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I really feel horrible for you in your situation Artemis. It really sucks when we us ABDLs have the misfortune of being married to spouses that wind up treating us like that. They seem to be ok with it in the begining, and then after we tie the knot, they become our arch enemies. Oh well, prayers be with you. Quabbaby

Hello Sticks, it just occured to me after reading about your friends response to her wearing diapers that she might have felt that you were belittling or degrading her. Thats maybe why she disowned you for it. I think that if you had mentioned that you yourself had the same problem and wore diapers as a source of protection, her response to you might have been completely differant. Maybe, maybe not, who knows. My wife used to be a bed wetter but never ever wore diapers, plastic pants, or used any rubber sheeting etc, probably because such items would make her feel like a baby. Its purely phycological for some people. I've been an ABDL and have had light to moderate incont. since I was a child. My wife totally hates me in diapers so I wear them in private and keep her from ever seeing me in them. I do agree with you 100% on being theraputic to chat about wearing them. Don't ever again feel ashamed. We're a growing community and theres strength in numbers heehee. Take care, Quabbaby

Hello Dr_J, I can really sympathize with you on your INVASION OF PRIVACY. Its like now you know who your friends are but unfortunately we all seem to find that out when its too late. Everytime when I'm done chatting or surfing through ABDL sites, I always do the clear all history proceedure. Never Ever Ever !!!!!! Leave your password logged in on anything even if you know the ones your with can be trusted. For yrs. I trained in martial arts and my instructor always pounded it into my brain that you never ever let your guard down regardless if there seems to be little or no threat to your safety. Never forget what happened and never let your guard down EVER!!!! Take care and good luck with your studies. Quabbaby

I'm also wearing fetware plastic pants ( the yellow XTs) over a depends maxi (quite wet now) under my work clothes since I'm at work. I'm also a child of da 50s redneck db.

Good for you Cute Baby Ronnie, I've done the same myself. On hot summer days i'll go to a state park and go for a walk or ride my bike just in diapers, plastic pants, and a tee shirt. I've gotten the same response sometimes myself. Some are really cool with it since i get big smiles and a hello especially from the ladies that are out for a walk. Some others give me a look like I'm totally retarded or something hahaaahaa. I still LOVE GOING PUBLIC diapered, but of course in the proper places. I would'nt dare do it at a mall or some place where it just would'nt be appropriate. I've gone public on a beach too. I laid out a big beach towel just in diapers and plastic pants....LOVE IT !!!!! Keep doing what you love to do.

Sounds like alot of fun Jay-in pampers. Your group pics are AWESOME. A happily diapered family of friends is like a piece of heaven on earth heeheehee I wish i could participate but its very hard for me to get away. My wife isn't ABDL tolerant so i have to keep it secret. Would though like to meet up with you one day. Would be GREAT to meet others that are like myself.

Hewwwooo too baby tickles. Just had to reply since reading your post here also made my laugh wif delight. Me to berry berry ticklish heeheehee I'm also very happy for you too.

Hello Matt and welcome to DD. You'll find some real cool folks out here and lots of support as well. Nice to meet you. Beeee happeeee in your nappeeee

Hello Newroad, am very very happy to hear that your this fortunate on your wifes acceptance, love, and support. I want to wish you the best of luck on your new found road.

Hiii Nappyloon, just wanted to say hello. As you say, "Be Happy In Your Nappy"

Hello babytickles and want to say welcome too.

Thank you Tinkles123 for your reply. That is very true what you said. So many people out there can't seem to get past the psycological barrier of wearing diapers even though they still have night wetting problems. My wife is one of them. For yrs. she had wet the bed and gone through many mattresses instead of wearing a good thick diaper and plastic pants. She had overcome the problem before I met her but with me now, she can't bring herself to accept me in diapers Its diffecult believe me but I manage. Nothing like a real thick, soft, powdered cloth diaper with a soft pair of plastic pants over them.

Yeah, Yeah, Super. Dat solves the problem very well Did'nt think of dat one heehee. I'll remember it when or if I ever flow heavily at night. For me now its just kinda light during the night so what I use seems to do the trick for now. Hey good luck to you....Alan

Hi I M Soaked, i just wanted to help you in suggesting that perhaps a large protective bed pad might be of some use. I have seen them at some differant web site stores for incont. products. Also a pair of rubber or plastic bloomer pants over diapers and pull on plastic pants would probably work better. Fetware.com has the cute printed ones or myprotex.com has them also in a couple of differant colors. I hope this is a help to you.

Just be happy being yourself and stay happily diapered Rockies Fan. If people can't accept you for who you are as a human being, than they never would be your REAL friend in the first place. Keep the faith and stay DIAPERED

I think your right on that one Emily. Me too. I always feel so much secure and protected when in my diapers, even though I wear for practical reasons due to a little incont. but for the most part, I just feel so much better in them. I regress alot back to my early childhood when life was soooo much happier and free from all of the stress of todays society. Good hearing from you.

GOOD FOR YOU BabyCris, I'm shocked and saddened that you've been hurt by other ABDLs out here. I guess even in our own community there are the "not so nice people" out there but Just ignore them and beeeee yourself !!!!! I guess I must consider myself a lucky one so far. Its true as you said that as you get older and the stress of todays society grows worse, the need to escape it grows with it as well. Thats the beauty of being ABDL. I wish that the ABDL communitys were around when i was a teenager, life would have been sooo much easier in just knowing that your not alone. I wouldn't give up being ABDL for nothing today. I guess thats about it for now but just be yourself and love it!!!

Could'nt agree with you more gizzybear and wif you also Pips. There was i time in my life before i found out that i was'nt alone being ABDL that i wanted to rid myself of my deep love of diapers due to the terrible emotional and social impacts that it has brought me over the years past. It was like being at war constantly with myself between being who and what i am, an ABDL who loves and needs diapers, and what is socially accepted as being normal in society whatever the hell that word really means lol. Finding the ABDL community has liberated me. The adult side of me now lives in peace with my inner child and if society can't accept that, then it can go to hell as far as i'm concerned. I would'nt change who and what i am today for the world. I guess thats about it.

Good for you adriansurley, I've been trying to do the same myself in the warmer months here in New England when I can just wear a tee shirt without a jacket. Their are times though I'll just wear a onsesie if i know I'll be somewhere where I should be discreet and then there are other times when I'm out of town I'll wear a short diaper tee shirt and allow the tops of my diapers and plastic pants to show. For the most part if people do see your diapers, then they'll assume its for medical reasons. NO BIG DEAL!!!!! Be comfortable, be happy, and of course, be yourself.

Hi carjock, i'm the same way. I wear disposable diapers and plastic pants over them for extra leak protection and also love wearing onesies sometimes as a functional thing also. The onsies help make the diaper feel a little more snugger against my body which adds to the comfort as well. I do however love nursing on a paci at night when i go to bed just because it helps me totally unwind but its nothing at all sexual. I might be in some ways an AB but for the most part I'm just a stark DL. I have a deep love for those adult baby nursery print plastic pants. They are a huge turnon for me however. I don't know I've sorta stopped trying to analize it and just totally enjoy my diapered lifestyle. I guess thats all for now.

I could'nt agree with you more tcc and udontneed2knw. I've been a DL for most of my life and YES occationally I'll use my paci at bedtime or I'll wear a onesie tee shirt just to secure my diapers snugger to my body and prevent bulking but for the most part I wear for some stress and urge incont. reasons as well as the love of em. Diapers and the paci are great stress relievers.

Hello DiaperBigBoy, I'm Alan and live near Boston. When ever I'm able to get away I love to drive out to the Quabbin Res. and hike around out there. The place is beautiful. If I'm ever out there, perhaps we can meet up somewhere like Belchertown or someplace at your convieniance for lunch. Catch ya later

Good hearing from you Mikey, the ones I was talking about are the cloth ones and have the 4 blue striped tapes. They are very comfy and fit really great and have good absorbancy but do need plastic pants for the extra protection just in case I over due it on their capacity I bought a paci from pacifiersRus.com and they sent me a free sample Bambino diaper in which I've been saving for that special occasion when I'll need super super absorbancy but might just try it on to see how it fits and feels. I've heard that their awesome but a case of them are quite expensive. Your located just to the west of me. I've gone through worcester many times on my way out to the Quabbin. Love it out there. Catch ya later Alan

Hello everyone, I'm Alan from Randolph just south of Boston and would love to meet some cool people in our community. I've just tried out some new disposables that I got at CVS the other night, their the CVS brand day and night absorbancy which fit really great and are super comfortable and I find their more absorbant than others that I've boughten there. I think their even more absorbant than depends maximum. Even if you over do their capacity, the plastic pants prevent leaks Babyadam21 I often go by your town on I-95 on my way to N.H. Its nice up there in your area especially Newburyport. Catch ya later

Great post Mikey (drgdl) I really can agree on your views. As time goes by I too am beginning to realize just how diversed the AB/DL community really is. Right along I've classified myself as both, ab and dl, but either one or the other at differant times depending on whatever mood I'm in I guess. Being accident prone with wetting, mainly during the day, diapers are also a security factor as well as a sexual thing too, but alot of times I'll wear just to feel comfy, secure and little again and snuggle my teddy with my paci and nothing at all sexual. Pooping my diapers I can't say that I enjoy that so much but wetting is very enjoyable. So I guess its differant strokes for differant folks. I guess thats all I can think of to say for now. Quabbaby