Ever since we had our son back in september of 05', I havent been able to be a DL either. It (sex life) gets easier as he/she gets older because the baby will eventually sleep all through the night, yah I know its hard to believe but they can do that. lol Also because you are changing your kids diapers, it kind of makes you feel weird that you would wear them to, at least thats how I feel. It's hard to describe for me why EXACTLY my dl passion has almost vanished, so I hope this makes sense to you PaulCain.