help or advice on losing control

[Ginger]

I'm restarting my journey to dependence! Its fairly easy for me to wet while wearing, messing is very enjoyable for me when I am able however I would like some advice on how to lose control. Do plugs seem to work for anyone? While I would like to lose bowel control, I also enjoy anal sex a lot and wouldn't want to become too loose to enjoy it as much or as often. I'm a female, and I know that there aren't as many women like me as men. So if any females on here could give me some advice that would be great too. I hope to hear from anyone soon!! Thank you!!!❤❤❤

[Pootattoo]

Anal stretching, a healthy diet and a daily magnesium supplement to keep things soft works for me!

[Ginger]

Thank you pootattoo!! I'm thinking of looking into some plugs. I appreciate the advice!

[Ginger]

OH! ALSO! Has anyone used nullo or any other internal deodorant? Not that I personally mind what comes along with messing, but I'm trying to be considerate to others in case I were to have an accident in a less than optimal situation. Lol

[deacon]

Adam and Eve have a few plugs. I have one that is inflatable and it will cause me to cum. I have a very sensitive body and much enjoyment comes from it. I also have a enema inflatable plug that allows the enema tube to pass through it and holds in the enema. 

[Ginger]

Hi deacon! Wow! I bet the enema plug is fun and intense. I haven't had an enema in quite some time but I did very much enjoy them during my last attempt at dependency! I wish it were easy to cum from using plugs but being female im plumbed a little differently. Lol thanks for the pointers!

[JessicaRyan]

Plugs definitely work... Slowly work your way from small to large... I have been at it for about three months and I am currently able to insert a coke can in my ass and am working my way to 8cm and then 10 and then 15 and then all the way up to the late twenties... If you want to see a girl that has achieved some great destruction of the butthole do some searching on Pornhub for Siswet19... You could also do some searching for DirtyGardenGirl - her asshole is totally fucked and I am quite certain she is incontinent as a result. If you look under my profile you will find an article I wrote with clear steps on how to get great results using plugs to totally destroy your sphincter muscle. I followed these steps and they are definitely working for me.

So far as anal sex is concerned, two options here - either find a partner that enjoys scat OR give yourself an enema 30 minutes before having sex... If there is nothing inside you then nothing will come out... Just realise that you might end up having to be fisted or let your partner stuff you with giant toys because a nice thick cock probably won't feel like anything...

Remember, the goal when using the plug is to not contract the muscles and to let the body push it out. That's the part that's being trained. You want your sphincter to get used to automatically pushing something out the moment it feels pressure... I am now at a stage where I don't have to do any pushing or bending over - it all comes out by itself... I can't wait to see what happens when my asshole is stretched to a 28 cm diameter... 

I started 24/7 diaper training five months ago. I don't think about having to pee or poop - I have completely handed this over to my subconscious mind and I aid it by always staying relaxed and making sure I change when my diapee is full as leaks happen and for some reason my brain knows this - I guess with time this will also change to the point where it will not matter.

What I set out to achieve five months ago is now my new normal. I will be in diapers for the rest of my life and what was once a tight butthole is now becoming a permanently gaping lose opening that will never properly close ever again.

I would never do this really, though a tattoo saying "Insert fists here" would be perfect 

[Rob110]

 Remember the Moto do no self harm,  If you want to wear 24/7 and use your diaper for its intended purpose then do so over time your body will adapt and you will experience loss of control with out doing any physical harm to your body. It will also give you time to decide if bowel incontinence is something you really want. 

 It dose not take long for your body to adapt when it’s something you really want,  one thing to think about its really embarrassing when a bowel moment hits at the wrong time. 

 

[herb330]

On 4/19/2020 at 1:34 PM, Ginger said:

I'm restarting my journey to dependence! Its fairly easy for me to wet while wearing, messing is very enjoyable for me when I am able however I would like some advice on how to lose control. Do plugs seem to work for anyone? While I would like to lose bowel control, I also enjoy anal sex a lot and wouldn't want to become too loose to enjoy it as much or as often. I'm a female, and I know that there aren't as many women like me as men. So if any females on here could give me some advice that would be great too. I hope to hear from anyone soon!! Thank you!!!❤❤❤

The first step is more mental.  It is to throw away any form of underwear.  It is important that this is not a fall back.  Make sure that ony diapers are in sight.  as well as accessories, lotion, wipes, powder.  This helps drive the need 

[Pootattoo]

One of the things that worked for me before I got into stretching...

 

I read a story a long time ago, about someone in the army who ate a lot of dried apricots and lost it while they were forced to stand at attention for a long period of time.

That intrigued me, So I tried it...

I bought a bag of dried apricots and ate about 30 of them with a lot of water to help them go down.

About a couple of hours later, I started having a lot of gas followed by a wave of poop that was impossible to hold!

I gotta say, I've experimented with a LOT of different laxatives, and none has ever effected me like that...

[DL-Boy]

49 minutes ago, Pootattoo said:

One of the things that worked for me before I got into stretching...

 

I read a story a long time ago, about someone in the army who ate a lot of dried apricots and lost it while they were forced to stand at attention for a long period of time.

That intrigued me, So I tried it...

I bought a bag of dried apricots and ate about 30 of them with a lot of water to help them go down.

About a couple of hours later, I started having a lot of gas followed by a wave of poop that was impossible to hold!

I gotta say, I've experimented with a LOT of different laxatives, and none has ever effected me like that...

Prunes (dried plums) are the most well known "natural laxative" that people turn to and they're in the same family of fruit that apricots are.  One current theory on why prunes work as well as they do is two-fold.  They are high in fiber certainly, but they also have a high concentration of sorbitol which is a sugar alcohol.  Sugar alcohols are known to produce laxative effects when consumed in sufficiently high doses.  A laxative effect is a familiar reaction to eating too many sugar free chocolate candies because they use sugar alcohols, usually maltitol and mannitol for sweeteners.