And this is why my wife hates coming here

[Elfy]

I do wish people would say "women" rather than "females"... Maybe it is just me but "female" sounds so clinical and odd unless talking about something professionally lol

[Dill_Pickle]

Elfking,

[BriBri360]

Another thing to be careful of on here is catfishing, i.e. someone of one gender pretending to be the opposite gender for whatever reason.

[DiaperedElf]

Another thing to be careful of on here is catfishing, i.e. someone of one gender pretending to be the opposite gender for whatever reason.

[Bettypooh]

We've revamped the rules concerning people who deceive over Gender with ill intent (such as with BriBri360). It's fine to be whoever you are- even Transgendered Stealth*- just don't let your choices cause another member harm. We're VERY serious about enforcing that rule because of the many times this kind of thing has happened so don't go there unless you're willing to be banned

[Darkfinn]

Another thing to be careful of on here is catfishing, i.e. someone of one gender pretending to be the opposite gender for whatever reason.

[BriBri360]

I hate these stories, because it makes it harder for people who are actually X gender to get credit as being X gender. Also, I get reluctance to provide pictures or IM programs, and here is why.

[Elfy]

It really isn't that hard to avoid that sort of thing...

[aleyxsis]

i used to go on chat quite a lot when i first did i got a lot of pm's guys

[Bettypooh]

Even in private settings, anything put online can be hacked which is why I almost never put anything personal on here Then again I don't make bones about who I am either. It's the dishonest o0nes who are the problem and you can't stop all of them, nor can you really know about someone till you see them in person You have to learn how to deal with it however you can that works for you. If you need pics than ask- they can only say "no" and you can decide what to do from there If you're easily hurt you need to set up better defenses

[aleyxsis]

So true Betty poo ! .Also just to let you i updated my status .If it is not right send me a E_mail

[Gennie]

Sara,