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Found out my boyfriend has a diaper fetish. Advice?

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My boyfriend told me he has a diaper fetish maybe a year ago. He doesn't wear them or anything, just his significant other. And it's just diapers, nothing else. It took a few months before I was comfortable talking about it or anything like that. About 4 months ago I began wearing a diaper for him occasionally during sex and sometimes to bed if he asked. I'm slowly getting somewhat less uncomfortable with the whole situation considering the only fetish I've been involved in is being tied down and stuff of that nature. This is definitely something I would like to learn more about since he trusted me enough to tell me. We've been together for two years and he's now starting to be more open with conversation, however, he doesn't always have answers on why he likes/enjoys this fetish. Two days ago he mentioned how his ex from like four years ago did it a few times and she even wet the diaper and they messed around and slept together while she had the wet diaper. That's something I was definitaly not comfortable with but ended up doing last night. Honestly I couldn't stand it because I still find it a little odd for an adult to be into. I'm just here looking for some answers, maybe how I can get more comfortable with it? He keeps telling me he will do anything once, even wear one if it helped me become ok with it. But I have no interest in the fetisj, I do it for him because I love him and want to make him happy. Any advice to help me get used to all this? 

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Hi Hannabanna, I applaud you and your willingness, to go to the lengths you have to please your boyfriend. It can be difficult for anyone to understand, and except this sort of thing. But, I think you need to truly evaluate, how far you would be willing to go, and more importantly what you are comfortable with doing. You and your boyfriend, should talk about what these things should be. He needs to know where you are willing to go, and where you will not. Maybe, there are some things you would do, but you need to go slow. Discuss this too. And don't foreget, it's a two way street. You need to get out of it, what you like too. Take it slow, talk about what you both want, be open, and continue to enjoy. Have fun! 

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On ‎3‎/‎17‎/‎2017 at 11:37 AM, Hannabanna said:

My boyfriend told me he has a diaper fetish maybe a year ago. He doesn't wear them or anything, just his significant other. And it's just diapers, nothing else. It took a few months before I was comfortable talking about it or anything like that. About 4 months ago I began wearing a diaper for him occasionally during sex and sometimes to bed if he asked. I'm slowly getting somewhat less uncomfortable with the whole situation considering the only fetish I've been involved in is being tied down and stuff of that nature. This is definitely something I would like to learn more about since he trusted me enough to tell me. We've been together for two years and he's now starting to be more open with conversation, however, he doesn't always have answers on why he likes/enjoys this fetish. Two days ago he mentioned how his ex from like four years ago did it a few times and she even wet the diaper and they messed around and slept together while she had the wet diaper. That's something I was definitaly not comfortable with but ended up doing last night. Honestly I couldn't stand it because I still find it a little odd for an adult to be into. I'm just here looking for some answers, maybe how I can get more comfortable with it? He keeps telling me he will do anything once, even wear one if it helped me become ok with it. But I have no interest in the fetisj, I do it for him because I love him and want to make him happy. Any advice to help me get used to all this? 

Hanna,

I applaud you for  your interest in learning more about this, but I must caution you not to forget your interests as well. It is important you progress at your speed. If you're not comfortable with something, voice it, this way it keeps a line of communication open between you two. Human urine is sterile and it's warm, which for some people is erotic in itself, but it is an acquired thing for most. The easiest way I can say to get used to it, is wet yourself when you go to the bathroom. Don't pull down your panties. They should allow you to experience the wet feeling, but allow you to get out of them before being abhorred by doing it. It will also cool and drain quickly. I suggest you do this In privacy and when YOU are comfortable with, surprise him. I think you'll be pleasantly pleased with the reaction he'll have! If you can't get comfortable with it, it more than likely is a psychological fixation we have when we are toilet trained and shaming that comes when we fail, after a successful potty training....most girls train sooner than boys, but the shame felt is equal when we fail. This isn't a failure, but the mind will attempt to reveal those shame feelings you may remember from either your training or someone you know that took a longer time of training their bladders to hold it till on the potty.

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