julio

Hi all, I'm just wondering if this is a real thing. I know that Botox can do this, but how would you even go about finding someone who can do it?

I literally agree with everything you've said, but you do not seem to understand our goals. "You are trying to create mushy stuff. That is a characteristic of an infant or a malfunctioning digestive tract, usually leaving in excessive amounts of water int the chyme, which means your body is not getting the full amount of water it needs or you are way overdoing the water intake." First, I know this already. Second, let's agree to define "mushy stuff". I used the term "soft/sticky" to denote "soft" AND/OR "sticky". "Soft" in this case, does not mean runny or watery. It means a healthy (non-hard) bowel movement that doesn't have a gel coating so that cleanup is more unpleasant. "In short, if you keep it up, it will do harm irrespective of what your wife is or if you are "shamed" or not." I appreciate that you're concerned about my health, and I also appreciate the fact that your advice is good advice that I happen to agree with, I really do. However, this does not justify the fact that you shamed me - you could have made your point without the phrase "I should not have to say more". I'm not mad, but try not to respond in a flippant manner - you might not accurately understand the conversation (as is the case here). This whole time I've had to explain to you that I'm not trying to do the poop like a baby thing. This whole argument is ridiculous in that I can't seem to get through to you that you have misunderstood my post and the purpose behind it, even though it's been pretty clearly laid out. No one on a FetLife group has this problem with this question so far, and I copied and pasted this post between the two sites. At some point, I have to ask you're being willfully ignorant or just flippant? I suspect you're just not reading or comprehending my replies, which causes you to argue a slightly different subject? Words are just symbols after all - maybe this whole bizarre exchange has been about the definition of the word "soft"?

"You are trying to simulate the digestive tract of an infant in an adult" No, we're not. My wife is a sadist and she wants to make cleanup more unpleasant. Dietary fibers turn things into a gel and make cleanup very simple, and my wife doesn't like that. As it stands, she's tried oatmeal and various fruits for breakfast, a vegetable puree (of which she made 2 different kinds to alternate between days or meals) along with pureed beans for lunch, and more vegetables and beans plus a small amount of meat in the evening. "I should not have to say more" - Yeah, don't try to shame me. To assume that I share your values or that your values are the one true way is narcissistic and absurd. I did not come here to debate values (though I would happily do so if you bothered to read and actually understand my question). If you don't have recommendations, then you're not on topic, so please don't post.

Yep, that would fall under "nutritious". I'm looking for ideas on how to accomplish the specified goals with the outlined constraints. In short, I'm looking for ideas to include, not ideas to exclude. That said, thanks for your reply! Edit: I should probably make a clarification (guessing by your reference to "un poco de todo"). My wife isn't looking to make me eat the same foods each day. She's looking for a variety of foods that can accomplish the aforementioned goals. For example, you can eat a lot of certain kinds of fibers and vegetables. Right now, in addition to a pretty normal and healthy diet, she has me take dietary fiber to improve health and to increase volume of... stuff. She dislikes the fact that most fibers turn into a gel and make clean up easier. So, she's looking for a set of foods that she can introduce into my diet that will accomplish the outlined goals. Given that most of the desired effects would have to be deduced through trial and error, I'd like to draw from other people's experience to try and find some answers to this task.

My wife has expressed an interest in choosing my diet for me. Specifically, she's looking for something that: - can be prepared in bulk and be stored in the fridge or freezer for up to a week. - is nutritious. - is very low calorie and can safely be consumed in very large amounts. - is bland or tastes bad. - can be blended up into a puree. - causes a large amount of soft/sticky poop (to increase BM size or frequency of BMs and make cleanup grosser). - minimizes risk of skin irritation from poop (cuz I'm required to wear diapers and sometimes I don't get a change right away). Has anyone here done something like this before? If so, what did you do, how far did you take it, and what were the effects of it? Do you still do it or did you stop, and if you stopped, why? Sorry if this request is kind of gross. =X FWIW, I'm grossed out writing it. =P All help appreciated!

I'm sorry to hear about your health issues! The M4s have a lot of capacity and I've never had an issue with leaking -- I wore them 24/7 for about a month -- but that was always from peeing. I would often go 3-4 times in one diaper, large amount of pee each time. My advice would be to try some baggie plastic pants just in case some leaks out. Also, I've found that taping the leg tapes first works best for the tightest fit. That works well for me, but I'm not sure if it's that way for all diapers and all people, so you may have to experiment to find the right combination. You could also cut a small hole in the bottom of your diaper towards the front a bit, then add another diaper over top of that. The idea there is if the water reaches a high enough point in your diaper, it will leak through hole and into the other diaper. A second diaper will also catch leaks around the legs as well, buying time for the padding to soak up the water. Good luck! I'd love to know if one of these solutions works for you, so if you can update this thread I'd really appreciate it! Good luck!

I often look in the toilet and think... man, I'm glad I didn't have to THAT in a diaper. Then I feel so appreciative of my wife for diapering me and helping me improve my life. It's so humbling to use the toilet and feel loving feels towards my wife.

First, I hope you're not doing that every night, as that can lead to serious intestinal health problems (unless directed by your doctor). I'd recommend a high capacity diaper like an Abena M4 or a Better Dry 24/7. I have an order of Molicare's coming, so if one of those works for me, I'll try to remember to post an update to this thread.

About 3 months ago or so? I'm too lazy to track down the actual number, but long story short, in my late 30s. My wife and I have been in a FLR relationship and she started imposing diaper wearing and punishments. Wore 24/7 for about a month, but now only wear them as a punishment or if she thinks I need to behave more submissively.

That's exactly why my wife likes them - it puts her in control like nothing else we've tried. She recently bought several different kinds of laxatives and enemas, and now I'm completely terrified of her . I've never felt more motivated or more in love with her! It's really intense!

I found myself in a similar situation about 6 weeks ago with my wife - I got about two weeks of notice to get a list of supplies. I ended up snooping around forums like these and decided to start with cheap diapers that are high in absorbency. For that, I chose FitRight Plus Medium. I haven't had any leaks yet and they are pretty high quality for the price. They can also be used for either bodily function (sorry if that's tmi). Now that I have a reliable diaper, my wife and I are exploring other options, such as cloth diapers (we got our first cloth diaper a week ago). To summarize, I suppose I would recommend finding something basic that works, then start trying out the other options as you get the inclination, money, and time to do so.

Yep, that counts to some degree :). Most relationships have a dominant partner and a submissive partner, with varying degrees of power separation. D/s relationships simply formalize the desired degree of power separation.

Not yet, but I think she will. She's been looking at various sissy/little outfits lately and asking me questions like, "how do you think this would go with your diaper?"

Hi AbabeBill, I sent my wife an e-mail with a link to this thread :). MarkSmith, We're still trying out different kinds of diapers. My main diaper is FitRight Plus Briefs, though I've also got some Tranquility Premium daytime diapers, along with Men's Assurance (which is the worst diaper ever). I also have a cloth diaper and two pairs of locking plastic pants. She ultimately wants me to wear cloth diapers, but for now I'm wearing disposables. Her preference is whichever diaper that contains the mess and is the most uncomfortable for me to use (she is a sadist). We don't yet have any idea which diaper that might be, though she suspects cloth diapers would be the worst.

Hi xander.williams, I think you're right! I haven't told her yet, but I definitely will... If she found out I knew about this site and didn't tell her, I'd be in for a really rough time. lol

Hi diaperguy85, thank you for the warm welcome! Hi MarkSmith! That's awesome - it sounds like your lifestyle is very much like the direction we're heading in. My wife has already started picking out infantalizing and sissifying clothing, so it looks like that's the next step for me. We also do chastity - that was actually how my wife discovered her interest in an FLR (she was the one who wanted this lifestyle - little did she know I was a closet masochist ). I will probably ping you at some point; my wife and I don't have a lot of people to talk to about this sort of thing. Feel free to ping me as well!

Hi everyone! My wife and I have been in a 24/7 femdom relationship for the past 5 years (I am her slave), and we both have a big thing for humiliation. A few weeks ago, my wife and I were reading a book on female domination which listed diapers as a humiliation tool, and by her mandate, I've found myself wearing them 24/7 since then. It's really taken our dynamic to an entirely new level of intimacy, and we are both discovering new aspects to our own sexuality. That said, I'm here to meet people, learn from others, and hopefully contribute to this community! My interests outside of my sexuality are music, video games, learning, inventing or building things, coffee, and self improvement. I love to read non-fiction and I love to meet people. My personality type is ENTP. I look forward to interacting with this community!