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ppdude
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Sometimes you don't have an option and are automatically enrolled when you buy that house.
That happened to me and couldn't escape as it's popular in the communist state of Michigan.
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I'm curious. I thought Abena's were cheaper than the Northshore's, or is it the supplier's cost differential? I find Better Dry to be an exceptional value, especially from XP Medical. Is that just me or what?
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Here's a weird suggestion and works extremely well: Salicylic Acid 2% by Clearasil. The doctor says it's essentially strong soap. It has become my main tool for fighting diaper rash and maintaining healthy skin. It really works well and has replaced all my other lotions and cremes. It's like the best stuff ever and not super expensive.
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On 8/12/2023 at 8:04 AM, deewet said:
Steve Wet has it in a nutshell
I would only add the obvious, as an adult "If you leak any amount of urine beyond your control you are incontinent." That was from a professional and is a short and to the point qualification!
Exactly right! ANY involuntary loss of ANY amount defines IC/.
I've said it hundreds of times: You DON'T need to qualify for IC as it cannot be measured. If you want to be IC, then you are. No pre or post qualifications needed or necessary. Your statement makes it so. Own it and stop obsessing over it.
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Since they're Leakmaster, I assume the legs/waist are covered and are 6 mil. Hope I'm wrong.
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On 10/17/2023 at 10:09 AM, Little Sherri said:
I'm enjoying my new, *slightly* lower weight category; it's making some of my correctly-sized clothes back into slightly oversized clothing again, which of course is the wardrobe trajectory of choice for the chronically diapered. Case in point, I slept in a Critter Caboose, woke up barely damp, threw some jeans on, and took the dog out, whereupon I ran into a neighbour who was out for a walk with his kids. I had no hesitancy in raising a hand and saying good morning, or, walking to the end of the driveway to pick up the newspaper, whereas if I felt like I was wearing leggings over a diaper, I'd have seen them walking towards us through the trees, and fled to the back of the house out of fear that my rotund lower half would give me away.
I also had another "this is the new normal" conversation with my family last night. I was saying that we needed to get more small trash bags for the kids' bathroom, because neither of them are "kids" anymore. My eldest is away at school, but my youngest throws a plethora of items in there, everything from Q-tips to makeup wipes to feminine hygiene products, to pull-ups, that are best delt with via bagging - we'd run out of a seemingly endless box of lightweight, small bags we had that were perfect for the task, which left me finding myself holding a trash can upside down over a garbage bag, trying to shake a Q-tip out of the bottom that was glued down by a glob of some cosmetic product.
For some reason, my wife decided that this request for more small bags was out of line, briskly stating that they weren't necessary, and, anyway, why was I emptying the garbage in their bathroom - my daughter should be doing it - AND, in fact, she should be emptying the garbage cans everywhere in the house.
I cleared my throat. "Um, I do it because the kitchen bags always have room in them, and, uh, that's where I empty my diaper can."
Wife: "Well, her trash can has diapers in it, too - why can't she do it?"
Daughter: "PULL-UPS, mom, pull-ups."
Wife: "Whatever, she can do it."
Me: "My diapers are, uh, a little more of a responsibility than hers are. Sometimes they weigh as much as a bag full of dead raccoons. I will keep emptying my diaper can. Final answer."
I have no idea what her objection is to just getting...
Have you tried Hippo Sacks? They run $.03USD/bag and can hold 1-2 diapers. They work really well and buy 1000 at a time. Can't get more economical than that. You wouldn't have to buy then again for a couple of years. That might please your other half.
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7 hours ago, Loveable_guy said:
A leak is going to happen, its just a matter of time. With plastic pants you have an early warning system in place to warn you when your primary protecting starts to fail. While I prefer to change before a leak happens the plastic pants have saved my ass more times that I can count.
I think plastic pants is such an old phrase. There are so many new materials available these days for diaper covers. I love to explore them all.
Vinyl/plastic have stopped many a leak which kind of sucks as pee is not a friend of vinyl. It 's like Henry Ford said: You can have any rubber pant you want as long as its vinyl. There is no other kind.
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According to XP Medical, my supplier, they're here to stay. Works for me.
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In Michigan there is no rent credit. The only thing you get is screwed and you're supposed to like it.
Property tax keeps going up so you can pay the left wing teachers to indoctrinate your kids.
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6 hours ago, babybub said:
I wear plastic pants over my diapers all the time. At home and when out and about. That extra protection makes me feel safer. I also love the crinkling noise when I walk around in a quite setting.
Me too. Though, I don't know the difference between vinyl and plastic, although some have made the distinction in the past.
So many years later and it's still the same. Vinyl seems to be harder to get now a days.
InControl has killed off all but three of their plastics: white, pink, and clear. So sad. I bought a dozen whites. They're pushing PUL. I don't care for PUL... it's just not the same.
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35 minutes ago, Young1 said:
I haven't told any of my friends.... im too scared too
Firstly, I did not know that assessing one's underwear choices with others is even a part of the discussion or required in any way.
Secondly, relationships are not usually based on one's underwear choices.
Should it ever come up, it is something that requires little or no discussion and is passed over with little attention or explanation. Only you care more than they do.
So, forget it. Pay it no heed.
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On 9/28/2023 at 1:17 PM, ~Brian~ said:
I'm wearing a diaper with a onesie over it, I went right through the onesie so I'm not sure if there is something that you need to do or if it's just that you have to put the trifecta over the diaper and then put the onesie over the trifecta.
Any thoughts on this? I'd be interested to find out what people think how you would be able to keep your onesie dry so you're not peeing through it or messing through it.
Always wear plastic or in your case PUL. Don't chance it.
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On 9/27/2023 at 2:00 PM, ValentinesStuff said:
I live alone, so it's almost always just a diaper in the house. If I get cold or am going out then it's covered.
Yup...
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1 hour ago, DailyDi said:
…and the hits keep coming. Mortgage rate is going up again.
Sounds like you got an ARM which really sucks when rates go up; especially now with inflation... Banks are paying over 5% for 3-month CDs with low initial investment. Sure am happy that mortgage was paid in full during 2021. Spent most of the time getting screwed like you and not liking it.
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5 hours ago, Little Sherri said:
The benefits of wearing diapers are almost too numerous to count, for me. It starts with mental health - I am just a way happier person, when I'm in a diaper, and other than infrequent diaper rash, and taking up space in my house (and budget), the side-effects are, in my opinion, harmless in comparison to taking mood-altering drugs, for example.
AS usual, you speak truth and wisdom grasshopper.
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During divorce, I temporarily moved back into my parent's home. They were well aware of my vision and incontinence issues. Before leaving to a scheduled event, my mother noticed a lot of crinkling from me while on the way out of the house. She insisted that I go back and put on a pair of plastic pants to kill the noise. After doing so, she gave her approval and we left. Since then, I have plastic pants on, regardless of diaper type, time, or event. No exceptions, no matter where or what. It is the best!!!
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If I could tell that it's there, I'd probably like it. No eyesight = is there a wetness indicator -- really?
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5 hours ago, vvp39 said:
Being strictly a plastic lover, I can't really speak to diapers, but plastic panties sure as hell are a sexual turnon for me. This was such a strong main attraction for me for so many years that it took decades for me to realize that wearing plastic is a comfort item for me too. I always sleep in plastic pants, very often with a plastic romper or dress over them; nothing feels more luxurious and relaxing than waking up in plastic.
I'll raise that and call -- yeah baby!!!!
Plastics is the best!!!
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I completely agree with Rusty. Capacity isn't always the determining or desired factor. Get a good diaper and resolve to change it somewhere along the way. Can't emphasize the importance of an overpant -- I prefer plastic, but it's your choice. Finding a place to change isn't that hard -- I've used stalls multiple times and really don't care who sees me throwing a used diaper away. You'll probably never see them again. And if you do, so what?
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the official definition for bladder IC from urology:
Any involuntary loss of urine of any amount.
Any questions?
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Everyone is right. It's an almost impossible task.
The best way to handle it? This may sound harsh but it's not: Time to seriously consider going out on your own. You won't regret it.
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Unlike you, I've been screwed from the beginning,
My insurance (whether employer supplied or later Medicare had no provisions for diapers and the cost has been fully borne by me.
I could never qualify for Medicaid as my income level was too high, even when considered disabled. To this day, I bear the full cost of wearing and using diapers. I am on a fixed income which still keeps me barely above the poverty line which I conclude is done purposely. My fixed income is higher than many others as I paid an exorbitant amount in taxes during my lifetime.
I found a good supplier and Betterdry diapers at a reasonable cost that I can afford. Northshore was never a cost effective option for me.
A colonoscopy was suggested last week and I turned them down. Did the same for the one you do at home but have to play with your poop to send in a sample. Ain't happening.
Stay well and prosper.
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Plan ahead.
Pack smart... Use a backpack and take enough diapers and supplies to get you to your destination. This includes any connection flights and layovers.
Pack enough in checked luggage to get you through your trip. Scope out diaper supply locations in advance so you have a backup source if necessary. If you need to, ship a case of diapers in advance to your destination and pick up when you get there.
Reverse the above on the return trip.
This has worked well for me in the past.
Good luck.
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Y'all are so great!!! Crazy enviro-MENTAL ists...
Disappointing Diaper Design changes
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Isn't that normal for everything? Reduce size or quantity and charge more?
Haven't really noticed any capacity change myself, but that's not saying much. For the first time ever, I completely overwhelmed a Better Dry more than I ever have. It soaked the bed pad and my shirt, but the pad saved the day. The onesie and the pad went immediately into the washer. I never had it this bad and made such a pee mess that I ended up in the shower and hosed down myself as well as my ever present plastics. Wow. I don't know what caused so much pee.