I wanna try 24/7!

[megaaaan]

So I have been into diapers (as a DL) for a couple of years, maybe more. Honestly can't remember how I found out about them / why I like them so much.

They're just cute and crinkly. Plus I don't have the strongest bladder ever so they're convenient. My bladder isn't bad but when I need to go sometimes I dribble a bit? Not sure how to describe it.

But yea, I wanna try going 24/7 for a week or so. Only issue is that I still live with my parents and younger brother. I've considered getting an Airbnb for a week but that'd cost about £250 / $300 usd.

Just wanna wearr haha.

I really wanna move out but I just can't at the moment (because of money) and due to quarantine my family is like, always home. They were all out earlier for a couple of hours so I wore, felt great.

I read this on Tumblr from @serah-in-diapers "The easiest control mechanism for keeping yourself in diapers is social - if other people know that you’re in diapers, then what’s weird is not being in diapers. Here are some things to consider.

Backstory. When you’re explaining why you’re in diapers, pick a complaint which is permanent, incurable, and doesn’t have very many side effects. Being permanent and incurable means it will never make sense for you to be out of diapers, which fits the whole “trapped” thing you’re going for."

I'd love to do that but I just don't know how it'd go haha.

Any tips for going 24/7? Not sure why I posted this but I just wanna go 24/7 ;(

[wetmonkey]

Yeah it is not easy to be living at home with family and also want to wear 24/7. While I have not done it during this quarantine here are some tips that I have from wearing around my parents;

1. Try using pull-ups/underwear style ones during the day. These may not be the ones you like or want to be wearing but they are so much more hidden under clothing and can still help with leaks (I have this after I go) or other times people might be hogging the bathroom. They are often on sale at any pharmacy.

2. Wearing jeans over your diapers if you only want to wear plastic ones, I have found jeans quiet the sound of plastic diapers the best of any pants. I also try and act as natural as possible when walking around, even if it is quiet in the apartment (my parents live in an apartment), hopefully there is often a TV or music on in your house.

3. Have non-clear bags to throw out dirty diapers in when you can. When at home I will often wear bigger plastic diapers to bed (I sometimes need them for bedwetting) but then trying to throw them out the next day can be complicated and annoying. I find having just regular white plastic bags helps me hide them in my backpack or other bags and thrown them away somewhere else than in the family garbage.

Hope that helps, let me know if you have other questions.

 

[~Brian~]

3 hours ago, wetmonkey said:

Yeah it is not easy to be living at home with family and also want to wear 24/7. While I have not done it during this quarantine here are some tips that I have from wearing around my parents;

1. Try using pull-ups/underwear style ones during the day. These may not be the ones you like or want to be wearing but they are so much more hidden under clothing and can still help with leaks (I have this after I go) or other times people might be hogging the bathroom. They are often on sale at any pharmacy.

2. Wearing jeans over your diapers if you only want to wear plastic ones, I have found jeans quiet the sound of plastic diapers the best of any pants. I also try and act as natural as possible when walking around, even if it is quiet in the apartment (my parents live in an apartment), hopefully there is often a TV or music on in your house.

3. Have non-clear bags to throw out dirty diapers in when you can. When at home I will often wear bigger plastic diapers to bed (I sometimes need them for bedwetting) but then trying to throw them out the next day can be complicated and annoying. I find having just regular white plastic bags helps me hide them in my backpack or other bags and thrown them away somewhere else than in the family garbage.

Hope that helps, let me know if you have other questions.

 

@wetmonkey

Great information ?

I have also posted some advice on the forums, helping people as well.  When you live with your parents, it can be hard:  Take a Look Here:

How to be a DL In Secret

Please Help Me, Going 24-7, Just need some Pointers

Take Care,

Brian

[~Brian~]

23 minutes ago, baker7 said:

@wetmonkey

Great information ?

I have also posted some advice on the forums, helping people as well.  When you live with your parents, it can be hard:  Take a Look Here:

How to be a DL In Secret

Please Help Me, Going 24-7, Just need some Pointers

Take Care,

Brian

@megaaaan

Welcome to DD!  If you are serious about going 24/7, or on how you could be a nappy/diaper wearer in secret, the information I posted above should help you.  As with @wetmonkey advice, there are others who also have good advice for you.  Some of them that want 24/7. mean full-time diapers, for #1 and #2.  Some may only use them for either one or the other.  It takes a commitment to do it, so I would also look at the incontinence forum for information. Some people only wear when they can, and others need to wear for medical or security reasons.  It can be complicated when you live with your family - Trust me, that is hard, because you have to be careful that you are not discovered.

The posts above should give you a good headstart.  If I can be of any additional help, please do not hesitate to hit me up in a PM (Personal Message)  My PM's are open, and I will be glad to help you if I can.  Also, feel free to follow my posts, as I do post quite frequently.

Have a Great Day, and Good Luck!

Brian

[Little Sherri]

I have a thread where I go over what I went through going 24/7 over the last year if you want to have a look. I've been 24/7 for just over 13 months now. There is another gentlemen, @oznl, who writes hilariously and realistically about the practical considerations - I learned a lot from him, and a host of other people who posted on his thread and on mine, on my way to getting to where I am now. If you really, really want this, it is worth it, but, you have to really want it. A good way to find out is to try and commit yourself to a few days in the saddle, so to speak, to see what it's like to do some normal things in a diaper - operating around your family, going shopping, out for dinner with friends, out for a hike, etc. Well, this pandemic may not allow you to do everything "normal", but you can definitely test-drive being padded in a few circumstances. One of the great acid tests, if you are able to, is to leave your normal surroundings and only bring diapers with you, no safety net. The first time I went on a business trip packing only diapers for underwear really brought that feeling home for me - being away in another city for a couple of nights, having to work, eat out, travel etc, with no recourse. Well, other than going commando or hitting a Walmart and buying some boxers. But I have never done either. If you manage to navigate those waters, then you'll know this is for you. If you panic and go buy underwear, then that's different, but equally valid, feedback from yourself. Good luck and godspeed. Feel free to contact me if you like. 

[megaaaan]

5 hours ago, wetmonkey said:

Yeah it is not easy to be living at home with family and also want to wear 24/7. While I have not done it during this quarantine here are some tips that I have from wearing around my parents;

1. Try using pull-ups/underwear style ones during the day. These may not be the ones you like or want to be wearing but they are so much more hidden under clothing and can still help with leaks (I have this after I go) or other times people might be hogging the bathroom. They are often on sale at any pharmacy.

2. Wearing jeans over your diapers if you only want to wear plastic ones, I have found jeans quiet the sound of plastic diapers the best of any pants. I also try and act as natural as possible when walking around, even if it is quiet in the apartment (my parents live in an apartment), hopefully there is often a TV or music on in your house.

3. Have non-clear bags to throw out dirty diapers in when you can. When at home I will often wear bigger plastic diapers to bed (I sometimes need them for bedwetting) but then trying to throw them out the next day can be complicated and annoying. I find having just regular white plastic bags helps me hide them in my backpack or other bags and thrown them away somewhere else than in the family garbage.

Hope that helps, let me know if you have other questions.

 

I don't think I'd like pullups, but you said that haha. I'll try to get some non-clear bags but it may raise suspicion because we have always used clear bags for regular trash etc, so if someone sees a black bag when they go to throw the rubbish out may raise suspicion. 

A decent piece of advice I got is to let my parents see me with a wet patch etc, that might work but I'm not sure. What do you think?

2 hours ago, baker7 said:

@megaaaan

Welcome to DD!  If you are serious about going 24/7, or on how you could be a nappy/diaper wearer in secret, the information I posted above should help you.  As with @wetmonkey advice, there are others who also have good advice for you.  Some of them that want 24/7. mean full-time diapers, for #1 and #2.  Some may only use them for either one or the other.  It takes a commitment to do it, so I would also look at the incontinence forum for information. Some people only wear when they can, and others need to wear for medical or security reasons.  It can be complicated when you live with your family - Trust me, that is hard, because you have to be careful that you are not discovered.

The posts above should give you a good headstart.  If I can be of any additional help, please do not hesitate to hit me up in a PM (Personal Message)  My PM's are open, and I will be glad to help you if I can.  Also, feel free to follow my posts, as I do post quite frequently.

Have a Great Day, and Good Luck!

Brian

Thanks! 

A decent piece of advice I got is to let my parents see me with a wet patch etc, that might work but I'm not sure. What do you think?

 

1 hour ago, Little Sherri said:

I have a thread where I go over what I went through going 24/7 over the last year if you want to have a look. I've been 24/7 for just over 13 months now. There is another gentlemen, @oznl, who writes hilariously and realistically about the practical considerations - I learned a lot from him, and a host of other people who posted on his thread and on mine, on my way to getting to where I am now. If you really, really want this, it is worth it, but, you have to really want it. A good way to find out is to try and commit yourself to a few days in the saddle, so to speak, to see what it's like to do some normal things in a diaper - operating around your family, going shopping, out for dinner with friends, out for a hike, etc. Well, this pandemic may not allow you to do everything "normal", but you can definitely test-drive being padded in a few circumstances. One of the great acid tests, if you are able to, is to leave your normal surroundings and only bring diapers with you, no safety net. The first time I went on a business trip packing only diapers for underwear really brought that feeling home for me - being away in another city for a couple of nights, having to work, eat out, travel etc, with no recourse. Well, other than going commando or hitting a Walmart and buying some boxers. But I have never done either. If you manage to navigate those waters, then you'll know this is for you. If you panic and go buy underwear, then that's different, but equally valid, feedback from yourself. Good luck and godspeed. Feel free to contact me if you like. 

Yea, I want to book an Airbnb and just get away and wear for a bit, see what it's like. 

A decent piece of advice I got is to let my parents see me with a wet patch etc, that might work but I'm not sure. What do you think?

I'll check your thread out!

 

[oznl]

If you have this compulsion, the overwhelming experience of myself and others is that it won’t go away and you’ll have to learn to live with it one way or another.

Having said that, 24x7 is an extreme use-case and I don’t know that locking yourself in with some kind of social “control mechanism” (as per Serah’s online advice) is necessarily a good first step with that kind of experiment.

  Statistically, it's highly likely that sanity will prevail and you'll want to back out after a while.  That's no bad thing.

If I was to try to distill down my reflections on this to something short and sharp it would go like:

1. Take into consideration how this might affect the rest of my life and those I care about

2. Don’t burn any bridges/paint myself into any corners, at least at first

3. Try it before I buy it

In my mind, going around the house exhibiting wet patches to family is probably going to run foul of #1 and #2.  Some kind of a discreet "test drive" might be better so long as that test drive reflects the kind of real-world conditions you'd have to navigate in nappies.  This is something that may just need to go onto a back burner until you get your own place.

Thanks to @Little Sherri  for that plug and the awesome advice that you try this for a while before committing anything.  I STILL haven't committed :-)

My thread (more of a blog really) is  probably more about chronicling the logistical and familial implications of actually going diapered 24/7 (as opposed to the more commonly available “porn” view of doing so).  I guess at least it isn’t guilty of over-glamorising the lifestyles and Scout’s honour, it’s pretty truthful (you can tell because it's boring for bits).