DiaperBoyKR Posted January 20, 2009 Share Posted January 20, 2009 I agree, the feeling of a prostate orgasm/prostate stimulation is way more awesome than simple penis stimulation. I would have no problems with having strapon sex with my partner....the role reversal would be a little interesting if nothing else. And quite honestly, as long as its done carefully, things are well lubricated, and you're not using a strapon too big for your bumhole, there wouldn't be too much pain involved anyway. The biggest problem that arises in strapon sex is that the female partner doesn't have any way to get signals on whats going on in the dildo, as men can when we use our penis. Fact of nature, sorry ladies. This means she may not know if theres too much resistance, and force things where a guy would not. That could cause a little bit of pain. Also strap on dildos are generally longer and stiffer than the standard male anatomy, so there could be some damage inside if your partner isn't careful. Add that to the point that females generally arn't used to performing the applicable pelvic thrust..... In other words, make sure the same rules apply when you have normal anal sex. Lots of lube, care on the inserting members part (no wild thrusting), and have a safe word that can be used if you start feeling too much pain. Sarah, the reason I heard that prostate orgasms help prevent prostate cancer and other illnesses is that they trigger a more complete emptying of the prostate. Is this a similar reason that you heard? I know that there are other studies that show men who masturbate 3 or 4 times a week regularly are also less likely to develop cancers in the prostate. Link to comment
Guest Posted January 21, 2009 Share Posted January 21, 2009 As a sissy, I'm totally for role reversal, I do pleasure myself often, but to have a girl do me from behind would be a dream come true. Link to comment
diaprbayb Posted January 21, 2009 Share Posted January 21, 2009 Ok, it's been awhile but I have "self" explored. Not to the point of orgasim yet. Lately my wife is taking bigger steps into my world. She was thinking of triing take my temp rectally, but was afraid of going too far. She told me and we discussed the fact that I told her that she could never go too far. I just know that she could not get that way. ( oh what fun we would have if I am wrong ) Any way we discussed anal play. When she worked at our Dr's office her specialty was colonostemies. She has stories and alot of cautions. Anyway no play yet but the seed is planted. ok, this also brings back memories of a porno movie I saw 30 years ago. ( sorry if this is long winded) Anyway, it was about two swingers that bet each other that they could take a young couple and see who could get them to turn gay. long story short when the man was doing the young guy all he could think about was being done by his girlfriend. And the when the women showed the young girl how to use a strapon all she could do was picture herself doing her boyfriend. Yes I would love to be taken by a women, but if I even got a gleem of a man doing it to me it just creeps me out, what can I say, I'm a "Lesbian". And yes, for those who suspected it, I have a picture to go with it. Link to comment
curiositykilledthecat Posted January 21, 2009 Share Posted January 21, 2009 Okay I'm lost at anal orgasm? What? Link to comment
diaprbayb Posted January 21, 2009 Share Posted January 21, 2009 Okay I'm lost at anal orgasm? What? May also be referred to "Milking" basically orgasim without pinus contact Link to comment
curiositykilledthecat Posted January 21, 2009 Share Posted January 21, 2009 I'll pass. Link to comment
Guest dl_aslee Posted January 21, 2009 Share Posted January 21, 2009 Just out of interest, how do you do it yourself? Is it as obvious as using a vibro? Beth Well I only have a butt plug, so I usually lube up and slowly stretch out, so it doesn't hurt. I can then lay down facing up, and move up and down and since it is all lubed up it will slide in and out. I usually end up stimulating my penis also though to achieve orgasm, I'll have to see if I can do as others have and achieve it only through anal penetration. Link to comment
Mr. Big Posted January 21, 2009 Share Posted January 21, 2009 I'm gonna go against the majority here and say never-EVER. I'm not into teh buttsecks in any of it's forms. Link to comment
sarah_ab Posted January 21, 2009 Share Posted January 21, 2009 to have a prostate orgasm just a regular vibrator or anal plug will not work, as the prostate is not straight up into your anus. So you need to buy a prostate stimulation, basically its a curved anal plug because u need that curve to reach the prostate... Link to comment
Mr. Sea Otter Posted January 22, 2009 Share Posted January 22, 2009 I've done it and enjoyed it. Can be lots of fun actually. I agree that the mood has to be right. Link to comment
Backindiapers Posted January 22, 2009 Share Posted January 22, 2009 This is yet another topic I can get into. I LOVE the thought of a strap on. I've spent years with different experiences of anal play. And I have slowly brought the wife around to agreeing to a strap on. She's not the most dominant person in bed. But for me being Bi, its like second nature or maybe even first nature..lol. Anyway just like others have posted if the prostate is massaged just right...its heaven!!! Link to comment
PhilDL Posted January 22, 2009 Share Posted January 22, 2009 I love it! I'm a strap-on slut! For me right now I use it on myself with the dildo attached to a ball. It feels so good, every guy should try it. This isn't one thing you can say try it once because you need to build up to it to enjoy it. I've been pegged by woman too. I'm straight and I think a woman with a strap-on is beautiful. It's wonderful to submit to a woman. Wish I good find a lady who would like to ride me. phil Link to comment
Mean Mommy Posted January 23, 2009 Share Posted January 23, 2009 there are some studies to suggest that males who have a prostate orgasm 'regularly' are at a lower risk for prostate cancer and other prostate related illness's Actual scientific evidence?! Sweet merciful Jesus YEEEEEEESSSS!!!!! I'm gonna go against the majority here and say never-EVER. I'm not into teh buttsecks in any of it's forms. you lose! say goodbye to your not-inflamed prostate! Link to comment
Guest YkDave Posted January 23, 2009 Share Posted January 23, 2009 Havent actually tried prostate stimulation, but i do enjoy a regular or vibrating plug. So i would also have to say, that if i did have the oppertunity to get nailed by a chick, i think i would take the offer! Link to comment
MusicBABY180 Posted January 23, 2009 Share Posted January 23, 2009 Yeah, I might try it. You never know... Link to comment
dhsissyboy Posted January 24, 2009 Share Posted January 24, 2009 I'd love to. I've been dying to find a woman to 'stick' me in the hindquarters Link to comment
Baby T Posted January 27, 2009 Share Posted January 27, 2009 I LUVS them! lol. My wife uses them on occasion (though i wish it were more) and we both enjoy. She likes the control and seeing my reactions and enjoys controlling those pleasurable reactions. I Think it feels amazing, and did I mention I like it? ha ha. Keep in mind tho, the strap on and vibrators we use (at least on me) are not the OMG thats huge ones! they're a smaller size that serve there purpose. =) Link to comment
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