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I really really really love you guys, your both hilarious, great humor, I LOVE IT SINCERLY. Just thought I'd like you bowf to know. Lots of huggies and kisses xoxoxox Quabbaby

Sorry I've taken so long to reply, but thank you much pipspueak, it feels good to be inlightened, almost as good as a wet diaper Quabbaby

quote name='turtlepins' date='Aug 1 2007, 03:12 PM' post='95084'] most of the time i change myself. i'm fortunate because my wife likes changing me, so when she's home before i change for bed i get the full treatment. we were out on the east coast this past week and she changed me every night and every morning, and a few times in the afternoon. it's always very comforting for someone who is deeply affected by infantilism to be changed. i wish more people could experience that. unfortunately the "stigma" of wearing diapers as an adult is tainted. whoever changes you has to be someone you trust or the comfort isn't really there. I could'nt agree with you more turtlepins. Unfortunately my wife totally HATES diapers and cannot bring herself to accept me in them. I love her for the woman I married but unfortunately my AB/DL needs and desires cannot be any part of our relationship as husband and wife so I must totally keep my diapered lifestyle in secret. I really envy those of you out there that have supportive loving relationships with your gf or spouse in regards to being diapered and the AB/DL lifestyle. Life goes on

WOOOOPEEEEDOOOO Thank God you straightened out the confusion of genda here

Hello nappyloon, I really like those little guys group waving at end of your post!! How do you get those?? Was just curious.

I too give a warm welcome and hope that you'll enjoy the posts just_here.

Very interesting Stephanie, I learn something new everyday

I hate to sound ignorant but what does BDSM mean??? I'm still somewhat new to alot of lingo on the threads. Thanks Quabbaby

Yes indeed, even after all these years in diapers, sitting, laying, or just working around the house or yard in totally wet diapers, is a wonderful pleasure that I'll never outgrow Just don't really like it though when my diapers start to leak out don't want to get anything stained. Although wearing a pair of those "no wick" plastic pants, the ones where the plastic covers the leg and waist bands, seem to work pretty good against leaks. Always remember, "The wetter, the better"

When I was a teenager, I suffered tremendously with mental depression,self-conciousness,and very low self-esteem and when I did drink to drown the problems, they became extremely magnified to the point where I was wanting also to kill myself but it was my faith in God that kept me believing in that light at the end of the tunnel. I also smoked the weed and that made me even more parinoid in which made my condition worse. When I was seeing my therapist he prescribed me some drugs that also made me even more depressed. The drugs helped me physically relax but affected me mentally in a more negative way. DONT EXPERIMENT WITH DRUGS OR ALCOHOL. Believe me I've been there, done it, and barely made it back. Get a good therapist in which you feel comfortable with and try getting into a martial art or yoga. I did it for yrs. and it really helped me to vent all of that negative energy inside me and started to get self esteem in which will help you with relations with other people. Like it was mentioned here, once you feel good about yourself, then others will feel good about you. I hope that I've been a help to you in some way. The best of luck.

Been accident prone with my bladder off and on for many yrs. now. Since I've always have loved diapers and plastic pants, wearing them all the time for protection, comfort and security has never been an issue. I've had cronic back problems since I was a boy from an accident and through out the yrs. they've gotten worse. I've had cronic sciatic leg pain and loss of feeling in my left leg. Recently I had an MRI, Ex-rays, and catscan which shows major problem with L2, L3, L4, and L5 in which surgery at this time is necessary. With these disks in question, could somebody tell me if its possible that I could become totally incont. undergoing this operation? I'm just a quite nervous about this whole thing. I had to go out and seek a second opinion from another neuro-surgeon because the first one I encountered was an arrogent ass. I could'nt believe he actually made a sarcastic remark about me wearing diapers which really pissed me off. I agree with you dpr13ca, stupidity especially with doctors that are suppose to be intellegent.

I loved your story and very interested in hearing more of the adventure. I've loved diapers and plastic pants since childhood. My mother had me toilet trained at about one yr. old because she could'nt deal with the diaper changes. I believe that caused me to become very attached to them later on in my life. I'm 52 yrs. old now and will be in diapers and plastic pants for the rest of my life Never stopped loving them. Take care. Quabbaby

Thank you so much RMS for your support. I live life one day at a time and everything else is out of my control. This past yr. I made the big mistake of telling one of my nieces that I need to wear diapers due to some control issues I have. "BIG MISTAKE" she went and blabbed it to others and they all think that I'm a freak or something. Oh well, life goes on. I'm not close to her anymore as a result of it. Even my wife heard about it and gave me hell about mentioning it. I'm at that point in my life where I DON'T CARE about what others think or their opinion of me because I wear diapers. Because of that attitude, life is alot more enjoyable. I recently told my wife that what I wear for underwear is my OWN DAMN BUISNESS!!!! Shes been not talking to me since but hope that she'll get over it. Take care RMS. Quabbaby

Hello ABDei, I'm kinda in the same boat as you with the incont. being stress and emotionally related also. I've been with this for a very long time as well as being AB/DL. Have some serious spinal cord problems that I'm trying to deal with these days and surgery has to be done soon since things are getting worse. When nerves are being squished, all kinds of problems can arise. I wish you the best of luck.

Welcome Axel, to daily diapers. This is a wonderful site with lots and lots of really cool people who offer awesome support and experiances to share. Just hop on and enjoy the ride and cruise through the threads. Quabbaby

I'm in the same boat as you RMS. My wife is TOTALLY AGAINST my diapers and everything AB/DL. Wether or not my marrage will survive is a question these days. I was replying to someone else on this matter and stated that I've been married for about 18 yrs. now. She found out about a yr. and a half ago when she found all of my diapers, baby print plastic pants, onesies, etc. and totally freaked. I do have a weak bladder due to some medical problems but now shes not even believing that anymore. I wish that I had been able to tell her up front in the beginning but just didn't know how I guess. She said that she would have dumped me right then if I had told her. I wish now that she had in which case I would'nt be suffering a painful relationship now. Oh well life goes on as they say. I just live one day at a time. Good luck to you RMS and take care. Quabbaby.

I could'nt agree more with tigger, I was'nt honest with my present day wife almost 18 yrs. ago when I met her because I just was too afraid to tell her, I just did'nt have a clue how to tell her so I kept it hidden. Over the years I lead her on to believe that I was just very incont. and she believed it until she found all of my AB/DL stuff. Its been well over a year and a half now that she found out that I'm AB/DL and it has damn near destroyed my relationship with my wife. I do have weak control due to some spinal,medical problems, but now because she knows I'm AB/DL, she doesn't even believe that. She told me that if I had been honest right up front with her when we were dating, she just would have dumped me right then and there. It would have saved me all of this grief if I had. BE HONEST AND UP FRONT and save yourself a world of grief later. Good luck.

Hello people, I'm in Randolph, Ma. just south of Boston and also looking for new friends. I too feel very isolated and alone sometimes being AB/DL but everytime I hop on this site and start reading the posts, that feeling of aloneness goes away sorta quickly. Its really nice to know that us AB/DLs have a place to chill and chat My name is Alan.

Hi Moogles, I also use my packpack as my diaper bag and it really works well. I would like to chat with you if its ok. I read your request about people messaging you and understand and respect that. I hope to hear back from you. Smile and beeee happeeeee Quabbaby

Hi ABDLINCONTLADY I can certainly identify with what you deal with. I'm kinda the same way in some respects. Welcome to DailyDiapers and relax, enjoy, and feel at home reading the posts Alan

Hi nappyloon, just wanted to pop in an say hello again, been happy in my nappy these days and have been so far throughout the summer Take care. Alan

Hi Sirpoopsalot, We've corresponded before and its great hearing you again. I too love the beach but I guess I'm a brave one that TOTALLY LOVES being fully diapered at the beach. I'll lay out my beach towel and just lay there soaking up the sun in just a thick disposable, plastic pants, and my diaper tee shirt Some pay me no mind, others gauck and laugh, but there are those that smile big and seems that they love what they see . I think there are more AB/DLs out there than we think. I just stay near the beach bath houses for diaper changes as needed. Have fun

I think thats GREAT PowderWhite. Me too. On hot summer days if I go to a park or on a beach for a walk, I'll wear just a thick diaper, plastic pants, and a diaper tee shirt and be totally, absolutely, comfortable. I seem to get more smiles and positive reactions from others than negative. Some just really gauck at me and laugh but I LOVE IT I guess I love the attention and LOVE being diapered outside in public, of course in the appropiate places.

Thats the way I look at it too. I used to worry about what others thought that found out that I wear or when I'd go to a pharmacy to buy disposables and some people would actually gauk at me. I just look right back at them I wear for need as well as for the deep love of them. I could never feel safe and secure out of diapers and vinyl pants even though my own wife hates them. She has never been able to accept my diaper needs but shes not the one with the problem and will never dictate what I wear for underclothes so I wear 24/7