Incontinent Jennifer

Not 2, but 3! OMG! Three Witches! We're doomed! Blessed Be, and Merry Meet.

I sure hope if people notice bulk on me that the don't think I have a huge penis! That'd be far far worse than them knowing I wear diapers!

I wear them to work all the time, obviously. Nobody cares enough. Just relax.

I think you guys worry too much.

Anybody in diapers should learn from the scouts... ALWAYS BE PREPARED!

I asked him "What about my diapers at the handfasting?", and he says "What about them?" I mentioned that his family is going to make fun, or rude comments. "Let 'em! I'm marrying the perfect girl for me. Anybody who doesn't like you because you've got a diaper on is like throwing away a free BMW because the radio is on a country western station. ....although the radio station more desperately needs changing." "What if I have an accident in the middle of the ritual (eqivelent of cerimony)?", and he says "Then either we finish with you in a messy diaper, or we can stop and I'll change you. Stop worrying about it."

Still discussing that, LOL.

Ok, call me nieve, but I as I'm completely incontinent, I am unfamiliar with "can't wear diapers". Are there actually situations where you wouldn't be able to wear a diaper? Are there places and situations in life I don't experience because I MUST wear diapers? Please, I'm not making fun, I'm just asking. Also, work shouldn't be bothering you about what you have on for underwear.

Yes we have!

I have some news to share with you all... He asked me to be his wife!!

My pet peeve is diapers left in parking lots, parks, or anywhere else they don't belong... baby or adult. Ew! I've gone to the store and got out of my car to step on a dirty diaper. That's disgusting!

Not to be too descriptive, but... If I look at my own diaper, I can visually see it's wet, even without any "indicator". It's not rocket science. Usually, it's changed from bright white, and has lost it's fluffiness. Seems to me like product development is wasting resources. I mean really, with a pair of pants or a dress, the crinkle of diaper plastic is almost inaudible, and certainly unnoticeable, to anybody who doesn't have their ear on your butt. This idea is even more absurd on baby diapers. Is some 2 year old feeling ashamed and embarrassed cause his diaper crinkles? Velcro tabs? What is that all about? How long is somebody hanging on to a diaper that velcro needs to get involved?! Thinner diapers? Yeah, that's what we need. Absorbent material compressed so densely, fluid just bounces off of it. Yeah, nobody can see the diaper, but the big wet spots give it away. Sorry, got off on a rant.

So... What use is the wetting incident counting diaper? Replacement pad thing sounds too complicated to be any easier than just changing, and the pulpless diaper sounds plain uncomfortable.

Why thank you digger! Consider yourself a friend of mine.

Sorry, was a typo. My appologies to Dolly. None of this is on topic.

If you ask Dolly, an explination was sent to him. Neither Diapered Witch nor I felt the need to make a big deal out of it. The avatar I wanted was in the wrong format, you'd have to ask DW why he hasn't converted it like I asked him to. I was only asking a favor, so I haven't complained. And where did I call people freaks?

My only question to that is the fact that he has logged in my name.

Friendship would help.

What if you needed more than 3 diapers in a day? If I had to go to jail, I'd be far too distraught over being seperated from my boyfriend to ever worry about where my next diaper change was coming from. I'd probably just cry myself to death.

Ew! I'll pass... All set with the veggie burgers.

What's wrong with a boy that doesn't want to stand?! I think that'd be a great trait when he grows up and gets married.... maybe he'll actually put the *@ing seat DOWN!

Maybe if you stopped hitting him and calling him stupid, the caps lock would be nicer to you.

Yeah, the reactions I get from both boards leave me feeling like I can't go anywhere. One comment about the repeated threads of wanting incontinence, and now I can't post any threads without it leading back to that one. And yes, that is why I came to THIS incontinent board. I said it because I WANT to understand. So far, I don't understand, but for the 5,000th time... I DON'T SEE ANYTHING WRONG WITH YOU ENJOYING DIAPERS, NEEDED OR NOT NEEDED. In fact, I envy you. I wish my incontinence was fun and enjoyable. I wish every messy diaper was like a friggen amusement ride for me. But it's not. I want to understand you. Ok, here's your public explination, since we all have to be paranoid and never trust anybody... Diapered Witch and I are friends outside of this board. I don't know if he'd be ok with me mentioning where I know him from, so I won't. I actually know him by his other screen name, which he uses for non-AB conversation. In fact, when I told him about what happened at the other incontinence boards, he suggested I go here. I wanted a particular image for my avatar, but I couldn't make it work. He logged in as me and tried to set it to what I wanted. He e-mailed me about this... He forgot to log off mine and back to his before visiting the boards and therefor accidentally posted under my name. Now get over it already. Seriously, not everyone is here to mess with you, I promise.

To those of you fighting back and fourth..... SHUT UP! SERIOUSLY, JUST SHUT UP! Life is WAY too short for all this fighting. Most ABs and DLs are NOT perverts, never thought they were. I don't fully understand them, but I never thought them to be perverts. The only ones who are are the ones who, like the example somebody gave, pester real incontinents with rude and inappropriate comments and stuff. What bother's me about the whinny wannabes is that incontinence board is for people who are, and that there is thread after thread after thread of "I want to be incontinent", "How do I become incontinent?", "make me incontinent". For the love of Goddess, re-use the same thread! Furthermore... I came here for a few reasons. This incontinent board is alongside the ABs and DLs, I don't have to worry about some miserable incont tearing my head off because I thought my boyfriend chainging my diaper was a sweet and caring thing to do. Also, even though it might be for different reasons... we have something in common. We're in diapers. Sometimes you smell bad and worry people notice, sometimes you've got wet spots on your clothes, sometimes you're stuck in a diaper without a change, sometimes you get rude comments from "normal people", sometimes you're worried if you'll be accepted... just like me. But sometimes, I don't want to go through posts about the baby stuff, or the games you guys enjoy, or the other abdl stuff... Sometimes I just want some advice, or feedback, or whatever, about a problem I didn't choose to have. I don't mind advice from DLs and ABs, hey, that'd be the first people I'd ask if such-and-such a diaper is worth my money, or what to do about a rash.... but in the incontinent board, I'd like to discuss a problem I, and some others, have. It's a little upsetting to think about what I went through to end up like this, and what I deal with, and then see somebody wanting what I have. Every time I'm soaked, every time I have to wash sheets, every time I put a case of diapers away on the shelf... I'm reminded of the horror that got me like this. I'm sorry if I'm a little sensative of people wanting what I'm stuck with. Talk about it in the AB DL part of the message boards, because that's what you are. There's nothing wrong with being AB or DL, in fact, in a way, I envy you. However, my situation is so much different than yours by one very important fact.... I didn't sign up for this, I didn't WANT this like you do.

Me too. Although with all that shouting, I doubt anybody could hear even the crinkliest diaper with nothing covering it.