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I am a loyal reader fo your thread (and also Oznl's) but I rarely comment (sorry for that) I agree that it is very likely that your diapers will be discovered at some point, TSA and customs checks are unpredictable, and sharing a bedroom without seeing your diapers is impossible... I agree with a previous opinion, being open and honest (specially if you have a good friendship) will dive better results than being discovered and being taken by surprise... Just my opinion. The most important thing in this trip is for you to have fun and enjoy your friend's company! It will be easier if you don't need to worry all the time of being discovered or accidentally wetting your clothes with those awful man pull-ups. Wish you the best!

Hi everyone. I don't post a lot here in DD, but I am quite a frequent reader of many threads... I am also a semi-24/7-ish diapernaut, and although I am not actively pursuing unpotty training, I do have this desire at least to some extent, and I am also trying not to hold any pee when I'm wearing a diaper. During the last 2 years, I have been wearing diapers almost 24/7, I wear at work, I wear to bed, and I would like to wear at home too, but here is the catch... My wife knows about my DL preferences, she knows that I wear, and she accepts me... However, she does not like to participate in the kink, I mean, she accepts that I wear whenever and wherever I want, she accepts to see me wearing only a diaper (under some circumstances), and we (in general) live a normal life while I am almost constantly diapered... However, she does not find diapers "attractive" at all... on the contrary... So, if "sexy time" is going to happen, the diaper needs to be removed at least a couple of hours before. She says that if I remove it immediately before, my privates smell a bit of "diaper odor", even if I thoroughly wash with water and soap, she says that this odors fades away after a couple of hours of diaper-free ventilation... So... It has been a bit complicated to schedule my diapered life with my sexual life... I have tried to not wear diapers while we are at home during weekends (when sex is more probable to happen), but this results in frustration if sex does not happen (if she is tired, or busy, or just not in the mood), but this results in me thinking "I could have worn a diaper if I knew we weren't having sex". Sex never happens during working days, or when we go out late with friends, so I'm diapered in almost every other situation. The thing is... I get a lot of frustration feelings when I'm not in a diaper, and sex doesn't happen... Or if a "sexy" mood is building up, but I'm in a diaper, and I need to "excuse me" and then be self concious about the smell, and the ventilation time... I mean... It has been complicated... At least for me, I guess also a bit for her... ¿How do you guys (for people in similar situations) manage this? Cheers!

I am quite happy with my wife accepting my (almost 24/7) diapered lifestyle, but this would be the ultimate paradise... Congratulations!!

Omg! I'm a fan of what you've done, I've been following your videos since the beginning, you really helped me on my self-acceptance process, and getting over shame and guilt for being who I am! Keep on doing what you do! We all love you in this community!

Senior researcher on unmanned aerial systems (drones).

What happened with this experiment? Have you guys achieved some degree of longterm or nightime control loss?

I think using a diaper for such a long time can result in pretty nasty rashes and infections... specially for ladies... I hope your girlfriend manages well of that nasty stuff

The Rearz Incontrol Inspire+ are good, but I feel that they offer a bit less of the protection level from a BetterDry... so if the cost is higher over there in Australia, I would stick to BetterDry if I were you. I live in France, and over here BetterDry/Crinklz are pretty cheap (they're made in Germany). I feel your pain when I see those Australian prices...

I have been silently reading your complete history (and also Little Sheri's) and I find it very inspiring. I am also married, and have been advancing towards acceptation in my couple; I also share the same feelings and struggles towards 24/7, diaper dependency, incontinence desires, etc... I would love to read a complete "guide" written by you. Thank you for what you are doing!!

I wanted to share what happened recently with my wife.... Here is the summary: A few weeks ago my wife said to me: "What if you sleep in a diaper? That way you won't wake me up at night to go to the bathroom...", I thought it was a joke, and I said "yeah yeah of course..." and I did nothing... But last week she came into the bedroom and said, "So... are you ready to sleep in diapers tonight?". She was serious !!!... So, I put a diaper, and I slept (and wet) in diaper all night !!! The next morning, she told me that she liked that I did not wake her up... and as she knows that I like to sleep diapered... So I will now sleep in diapers every night! !! I'm very happy!!! ------------------------ The whole story is a bit long... If you want to read it, I put it next... I will try to be brief: My wife and I have been together since we were 15 (we are now 29 and have been married for 5 years). I confessed to her my DL side 3 years after we started our relationship... At first, she did not like the idea at all, she asked me to get rid of all my diapers and forget the subject... As I was young and without much wisdom, I wanted to please her... but you know how it works... The desire returns and sometimes stronger... Well, little by little, and over the years, she began to accept my DL side it is an important part of me, I can identify the stages of her acceptance: Before our wedding: 1- There was no acceptance at all. 2- She accepts that I wear my diapers, but never in her presence, and we never talk about it. 3- She accepts that I wear my diapers, but never in her presence, and sometimes we talk about it. 4- She accepts that I wear my diapers, but never in her presence, and we often talk about it... I start to tell my experiences... We stayed like that for about 5 years... As we prepare for our wedding, I start to worry about how I'm going to wear "without her" when we get married, so we discuss it and reach level 5: 5- I can put my diapers in a drawer that she will never touch, but I can only wear them when she is not at home... and when I am at work or traveling... We stay like that for 2 years. Then we had a fairly difficult stage... I started to have trouble with her level of acceptance. I started to get tired of having to remove my diaper every time she came home. I felt rejected, I felt like I had to hide my true side from my wife and lie to her every time... it was a horrible feeling that put me in depression for almost 1 year. So, we arrived at level 6: 6- I can wear my diapers during the day, 3 times a week at work, and 1 time during the weekend in her presence, but within a very fixed schedule. So this new arrangement was better, but I still felt bad, I wanted total acceptance, and without restrictions... I didn't want to wear diapers all the time, but I wanted to be free to wear when and where I wanted... My depression (also linked to problems in my job) didn't improve either. I sometimes wore my diapers outside of the "allowed" slots, and my wife got pissed off whenever she realized. My wife and I then finally understood that the problem was the little honesty and trust that one had towards the other. One day, I promised not to hide anything from her anymore, and never to lie to her when I was wearing my diapers. And in return, she accepted that I wear my diapers when and where I want. So: 7- I can wear it whenever and wherever I want during the day. If she is not at home, I can wear only my diaper, but if she is there, I have to put on a pair of pants as a minimum. I can sleep in diapers when I am alone, but not if she is there. My depression started to improve, also because of some changes in my job, and also because I started seeing a psychologist. I felt that I had found my ideal point. And our relationship was happier. But then my wife started having her own depression and anxiety problems. She is not happy with her job and with other things in life. She also started having small urine urgencies and leakings, which increased her anxiety. She started putting on DryNites (by my advice), but she felt uncomfortable... We discovered that she had a urinary tract infection, she went to the doctor and the leaks were stopped, so she no longer wears DryNites. Nevertheless, her anxiety continues until today (even if it is a little better), but that prevents her from sleeping well. She wakes up very easily, and the problem is that I go to the toilet several times (2 - 4) per night... So... A few weeks ago she said to me: "What if you sleep in a diaper so you won't wake me up anymore?... ", I thought it was a joke, and I said "yeah yeah of course..." and I did nothing.... But last week she came into the room and said, "So... are you ready to sleep in a diaper tonight?". She was serious !!!... So, I put a diaper, and I slept (and wet) in diaper all night !!! The next morning, she told me that she liked that I didn't wake her up to go to the bathroom, and since she knows I like to sleep diapered. So I will now sleep in diapers every night !!! I'm very happy!!! 8- I have to put on a diaper every night, under my pajamas, and if it is too hot, I can only stay in diapers. I can wear whenever and wherever I want during the day. If she is not there, I can stay only with just my diaper, but if she is there, I have to put on pants as a minimum. I finally feel accepted as I am, and at the level that I want:)… I know that part of her sleeping problems come from her anxiety, and I hope it improves for her... But I want stay in level 8 of its acceptance. We spent a lot of time and a lot of problems to reach this level, and I hope it does not change, even if her anxiety improves and she gets to sleep well, I always want to sleep in diapers... I had posted the previous in another topic, as well as some updates: A couple of weeks ago, my wife asked about "technical details" of my diapers... So I asked her if she wanted to see some of them, and she replied: "Do you want me to see them?"... I've always wanted her to kind of see them, or touch them... So I gave her a "Tykables Cammies", a "Rearz Safari", and an "Abena M4"... She had never grabbed an adult diaper (except from the Drynites and Lady Pull-ups that she wears from time to time), so she remarked "They are pretty thick!!" But I felt like in a dream because of her acceptance!! Then, yesterday... When I was diapered and wearing PJ's before getting to bed, she told me that I look kind of tired from this new job I have, she told me that some times my face looks kind of scary... So I told her that I'm actually pretty harmless... And I added "maybe if you remember that I'm wearing a diaper I would look less scary to you..." In that momeht she replied: "Let me see", and in that very momment she pulled my pants from behind!!! Revealing my PlayDayz diaper!!! which she padded and said "No.. It's a white diaper... it's not as cute and innocent..." But then I turned to the other side, revealing the printed colored cars from my PlayDayz... and added "Here, look at it from this side..." Hahaha I was dying in a mixture of embarassment, joy, happiness, acceptance, love... she finally replied "Ok, if you look at me while showing that side, it looks kind of cute..." I feel that I am finally happy with my marriage, no more hiding, no more secrets... It only took lots of patience, opening my heart and feelings, and sincere and honest communication. And another update: So... With the recent lock-down we are all having. I have a new routine with my wife... We get up, I stay in my night time diaper (usually a Tykables) until it gets saturated, I then change to big boy underwear until around 8pm, then I shower after working out, and put my night time diaper... Usually, we dine while watching TV, I'm usually padded at this point. So... apparently... every time we finish diner (in the couch), and I get up, my wife has the new habit of pulling down my pants a little bit while I'm standing up... revealing a bit of my diaper... Then she proceeds to ask what my print is about... hehehe. This is actually pretty awesome for me. She thinks that the Tykables wetness indicators are petty cool (stars that disappear, meteor fire that gets extinguished, or camouflage that changes)... I love this new diaper-related dynamic

I would highly recommend you to get some onesies... I wear some polo ones, like these: https://tykables.com/collections/snappies/products/snappies-polo?variant=6201087000614 If you have a work uniform, you should get some plain white or black to wear under: https://tykables.com/collections/snappies/products/snappies-t-shirt https://www.saveexpress.de/de/inkontinenz-mehrweg/care-4care/unterwaesche-undergarments/8979/airoliver-elastan-body-0982-mit-druckknopfverschluss-im-schritt-weiss-xxlarge?c=8480 https://www.saveexpress.de/de/inkontinenz-mehrweg/care-4care/unterwaesche-undergarments/8276/airoliver-body-2010-mit-druckknopfverschluss-im-schritt-anthrazit-schwarz These are lifesavers for me at work!! You will feel more confident since they help you hide your diaper while leaning, sitting, stetching, etc... Cheers!!

So... a couple of updates!: A couple of days ago, my wife asked about "technical details" of my diapers... So I asked her if she wanted to see some of them, and she replied: "Do you want me to see them?"... I've always wanted her to kind of see them, or touch them... So I gave her a "Tykables Cammies", a "Rearz Safari", and an "Abena M4"... She had never grabbed an adult diaper (except from the Drynites and Lady Pull-ups that she wears from time to time), so she remarked "They are pretty thick!!" But I felt like in a dream because of her acceptance!! Then, yesterday... When I was diapered and wearing PJ's before getting to bed, she told me that I look kind of tired from this new job I have, she told me that some times my face looks kind of scary... So I told her that I'm actually pretty harmless... And I added "maybe if you remember that I'm wearing a diaper I would look less scary to you..." In that momeht she replied: "Let me see", and in that very momment she pulled my pants from behind!!! Revealing my PlayDayz diaper!!! which she padded and said "No.. It's a white diaper... it's not as cute and innocent..." But then I turned to the other side, revealing the printed colored cars from my PlayDayz... and added "Here, look at it from this side..." Hahaha I was dying in a mixture of embarassment, joy, happiness, acceptance, love... she finally replied "Ok, if you look at me while showing that side, it looks kind of cute..." I feel that I am finally happy with my marriage, no more hiding, no more secrets... It only took lots of patience, opening my heart and feelings, and sincere and honest communication. We are from Mexico, but living in France... That's a pretty good advise actually! I will talk to her about this technique

Some months more... She will probably get her degree in August, but it is possible that it gets delayed until November... Worst case scenario: December. The PhD is in applied mathematics. And yes, we visit the come country once a year... But it gets lonely living this far...

Hi... No, it's not that bad... She is studying a PhD on a topic that she no longer feels passionate about, with an advisor that is difficult to deal with... Also, we are living in a foreign country (France), and she gets home sick and lonely quite often... We want to return to our country, but she does not want to drop her PhD, so we are waiting for her to finish it... But she is not motivated to do it...

I completely share your point of view of not wanting to wear down her tolerance... I already feel sometimes (not that she tells me) as a burden... So I try to ease her acceptance as much as I can. Although I also wish she would get even more involved... we shall see...

Thank you! Indeed, it just takes some time, love, and understanding... It's not a matter of forcing things, just being true towards eachother, and being patient.

Hello to all! I wanted to share what happened recently with my wife.... Here is the summary: A few weeks ago my wife said to me: "What if you sleep in a diaper? That way you won't wake me up at night to go to the bathroom...", I thought it was a joke, and I said "yeah yeah of course..." and I did nothing... But last week she came into the bedroom and said, "So... are you ready to sleep in diapers tonight?". She was serious !!!... So, I put a diaper, and I slept (and wet) in diaper all night !!! The next morning, she told me that she liked that I did not wake her up... and as she knows that I like to sleep diapered... So I will now sleep in diapers every night! !! I'm very happy!!! ------------------------ The whole story is a bit long... If you want to read it, I put it next... I will try to be brief: My wife and I have been together since we were 15 (we are now 29 and have been married for 5 years). I confessed to her my DL side 3 years after we started our relationship... At first, she did not like the idea at all, she asked me to get rid of all my diapers and forget the subject... As I was young and without much wisdom, I wanted to please her... but you know how it works... The desire returns and sometimes stronger... Well, little by little, and over the years, she began to accept my DL side it is an important part of me, I can identify the stages of her acceptance: Before our wedding: 1- There was no acceptance at all. 2- She accepts that I wear my diapers, but never in her presence, and we never talk about it. 3- She accepts that I wear my diapers, but never in her presence, and sometimes we talk about it. 4- She accepts that I wear my diapers, but never in her presence, and we often talk about it... I start to tell my experiences... We stayed like that for about 5 years... As we prepare for our wedding, I start to worry about how I'm going to wear "without her" when we get married, so we discuss it and reach level 5: 5- I can put my diapers in a drawer that she will never touch, but I can only wear them when she is not at home... and when I am at work or traveling... We stay like that for 2 years. Then we had a fairly difficult stage... I started to have trouble with her level of acceptance. I started to get tired of having to remove my diaper every time she came home. I felt rejected, I felt like I had to hide my true side from my wife and lie to her every time... it was a horrible feeling that put me in depression for almost 1 year. So, we arrived at level 6: 6- I can wear my diapers during the day, 3 times a week at work, and 1 time during the weekend in her presence, but within a very fixed schedule. So this new arrangement was better, but I still felt bad, I wanted total acceptance, and without restrictions... I didn't want to wear diapers all the time, but I wanted to be free to wear when and where I wanted... My depression (also linked to problems in my job) didn't improve either. I sometimes wore my diapers outside of the "allowed" slots, and my wife got pissed off whenever she realized. My wife and I then finally understood that the problem was the little honesty and trust that one had towards the other. One day, I promised not to hide anything from her anymore, and never to lie to her when I was wearing my diapers. And in return, she accepted that I wear my diapers when and where I want. So: 7- I can wear it whenever and wherever I want during the day. If she is not at home, I can wear only my diaper, but if she is there, I have to put on a pair of pants as a minimum. I can sleep in diapers when I am alone, but not if she is there. My depression started to improve, also because of some changes in my job, and also because I started seeing a psychologist. I felt that I had found my ideal point. And our relationship was happier. But then my wife started having her own depression and anxiety problems. She is not happy with her job and with other things in life. She also started having small urine urgencies and leakings, which increased her anxiety. She started putting on DryNites (by my advice), but she felt uncomfortable... We discovered that she had a urinary tract infection, she went to the doctor and the leaks were stopped, so she no longer wears DryNites. Nevertheless, her anxiety continues until today (even if it is a little better), but that prevents her from sleeping well. She wakes up very easily, and the problem is that I go to the toilet several times (2 - 4) per night... So... A few weeks ago she said to me: "What if you sleep in a diaper so you won't wake me up anymore?... ", I thought it was a joke, and I said "yeah yeah of course..." and I did nothing.... But last week she came into the room and said, "So... are you ready to sleep in a diaper tonight?". She was serious !!!... So, I put a diaper, and I slept (and wet) in diaper all night !!! The next morning, she told me that she liked that I didn't wake her up to go to the bathroom, and since she knows I like to sleep diapered. So I will now sleep in diapers every night !!! I'm very happy!!! 8- I have to put on a diaper every night, under my pajamas, and if it is too hot, I can only stay in diapers. I can wear whenever and wherever I want during the day. If she is not there, I can stay only with just my diaper, but if she is there, I have to put on pants as a minimum. I finally feel accepted as I am, and at the level that I want:)… I know that part of her sleeping problems come from her anxiety, and I hope it improves for her... But I want stay in level 8 of its acceptance. We spent a lot of time and a lot of problems to reach this level, and I hope it does not change, even if her anxiety improves and she gets to sleep well, I always want to sleep in diapers... Well.. This is my experience! What do you think?