mikeytoy

I have also had a few utis from diaper use, and I wouldn't say I wear a lot either. It's just a cruel joke of life for some of us I think. I take a cranberry tablet and drink cranberry juice on days I wear and try to limit my use of diapers. I've only needed antibiotics once for a UTI thanks to the magical cranberries 😂

Definitely. I go through phases with it, sometimes I desperately want them as close to 24/7 as I can manage and other times I can go months without them because I'm just not feeling like wearing. I used to do and hear people talk about binge/purge cycles but I think it's different for me now, because I don't purge? I just don't want to for a bit. 🤷‍♂️

Oh no that sucks ☹️ thank you for the heads up. I don't think we've bought much from them thankfully ? It's so difficult to avoid funding companies with awful morals these days but at least if we know we can make the choice rather than unwittingly funding terrible people.

I can't remember exactly what was said, this is second hand information. The gist was that they are not great about abdl stuff, and are just there to cash in on the niche market. Besides that, I've found them difficult to get hold of, they're very expensive and I was more impressed by ABU at the time.

I'm hearing a lot of praise for tykables which is promising in the UK the prices work out different I think, I've found ABU to be cheaper than tykables per pack, but if it means the quality is better I'm willing to give them a try! I've seen those but they're so expensive! I may try them eventually but heres hoping that I will be happy with something a little more affordable ?

Thank you everyone ? I'm not too fussed by the design really, it's mostly the fit and feel of the space ABU diapers that I like. I will get some samples of the ones you've all suggested ? hopefully my new favourite will be one of them!

I don't know if these count as odd, but I would love to have my bathroom privileges revoked (apart from to loop) and just wake up on random days to discover I no longer have the choice but to use a diaper. Preferably a super chunky one with a booster that I must wear in public ? I want to be so stretched out and ruined from being fisted that I can no longer hold my pee properly and must be locked into a diaper when I'm not being used. I used to do that trick to sort of experience the feel of messing by putting a couple of bananas in my butt and waiting as long as possible before pushing them out. I sort of miss it now I'm thinking about it, I may have to go buy some bananas next time I'm out ?

Thank you ?

Hi I hope this is in the right place, sorry if it's not. I'm looking for the closest similar type of diaper by a different brand - my favourite fit is the space design. I don't buy very often, but the last couple of orders I've made with them have been pretty awful with the padding being way off centred in their diapers. It's a pretty uncomfortable wearing experience, and their customer service is being a bit useless. So for now at least, I am looking to other brands for a similar style of diaper and was wondering if any of you lovely people have any ideas? What are your other go to diapers if you also love the space ones? ABU have been my brand of choice for so long at this point that I have no idea what is good and what is not anymore. Thank you :3 Ps: My friend told me that Rearz have been pretty derogatory about the abdl lifestyle, (correct me if I'm wrong, I might well be,) so I'd prefer to not use their products if I can avoid it.

I made friends with an ab/dl on Fetlife, and I can't remember if it came up in conversation or I was nosing through his listed fetishes and saw diapers there. Initially, I thought it was kinda weird, but curiosity got the better of me, as it often does, and I ordered some Lille Care diapers. At first, I just wore them, discovering I enjoyed the humiliation side of it. Then I started to wet them to add to the humiliation, and suddenly I ran out.

I got caught living in a student house I had been very careful to use lots of bags to wrap the wet diapers up carefully, but the bin was full up so I just kind of balanced it on the top and squished it down, thinking that would be okay since it was mostly in the bin and the bins would be collected the next morning.

Or somewhere near-by ish? I'm not massively new to the concept of AB/DL, but I don't really know anyone interested in it (my only friend into it that I know of lives in Australia, and that's a bit far for me to travel <.< )

Thank you

This is the first time I've even seen a board for ABDLs, let alone posted in one, but I think I will be glad to have found it when I get to know some of you