Had An Interesting Night.

[babyvr6]

I've decided that I don't post enough topics on this forum, so I'll tell the tale of the night drowned in Jägermeister. Mind you, I'm not a great spinner of illuminating yarns, but I will do my best.

Two nights ago, my best friend calls me to tell me he is bringing my Christmas present to me. I say it's about time, but in his defense, he is a busy little boy.

He shows up to my house around 10PM with a fresh bottle of Jägermeister and a pack of Redbulls. I can't remove the smile from my face. I've desperately needed some therapeutic drinking in the worst way, and my savior just walked through the door.

The night progresses exactly how you would imagine it would. By the time that the new day begins, we are both feeling the inhibiting effects of the alcohol. About this point in time, we begin one of those epic conversations that only happens when two intellectuals drink copious amounts of alcoholic ambrosia. We both are somewhat learned individuals, he a psychology major and I, a person of higher intellect, who lost his way but has recently found the path that leads to his Doctorate in Medicine.

So, you can imagine the conversations that ensue when the two of us are in the same room with each other. The topics move seamlessly from one to the other, with each one more enlightening than the last. Now about this time, I'm think that some background info is needed before we can go further. My friend is a dirty young man, a purveyor of nasty porn, so to speak. He has, in the past, tried to expand my horizons of porn watching and educate my tastes. He has failed on all fronts, however, being that my taste differs drastically from his, as you all are obviously aware. Now that we have some background, we can move on with our story.

The conversation finally makes it's way to the aforementioned topic of his expertise. He starts taking about the most recent faptastic video he has watched, and asks if I'd like to view it. I decline for obvious reasons. He then looks at me and says "Then what do you want to watch?!"

I skirt the subject the best I can, but he pries further. I continue to do my best verbal judo, and try to redirect the conversation to other topics. But, before I can do so effectively, he drops the bomb shell.

He looks at me as seriously as he can and says "I know about it already, and I don't care." All I can manage is an the most eloquent "Huuuuuuuuuuhwhaaaaaaaaaa?" I've ever heard. I attempt to regroup and form a cohesive statement in the wake of his statement. I can only manage to to come up with "What are you talking about?" He proceeds to explain that several months ago, my fiance, who was otherwise very inebriated at the time, told him everything. About this site, about the lifestyle, about everything.

I just sit and stare at him, dumbfounded, while he explains. He concludes his explanation with what by far the most earnest "and I don't care." I have ever heard. It takes several minutes before I can remove my chin from the floor, and force it to form words again. For the second time that night I tell him "It's about time!" Honestly, I'm relieved to learn that he's aware. We then spend the rest of the night waxing on the topic of my obsession, and the implications there of. He being a psych major, finds it enthralling to attempt to understand it. I've even got him to contemplate joining the darkside.

We'll see how this all pans pans out though. It's been months since he's learned, and a couple of days since I came clean. Nothing has changed in the dynamic of our friendship as of yet. Time will tell how if the information will stay between just us, and if he will continue to not care.

Either way, it was an interesting night.

Cheers

[FretaBWet]

Your intelligence must extend to the friend choosing process also, it seems you made a wise decision. Congrats and I hope this continues on a positive note.

Hugs,

Freta

[loopy]

Sounds like you got a good mate there, although with his porn tastes he probably thinks abs are a bit tame

we begin one of those epic conversations that only happens when two intellectuals drink copious amounts of alcoholic ambrosia.

intellectuals

[Depends1578]

I found this thread to be quite an interesting one with all those nice words you chose to use. haha. Best of luck, sounds good so far.

[fluff]

Sounds like a good result all round.

I say that, despite his knowing you probably never felt more uncomfortable.

[AutieAB]

intellectuals

Am I the only one who couldn't help but think of Adrian Mole?

Anyway, good job picking a decent chap as a friend but as Loopy said, I'm sure ABDL is positively tame compared to some of the things he's heard of in his 'line of business'...

[babyvr6]

Sounds like you got a good mate there, although with his porn tastes he probably thinks abs are a bit tame

intellectuals

Yeah, He views us as quite tame, all things considered. Oh and you shut your whore mouth when you want to mock me!

Jägermeister is nice up until 3 shots.

Yeah it's nice up to three shots, then everything after that is wonderful. I polished off a whole bottle (750 ml) myself that night, if you consider the half full bottle I had left before I was gifted a new one.

All in all a fun time.

[squashNstretch]

Yeah, He views us as quite tame, all things considered. Oh and you shut your whore mouth when you want to mock me!

Haha, I'd love to know how the sexuality/fetish scale goes.

1: Absinence

2: Sex for procreation

3: Sex for pleasure (Missionary)

4: Sex for pleasure Anything non-missionary

5: Blowjobs

6: Anal, Docking, facials

7: Low-level fetishes such as feet, smoking, cosplay

8: Mid-level fetishes such as Furries(yiffing), adult babies, minor s&m

9: Higher-level fetishes such as scat, hardcore s&m(safewords), rape fantasies (2 girls one cup in this category)

10: Extreme: Animals, snuff, children, mutilation/gore. (Anything most of the free world considers illegal and highly offensive)

[OMFG]

Your fiancee sucks.

[babyvr6]

Your fiancee sucks.

Why do you say that? Sure she told on me, but she is just as guilty of it as I am. I guess I didn't mention the fact that she has feeties and sippy cups, did I? She didn't omit her involvement in it from her inebriated blabfest, either. I.E. she told him about her feeties and sippys.

[OMFG]

Why do you say that? Sure she told on me, but she is just as guilty of it as I am. I guess I didn't mention the fact that she has feeties and sippy cups, did I? She didn't omit her involvement in it from her inebriated blabfest, either. I.E. she told him about her feeties and sippys.

I would be incredibly upset if I found out my boyfriend was telling friends personal details about our sex life, fetish related or not. Don't you wonder what else she is blabbing to people about when she's drunk if she so readily shares this tidbit?

[loopy]

I would be incredibly upset if I found out my boyfriend was telling friends personal details about our sex life, fetish related or not. Don't you wonder what else she is blabbing to people about when she's drunk if she so readily shares this tidbit?

It depends on who they told through, and that persons relationship to both people.... Its not exactly blabbing to "people", its talking about it to a best friend of the couple... (I take it he's good friends to babyvr6 and his fiance). You don't know if she "readily" shared it either, what if he told her something weird about his sex life?

People get drunk, and with friends they say things, with close friends they say more.... I think you're assuming way too much on this issue. Whats a big thing to some isn't quite so big to others.

[OMFG]

It depends on who they told through, and that persons relationship to both people.... Its not exactly blabbing to "people", its talking about it to a best friend of the couple... (I take it he's good friends to babyvr6 and his fiance). You don't know if she "readily" shared it either, what if he told her something weird about his sex life?

People get drunk, and with friends they say things, with close friends they say more.... I think you're assuming way too much on this issue. Whats a big thing to some isn't quite so big to others.

If he wanted his best friend to know, he would have told his best friend. Hearing information about someone does not dictate that one responds in kind.

In relationships, there is implied confidentiality. Among other things, this includes what goes on behind closed doors, whether it be kinky or vanilla. Once you start sharing details of that stuff with other people, it is no longer sacred and special to the relationship. She broke this confidentiality by blabbing about their sex life to a friend. It doesn't matter that it was well received. It doesn't matter that she revealed that she was involved. It doesn't matter that she revealed it to only one close friend (ever heard of Pandora's Box). His ABDL side was his to share or not to share, and she robbed him of that choice. Hence, she sucks.

[tris]

I say that it's awesome. Let's not look at the not-so-brightside of it yet; let's focus more on that he's liberated himself in such a way that someone close to him knows and is cool about it all. Those of you who have let others into this part of your life know what I mean when I say it's like a high that keeps on giving. And let's face it: if your friend HAD to know about it, wouldn't you rather have a girl tell him and put it the way only girls can, than have one of your guy friends breach the subject and possibly fuck up the explanation and make you out to be a weirdo?

This is good. Congrats and happy newyear, my volkswagen friend. .

[OMFG]

I say that it's awesome. Let's not look at the not-so-brightside of it yet; let's focus more on that he's liberated himself in such a way that someone close to him knows and is cool about it all. Those of you who have let others into this part of your life know what I mean when I say it's like a high that keeps on giving. And let's face it: if your friend HAD to know about it, wouldn't you rather have a girl tell him and put it the way only girls can, than have one of your guy friends breach the subject and possibly fuck up the explanation and make you out to be a weirdo?

This is good. Congrats and happy newyear, my volkswagen friend. .

I fully agree that the end result was good, and I think that's great. I am happy for OP, but I still think his girlfriend betrayed his trust horribly by telling people.

If the friend had told a whole bunch of other people - family, friends, employer, etc - and OP was being ostracized and considered a freak by his social circle, everyone would be jumping on the girlfriend for betraying his trust. It could have just as easily gone sour. I still this the gf sucks for telling. It wasn't her secret to tell, no matter how well everything turned out.

[babyvr6]

I would be incredibly upset if I found out my boyfriend was telling friends personal details about our sex life, fetish related or not.

So then your screen name isn't purely out of jest then, is it?

It depends on who they told through, and that persons relationship to both people.... Its not exactly blabbing to "people", its talking about it to a best friend of the couple... (I take it he's good friends to babyvr6 and his fiance). You don't know if she "readily" shared it either, what if he told her something weird about his sex life?

People get drunk, and with friends they say things, with close friends they say more.... I think you're assuming way too much on this issue. Whats a big thing to some isn't quite so big to others.

Like I said, my friend is a psych major. He's fairly good at convincing people to do what he wants.

I say that it's awesome. Let's not look at the not-so-brightside of it yet; let's focus more on that he's liberated himself in such a way that someone close to him knows and is cool about it all. Those of you who have let others into this part of your life know what I mean when I say it's like a high that keeps on giving. And let's face it: if your friend HAD to know about it, wouldn't you rather have a girl tell him and put it the way only girls can, than have one of your guy friends breach the subject and possibly fuck up the explanation and make you out to be a weirdo?

This is good. Congrats and happy newyear, my volkswagen friend. .

I quoted this because it is in the proper spirit of the thread.

[Mischa]

Had four Jagie bombs with dad for NYE...............that WAS fun.....i can't WAIT until i turn 21!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[babyvr6]

Jägerbombs at a bar are vastly different than what I drink. The bar variety are usually no more than a 1 ounce shot of jäger and maybe 10 ounces of redbull. Mine are more along the lines of equal parts of both totaling 20 ounces. But I'm a big guy, so it takes a bit more for me to feel it.

And I'll give an update:

Absolutely nothing has changed and no one else knows. The only change is that now he has a new topic to crack jokes about.

Oh well, nothing really new there.

And it's totally worth it to be somewhat liberated.

[babyvr6]

I figured I'd resurrect this thread from the pit know as page five.

Further updates:

Life continues as normal. Once again, the only change is the new material for him to crack jokes at.

No, he hasn't betrayed my trust and told everybody alive. No, he hasn't burned me at the stake for being a heretic. No, I haven't had to move away and change my name out of shame.