[Trying to have a baby, however husband can only climax in a diaper. Advice?]

From a couple who wear, relax the stress of trying will not help conceive. It will happen we have a son and daughter.

[Corinthians 13:11]

MATTHEW 18 3.

[Holiday locations.]

Where and When?This might help some members where and when are you going on holiday. I hope this lets others know when ab's  dl's etc are going on holiday perhaps it will lead to some away from home meet ups.  In july 2021 I will be in Scarborough Yorkshire  UK. Anyone else heading there at that time? Do you know anything that would make it that little bit extra fun.

[SCOTTISH.]

Hello who else is in Scotland and where  about. I'm in the Angus area and would like to know I am not the only one.

[Nappy friends]

Angus. Area.

[anyone know where this is from]

Single picture taken from a set on abk. nothing i could see that makes it stand out from the rest.

 

[SCOTTISH.]

Who else is in Scotland.Angus area, looking for friends .

[Cycling in nappies]

Used to do bike rides many years ago longest was approx 30 miles, Back then it was all terries . As the trip was for fishing I never went into a town.

[Plastic/rubber pants fitting]

Fit is quite a big point . 1st you need waist size, 2nd you need width around thigh, 3rd you need waist to back measurement through legs. 4th look for pants with forwards facing leg holes. important if sitting as it gives a much better fit,( i use a wheelchair so this is important for me).makers will give a size range ie waist from 28'' to 36 ''' look at your waist size and remember the pants have to open enough to go over the diaper. crutch width go large as this will allow thicker padding, plus allow you to spread legs wider for going up a stair .thigh diameter  is very important too loose you leak too tight you can burst leg band and end up with sore red rings around legs,( it hurts). this is really a question that could take for ever to answer so many variables. Go for the best quality pants you can afford. keep all oils and creams away as most tend to make the plastic and rubber deteriorate fast. bye all means drop me a message if you need any help in this area.

[How old were you?]

I was around 10. used big white bath towels as a nappy but never wet in them until I got proper nappies. washing them and drying was a bit hard.

[How to Cloth]

when you wash the cloth nappy do you use conditioner ? This can stop the cloth from absorbing pee quite a bit. You also have to experiment with styles of folding if its a flat square. There are so many variables it would take a book to list all of them. Best option is finding someone who uses cloth nappies to guide you through some of the pitfalls. 

[A baby girl in Scotland]

Hi im also in Scotland Angus area. Anyone else near by?

[Disabled SCI boy]

how many changes do they set per day? I know local is 3 or 4 so use of indwelling cath helps make nappy last a fair bit longer. Have you woked out when bowel empties yet?  I worked out its around an hour after getting out of bed so this helps a bit too.SCI T10 L1.

 

[How can I avoid leaks sleeping on my side?]

This is a problem all side sleepers face. I have tried a few disposables and have yet to find one that works when I sleep on my side, I have used pillows to stop me rolling over during sleep also. As I have spinal injuries and sleep on a hospital bed leaks are not really a disaster as the bed is fully leak proofed. Moving the bed to a sitting position is the only way round this problem. Or as many say use a terry pad with waterproof pants.

1, Put on a good disposable.

2, Wrap a terry nappy or towel round waist.

3, Add waterproof pants.

[Oldest abdl]

wanting to wear versus having to wear. im 56 this year. In 2006 A spinal injury put me in a wheelchair and in the position of having to wear protection. There I was a sprightly 44 year old wearing nappies again. No it was not what I thought it would be like getting to be in nappies. The fun part was in rehab when my life was kind of set out , continence staff told me about this strange group of people who like to act like toddlers and babies. They had even got companies to make diapers, nappies and complete outfits like those worn by young children. Quote,'' they are really worth looking into if you want a nappy / diaper that works better then what is available from the NHS''. ''Plus we ( the nhs) are limited to the amount we can supply for your daily needs.

I have seen people in rehab spinal injuries units with diapers / nappies that are in no way health board supplied. During coffee breaks we have discussed how bad the supplied ones are versus online fetish ones. So if you want adult size pampers Go For It, the staff know about on line suppliers and that the products are far better than what most patients have access to .

[Hi from Nappy85!]

Welcome to the site. I hope you find lots of members to chat to and help you open up the blank points we all have about our love and feelings about nappies, (diapers). It has been said a love or want to wear is something very deep rooted in our minds that it will be with you for life. That being so it's nice knowing there are so many others like us out there to guide you through the troubled times.

[2017 into 2018]

First let me wish everyone a very happy new year. Has anyone made a new years resolution?. I for one would like to finally meet some new friends from some of the many groups around the U.K.

[If I went into psychiatric hospital and was honest with them why I'm wearing?]

Psychiatric Hospitals might not let you wear and use just for the fun of it . Remember a lot of nurses have so much to do that they may not be willing to change you just because you want to wear diapers. Having to wear and wait for help to change is so much different to when you wear just for fun. Psychiatric staff have seen and heard more than many doctors and nurses from other fields of medicine. A lot of stories about diapers and ab/dl life have been posted where someone wonders about being caught wearing and being locked up in a psychiatric ward. Some psychiatrists have even written about it in medical journals, so I'm pretty sure someone would be aware of the feelings at many units. Or perhaps have access to paper work from someone who has delt with it.   

[Hi From Scotland!]

sorry about that saw it in newbies section and thought the August posting dates were for this year. my bad.

[Hi From Scotland!]

Hello and welcome to Scotland.

[Going To Bed At Night: Wet Or Dry?]

As I have to wear nappies I go to bed after changing so I can be dry longer. okay for a couple of mins anyway. Never found a disposable that does not leak at the sides during the night so always use terries with plastic pants.

[Scotland]

Hello I'm mid way between Aberdeen and Dundee. Love to hear where everyone else is.

[Wearing again an already used diaper?]

I prefer terry cloth ones .

[Age of Onset?]

I was the youngest and don't recall seeing any nappies around as I grew up. I do remember a neighbour kid wore plastic pants and I loved the scent of them. I started wearing just for fun around age 10..11. Not an easy task having an older brother who shared my room and an older sister. Plus back then it was terry towelling nappies and plastic pants so not easy to get. I got throu , and in my teen years did some baby sitting so that gave me time alone to enjoy. Moving on in 2006 my spine was ripped apart leaving me now having no choice and using either a cathetar or disposable pad. I was nothing like i remembered when i was a teen and wanted to be wearing and using nappies.

[Scottish ABDL.]

Hello all. I am not really new I have been online for a long long time and was in this site too lost my log in details so starting again. love to chat and catch up with others especially those north of the border.. Very open minded and not scarry at all.