[Butt Plugs and Bowel Control]

Have been into anal stimulation since I was in high school (Very Late Bloomer). I started using butt plugs around the time I started crossdressing. It has been over twenty three years and I feel that my sphincter has gotten so much stonger and I am able to give a man an orgasm just by squeezing my muscles. My prostate orgasms are so much stronger now than they were twenty years ago. and holding in a good poop is not even a challenge. I notice also that the stimulation I get when my wife uses a strapon is more than enough to give me a hands free orgasm also.. All in all it has gotten better for me.

[Large Amount of Scammers]

I'm gonna say it once and I have lived by it since I was 18... If it sounds too good to be true,, it usually is !!

[My wife likes to work out]

Me and my wife love to work out. Nothing wrong with staying healthy and looking good for each other. I like wearing nice clothes and being in fashion, and we both love when men ogle at us walking down the street holding hands. It feels great to be in shape and be able to do things we want to without limits ..

[Being okay with yourself]

What I see is you being too tough on yourself littleme5144. I came out of my oversized closet at 17 about being bisexual. I started dressing as a woman for work because of the money and I loved how the clothing felt on me. The toughest part of me to accept was diapers and I look back now to how silly I felt back then. I was married young and my wife didn't accept the part of me dressing up as a woman, but she was on the wall about diapers. I wore diapers for work because I rarely had bathroom breaks and I was not going to stand there serving drinks with pee dripping down my legs while doing a peepee dance. It may take a while for you to accept that you enjoy your diaper, and the guilty feeling you get.Your wife loves you believe me if she didn't she'd have been gone by now. You said you had a talk with your wife and you still feel uncomfortable because she is okay that you wear. Maybe in your heart you have that guilty desire to see your wife in a diaper, and maybe you won't feel as guilty. Let your wife put on a diaper. Let her indulge you. I was only married for 8 years. I recently married a woman of my dreams. We dated for 3 years before she asked me to marry her. She is a total diaper lover old school. She married me regardless if I was a sissy crossdresser bisexual man wearing diapers. For 3 years its been a dream for me that a woman accepts me for who I am and who I pretend to be. I still feel the guilt at times, but all I have to do is look at her and my guilt flies out the window. Love yourself and things will fall into place. It may take time. but you will get there. You never know maybe your wife is trying to tell you something in a roundabout way. Time is all we have and let time heal you. Hugs and I pray all works out well for you

[Goodnights pull ups.]

Oh wow Becca looking good sweetie I know how you feel they are comfy and they do hold a lot of pee. I tried them myself and they fit so snuggly onder my skirt !!

[Im not a sissy, but..]

On 10/20/2019 at 11:11 PM, steviet said:

I've been a diaper lover all my life, especially thick cloth diapers and puffy plastic pants.  My affection for puffy plastic pants started when I was about 5 years old.  Way back in my twenties, I got heavy into wearing full cut satin panties with a garter belt and stockings and if the panties had some lace, even better.  I would get hard as a rock in my panties. My best friend's younger sister wore rhumba panties.  I don't know why, but those panties got me so excited, I wanted to have some of my own.   I just love the sexual feeling I get from wearing these things.  I haven't worn lingerie for quite some time, just my diapers, but reading some of the comments and issues that sissies talk about has got me thinking. 

Stevie I commend you on being honest. I still get hard as a rock when my wife helps me dress. the satin panties feel so good especially if you shave or wax. I can't imagine not wearing. Hey if you really are thinking about getting back into panties dont be frightened, it's just like riding a bike sweetie. I've been a diaper lover only about 23 years but it grew on me and I just won't stop. It's too much fun.

 

On 10/20/2019 at 11:11 PM, steviet said:

I've been a diaper lover all my life, especially thick cloth diapers and puffy plastic pants.  My affection for puffy plastic pants started when I was about 5 years old.  Way back in my twenties, I got heavy into wearing full cut satin panties with a garter belt and stockings and if the panties had some lace, even better.  I would get hard as a rock in my panties. My best friend's younger sister wore rhumba panties.  I don't know why, but those panties got me so excited, I wanted to have some of my own.   I just love the sexual feeling I get from wearing these things.  I haven't worn lingerie for quite some time, just my diapers, but reading some of the comments and issues that sissies talk about has got me thinking. 

 

[Yoga in a messy diaper]

That definately sounds like fun LiL Marc !!! One of my favorites is going hiking and wearing diapers. everytime you hit a good hill the poop just spreads more and more. The clean up is the best part, we pick a nice secluded tree and just plop down and squish it some more. After a few hours of kissing in the shade we will change each other ever so slowly and of course we love teasing each other so it turns into diaper fun for us. If you like messing you gotta try it. We do love doing yoga together and pooping and feeling each others poopy diaper filling up. For us messy time is fun time.

[Diapers of course]

Besides having a loving, caring, and beautiful wife that indulges in our mutual love of diapers this site has opened my eyes to other sissies and sissy lovers. There are many of us and its great to sit back on the couch and read and write here in forums and share the love. Besides the love of my wife I also have very loving coworkers and a very understanding boss. I love this site and wish more would come out of the closet and make it a bigger happier place for everyone to enjoy.

[Pleased to be here!]

Welcome to D & D jambi.. I am also a DL sissy aged 43 and hapilly married. Please come and join us in chat and make yourself at home. Hugs and a bib Howdy !

[What sort of underwear do you wear when you're not wearing nappies?]

When I'm not working or having fun with the wife I love my latex pants and shorts. They wont hold pee or poop like diapers, but still are extremely cuddly and snuggly to the booty. Lately even my wife loves wearing them. the pants are nice because you can stand in the backyard and pee them and it just runs down the leg and out on the ground., as for undies I love my thongs and my bikini briefs.

[Who knows ?]

23 hours ago, 22k5 said:

there are a few people that know about our ABDL lifestyle. but due to circumstances it is basically one and it's really not my place to say anything about them. I can tell you that my wife went through a few break up before meeting me because of her ABDL side and I was the first person to accept her. basically two years into being her caregiver I kind of broke down and said I want to be a ABDL to.which to be honest made her have to sit down for a little bit cuz she was so excited/happy and ever since then we've basically bin one big diapered family.

That is so heart warming and loving of you guys to share that !!. I remember the first night a waman lifted my skirt and looked right in my eyes and then my diaper, I was so scared I peed my diaper right in front of her. Now three years later I would give my life for hers. I don't think there is anyway to love anyone more.

[What Song Are You Listening To Right Now?]

Lady In The Moonlight by Tierra

 

[Memorable Poops]

I would have to say for me was two very memorable poops. Though I remember so many fond ones. One was on my birthday, me and wife ate like two starving people and drank huge amounts of beer and wine and rolled ourselves into a tarp like a burrito with no diapers and spent a night in the backyard. The second one was going hiking about two weeks ago, and I was very relaxed and didnt think about putting on my diaper before we arrived at the mountain for our hike. I had on a pair of shorts and bolted from the truck and just let go right in my pants in front of my three friends. I wasn't embarrassed because these are friends and were expecting this. they cleaned me up all of them and it felt great having three sets of hands touching me all on my privates, and putting me in a clean diaper that didn't remain too clean. Yes those are two of my more memorable times,, but I do have countless adventures going on yard sale drives with my wife.

[Who knows ?]

I am quite satisfied that there are three people in my life (besides everyone here) that truly know about my diapers. My wife, her nephew and my boss. I do say that not one of them have anything negative to say about it nor do they make a spectacle of the situation. I guess for them it's just normal me. Besides dressing as a woman full time I enjoy my diapers. I hope that satisfies your question Aboo and please feel free to chat with me or my wife,, we are in chat constantly, and would love to hear more from you.

[Im not a sissy, but..]

 

A sissy is a biological male; who acts really feminine, slutty, horny, also really bimbo like, etc. They tend to be really submissive but not all of the time. Most sissies are into men, but some are into women, some are Bisexual or Pansexual as well. Most of them like to play with other sissies as well. This is the dictionary definition os a sissy which fits me fine. I am not into the submissive part and I enjoy women as well as males and other sissies. I love my womens clothing and shoes and lingerie. I dress as a girl 24/7 and quite enjoy the ogles I get from men passerbys. I work as a bartender and the female attire is the difference in 75% of my tips. I do not nor ever have taken or eve thought about hormones, nor do I wish to remove my penis. I have heard so many horrendous stories of males hating their penises and wanting to remove them. Hey if you want that kind of surgery that's your choice. I did get breast augmentation to enhance my breasts, I can deal with that. I am married and my wife loves me just the way I am. I enjoy my diapers just as my wife does and we have many ways of enjoying our diapers together. Plus I was a very late bloomer to the sissy world and diapers, but have grown to love them both.

[Bras for cross dressers/sissies]

If you know your size and like comfort there are many places online that will cater to your needs. I am a small size I am only a 28 B cup, and this was one of my first bras.

[Cage]

On 7/7/2019 at 12:23 PM, BabyRob85 said:

Not to sure if this the right place or not so here goes. I am thinking about buying a chastity cage to wear while I am diapered. The thought is to wear it as much as possible, I am talking day after day, locking myself in and posting the key back to myself in X amount of days...I am not going to post the key I am just making a point haha. I am just wondering what are the negative effects? Could it actually alter the size of my penis for instance?

 

Thanks for any advice.

Can I just ask why you would want to alter or change the size of your penis first ? I am a sissy too and I love my diapers, and have worn a cage for fun with my wife, but never to hurt myself or even think of altering my penis. I refuse to go through hormones or anything that will affect my penis. Breast aumentation I did but only for appearance. I'm sorry if it sounds wrong, but I would never do anything that would endanger my penis.

[Are diapers a sexual turnon for anybody?]

I started wearing diapers at an older than usual age for most. Wasn't too far after I dressed as a woman. I wore diapers out of need rather than comfort, but yes they are a turn on. I think of diapers as a pillow for my penis.  I started wearing because I get very few if any bathroom breaks. Many times I have gotten aroused from the warm pee and the rubbing against the head of my penis, it is simply unavoidable. I look back twenty three years and I love them even more now knowing what pleasures the future is holding for me. A good poop and my penis will be playing peekaboo. Many times its happened at work and I have to go to bathroom and adjust. Nothing wrong with getting aroused in your diaper,, just enjoy it.

[Ok here I go]

A good word of advise 22k5 couple.. If you had a great time there is nothing to be ashamed or embarrassed about. You are grown adults and hopefully you aren't doing it in front of a window (lol). When you get to the point of doing it in public it does get scary. My exwife introduced me into the life actually. Twenty three years ago. She dressed me for a halloween party and I admit it changed my life completely and gave me a life. I was always bisexual, so that part of me remained the same. You are doing it with your wife and thats a beautiful thing that she loves and accepts you. I have danced at clubs and have had men fell me up and fondle me, and believe me when I say men are pigs, take it from a man that has been there. It is a wonderful thing to get to know your feminine side. If only all men got to know the world would be a better place. I know its new to you and I applaud both of you for caring and sharing. If you see me in the chat room don't be scared to PM me or ask me any questions. Enjoy yourselves and believe me you both will be better people.

[How old were you when you started wearing diapers?]

I started a bit late. I wore more for comfort to be honest. I remember my first night wearing like it was yesterday. I was working in a bar serving patrons and also learning how to mix drinks. I was twenty years old and started about 1998. I had asked one of the other bartenders there how he managed to stay on the floor so many hours without peeing his pants. He told me a simple cure just wear a diaper under my clothes. At first I thought it silly, but realized it might be a great idea. I was always daring so I bought a bag of diapers at the nearest Walgreens and went home that morning. I held a good pee for about six hours and gave it a try when I got home. I put the diaper on and just let go my morning pee. I was very surprised that the diaper held a good amount of pee. The pee felt so warm that I instantly got an erection. I found it a bit odd, but I felt so naughty. I forgot to mention I dress as a woman for my job and enjoy the feminine wear.  My erection felt so good surrounded by warm pee and my lace panties on top being stretched to the max, I quickly rubbed myself to a good orgasm and went to sleep in the wet diaper. I awoke with another erection, but this was the dreaded pee hard on. I peed the diaper again as I was standing in the shower and leaked down my legs. I knew now that I was going to have to get something better. I was completely new to this and didn't dare ask anyone. I did some reading up and found some good diapers that wer worn by adult babies and I entered a whole new realm in my life.. I experimented so much in the next few years with peeing and pooping and I was totally hooked. I think beck now twenty three years of wearing diapers and loving them, I don't know how I ever did without them. So yes at the age of twenty I started wearing my diapers, and have been enjoying them since. To all you diaper lovers out there more power to you all. 

[Advice on how to distribute the pee better]

I notice if I squat and lean back on the couch the pee goes more to the back of the diaper. Try different positions and see how that works out. I have tucked my penis many times and for me this is a bit of fun. The pee hits your tushy and wets back of diaper and tickles my tushy at the same time. Hugs Y'all...

[How To Punish A Dirty Boy]

On 4/30/2020 at 2:43 PM, ~Brian~ said:

@monstersmash95

Here is an idea:

You bathe him, clean him up, then you double or triple diaper him, plastic pants over the top, then you put on a pair of athletic running pants on him: Cover the bed with a plastic sheet so he cant "hump the bed."  This way, the diaper, the bed, the sheet, and the running pants DO NOT give him any friction, (because of being too slippery) so he cant get any traction, so he wont be able to come, and then by doing this, he CANT pleasure himself at all, and YOU will be the one who decides when he can cum - Using any of the ideas here, you could then deny him any attention, and then he wets, messes, and sits until he either promises to follow the rules, or you pleasure him yourself - If YOU pleasure him, he's gonna be BEGGING for release, which you can use as a punishment hehehee

Good Luck!

Brian

Geez:  Could havce SWORN this thread had a post from 2020 - Yikes, sorry if I Bumped up a "dinosaur thread"

Brian

I didn't think my sweet brian could have such a bad boy within.. Maybe we have to chat more.

[Non-Incons - Peeing while walking? Self-challenge]

On 6/5/2020 at 6:52 PM, ylowrvr said:

@Little ChristineGirls have all the fun. 

 

Sweetie you don't have to be a girl to walk and pee, lol. I have peed my diaper while serving a patron without even thinking about it, and kept a straight face.

[Why Do I Have Such A Strong Urge To Be A Sissy]

The urge never hit me until after I got home from that fateful Halloween party that changed my life forever. I was always bisexual, and the party had just confirmed it for me. The warm feelings I had dancing with so many men, and enjoying the way being dressed and made up made me feel. You talk about feminization, well I learned firsthand. Like I said earlier I was married for 8 years to a great woman but the love just wasn't there. I gave and gave and she took and took.Her cheating was the finale for me. I work at a latin dance club as a bartender and dressed as a woman during work hours. That wasn't the only thing that felt good I think back to that night dancing with men and getting felt up and the feeling it gave me that I was missing out on something special. Twenty years is a long time, but it passed in a blink of an eyelash. I have seen my ex wife come to the club many times and she still gives me that look of disdain and envy mix. I know for a fact that I look better than her in a dress and heels, but I don't give her the satisfaction. I am a better person and that's all that matters. To go back for me would take twenty years of undoing. Not an easy task now that I have size 28B breast implants.In 2018 I was working on my birthday and it was a really somber night for me. Thinking at the age of forty here I am no girlfriend or boyfriend and about nine years of one night stands and life was not gonna make it any easier. My boss had a cake for me which I knew nothing about and he had everyone singing Happy Birthday and the works, I was feeling kind of happy and sad altogether.This gorgeous woman asked me to dance with her, I have no problem shaking my booty so I accepted her hand and went out on the dance floor. We danced for a good half hour and she was wonderful, spinning me around and just her fancy footwork was amazing. She was bold and very pretty in my eyes she was a knockout.She had grabbed my diapered bottom a few times which gave her a puzzled but more of a surprised look.We took a break and she grabbed my hand and pulled me to the bathroom which was kind of different. Once in the bathroom she quickly pulled my skirt up and seen I was wearing a diaper. The look on her face was more awe than shock. She quickly pulled up the front of her skirt and revealed she too was wearing a diaper. Out of excitement I peed my diaper right in front of her and blushed so bad. She grabbed my face and kissed me for what felt like eternity. I didn't for the life of me want this kiss to end. We went back out and sat at a table, it was already after 4 am and we talked for a bit, and we left the club together. We went out by City Island and watched the sun come up and talked and talked for hours. I had never felt so comfortable in my life. We went for breakfast at the Royal Coach Diner and talked more. I drove her home after and told her I would pick her up later in the day to get her car which she left parked at the club. Sitting here writing this with tears running down my face it taught me to never regret what I have done. I had the strong urge to be a sissy twenty years ago and because of long hours on my feet I wore diapers and learned to love it pee or poop didn't matter. I met a woman and for the past two years I have been on a cloud. We married back in May on my birthday, she wanted it this way for our anniversary. I say to those that have doubt to rethink and forge ahead and make your life, be the best sissy you can be !! My strong urge to be a sissy made me what I am today.

[If you could have no control of your bladder]

why on earth would anyone in their right mind want to give up that kind of control ? that would be insane ! i enjoy wearing my diapers, but to not have control over my bodily functions is beyond belief to me. might as well sever my spine and make me a quadripalegic. not a very nice thing to say because i have a friend in a wheelchair and i see the tribulations he goes through and not just diaper related. its not an easy life, why make it harder. and no i would never take a pill to make me incontinent.