Ryan1967 Posted March 28 Share Posted March 28 I have been a bedwetter to some of extent all my life. Came back really frequently at 40 and have worn for bed since then. Also stated to have daytime accidents so wear 24/7. Have had lots of medical intervention with little success. Was told that eventually I could loose bowel control, but until recently thought I had missed that bullet, as only messy accidents were if I had very loose bowels when the difference between farts and pooing got a bit blurred. However last few week I have had quite a few messy nappies - still feel the need to go, but not much time now between getting feeling and it coming out - I try to hold it in, but can not hold on and I mess my nappy. So far this week all my bowel movements have ended up in my diaper. While it is not at all unpleasant, it is a bit of a shock to be using my diaper with no or very little control, already had no control of my pee. I knew it would eventually happen, but still a bit of a shock to be messing myself like baby. 2 Link to comment
DailyDi Posted March 28 Share Posted March 28 You could try timed toileting to minimize messy accidents. 1 Link to comment
Ryan1967 Posted March 29 Author Share Posted March 29 Hi I do not really feel the need to go, before this i used to make sure I tried regularly, like when you get potty trying kids to try, just in case. but now the first thing I know is the feeling of it starting to come out - I can hold it a little bit, but unless very close to a toilet, I end up following through - sort of resolved to the fact this is what is happening to me, like when I gradually list control of my pee 1 Link to comment
CodHero24 Posted March 30 Share Posted March 30 I've been somehow on a morning messing schedule for the past few years. I mess my diaper every morning while I drink my coffee, without any pushing. I don't change right away, and usually have a second or third BM within a half hour or so. And then before showering, I'll give a push attempt to see if there's anything else in there before taking my diaper off, (But i'm usually empty at that point). Other than the morning, I usually don't have to poop during the rest of the daytime. However, there are some rare exceptions where I will have a need for a daytime BM, but a very small percentage of the time. I would suggest you try to get onto a schedule like this, so you can take care of your BM's in the morning before you shower. As far as accomplishing this, It could have something to do with that I drink lots of water before bed, for better sleep and extra hydration. I hardly drink soda, and also drink plenty of water during the day. 2 Link to comment
Ryan1967 Posted March 31 Author Share Posted March 31 Must admit also seems to happen in the morning - always been quite regular - have not used the toilet for over two weeks - there used to be some resistance, now I just feel a sudden urge to poo and it starts to come out - sort of getting used to it, like I had to when my urinary incontinence kicked in 2 Link to comment
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