Touch It?

[baby4mommy]

Hi there,

I'm starting this thread for women to read, because I really need to talk to you, about this fetish, and specifically about joining you in it. I'm not sure if I can in your eyes qualify the participation in the activity of being a big baby as a need, but insofar as you can question the need for any event, be it a meteor passing through space, or humans walking across the face of the earth, I see doing this as an equally justifiable need. I am, in my estimation, in terms of my sexual ideals, probably a fairly average ab male. My fondest sexual fantasy is to simply be able to spend hours or more under a woman's care, being fed, washed, caressed and played with. I live in Texas, am attending school in the fall, and working this summer. I exercise regularly to maintain an appealing physique, and I hope I'm at the point now where I'm cute enough to have a mommy. If you're thinking about letting me be your baby, please make some form of response in this thread. I'd say just email me, but I fear the security of my accounts to be in question. If we talk here first, then I would at least know to expect some communication from you. If anything about me draws your attention I really hope I'll get to talk to you. I've also included a link to my ddtube video which isn't very good but who knows maybe you'll like it. I want to talk to you about anything here, I mean what I really want to get into some form of dialogue going which could potentially lead to me being your big baby later, but I'm sure that even just speaking here would be reasonably enjoyable. Here's hoping I get some responses!

- Baby4Mommy

http://www.dailydiapers.com/vids/play/Male_Videos/Please_Check_My_Diaper

[Guest Munchkittn]

troll be trollin.

[baby4mommy]

troll be trollin.

I'm for real, I hope this was a good forum to post my message in. I don't want to get anyone mad, this is an honest thread, not a troll thread.

[sarah_ab]

this seems like it would be better placed in the meeting place forum.. the rest of your life forum is generally for things non abdl related... but... whatever...

the biggest problem i see in your post is all you do is talk about what you want a woman to give you.

why in the world would any woman want to even speak to a male who can't even mention the things he could bring to the relationship, other than wearing diapers....

[Little BabyDoll Christine]

And use 350 words not doing it, too?

All I got was a headache trying to figure it out. and I quit at the halfway mark. You need to take about 150 lbs off the verbiage.

[baby4mommy]

this seems like it would be better placed in the meeting place forum.. the rest of your life forum is generally for things non abdl related... but... whatever...

the biggest problem i see in your post is all you do is talk about what you want a woman to give you.

why in the world would any woman want to even speak to a male who can't even mention the things he could bring to the relationship, other than wearing diapers....

I have a hard time knowing initially how to start a dialogue, other than by offering myself, and an idea for a moment we might both enjoy. I guess I had pictured sort of an exchange of demands before a scheduled meeting, you know kind of like a hostage release, but in reverse, and romantic. I love talking, I love going places someone is going that I hadn't thought of going because they're going there, being with as an activity is very normal and relaxing for me, I mean I guess what I want to say is I kind of struggle when I try to imagine what a person I don't know might want. I like to cook for myself, I think I can make some things good enough to share, I believe I've heard that proclaimed enticing before. I like to be obedient, I like it when a woman orders me around, I like helping women, with anything really. It's tough to think of ways I'd serve a woman if I got to be an ab for her because in my mind the activity seems to have more to do with restriction than servitude, I think a lot about immobility, crying, humiliation, force feeding, stuff like that, but none of that is really doing something for her. I suppose I'd sort of hoped that I could envision based on conversation what I'd bring to a relationship, but generally speaking, in terms of stating what I'd bring to any relationship, gosh I don't know, I want to say... love? But really, being realistic, love is a state that's reached between two people, you don't just bring love to a woman's door and have her read you the instructions for it while you put it together. I know I definitely want to promise a woman all the potential she could envision me as an individual possessing. I want to be quiet if she wants me to be quiet, loud if she wants me to be loud, active when she wants me to be active and still when she wants me to be still. I want to surprise her when she's happy to be surprised and reassuring when she's expecting things to be normal, I want to be for a woman the way I need to be for her so that she will feel feelings of love for me, this is in some of the broadest descriptive terms available what I claim to offer. I was thinking we could start online, talking about the things we like, what we like to do, finding out what we share in common, just the normal stuff. My approach here is probably still all wrong, it often feels like it is, but hopefully if that's the case any error found in the potential failure of this trial attempt at what I could somewhat cloyingly describe as "reaching out for love" will yield the stuff of a new, hopefully successful attempt at a meaningful relationship. At any rate, this is me talking, this is what I'm like, if you're reading this I hope you like what you see, I'd be very excited to meet someone.

[baby4mommy]

And use 350 words not doing it, too?

All I got was a headache trying to figure it out. and I quit at the halfway mark. You need to take about 150 lbs off the verbiage.

Not to be offensive specifically to you here dude but seeing as how your gender is listed as male the whole notion of you not really getting the content of my forays into the world of relationships actually comes darn near to making me happy. I say this because I hope that perhaps if my verbiage saunters down the paths and alleyways of the human mind where the interests of only womankind are appealed to by man I'll at last find the companionship I seek. On top of that, a female said I should say more, so I think that is a better idea. But hey: take luck.

[sarah_ab]

i'm a female, and i actually have a hard time reading your posts.

try breaking up your one large paragraph into different paragraphs

reading a large block of text on the screen gets tiring and many people male or female will stop reading very quickly.

but nice job on the second post, talking more than just about the baby play you want.

to expand on what i said previously, male or female, if someone is looking for more than just a random hookup they are going to want to know about the person outside of their sexual interest...

a discussion of how the first meeting will go should come after much communication both online and offline, especially if the first meeting is going to include baby/mommy play, but remember if it is a true relationship you are lookng for, the first few meetings perhaps should have NOTHING to do with sex.

[square_duck]

Another product of our now dysfunctional educational system. Kids today don't seem to understand PUNCTUATION, or sentence structure in order to ATTEMPT to try to communicate an idea...

God this is so disappointing.

Get your ass back to school and don't come back until you are EDUCATED

damn I'm sick of this sh*t..

And these are supposed to be 'Tomorrows leaders"???

More like tomorrows welfare recipients and unemployed since they can't even master the simple basics anymore.

[baby4mommy]

I guess I'll talk about myself a little more before I go to bed. I like art, I'm an artist. I write, I do a little shooting of video, I have recorded songs, and I even love the physical arts.

I think involvement in life for the love of being involved in the act, which I believe is what art facilitates, is key to human existence. I'm getting a degree in film, so I predict my future will involve doing all I can, in some position or another, to keep the information pumping through the ideological arteries of our world so that ultimately the robots can keep the farms working and everyone can lay inside on chaise lounge chairs all day not getting up to go to the bathroom. I for my part feel like the profession universally entails the examination of being, and the interplay of agents of being in the act of being.

I sometimes think about how if you took away every person who calls themself an artist, living on earth would not cease to take place, and how this begs for the artistic profession to justify it's function as being anything like a necessity. I think that art functions most necessarily not as a justification for the actions which comprise it's performance, but as short term justification for the long term challenges which constitute the physical necessities of existence. In short, art is for making you feel good, because when you feel good it is easier to live.

Continuing here just to rant about how dang much I effing love art, I want to add that the depth of involvement it commands, the fascination it elicits, and the intellectually palpable rewards of understanding which it yields in it's deconstruction all make it nearly incalculably valuable in my mind to the enrichment of life. I became an artist because experiencing it was always my favorite thing, and I wanted and still do want to create for others experiences similar to those which made it so worthwhile to me over the course of my life.

I worry about people not thinking my work is of any use, which is why I've written this, though upon an initial examination the post seems somewhat neurotic and self-involved, possibly even annoying. Oh well, I'm happy to be adding to our conversation, at any rate.

[WallaWalla]

Trying too hard.

[curiositykilledthecat]

Dude you need to chill. When it comes to a relationships you have to be able to demonstrate what you can provide in the relationship and vice-versa. Relationships are established on mutual attraction and then from there they are built upon what needs and desires that you can meet of each other.

[Little BabyDoll Christine]

In the context of initial encounter where you are an unknown quantity, you do NOT want to be too exotic or the reader thinks "wingnut". Too verbose and the operative term is "ponderous". Remember you are an unknown quantity

Next, you have 10-15 seconds to engage a person So that means about one paragraph of normal-level reading. If the material is intellectually thick, 8 to 12. if your communication is too abstract and abstruse, the reader's BS alarm goes off at 129 dB.

Also, any relationship is two-way. That means a back-and-forth so any attempt to create a relationship on the first read is apt to do more harm than good.

Beyond that read words are not spoken. there is no vocal expression or spontaneity

Upshot: KISS; Keep It Simple. Stupid.

[acemanner]

Apparently making paragraphs is out of your abilities as well? makes for a very tough read.

[ErinM]

No comment.

[baby4mommy]

Y'know, honestly, my paragraphs are about as long as the paragraphs you find in most books and I kind of still wonder what happened to make people feel like that was too much information. Here's another thing we could talk about: why is it demanded currently that speech be so terse? There seems to be a social meme lately centering around the withholding of informative elaboration, and I always worry that this is for what, something like someone's opportunity to suggest in a single breath several misleading interpretations, perhaps the promotion of confusion? Whatever, there's probably nothing as uninteresting as the failure to appreciate the emergent prevailing conditions of a situation. At least for the sake of my own self satisfaction I've had my gripe. Look, there it is. It's right up there.

what if there were a gang who walked around wearing leather biker jackets and holding scrolls with the constitution written on them reading it out loud really loud

what would you even do then

[Little BabyDoll Christine]

Now I know why brevity is the soul of wit and why William of Occam invented the Razor

[square_duck]

Now I know why brevity is the soul of wit and why William of Occam invented the Razor

[sarah_ab]

to the OP.. i think the issue is, you are telling 'someone' all about yourself in a thread, but no one is actually responding that they want to know more. Instead, perhaps you should be actively seeking out someone, posting an ad and sitting back and hoping someone responds is not active. Go to the meeting place, go to diapermates.com, diaperspace.com and other personal ad sites, look around, respond to some ads, get someone's interest....

and while your paragraphs may be the same size you see in a book, you are not writing a book, at least i hope not. Most people want easy to read broken up paragraphs on a computer screen.

Plus, as i said, this is information that is better kept between you and a potential partner, not just posted on a thread where as is mentioned, no one is responding that they are interested in knowing more or in potentially having a relationship.