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I enjoy fiber loading too, it doesn't always help with my constipation but I hope I can get a better routine that works. I know I need to take fiber more often and more water.

What positions usually help you?

I found CBD helps me feel less anxious overall when I need to go pee or have a BM. I don't have to overthink about excusing myself to go to the toilet, or trying to understand if I'm full enough to relieve myself yet. It might be helping issues with sensory processing. I still think about changing from regular cotton briefs to more protective underwear. Since I have been at home more often, I get tired of having to stop what I'm doing to go.

Glad to know I'm not alone. I usually don't realize when I need to pee until my bladder feels full and uncomfortable but not painful. Having to hold it in when there's not a toilet around is the worst. I try to keep reminders on my phone to go to the toilet. For bowels, I've had constipation for a long time and I'm glad I have a steady routine of fiber now, but I still don't know when I need to have a BM until I can't sit still comfortably. The thought of just letting go in a pull up is on my mind often. I know I don't always need padding when I can get to the toilet, but it feels better than holding it in which isn't good for the kidneys.

As someone on the autism spectrum, I've been trying to mask my issues since I was about 5 or 6. Tiled public bathrooms have always felt too loud for me. I have tried earbuds and headphones, but it still feels difficult. I grew up with constipation and frequent accident. Today I don't have any accidents like I did back then but I still feel attached to the feeling of diapers because I didn't get the chance to wear back then. It feels really embarrassing and frustrating. I have been through times where I don't need to wear them for awhile and then one day I just get tired of trying to wait or remembering to go. I've tried those reminder apps but it gets almost too repetitive. Does anyone know what I'm going through?

This morning right after I got a package with more pull ups, Drank coffee with a little too much sugar free creamer and ended up messy in my pull up. BM was very soft.

I know how that can feel the flushing sound really hurts my ears if it echoes too much. If a restroom is unavailable I find trying to be comfortable when holding it in to be a challenge. Do they have accidents often?

I've worn headphones too, but I still get anxious when I know I have to go to the potty. Especially in a time like now where more public bathrooms are either closed or starting to remove the stall doors. Does your son get nervous about using the toilet?

Does anyone know the long term impact of taking psyllium husk consistently? Also is it good to use Fleet suppositories when taking it?

How often do you use suppositories?

Would you say being incontinent makes you sad? Does autism impact your incontinence?

I take Adderall too, but not as often as I use to. Adderall just made pooping more uncomfortable.

I have been dealing with constipation for years. When I was younger I had frequent accidents because I was so backed up. I use to fall asleep in the middle of class from feeling so fatigued when I couldn't poop that I would end up soiling myself while sleeping. I don't have these kinds of accidents anymore, but I wish I could poop more often. Now that I stay home more often I wouldn't mind messing myself again, I have plenty of pull ups but I don't like having very loose stool. I have pooped in my underwear or diaper on purpose before, but only when I have complete privacy to myself which isn't very often. First time I orgasmed I was in a messy Tena men's pull up that was too large for me.

I'm near Columbia too

I don't have incontinence but I get anxiety when I need to go to the toilet. Having to hold it in when I can't get to the toilet right away is really uncomfortable. I've been struggling with constipation and the idea of un-training my bowels is something I have been thinking about. I'm comfortable with pushing when I'm not using the toilet, but it doesn't mean I always get something coming out.

Thanks, I have been struggling with constipation lately and even though I have tried drinking more water and taking fiber I still feel stuck sometimes. I've been thinking about trying to make sure I poop more often but it's been a challenge. It's really hard to be social when my gut really makes me feel fatigue.

I was diagnosed with PDD-NOS when I was 3 but I got diagnosed with Autism when I was 18. Sent from my Pixel 4 using Tapatalk

Are you saying that I should wear them more often? I'm slightly confused by your response? Sent from my Pixel 4 using Tapatalk

Hello there, I have visited this site for several years but I haven't really posted much. I feel like sharing my experience will give an opportunity to help someone else. If anyone has any questions, I will try my best to respond. I remember being toilet trained around 4 years old and I felt confused about leaving my diapers behind. I believe as part of my anxiety and also having sensory processing issues, it caused me to have severe constipation for years. I ended up having frequent bowel accidents, and sometimes I would fall asleep in the middle of class then wake up with a large BM in my briefs. It made me feel embarrassed and frustrated. I was never offered the chance to wear diapers or pull ups in school and I wish I did because it would saved me a lot of stress. Back then I only understood that diapers were for babies, so I was too afraid to ask about getting diapers. In 5th grade right before I started middle school I started experimenting with standing over the toilet and peeing through my briefs, which I later learned caused an unpleasant smell around others. I don't remember anyone saying anything about it, but I definitely felt embarrassed. Also around this time I finally stopped having less bowel accidents. When I started middle school around 2010 they limited how many times people were allowed to go to the toilet for every 9 weeks. To this day as an adult I still find this unreasonable for anyone at any age. I won't go into detail too much but I'm thankful I didn't have any accidents in middle school. However around the time I was in 8th grade I started taking old Tena unused pull ups from a family member that didn't need them. Those were too large for my body so I tried ordering a sample grey depends pull up in the mail. I wore it to school on a day I didn't realize was a choir field trip. I was absolutely terrified but I managed to make it through the day without any noticeable leaks, but I might have smelled like pee. After that day I tried my best to stop thinking about wanting diapers but it was in my mind every day. Then there was one time at the end of that year a scented unused baby diaper got into my messenger bag and the smell was noticeable in a very small classroom. A family member put it in my bag by mistake. I cried a lot when I got home. My personality has been very introverted and quiet, but in addition to not having strong social skills and anxiety I also realized that I was gay and I was not in a safe environment for this. At the end of my freshman year of high school, I was finally given the opportunity to go to a new school that had a social strategies class. I stopped thinking about diapers as often and put focus into my classes. I ended up graduating from high school with no diapers and no accidents. About a year after finishing school I became friends with someone that helped me buy my first pack of Walmart pull ups. They were very understanding of my autism and didn't judge me by what I wanted to wear under my clothes. Fast forward to now and I recently started getting a regular shipment of pull ups. I'm not incontinent, however at one point someone in the past physically hurt me after I finished using the toilet at home and that trauma caused me to develop anxiety over going to the toilet nearly anywhere. Also the fact public restrooms can be very loud with many people coming in and out can feel exhausting for my brain to process. Also dealing with the loud hand dryers can be a challenge. I've tried earplugs but I'm not sure if I want to carry those around in my pocket all the time. I do not wear 24/7, I still wear regular boxers more often than pull ups. I don't feel like I have a bladder problem, but I want to have a relationship with someone else and I know that diapers and pull ups can get in the way of intimacy. If anyone has any advice for me, I'd really appreciate it. Sent from my Pixel 4 using Tapatalk