[Messing your pants in cloth]

23 minutes ago, tuffy said:

At the risk of derailing this thread..... 

Don't worry, I'll bring it back on the rail LOL:-)

When I was deciding to try out cloth diaper years ago, I found a cool tool you can use by attaching it to your toilet intake valve pipe. It is a spray nozzle day can you use the spray messes off your cloth diaper and into the toilet. It's kind of like your spray nozzle that you have on your kitchen sink. And you don't have to flush the toilet for it to work you just use like a normal kitchen sink sprayer and it should knock off most of the mess off your diapers with ease. And I have found out that the best way to store your messy diapers till laundry day is to put them in a soaking bucket. And it's a standard 5 gallon bucket with water and detergent preferably a gentle laundry detergent without fabric softener obviously. And it is best to pre rinse your diaper best as you can before you put it inside your soaking bucket. And you have to wash your diapers within at least 3 days I think.

[All diapers are tax-free in Nevada]

I know Ron DeSantis in Florida, did or planning on doing that to, including baby formula, baby food, pet food and a few other things as well

[Exploring AI]

See I was wondering about that because I just was exploring my Gemini on my Android  and I got curious on doing  AI ROLE-PLAYING 

[Stop teasing me!]

Such a joy kill lol. But that's kind of the pull-up that was talking about was having on the other post. Something that is structurally sound and resembled a Huggies Pull up and not a quote granny panties

[One Cookie]

Now I'm in a mood for a Blondies Cookies.....

[Overnight Pull-Up]

2 hours ago, ValentinesStuff said:

While they were admittedly cheap store bought adult pull-ups, I found that an adult pull-up weighed the same as largest Goodnight. 60ish grams IIRC.

I know it's insane, that I just stick to goodnites, they're one awesome looking and two more my style

[Model]

I think you can build your own fanbase  as a model of any kind on instagram or other platforms. And sometimes your fans will support you and company would contact you ( or vice viras) to do modeling for them and there products

[What's your preferred high-activity diaper?]

7 hours ago, Kawaharu said:

My preferred high diaper activity as an adult baby is hiking and especially kayak fishing. Many times as an adult baby, I have gone out kayak fishing in just a diaper, t-shirt and Bikini top. Often times people thought my diaper is a bikini bottom and they didn't realize it's a diaper but the comments I got that people thought it was cool. I have gone to the gym many times in just my diaper and sports bra and the gym is very open and very inclusive.

That's very interesting, where is this gym lol. I so into being a Diaper Jock 

[Overnight Pull-Up]

44 minutes ago, Crinklz Kat said:

Hmm.... pull-ups are easier to put on / take off?     Try that when wearing pants.  So you have to pretty much completely undress in a restroom, starting with taking off the shoes (yuk.... now my socks are in direct contact on the floor where most people can't aim worth a shit).  Take your pants off.... where do you put them?  Drop them on the same floor?  Hell no!   Then undo the pull up.... and finally reverse the process.     Sorry... I don't think so.

 

hmm.... I see now I kinda mirrored Rusty's comments too.   But, still a valid point for those trying to go about a "normal" life on the outside.

 

I guess to me changing in public restrooms like that never really bother me. Heck I'm am pretty quick at doing it. From stripping down to my bottoms, ripping off the pull-ups and putting  a new one on. And I'm fully well aware that some restrooms can be nasty, but honestly the toilet you set on to crap in might be nastier than the floor you're stepping on. And not to mention, if I had to change with a diaper, I might have to be laying on the ground just to put it on properly because there's no adult changing table. And for me. putting on a diaper is far slower than me putting on a pull-up. Just because of my lack of experience with diapers so I put them on slowly, and sometimes I don't put it on properly

I guess that's my defense on that

 

[Abdl and parenting]

...Anyways... thanks for all the tips and advices guys. From parent, relationships, to self acceptance. 😁 i love you guys so so much 💚💚💚

[Model]

1 hour ago, Kawaharu said:

Well I do model and I know the industry is brutal and if you don't have what they are looking for, then they won't hire you. I've built up a portfolio that photographer's can look at. It's why many people on here don't know the reality and reality is that you have to be in good physical shape and have a body type.

I understand that. I sister like 10 years ago was picked up by a model scout and she past alot of trails and test in there certification class in Fort Wayne IN. And she was invited on a modeling open interview cruise on a Carnival cruise ship, so her and my mom went, and she did all the rounds and only got one call back. And she never tried modeling again 

[Overnight Pull-Up]

You got a point there

[Overnight Pull-Up]

@~Brian~ well I was making a statement that I wish pull ups themselves were at par with tab-based diapers. And it can be achieved if a company or someone will actually pursue it. All you need is I'm tinkering up the design and stuff and there you go. But like I said before there's not enough demands for it unfortunately so therefore I don't think a company would invest in it. Because I remember wearing Bambino made there pull up version it did not go well. 

[Model]

1 hour ago, Kawaharu said:

Well the reality is the model industry is brutal and in reality, if you don't have the body type, you can't model

Well, I probably probably won't get into traditional modeling industry because yeah it is a dog eat dog world in it, so if anything I'll probably go back to Instagram and make me another account again and just modeling there of course I most likely won't get paid at all but you know I get more freedom and I do as a hobby and stuff you know.

[Model]

6 minutes ago, Kawaharu said:

That's the ugly truth. Vast majority of guys on here are fat, overweight

If I could, I would be the model for the little guys. But if I did this hypothetically, for personal identity reasons put away hair or something like a dino mask as my persona. The one giving me character and tattoo protect my actual identity something like this vvv. Kinda like OverHaul in My Hero Academia, but with a dino mask or keep the Mask as is 

[Abdl and parenting]

@FretaBWet no they're right, sometime I need a reality slap in their face every so also about my situation, but it's not just with my abdl side that we have disagreements on. I was going to do a list but I would be long.

But I will say though, after the two boys were born, I realize my confidence, and soft love has boosted tremendously and I'm at that point where I don't give a rats crap about people's opinions about me anymore. Honestly I think I'm going to be riding on this forever because I'm at this point I don't care anymore.

[Would you have become a DL if there were no internet?]

To be honest, if I never had internet when I was a kid (90s baby/kid) I probably would never embrace my abdl side. Because I was raised kind of in a Christian based family and anything outside the formality of standard relationship or sexuality is considered bad. ( all tho people my family and everyone I knew in Church when I was a kid were very hypocritical about that and other things) but me finding communities like this open my eyes realize I'm not the only one and it's okay to be me. And of course it took me years and almost a decade or so to finally accept myself for who I am as a person and that God never has judged me for who I am but sadly people especially Christians have judged me. 

[What do you call it?]

Peeing=wetting 

Pooping=messing

Horny=stiffy 

Cum=stickies 

That's how I pretty much explain my current situations in my diapers LOL

[Abdl and parenting]

@Little Sherri thank you and many others for these good parenting advice when it relates to my abdl. I personally am well aware when I need to be on Dad mode and when I could be in little mode. And I've always acknowledged that even before having kids years ago when me and my wife been trying.

But wha @Elfy and a few others have criticize my wife on is true. She is very very unsupportive of my abdl side and now I have to hide my true self from her. Hell I have to act like I'm over and I'm going to quote sobering up and recovering like I am an alcoholic so I have to lie to her about this and how I truly feel. And not out of selfishness or unfaithfulness but more or less lying to her and hiding my true self out of survival. Long story short, she used to be very supportive when we were dating but then one thing that other between me being outed to her family and our pastor before we got married in 2017 , to somewhat recent in 2020 one of my local abdl friend that she knew was caught with "PDA file" stuff. And now she believes that being an abdl is a gateway to being a complete Pedo. The same kind of stupid argument accusing furries being linked to zoophilia bullcrap.

All that links to is political views,  mainly religious views, and her health problem hormonal-wise emotional-wise from developing hypothyroidism while we've been engaged due to her father's death after I proposed,  because me are both Christians and politically moderate, but she has become more radical towards the right leaning sign especially religiously, from where I become more somewhat left leaning kind of because I view my experience in 2017 like religious trauma because being discriminated for my Kinks and fetish.

I can get more into details with all this but I at this point have to make a podcast or something about my crazy journey since, God knows, almost 10 years now. 

And I know a lot of people is telling me do this or do that, stand up for yourself and by against this narcissistic abuse, and  random stuff,  but way easier said than done. Because for one I do love her and for two I just terrified

I wish we can make a proper forum or something about bring awareness of unsupportive spouses or partners especially if they're becoming borderline abusive against your Kink and finish. 

[Age Play Age]

If I read that chart I will say I am between ages of 2 and 10 but constantly wear diapers. Because to me I don't see myself as a little little but more or less of a middle. Kind of like a very advanced 3-year-old I guess that's not potty trained at all and constantly needs his mommy or daddy

 

[Overnight Pull-Up]

57 minutes ago, tommyneedsdiapers90 said:

^^^^ this. theres def not enough demand which is sad. i feel anytime theres a whisper of an abdl disposable pull up, it quickly dies. at least cloth ones are cuter and thicker now

I know which is unfortunate because I feel like we would have gotten decent proper abdl pull-ups if some people in the community werent kind of biased with it to be honest. Plus again what tykables  have mentioned that producing the pull-up design that we want ( like Huggies Pull-Ups) probably will be very difficult manufacturer-wise.

 

Because to me I would like designs like goodnites, with that toddler vibe, have a mimics like an actual underwear with the fake stitching design. Because I know a lot of middles like me , particularly would love that. I hear some picture references of do's and don'ts for abdl pull-ups I would point out. The greens are dos and the reds are don't in the picture

[Overnight Pull-Up]

2 hours ago, tommyneedsdiapers90 said:

I feel like sagging is a feature and not a bug lol but yeah the more it sags the more you'll leak if you keep peeing...I'd love a more absorbent goodnights. Maybe it'll come soon enough. Overnight pull ups are still relatively new and those hold way more than normal ones, so there's hope I feel 

I would say though that the goodnites design and structure is way less saggy and more snug fit, than a traditional quote granny panty style of something like depends. I just wish some incontinent or abdl company would take the structure of the goodnites and make it bigger and more absorbent. But I understand why they don't go down that route because there's not enough demands for this and what I've heard from tykables  ( think it was them) a goodnites or even Huggies Pull-Ups design and structure is hard to make for larger individuals 

[Overnight Pull-Up]

I wish pullups were good as actual diapers, cause they are so easy to put on and take off, pullups so appeals more to my toddler side, and I'm such a goodnites fan boy. The 2 main down side to pullups are 1. They're less absorbant /more leaky at times and 2. They tend to sag alot more 

[Model]

5 minutes ago, ValentinesStuff said:

Which is kind of funny, since much of their clientele is fat and overweight. 

That kinda sucks though, don't get me wrong, but there's alot of abdls like me ( male, slim dad bod, 5'10", est.175lb ) thats on the small size. Heck I can wear actual boys shirts and underwear and size 7 and 8 baby diapers.

And I remember when Abuniverse announced the size 25"-31" small diapers and a good portion of abdls were celebrating.

[What's your preferred high-activity diaper?]

3 hours ago, Little Sherri said:

 wearing a onesie was cheap insurance that my diaper wasn't going to end up on display in front of the class!

That and keeping you diaper secured in it's spot and why less friction/chaffing on your cloths and skin. Plus less sagging. Also they'res plenty of designs to choose from.