Any others here still virgins?

[h200420012]

I am(28), but by choice. I had a buddy of mine use a condom and have it burst on him and his girlfriend when I was in 9th grade.

[DLmach]

Nope. I lost my virginity at 18, which at the time I though was late considering all the stories I heard about people having sex at 15, but then I encountered many 18/19/20-year-old virgins after. I discovered that the more you have sex, the easier it is to get it. At this point, I am passed the whole wanting to get laid stage. I do go through periods where I crave sex, but most of the time nowadays I am open to something more.

[pampers212]

Glad to hear I'm not the only one in my early 30's who has never had a girlfriend.

[feralfreak]

Glad to hear I'm not the only one in my early 30's who has never had a girlfriend.

[dl_ashlee]

Yup, still a Virgin at 30. I had a couple of opportunities in Jr. High and was not ready at that point.

[TaliZorahFanGirl]

No I am not a virgin.

[DavidMW]

No I am not a virgin.

[Cute_Kitten]

I'm not a virgin, but I'm not very sexually active.

[billy1234]

Im a born again virgin not had sex in nearly 12 yrs through choice

[Dubious]

Now... For the *gay* guys here who want to have sex, but have expressed difficulty, let me share a secret...

[DavidMW]

The traditional view is that virginity is only lost through vaginal penetration by the penis

That didn't work for Bill Clinton, and I bet it wouldn't work with most spouses.

[Yuki Koneko]

Virgin, and proud. Saving it for the one.

BTW, it better be as awesome as all you non-virgins drum it up to be hahaha.

[Cute_Kitten]

Yuki- depends on your partner.

[jackdog77]

im a virgin and staying that way, not just because im a germaphobe(I NEVER go anywhere without sanitizer, I have to have it) but because I don't have relationships PERIOD, im straight but I never had a girlfriend, because having a relationship can lead to sex which can lead to her getting pregnant if something goes wrong(condom breaks, etc...) or std's, and because I know im not fit to be a father I have a duty NOT to have sex, my father was abusive, its a repeating pattern, I wish he saw the duty not to reproduce since he wasn't fit and neither was his father, and I cant stand myself so I doubt any woman would want to be with me, if I could trust someone enough to have sex with her(I cant, its part of why im not fit to be with anyone or to be a father), never had it, never will.

[feralfreak]

I had an overwhelming need to comment on this.

Not about your being a germaphobe,

Not about your fear of a broken condom and subsequent pregnancy (though I will say, condoms don't break often (the 1% predicted chance is actually quite optimistic in my experiences, and while it has happened to me, you can definitely notice as a guy if it has broken, then all you need to do is put on another).

[Guest]

I am the "original"40 year old virgin, I've always been a shy person especially with women, whether this little incident had anything to do with my shyness with girls I'm not sure, but when i was about 7-8 a girl in my class shoved me against the wall and kissed me, once she stopped I ran off crying like a baby, ever since I've not really had the bottle to talk to girls. (that girl went on to have a son at the age of 15 years old) I'm trying to talk with girls now, still not got any idea what to say, although recently I had an AB Girl one come over to my place for an afternoon of AB fun.