Asking Parents For Diapers

[toddmdl]

Maybe you need to bring it up again!

No man lol at this point that would just be straight up creepy. I don't need them to get them for me now if I want them. But back then I definitely did. I guess my parents took the route that you did with your kids except I'm pretty sure my parents don't know anything about ABDL or infantilism unless they've somehow caught me from over the years without my knowledge and just ignored it. I could see that being the case.

[Guest Wetnmessy247]

I never asked my parents but I did ask my sister once if she could buy me some diapers.

I was sick with stomach flu/diarrhea and she already knew I was an ABDL. So I asked her to buy me a fresh pack of attends. She agreed, though still hated the idea that her brother was a big ol' poopy baby.

Anyway, she did. I wanted to ask her if she could change my didies when they were full. She declined.

Oh well.

But yea, never asked my prents. They both knew of my ABDl even when I lived with them. My mother was saddened her only son liked to be a baby, and my father was reallly saddened I would rather poop a diaper than toss a football back and forth.

[orange clock]

In fact i did. I asked for them some time while I was in high school. My mother knew I liked diapers, it was just never talked about. She was pretty neutral to it all. Anyway, whenever she would go to the store she would ask if I needed anything while she was there. Generally speaking it was things like deodorant or school supplies. I had actually been needing to buy a pack of condoms and some diapers for myself so I told her that I did need something from the store but I would get it myself. After telling her this she of course had to be nonchalantly nosy by insisting that she could buy it for me. After seeing her eagerness to attain whatever I wanted I told her that I was going to go to the store later to get condoms. Glad to see her son be safe with his sexuality, she said she would be happy to get them for me and asked if I needed anything else. Again, I told her that I did but I was going to go to the store later to get it myself. She thought I was joking but quickly realized I was not. It was quite obvious that she HAD to know what could be more secretive than condoms so she used the same nosy tactic by INSISTING that she would buy it for me NO MATER WHAT IT WAS. So finally I just said calmly, as if it was a completely normal thing "Ok, if you insist. Can you pick up a pack of depends overnight protection for me? I wear the small/medium size. please don't get then mixed up with the adjustable briefs, those have a cloth backing and I like it to be plastic". Boy did that stun her, but she was actually going to get them for me!!!! Epic win I thought. I swear, sometimes I think she wishes she had a gay child, just to show how accepting of a mother she would be to the world. unfortunately when she came home she said she just didn't feel comfortable buying them for me and it would be better if I got them myself.

I guess it would be like if I had a son and he asked me to buy him some panties. I wouldn't care that he wanted them at all but I don't think I would be fully comfortable buying them either. I would just give him cash to buy whatever underwear he wanted (panties, boxers, diapers, it doesn't matter).

She did get me condoms though .

[timmyc]

never asked my parents, but always wanted some, once just being silly my sister said I was a baby and should wear disposable diapers I did reply with, "if you buy them, I will wear them" I was serious but she was just playing around and said yea right or something.

[tndyperboy]

I couldn't imagine asking my parents for diapers; much less admit that they were a big turn on. As a teenager I don't think I could have got the words out and my parents are fairly open minded and all about stuff. It was hard enough telling them I was gay even though I knew I wouldn't be rejected or that they would react badly to the news. Part because I do have the classic emotional distant father and over protective mother but otherwise they are fine. Talking about diapers would have just been too weird. On the good side it was no problem hiding diapers in my room; my mother believed her children deserved there own "space" and so never inspected our bedrooms other then the usual clean it up demands.

[Carl2229]

My mother put me back into night diapers when I was three for wetting the bed. That lasted just a few months before my grandmother found out and (I believe) chastised my mother for diapering me. I continued to wet the bed until about age eleven and I asked my mother several times in several different ways to put me back into diapers. I remember finding an ad for "bedwetter pants" in the magazine section of the Sunday newspaper and showing it to her. She just said that I was too big for diapers.

Another time, she was repairing a pair of green, snap-on plastic panties for my little sister. I wishfull asked: "who are those for?" She told me they were for my sister, because she was the only one who wore diapers.

There were several other times that I asked for, or hinted at wanting, diapers, but the answer was always the same..

I started wearing makeshift diapers when I was about seven or eight. I would take large rags from the rag bag (often parts of sheets and old towels) and pin them on. I would make plastic pants out of large plastic bags with leg holes cut in them. These were hard to come by, beccause in those days fewer things came packed in plastic bags.

About the age of 14 or 15, I started ordering my diapers from Sears. This was a challenge in itself, because the Sears store was at a mall about 20 miles away and I had to ride there with my family. Fortunately, we went there almost every week. When we got there, the family would split up and go in different directions, agreeing on a place and time to meet later. I would go to the catalog order department and order my diapers and plastic pants. The next week, when we split up, I would go back to the catalog department, pick up my diapers, and take them to the car. In those days, the car was never locked, so I would hide the diapers in the spare tire well of our station wagon until we got home. I'm just glad we never had a flat tire on the way home.

[Guest Wetnmessy247]

For most people, a grown up teenager asing their parents to help put them back in diapers is very wrong. To people who aren't ABDL.

It is easy to see this. Take a step back. Forget ABDL. Forget you like being a baby. Forget you like wearing and using diapers. Forget ALL that.

And listen to the following statemetn with no prior bias for or against anything diaper related:

"Mom. I have a question. Can you help get me back into diapers?"

Taking a step back from the ABDL lifestlye, I can understand how wrong this question is.

It's the same if you were a sex addict and took a step back to listen to this:

"Mom. I need your help in getting some pornography."

[Yvhuce]

No just "no", but "hell no"!

When I was a kid, I was brought up with the mentality that diapers are something you make fun of people for wearing, and was occasionally threatened to be put back in them if I didn't behave. This perty much extended into my early teens, when I started becoming more curious about them.

[Ryan23A]

Well back then when I was making home made diapers out of toilet paper and paper towels, it got to the point of such messiness that my mom actually offered to buy me a case of diapers. Sad thing is that I said no when she asked, reason being that I told her that I would wait from the professional opinion of my therapist which he said no. Oh well nowadays I just buy them over the Internet with my own money and without the professional opinion of a therapist. Didn't get much out out of that guy except for meds in which I could have fixed the problems my self, knew it back then still know it now.

[Guest Wetnmessy247]

@Ryan:

Dude, the mental health pro could have given you some hardcore drugs. Maybe. Never turn down a theraapist too early.

Second,you made diapers out of tp and towels? Umm....never heard that one. And you also say you messed in them?

Gotta be honest here, I would love to see a homemade diaper out of this tools stand up to wetting or messing. TP is paper thing, not used for wearing. Never heard of someone WEARING toilet paper. Also, your parents should have gotten super mad if they were constantly required to wash those mess filled towels. Kinda gross.

And how did you clean up? TP is extrememly tearable and I can imagine you probably made a mess wherever you walked if you ventured outside the bathroom. This makes me ponder....hmm.

[Guest Wetnmessy247]

@ Ryan again.

I was mistaken. You said paper TOWELS, not towels.

This really changes everything. HOW in the bloody hell did you manage to make a diaper out of tp and pt? Like, hoow did u get it to nt fall off you? On top of that, you still messed in them. I can imagine a pretty smelly bathroom and home. Parent's should have been really steamed that their son walked around the house wearing toilet paper and paper towels, and dumping into them.

[Ryan23A]

@ Ryan again.

I was mistaken. You said paper TOWELS, not towels.

This really changes everything. HOW in the bloody hell did you manage to make a diaper out of tp and pt? Like, hoow did u get it to nt fall off you? On top of that, you still messed in them. I can imagine a pretty smelly bathroom and home. Parent's should have been really steamed that their son walked around the house wearing toilet paper and paper towels, and dumping into them.

Well I took the toilet paper roll and just rolled over my diaper so that it covered my diaper area, the paper towels I just took a few and layed them out to a trash bag and stapled them together so that it acted and looked like a diaper pretty good for a small wetting and medium messing. TO keep my paper towel diaper up I just wore some underwear. Can't get a picture sorry no adapter for the camera memory card.

The Toilet paper diaper I crisscrossed over the diaper area to keep it up. And I just cut two holes in a trash bag and put my legs through to act as plastic pants. And oh yes I did mess such contraptions.

[diaperlad]

Asking my mother for diapers as a child for me would probably just mean asking for a spanking. My mother was a spanker. She would have gotten mad if I asked her for diapers even though she didn't know I wanted them real bad like just wearing them would make my day. No. But she does/ did know I was a bedwetter as a young child. I used to wet the bed alot and got spanked. I . she threaten me she would put me back in large diapers if I didn't stop wetting the bed. As a humualiting thing. No everytime I wet the bed I was spanked! I was never diapered. The only time I was diapered was for being naughty in school and teachers giving my mother bad reports, or misbehaving, acting like a bully, tough, etc. My mother gave me diaper punishments. I guess she thought that since he acts like a little tough kid and gets in trouble he deserves punishment by putting him back into diapers cause really he wets himself at night anyways! He will feel small and that other kids don't wet them selves and have to wear a diaper at night. will Quit/stop my misbehaving so she thought. OR the only other time was when as a child I got really sick too at times. I got diapered at a hospital once by a female nurse before I came home or discharged. I remember I was so sick I cried, didn't want to eat, ( they took a rectum temp too) or someone did, she treated me like a little baby after she diapered me. she was rubbing me here, feeling my head, looking over my felt like dying body in her most sorrow eyes, head to toe, All of a sudden I feel like a baby again I remembered. But was too sick to pay really any attention. I do remember returning to home and that night my mother felt sorry for me and she changed my diapers, and got me one of those old 80 pampers in the large and diapered me that night again. I was still very sick. I remember my mother as we are all about to go to bed she came up to me and stripped my clothes expect my T-shirt and asked my older sister to get her a Pamper> I remember My sister was like? a large or medium? Large. she came back handed the diaper to my mother and she unfolded the diaper and told me to lift my butt. I did. My mother did the whole diapering thing as my older sister just watched as it was happening altogther. Yeah that night i woke up wet but was wondering about the whole diaper thing. i was thinking the nurse, my mother, sister, the hospital, diapers, how excited alone I felt.

[Guest Baby Tiana]

I don't ever recall merrily making my way towards my mother to ask for diapers. Ever since I was young, I thought it was very weird that I would 'force' my adult barbies into diapers that I would make with tissue. So, building up the courage to ask for something that i hadn't realized I even wanted to much, definitely didn't happen.

However, I do remember asking my mother when I was 5 or 6 for a pacifier. Baby items like those always intrigued me, and for some reason I like using them. Good thing I'm a girl, because all you had to say.... "It's for my doll". But the pacifier i did ask to be specifically for me. It took a few minutes for her to oblige, but she did, since she didn't want me sucking my thumb, my thumb *and* blanket corner while chewing at the same time, and other things.... So that's the first thing I remember asking for. Otherwise, I never asked for anything for *me* but I would used the bottles I bought at the dollar store for my dolls.

Thinking back to it..... I still feel weird doing all that stuff. But thank goodness for the internet, and finding out more about something, then having everything sort of fall back into place!!!

[Guest Wetnmessy247]

@Ryan:

That seems like a LOT of work to mimic one diaper for one flood/mess session.

How did u not get caught with all the stuff you required?

Like, my mom would have surely noticed me carrying paper towels, a stapler, scissors, trash bags, and tp to my bedroom. I mean, with that combo anything is MacGuyver possible. But most obvious is "diaper".

I cannot even BEGIN to imagine how messy you ended up and how messy you made your surroundings. This is a disaster just waiting to happen.

Why not just buy diapers? It looks much better to own up and buy some than it does to make a crude styled home diaper.

[Ryan23A]

@Ryan:

That seems like a LOT of work to mimic one diaper for one flood/mess session.

How did u not get caught with all the stuff you required?

Like, my mom would have surely noticed me carrying paper towels, a stapler, scissors, trash bags, and tp to my bedroom. I mean, with that combo anything is MacGuyver possible. But most obvious is "diaper".

I cannot even BEGIN to imagine how messy you ended up and how messy you made your surroundings. This is a disaster just waiting to happen.

Why not just buy diapers? It looks much better to own up and buy some than it does to make a crude styled home diaper.

Yeah it did work some what well but that was a while ago now I just buy diapers over the internet. The mess wasn't too bad but still bad compared to real diapers now.

[Horndog]

I never did. When the doctor determined that I had stress-related incontinence at 15, my parents said to me, "Take care of this on your own." They wanted nothing to do it. It was abnormal. It was unusual. It was unacceptable, but it had to be done out of sight and out of mind. Last year, they found my bag of Attends that I was using and they just laughed at me. It was a pity laugh more or less. Then I just kept everything completely incognito. It's working out surprisingly well.

[Nappy_Lover]

My Mum put me in nappies at bedtime to prevent my bedwetting and I remember being dissapointed when she stopped buying me them. I also remember seeing an advert for Pull-Ups and thinking they were nappies for big kids, asking my mum if I could wear Pull-Ups. She said no naturally and she'd never brought it up since thankfully.

[Aurelius]

I did, when I was 3 or 4 I asked to get into one of my sister's nappies, which my parents refused to let me do (they didn't fit anyway). I was training at that time and apparently missed them

It was the right decision on their part, although it was probably one of those things that actually caused my fetish in the first place

[Kari]

Back in the old days (the 70's)

We didn't even have Huggie's until near the end of the decade.

I love the word "Pampers" but to this day I cannot say it in front of my mother.

She threatened a few times at age 7 for bed wetting, but she was weak.

A wet Pampers would of been so much better than a wet bed.

It depends (no pun intended) on the parent and child.

In my life, diapers were something to be ashamed of.

The thought of a child over 3 in diapers would be unheard of.

So I was taught to be VERY uptight about diapers.

Until I learned that all the thoughts I had since potty training weren't so bad.

Some parents are relaxed and just laugh if 6 year old "JR" finds his little sisters diapers.

I so wish that was the way I was raised.

So now, I wear to make up for a lost (F'ed up) childhood of drama and shame.

If your kid wants to try diapers, why not???

They might try drugs or alcohol if they don't get their needs fulfilled early in life.

Or am I being somewhat dramatic about the whole thing?

[jbz2079]

Apparently I often asked to be diapered when my younger brother was born, I would have been 4 years old, I never got them then.

My brother was a bedwetter till his early teen and wore terry nappies and plastic pants, I would borrow them wear them and wet them, I got caught several times by Mum who was never pleased and I used to get long lectures on the fact that big boys didn't wear diapers.

I still wore them occasionally and Mum would know that there was to many wet diapers in the wash and often used to ask me if it was me using them.

She once caught me wet and diapered and went mental, said that she was seriously thinking of sending me to see a shrink, I was always scared of her actually sending me.

Once she asked a social worker about me wearing diapers and I'm sure the social worker knew a bit about AB/DL and said well it won't hurt him and I'm sure he will soon get over it, no change stilll not allowed.

I often wonder if I was allowed would I have got over wearing them, but that was nearly 30 years ago and I need them now medically but still get a huge buzz when wearing them.

I often wonder what I would say if I found my own daughter was into diapers, I definatly would not say no but it would be her thing and I woulden't be buying them for her, but that's the difference I supposed I know what it like growing up with an itch you can't scratch.

[XxWillowxX]

When I was younger around 10 yrs old, i used to nick my nieces nappy's and use them, I once got caught by my mum and dad, it didn't go down too well... I was grounded the next day.

another time I was 16 just starting college, and had some stuff in my poket, my mum thought they were fags and grabed them out, she was furious, and told my sister, my sister then threatened me if she catches me wearing again she'd put me in a nappy and walk me out into the street.

Not somthing I look forward to lol.. I only got back into the lifestyle last year, I told a few people about it and got mixed reactions from them. Which is ok I guess..

The worst publiclly experiance I have ever had, someone from THIS site told someone I don't get along with on another site we are both on, that I had a picture of me wearing a bib, nappy and suckin a dummy..

I ended up taking the photos down because of it. I have yet found out who this person is probably never will.

[Saschadzg]

The worst publiclly experiance I have ever had, someone from THIS site told someone I don't get along with on another site we are both on, that I had a picture of me wearing a bib, nappy and suckin a dummy..

Hi,

I have my pictures in my pink lolita dress on AB, T* and fetish sites and do not care anymore as the little girl is an important part of my personality. I don not have to take respect of any examinators, writers of referals and other "gatekeepers".

Babygirl Kvetinka

[Kari]

The worst publiclly experiance I have ever had, someone from THIS site told someone I don't get along with on another site we are both on, that I had a picture of me wearing a bib, nappy and suckin a dummy..

I ended up taking the photos down because of it. I have yet found out who this person is probably never will.

Man that's not kewl at all, what they did to you.

It's like that one popular pic of that fat guy sitting on the floor in a diaper.

You know if he's even still around, he's got to live with that the rest of his life.

I have incriminating pics of my ex wife in a diaper when we were together.

For some reason I keep them.

But I don't care how much she makes me angry, that's my sons Mother.

[curiositykilledthecat]

I keep this side of me very private from the rest of my life.