great everytime, all the time and so do other less complex taping systems on other diapers. I see zero benefit in this taping system and I'm guessing the new taping system is what caused all the delays in the release of this new diaper. Still doesn't appear it's 100% right. The added absorbancy as many reported is unnoticable. They aren't yet available in L or S. I use Large. They cost more. Why would I want to pay more for something with tapes that aren't as effective as the previous ones, unnoticable added absorbancy, and a print I don't particularily like? Guess I'll be sticking to my biancos!! I can add any print to them if I want. PS. Now, before you all get up in my grill and hating and giving me negative feedback, this is just my opinion and take on the diaper just as it was yours in your posts even if you absolutely loved them and I didn't give you any negative feedback so I'd appreciate the same. It's my opinion and maybe others feel the same. I wear bambinos, like them, great diapers so I'm not hating the company, keep that in mind.
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  20. I understand if you for some reason can't wear diapers whether it be parents or roomates or whatever the case may be. This is after all a sensitive lifestyle to live especially with a society that doesn't understand the needs of people who enjoy being babies after they are full grown or who simply like to wear diapers and those that choose to parent them. I have a situation where I must be very discreet about bring any baby things into my place because I live with room mates who wouldn't understand this lifestyle..under NO CIRCUMSTANCES would I resort to breaking the law to get what I want. You should have waited until a time where you could have bought them online or honestly BOUGHT them. What was done was wrong! I could never condone this.
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  21. Training your body to become incontinent is a danger hidden behind a screen of sexual eroticism. In other words the sexual desire mkes one blind to the dangers and inconveniences of becoming incontinent for real. You can seriously do damage to your body making yourself lose all control. I see some people use butt plugs of increasing sizes intended to stretch the anus to the point it makes them bowel incontinent. And why it sounds like it's not a big deal, it IS a big deal. You can seriously tear up the insides of your rectum and you may not ever be able to go back. I understand how fetishes work. If you have a sexual or non sexual desire for incontinece then your brain is running on high fumes and it's hard to see the dangers. I recommend (if the case is sexual) to masterbate every time you think about becoming incontinent. Because we all know when you fellas orgasm the sexual need goes away and sometimes you find yourself thinking how stpid the desire was. But then it comes back. It's a cycle. So, just masterbate to the idea and maybe over time you will see the need go away. I've been reading posts in this section and it amazes me how so many people actually desire to have bowel and/or urine incontience. Ithink it a td offensive to those individuals who totally rely on diapers because of true incontinence. I would think after a few unintended and random messes and/or wettings, you would see the hassle of being incontinent. It may sound like fun at first. But it's not fun when you constantlly are changing yourself in public because you can't go out without diapers. It's also not fair for those same individuals who have to constantly worry about smelling like they just poo pooed themselves. Bottom line: it may sound fun, but if you truly become one, you will wish you had the freedom back. Because incontinence is a demanding lifestyle and it's slightly offensive to those who really suffer to willingly train yourself to become incontinent. You have the choice when and where to use the bathroom.They don't Whereas you can hold it just a bit longer while you grab a popcorn at the concession stand, they can't. And truly incontinent people don't have the freedom to NOT stink. Whereas those who aren't incontinent don't have to worry about being offensive to people arouund him, those who are have a more difficult time enjoying things we take for granted. Example: movie theater. You can go see the newest hot action fick at the movie theater packed full of people, excited because it's premier night. Incontinent people have two choices: go some time adfter when the xrowd dies down and not worry about smelling, or have to miss parts of the movie just to change his diaper he just messed into. You don't have to worry about if you smell stinky, you have the choice to not poo yourself. Incontinent people always have to worry about if they are sitting in the packed movie theater all stinky and whatnot. It's a precious gift, having the freedom to not worry about offending people. They don't have that freedom. And like I said, all of this means it's unfair and disrespectful of truly incontinent people if you can say "not now"and they say "oh man NOW??!?!". Wow long rant sorry lol.
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  22. My original statement remains the same: you should really think about everything incontinence entails. I know diapers plays a big role in a lot of what we all do in life. But to be truly and fully incontinent pushes back the diapers to the most basic part of your life. Diapers become a necessity as much as a pair of shoes are. You can't go anywhere. You can't do anything without wearing diapers AND potentially being offensive to those around you by smelling of feces and or urine. I don't intend to come in here and preach anything at all. I only hope that for anyone who desires incontinence to really think long and hard about how it really would be like to be incontinent. There would come a time when you would really wish to have your continence back. There's ver few things in life that no one can control but you. One is the ability to use the bathroom at your own discretion. Being incontinent can rip that away potentially for the rest of your life. Imagine the simplest scenario. Maybe taking a walk in the park. Simple, short, fun. Now do that with fullblown incontinence. Whereas before all you needed were a pair of legs and a nice sunshiny day, now you would need the diaper (which would no longer have the fetish significance it once did), a diaper bag full with fresh ones, powder, wipes, and abosrbant materials to clean up possible leaks, probably some plastic pants, some air freshener, little baggies to tie up used diapers and anything else. You wold need all this because with incontinence your body can ruin your day no matter how insignificant the activity. With this walk in the park, imagine that your bowels let loose some poop and the diaper you puut on you THOUGHT you had it leak free and everything seemed fine because you wet earlier and nothing leaked, well with the mess during your walk you find your diaper has a leak in it while you are in the middle of the park. Now the beautiful calm day is interrupted because you have to find a restroom that allows you to have privacy enough so that you can undiaper yourself, wipe yourself clean, put on the fresh one, and make everything right again so you can continue watching the birds and having fun. 10 minutes of your day gone and the possibility that you now smell. Here is the kicker: incontinence means all the time. You don't choose where, when or how many times. So after the change in the park your body feels the need again to expel so waste so twenty minutes later you mess yourself again while at a restauarany so you have to do it all over again. This cycle repeats over nd over and over again possibly forever. You always have to be wary of your surroundings. Little things you will pick up on. Like now you may think "oh diapered for life is fun". But little things will become part of your life like youn will mentally pick and choose places to go based on proximity to restrooms, people attending the place, etc etc. It's a demanding lifestyle that I really applaud the truly incontinent people for not going haywire and flaming this subforum. I am aware it's a subforum for the desire. But the line to cross here from continence to incontinence is such a huge gap. It's two completely different lifestyles and anyone who is incontinent would probably trade places with anyone who isn't that way in a heartbeat. It's a demanding and tiresome lifestyle that I am glad most of them don't go crazy and do crazy things. I know I would. Which is why I appreciate my own personal ability to mess when I choose. I have slight urinary problems so I don't always have the freedom there. But even slight urinary incontinecne makes things much more difficult thn they need to be. Appreciate what you have. You may find you'll miss it when it's gone and you cn't get it back. Lol ok MC here is your mic back, I am stepping off the pedestal now. Thank you and good night.
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  23. I don't think you are getting the point of my discussion. It's not that you shouldn't be incontinent because it would offend those who really have the problem. It's that you should be thankful for the things god has given you and not want to have one of our most basic freedoms taken away. As one said above: with incontinence it can happen anytime. Anytime your bowels maay decided to expel some feces and it doesn't matter where you are, you will mess yourself diapered or not. You should just really REALLY think hard about what an incontinent lifestyle would entail. For those of us who don't have the problem it's easy to see thr ABDLish side of the issue. But those who are really incontinent don't see diapers the way we do. For them diapers aren't a fetish, aren't seomthing to masterbate to, but a reqired piece of clothing that if they choose to not wear will end up being pffensive to everyone around them. No one wants to be next to someone who is incontinent and not diapered, and just had a mssive poop spill at the grocery store. Be thankfulfor what you have and just think hard about how difficult life is when such a simple freedom is forever taken away. I actually lok up to people who are incontinent because they have more patience than I ever will have. Unless I become incontinent. Which I hope never happens. I enjoy having the ability to say "today I don't want to be diapered". They don't have the ability.
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  24. I'm sorry but incontinent desires should entail just about every aspect of the ABDL life. Incontinence covers both urine incontinence and poop incontinence. Unless otherwise stated I may refer to either when discussing things. It's silly to think this little subforum can exclude anything when it's about losing pretty much everything.
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  25. Going into psych mode for this one: It's a feeling of neglect that is overwhelming you. One thing you do not do when feeling like this is look for people. Let them come to you. Also, online or even on the phone too many people are wearing masks (which I find offensive personally) and you have to meet them in person to get to know them. At first contact, expect nothing, and don't tell them too much about yourself. Let them drop their mask, and if you wear one online drop yours to. If they leave remind yourself that the internet is not reality, it's another world to most people. Sometimes being alone is great for the soul to, so you can give up on searching and just learn about yourself instead. There's always more to one's self to learn. Hopefully this feeling will pass and you will again find more important things to focus on in your life.
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  26. So, from this we can assume that about 50% of the AB/DL community is suffering from a mental illness of some sort. Well, that certainly explains a lot... it also kinda scares me.
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  27. I only said what I said because people who want to be incontinent sometimes say things that are offensive to people who have real incontinence problems. I have seen it said on here and other places jow not being able to control when your poop slides into your diaper is a good feeling and I even see some people include fetish in their talk. People who have genuine incontinence should get offended by anyone who thinks it would be heaven to mess or wet in public with no control. It's similar to if you were to hear a someone talk about desires to become blind and how it would be awesome, in the earshotof a person who IS blind. Ijst think that if you truly had complete lack of bosily fluids, it wouold notbe so nice. The diapers you come to know and love become a necessary part of you and it can't be controlled. Imagine interviewing for a job at some office complex. The interview goes great, and than all of a sudden the interview room smells like feces. I can imagine someone saying "oh my I had an interview today and I messed myself during the inerview it was aweomse".
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