Girlfriend

[concernedbf1]

i love my girlfriend very much, she is amazing, quirky, funny and beautiful, but that is not always the case.

[~*PrincessZozo*~]

Um... I don't think this is the right place for this...

[Guest Sasha]

Is this a joke?

[Zander]

Is this a joke?

[Nat]

What problem does she have?

[timmyc]

A.

[Bettypooh]

Hands off here- you can ruin your future with an assault and battery conviction! Consenting adults participating in BSDM is a whole different story than this. She has (at the very least) a problem with alcohol abuse and no amount of physical intervention can fix that. If you want to try to save the relationship you should get her to see a therapist or to go to the local AA group to address that problem before doing anything else.

[Dill_Pickle]

Concernedbf

Miss Betty is right....you will destroy yourself if you don't present your GF with choosing between you and the drink and make it stick. And, when she gets in more trouble, as she will, take your time about getting her out of it, and make it clear she is going to have to deal with the consequences. Consider yourself lucky not to have been arrested yourself.

Spanking here is a fantasy game played out between CONSENTING adults...she is not consenting, and, at this juncture, is not able to give her consent. You are well out of game territory and into a real-life nightmare. If you don't understand, then YOU need to seek some professional help yourself, and pulling the kind of move you did under those circumstances suggests you might want some help anyway.

Sorry about the lack of sugarcoating, but a little pain now is better than learning the hard way firsthand. You are not on an easy road in any case.

[Honu]

Here, here! Consenting adults, but there is "the usual" pressure to consent. That is, take the spanking you earned or the relationship is over. Remind her that you have been very good to her, especially when you bailed her out. Do the negotiating and the spanking while you are both calm and thinking clearly. When you spank someone, it should always be when you are calm.